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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I got ghosted today. Sort of. Was meant to have a meet and now I’m sat at home overthinking.

Anyway to cut a long story short I need cheering up.

Self care ideas, jokes, compliments, anything just take my mind of it. Come at me …

I’m feeling like putting my fave music on and doing my make up just for me to make me feel good.

Can we just also agree that ghosting is horrible and not fair on the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Take no notice.. His loss... There's plenty of fish in the sea... And he probably only had a maggot... So get a bigger fish.. With your pics, you will certainly get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does Edward Woodward have 4 D’s in his name?

Because otherwise, he’d be Ewar Woowar

Sending hugs, and he’s an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

"

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does Edward Woodward have 4 D’s in his name?

Because otherwise, he’d be Ewar Woowar

Sending hugs, and he’s an idiot.

"

I love that joke especially when d*unk!

Thank you. Xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Put a face/peel mask on

I mean like a pamper one relax nice music xxx

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Wow ! Absolutely their loss x

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow ! Absolutely their loss x "

Awwh thank you. . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab. "

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x"

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

It's not nice! But remember to sprinkle your unicorn glitter and sparkle fabulous. You will encounter cockwombles in life their loss! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a face/peel mask on

I mean like a pamper one relax nice music xxx

"

Thank you I am having a soak with a nice bath bomb gonna wash my hair make myself look fabulous just for me and take some new pictures x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not nice! But remember to sprinkle your unicorn glitter and sparkle fabulous. You will encounter cockwombles in life their loss! x "

Yesssss

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Put a face/peel mask on

I mean like a pamper one relax nice music xxx

Thank you I am having a soak with a nice bath bomb gonna wash my hair make myself look fabulous just for me and take some new pictures x"

Great xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel "

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx"

It's a Friday after all so it's okay to have an early tipple x

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"It's not nice! But remember to sprinkle your unicorn glitter and sparkle fabulous. You will encounter cockwombles in life their loss! x

Yesssss "
x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx

It's a Friday after all so it's okay to have an early tipple x"

Best get to the shops! Haha. X

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx

It's a Friday after all so it's okay to have an early tipple x

Best get to the shops! Haha. X"

Haha .. add chocolate on top and your onto a winner

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X"

Awww well you pamper yourself beautiful get dressed up and show them you don’t need them

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx

It's a Friday after all so it's okay to have an early tipple x

Best get to the shops! Haha. X"

Can you do the new pics first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pour and gin and put on some music and have a good old perv at the beautiful people of fab.

Good call! I might just do that.

Xx

It's a Friday after all so it's okay to have an early tipple x

Best get to the shops! Haha. X

Can you do the new pics first "

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people you’re all lovely.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess the best way to get over someone is under someone else haha

I joke.

Self care! That’s the plan x

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"I guess the best way to get over someone is under someone else haha

I joke.

Self care! That’s the plan x"

Gin in one hand wand in the other haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess the best way to get over someone is under someone else haha

I joke.

Self care! That’s the plan x

Gin in one hand wand in the other haha x"

Oh that’s an even better plan xx

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Ghosters are just cowards. Not worth you spending your energy on worrying about it. Pour yourself a drink, put your fave feel good music on LOUD and dance around the kitchen like a nutter.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

What did William Shatner say to Mission Control when he discovered there was no toilet on the Blue Origin flight?

Beam me up potty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel infuriated on your behalf!

What a total knob ...

Hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel infuriated on your behalf!

What a total knob ...

Hugs to you x"

Literally. Xx

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did William Shatner say to Mission Control when he discovered there was no toilet on the Blue Origin flight?

Beam me up potty.

"

Hahahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosters are just cowards. Not worth you spending your energy on worrying about it. Pour yourself a drink, put your fave feel good music on LOUD and dance around the kitchen like a nutter."

I definitely plan to xx

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"I guess the best way to get over someone is under someone else haha

I joke.

Self care! That’s the plan x

Gin in one hand wand in the other haha x

Oh that’s an even better plan xx"

It will bring a whole new meaning to shaken not stirred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, where they like you here IE relatively new?

Take care, relax

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, where they like you here IE relatively new?

Take care, relax"

I’m not relatively new been on fab for 5 years on and off. As had he apparently. Oh well. You live and learn.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"I guess the best way to get over someone is under someone else haha

I joke.

Self care! That’s the plan x

Gin in one hand wand in the other haha x

Oh that’s an even better plan xx"

Here to help lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a message earlier asking if I’d like to meet.A woman I’ve been chatting to for months and we just couldn’t get our schedules to align to get a social in.

I happened to log on as she sent the message so I said I was free, and when did she want to meet.

Cut to now, message still unread, and she’s displaying a new verification.

Guess my almost instantaneous reply to say let’s meet, wasn’t quick enough!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"Why does Edward Woodward have 4 D’s in his name?

Because otherwise, he’d be Ewar Woowar

Sending hugs, and he’s an idiot.

"

What do you call a man with a wooden head?

Edward

What do you call a man with three wooden heads?

Edward Woodward

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sorry to hear that OP

It’s totally his loss

Sending over some chocolate fudge cake (other cakes are also available)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a message earlier asking if I’d like to meet.A woman I’ve been chatting to for months and we just couldn’t get our schedules to align to get a social in.

I happened to log on as she sent the message so I said I was free, and when did she want to meet.

Cut to now, message still unread, and she’s displaying a new verification.

Guess my almost instantaneous reply to say let’s meet, wasn’t quick enough! "

Oh man sorry to hear that. It’s hard when you’ve been talking for time and then they let you down. Instant meets not so much but when you want to meet someone you like and then it doesn’t happen it’s a shitter. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that OP

It’s totally his loss

Sending over some chocolate fudge cake (other cakes are also available)"

Thank you kindly. Thanks for the love on my dunkin post

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Loud music on, gin in hand and dance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message earlier asking if I’d like to meet.A woman I’ve been chatting to for months and we just couldn’t get our schedules to align to get a social in.

I happened to log on as she sent the message so I said I was free, and when did she want to meet.

Cut to now, message still unread, and she’s displaying a new verification.

Guess my almost instantaneous reply to say let’s meet, wasn’t quick enough!

Oh man sorry to hear that. It’s hard when you’ve been talking for time and then they let you down. Instant meets not so much but when you want to meet someone you like and then it doesn’t happen it’s a shitter. Xx"

I’m not overly fussed.

I take it as a sign that it’s not meant to happen op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X"

That's just awful.

Is it worth checking that's he's actually OK?

If he has indeed ghosted you, is it worth mentioning username just to warn other honest members in here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That's just awful.

Is it worth checking that's he's actually OK?

If he has indeed ghosted you, is it worth mentioning username just to warn other honest members in here? "

Oh he’s fine he’s been online. He’s just blocked me. Can’t name and shame don’t wanna risk my own site membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X"

That is the worst. Someone's I watch something sad and have a really good cry. Feels like a release and then when it's out, I feel a bit lighter. Then do some yoga!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That is the worst. Someone's I watch something sad and have a really good cry. Feels like a release and then when it's out, I feel a bit lighter. Then do some yoga! "

*sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That is the worst. Someone's I watch something sad and have a really good cry. Feels like a release and then when it's out, I feel a bit lighter. Then do some yoga!

*sometimes"

I’ve had a little cry and thrown up (happens when I get stressed) now just trying to move on, got some nice candles on, gonna do my hair and make up and make myself feel better. X

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Everywhere & Nowhere


"So I got ghosted today. Sort of. Was meant to have a meet and now I’m sat at home overthinking.

Anyway to cut a long story short I need cheering up.

Self care ideas, jokes, compliments, anything just take my mind of it. Come at me …

I’m feeling like putting my fave music on and doing my make up just for me to make me feel good.

Can we just also agree that ghosting is horrible and not fair on the person.

"

Ah bummer, that's a bit shite, I hope you feel better.

Here's a fun fact.

Did you know if you fart and sneeze at the same time, you'll take a screenshot of yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I got ghosted today. Sort of. Was meant to have a meet and now I’m sat at home overthinking.

Anyway to cut a long story short I need cheering up.

Self care ideas, jokes, compliments, anything just take my mind of it. Come at me …

I’m feeling like putting my fave music on and doing my make up just for me to make me feel good.

Can we just also agree that ghosting is horrible and not fair on the person.

Ah bummer, that's a bit shite, I hope you feel better.

Here's a fun fact.

Did you know if you fart and sneeze at the same time, you'll take a screenshot of yourself "

Hahahah ok so that actually made me chuckle.

Thank you.

X

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Aww I’m sorry to hear that beautiful it’s their loss

When I’m sad I put on my favourite music and dance

Currently in the bath listening to music. But overthinking! I hate it x

I know I get that but you are worth so much more than the way they made you feel

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That is the worst. Someone's I watch something sad and have a really good cry. Feels like a release and then when it's out, I feel a bit lighter. Then do some yoga!

*sometimes

I’ve had a little cry and thrown up (happens when I get stressed) now just trying to move on, got some nice candles on, gonna do my hair and make up and make myself feel better. X"

It is a good job I'm here! You are forgetting the new photos

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

What a prick.

Delete and block.

Next!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's horrible to do to someone.

Have a long bath. A quiet walk in nature. A massage? Any pampering is good.

A chat with a friend who accepts you unconditionally is very positive.

Swear a bit, hit a punchbag if needed. Let go and just have the positive vibes this weekend

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That's just awful.

Is it worth checking that's he's actually OK?

If he has indeed ghosted you, is it worth mentioning username just to warn other honest members in here?

Oh he’s fine he’s been online. He’s just blocked me. Can’t name and shame don’t wanna risk my own site membership. "

Clearly not what he was claiming to be in his profile and knew he was about to get found out. My profile and pics will put the vast majority off of me, but it's a true reflection of me so people will know what they're getting. I'd guess he had old pics and was 20 years older or 10 stone bigger than he implied. Think of it as a lucky escape....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people here have had this happen at some point, I know I have and it’s not nice.

100% their loss, and to block without at least an explanation, regardless of what it is, makes them a person that’s not worth your time anyway

Onwards and upwards beautiful lady smile and wave…….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's horrible to do to someone.

Have a long bath. A quiet walk in nature. A massage? Any pampering is good.

A chat with a friend who accepts you unconditionally is very positive.

Swear a bit, hit a punchbag if needed. Let go and just have the positive vibes this weekend "

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That's just awful.

Is it worth checking that's he's actually OK?

If he has indeed ghosted you, is it worth mentioning username just to warn other honest members in here?

Oh he’s fine he’s been online. He’s just blocked me. Can’t name and shame don’t wanna risk my own site membership.

Clearly not what he was claiming to be in his profile and knew he was about to get found out. My profile and pics will put the vast majority off of me, but it's a true reflection of me so people will know what they're getting. I'd guess he had old pics and was 20 years older or 10 stone bigger than he implied. Think of it as a lucky escape...."

Wish that was the case lol we FaceTimed lots so

I know he wasn’t a catfish

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just think of me - that should he enough to make anyone laugh or smile.

I have a pic that will cheer you up. (It's clean)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most people here have had this happen at some point, I know I have and it’s not nice.

100% their loss, and to block without at least an explanation, regardless of what it is, makes them a person that’s not worth your time anyway

Onwards and upwards beautiful lady smile and wave……."

Thank you x

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Met a girl who spent the whole meeting complaining about the last guy she met ghosting her, then went home and ghosted me..

Just how things work now.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met a girl who spent the whole meeting complaining about the last guy she met ghosting her, then went home and ghosted me..

Just how things work now."

People are actually pricks. sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though. "

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows. "

Nope. I've been ghosted and left to feel crap by a few ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows.

Nope. I've been ghosted and left to feel crap by a few ladies. "

Oh I’m sorry! People are horrible. Honestly that’s what I’m taking from this. We are the good ones chunk. Big hearts (and bodies) hehe x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows.

Nope. I've been ghosted and left to feel crap by a few ladies. "

Same. Not just on here, both from dating apps and even some I'd actually known for a while. It's universal, is immune to gender, race, and sexual orientation

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows.

Nope. I've been ghosted and left to feel crap by a few ladies.

Oh I’m sorry! People are horrible. Honestly that’s what I’m taking from this. We are the good ones chunk. Big hearts (and bodies) hehe x"

Indeed.

My body is only this big to fit my heart. In.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it. Go on folks, admit it, if the OP had been a man there would be a plethora of "diddums did you get turned down?" and "Be a man, stop whining and grow some - this is Fab" etc etc.

Makes me smile. I hope the OP is smiling now though.

Someone’s done a similar post to this in a separate thread. But it seems to always be the men who do the ghosting?? Maybe ? Who knows.

Nope. I've been ghosted and left to feel crap by a few ladies.

Oh I’m sorry! People are horrible. Honestly that’s what I’m taking from this. We are the good ones chunk. Big hearts (and bodies) hehe x

Indeed.

My body is only this big to fit my heart. In. "

I am stealing that line. Love it. Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


" We are the good ones chunk. Big hearts (and bodies) hehe x

Indeed.

My body is only this big to fit my heart. In.

I am stealing that line. Love it. Xx"

(Tips his hat towards the lady)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You lot have restored my faith in humanity

Still a bit down in the dumps but you’re all lovely. Xx

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


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Worst part was we’d spoken everyday for a month. So it wasn’t like a last minute meet that bailed. We had a bit of a connection. . X

That's just awful.

Is it worth checking that's he's actually OK?

If he has indeed ghosted you, is it worth mentioning username just to warn other honest members in here?

Oh he’s fine he’s been online. He’s just blocked me. Can’t name and shame don’t wanna risk my own site membership.

Clearly not what he was claiming to be in his profile and knew he was about to get found out. My profile and pics will put the vast majority off of me, but it's a true reflection of me so people will know what they're getting. I'd guess he had old pics and was 20 years older or 10 stone bigger than he implied. Think of it as a lucky escape....

Wish that was the case lol we FaceTimed lots so

I know he wasn’t a catfish

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Well bang goes my theory

He's clearly a fool anyway

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