FabSwingers.com forum: Rude people

By *ungblackbull OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

I got a message from a couple asking if I was free now to meet. I am not so I explained this. Rather than a "ok, no worries" reply , my message was deleted. I messaged again saying "another time?". Message was deleted.

This has actually happened a couple of times. No need for the rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do buddy is laugh it off as there is always going to be people that do that and also there is plenty of other people on here who won't do it just keep doing your thing and stay positive

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman
over a year ago

London

It was probably a blessing in disguise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule, we reply to all messages.

As you say no need for rudeness, some people just have no manners.

Probably just plain horny

And needed an extra hand

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

Maybe they were in a rush to find a guy and you’re just one the hundreds of guys they messaged! It was desperate shag times

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I got a message from a couple asking if I was free now to meet. I am not so I explained this. Rather than a "ok, no worries" reply , my message was deleted. I messaged again saying "another time?". Message was deleted.

This has actually happened a couple of times. No need for the rudeness."

It happens! I've had the same type of approach over the years, from someone not even prepared to offer 1 photo, giving out any details etc.

But when I like to know what they look like or other relevant info, to balance what they've seen of me so far, they can get shirty and I don't see them again!

Their problem, not mine!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I guess it is bad manners to delete and not reply

but some folks can't face confrontation and if they are gonna reject somebody it could lead to that in some situations

you have to have broad shoulders on here and just let it go

we can't all be everyones cup of tea

find somebody nicer who will answer

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have had exactly the same thing, look at it as having had a lucky escape

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By *wingpaulMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think I pay my 5 quid a month to be insulted ignored and often after sending a polite and detailed reply blocked

It's a bit like marriage but cheaper and less sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like someone has been fishing for fun...

Unfortunately your was the fish..

Swim away laughing .... Shit Happens

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

The meet now I tend to avoid I want to make friends with likeminded adults and would take the time to do that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Rude is a useless , vacuous word. Rude is subjective. Your rude is not my rude.

You are rude. You message people after they have shown no interest and then call them rude well how rude..... rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of rudeness over here, delete the message no reply or block, it seams like I only attract a gay or ts people…….

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