FabSwingers.com forum: Wanking before a meet

By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

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By *yrman57Man
over a year ago

Ayr

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Keep your load in reserve as it would be a shame to waste it !!!

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Wank… you’ll last longer the second round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I vote don't wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I wanked before a meet - was a disaster - got thrown off the bus ……

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually do this? I’d not dream of wanking beforehand as I love the anticipation and all the thoughts running round my head of what it may be like.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Spill’eth not thy seed upon the Earth……

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

Don't do it, it could come back to haunt you..... I doubt it but it might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people actually do this? I’d not dream of wanking beforehand as I love the anticipation and all the thoughts running round my head of what it may be like. "

The anticipation of a meet is a great feeling isn’t it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I screamed lol now that's funny

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

Umm.. I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people actually do this? I’d not dream of wanking beforehand as I love the anticipation and all the thoughts running round my head of what it may be like.

The anticipation of a meet is a great feeling isn’t it.

It is. Especially someone new. Imagining how it’ll go, what you’ll do, how they’ll kiss etc. it’s all part of the fun. A wank would take the edge off too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

Umm.. I do!

I have just managed 3 and I am eyeing the last two closely

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends we met with someone who hadn't, unfortunately didn't last long and got so embarrassed left straight away. Was a bit anticlimactic but we made the most of the hotel room.

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

Right no wanking it is.

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

Umm.. I do!

I have just managed 3 and I am eyeing the last two closely

If you can't manage them, I'll be happy to come and finish them off for you (I need to visit Worc anyway).

I promise I won't have a sneaky doughnut before I leave

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

maybe do a little edging?

all the best with the meet!

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"maybe do a little edging?

all the best with the meet!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

Umm.. I do!

I have just managed 3 and I am eyeing the last two closely

If you can't manage them, I'll be happy to come and finish them off for you (I need to visit Worc anyway).

I promise I won't have a sneaky doughnut before I leave

I will have to test your lips for sugar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, good luck but there are countless threads here re single guys usally being stood up.

don't wank and trust me the excitiment etc will make you a heavy cumer first time around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x"

3 hours?!?! Is it a dual purpose trip or is that just to meet someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2"

Exactly, that's my go to warm up routine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo!! Love that first, fast, desperate fuck

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By *erticalMan
over a year ago

friday street

Never had too, myself but if you think u’d have an other 3, shots left for the main event? Why not…..,..,,,,,…..

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"Noooooo!! Love that first, fast, desperate fuck

Reroute to Northants lol x

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x

3 hours?!?! Is it a dual purpose trip or is that just to meet someone?"

I'm from redditch lol based in Portsmouth so on purpose

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Never leave the house with a loaded gun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Don’t. Much as I love sex, I prefer the hard, fast kind that doesn’t take fucking forever. Literally.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not encourage it unless you would expect a major issue for yourself with premature ejaculation etc. Your sexual energy will be pure and undiluted when meeting. Your partner is lucky too

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By *ingfisher83Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

This is a debate I have with myself regularly.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Don't wank. It's not tactical, it's you losing a bit of that delightful sexual charge and energy. You won't be as hard or as keen - whoever it is deserves the full force of your peen.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2"

Not everyone's into someone 'going down south'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to wank off before dates sometimes.

Imo it helped.

That ape brain settles down slightly, and you don't go in JUST wanting to get laid.

But if you are going to just get laid, I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont wank. I like men to cum quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2

Not everyone's into someone 'going down south'"

Not everyone, you’re right. I’ve met two in my entire sexual past though, so odds are, they probably will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't wank. It's not tactical, it's you losing a bit of that delightful sexual charge and energy. You won't be as hard or as keen - whoever it is deserves the full force of your peen.

Did you mean to make that rhyme?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont wank. I like men to cum quick."

Interesting, why? Is there a reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't wank. It's not tactical, it's you losing a bit of that delightful sexual charge and energy. You won't be as hard or as keen - whoever it is deserves the full force of your peen.

Did you mean to make that rhyme? "

The Dr Seuss of fab

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Don’t do it, enjoy the quick first round and be ready for more

I always cum quite quickly first time but doesn’t take me too long to recover and I so wok for want the person I was meeting to miss out on the first load ( it’s always the monster load)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Watch the Inbetweeners and you'll get your answer.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I wouldn't worry about cumming fast, you can always just head down south until you're ready for round 2

Not everyone's into someone 'going down south'"

That's true but there's plenty of other ways to please in between

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Tip of the day -

Get a blowjob first

Then

Give her oral

Then you're ready for round 2

Ding ding.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Noooooo!! Love that first, fast, desperate fuck

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you wank in front of your meet

Both winners then

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’d say no wank! If she wants more rounds and you are all out, then you won’t get a second meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say no wank! If she wants more rounds and you are all out, then you won’t get a second meet.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Tip of the day -

Get a blowjob first

Then

Give her oral

Then you're ready for round 2

Ding ding.

Not all women like oral, just the thought of it makes my toes curl

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Tip of the day -

Get a blowjob first

Then

Give her oral

Then you're ready for round 2

Ding ding.

Not all women like oral, just the thought of it makes my toes curl "

Caressing, massage, boob play, toys. Many more options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not Sir, save that precious load for your bitch’s and worry less about you busting your balls within minutes. A good bitch will soon get you nice and hard ready for rounds: 2,...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x

3 hours?!?! Is it a dual purpose trip or is that just to meet someone?"

I was thinking the same, that's a long way to go for sex lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Don't wank. You might change your mind about the meet if you did.

Like eating too many custard doughnuts. You never want the fourth or fifth after all

Umm.. I do!

I have just managed 3 and I am eyeing the last two closely

If you can't manage them, I'll be happy to come and finish them off for you (I need to visit Worc anyway).

I promise I won't have a sneaky doughnut before I leave

I will have to test your lips for sugar

That's fine, as long as I can test yours

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x

3 hours?!?! Is it a dual purpose trip or is that just to meet someone?

I was thinking the same, that's a long way to go for sex lol"

Might be *really* good sex

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if you think you’ll come to quick on your meet. If so then yes have a play now and give yourself a bit of time to recover for later

Have fun

I'll have fun just the 3 hour drive to redditch is going to be enough recovery time lol x

3 hours?!?! Is it a dual purpose trip or is that just to meet someone?

I was thinking the same, that's a long way to go for sex lol

Might be *really* good sex

LvM"

Let's hope so!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Don't wank. It's not tactical, it's you losing a bit of that delightful sexual charge and energy. You won't be as hard or as keen - whoever it is deserves the full force of your peen.

Did you mean to make that rhyme?

The Dr Seuss of fab"

Ha! No, I'm just fond of peen now, purely coincidental.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Did we learn nothing from There's something about Mary?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Hit the jackpot tonight not going to lie...... The question to wank or not to wank before hand (excuse the pun). Advice much appreciated tia

Tip of the day -

Get a blowjob first

Then

Give her oral

Then you're ready for round 2

Ding ding.

Not all women like oral, just the thought of it makes my toes curl

Caressing, massage, boob play, toys. Many more options.

Admittedly im a woman that finds foreplay overrated but, If I'm on a meet with a guy I want his cock not a toy I have two hands and can use a toy on myself way better than any guy would

I'm ok with Boob play but prolonged caressing, massage, would not be for me, perfectly fine if your having a sexy night away with a partner but on a meet, no not for an extended length of time, I can already hear myself in my head faking sounds of enjoyment just to get it over with

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By *uv2lickuMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Dude the trick is, don't give a shit if you bust early, she loves it cos she thinks it was her( she tells her friends like we do when she squirts) she is now hornier, get it up (won't take 3mins) especially coz she touching it non stop like she owns it now coz she made you cum, she don't realise that now you have a weapon that's been fired off and now has some down time, this is when you change her/ ruin her life or just straight up fuck her different, everyone before you stopped after busting, you already busted so now your re charged and can do things to her, all the boys that finished after first bust, can't do, now you've recharged your hard on and have little to cum again so now you have a hard on that can last hours before a reload is needed

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

OP, what I’m now wondering is whether your meet reads the forums and is quietly assessing your tactics! Haha, enjoy yourself, whatever you decide and be prepared for an ambush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should not be allowed to wank for a week before...& mercilessly edged the whole night.

Instead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noooooo!! Love that first, fast, desperate fuck

Snap

Noted

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