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Are bi couples less successful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Howdy all. We're genuinely curious as to what others think about this. We're a fully bi-sexual couple, happy together and we enjoy lots of sex, but when it comes to arranging get-togethers/meets with others, there seems to be almost no response at all.

We've stated we're happy to play straight for those who aren't the same, yet it seems to make no difference.

Opinions and advice much appreciated.

Nat and Chris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will meet bi couples some won't same as fat, thin, tall, short, black, white, squirter's, non squirter's etc.

Depends what people are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a bi curious couple.

We find it isnt as full on as it was as a straight couple, you will find a lot of fully bi couples list the male as straight. Wording on some of the profiles does tend to give it away sometimes though, we found it did anyway

Once you find your feet you will be fine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often easier to find bi singles (and I noted your preferences!) as there are way more single bi or curious males and females (or couples with just one bi/curious party) than both bi couples.

Options? Bi nights at clubs, find two singles to make up a foursome/moresomes - but if it's solely couples you're looking for - just keep searching!! Having seen your profile and pics there's nothing to put anyone off meeting you except their own preferences - so just keep looking I guess!

Happy hunting - there truly is someone for everyone on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I won't meet couples with bi men, I will meet the woman on her own but choose not to meet them together. If its no good then its no go all round nobody is forcing anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have choices on here - you are being totally honest on your profile and tbh that may lessen your prospects .

Why ? Because an awful lot of straight guys are very anti meeting bi guys - and as a couple , have plenty if choice with straight guy and bi female couples .

This keeps it within their comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excellent advice Glos, perhaps a few tweaks are necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We get just as many time wasters as straight people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And theres the rub. The OP has changed his sexuality to straight.

Being bisexual really gets on my tits but I'm not changing for anyone. I'd have just kept looking or gone to some clubs rather than lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And theres the rub. The OP has changed his sexuality to straight.

Being bisexual really gets on my tits but I'm not changing for anyone. I'd have just kept looking or gone to some clubs rather than lie. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and I are bi, predominantly orally bi, but both happy o play straight as well. We clearly state 'bi' on our profile and it attracts some and puts off others. Ultimately it means we get to play with guys at home, which is cool.

When we go to clubs, we always play straight. It is amazing how many guys get tense if I say I am bi, its not as if I am gonna pounce and bugger them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but thats exactly what they think is going to happen. That you won't be able to resist touching their willy and you'll suddenly become John Inman's hairdresser. Homophobia in that form is still rife.

Just wait...the "i'm not phobic it's just my choice/preference" crowd will be here in a moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just wait...the "i'm not phobic it's just my choice/preference" crowd will be here in a moment!

"

such as is their bent.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but thats exactly what they think is going to happen. That you won't be able to resist touching their willy and you'll suddenly become John Inman's hairdresser. Homophobia in that form is still rife.

Just wait...the "i'm not phobic it's just my choice/preference" crowd will be here in a moment!

"

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By *ere4uMan
over a year ago

London

Well I had an encounter at a club once where I fucked the female and to finish me off they both sucked me I'm not bi at all but quite enjoyed it... Wouldn't mind again really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I had an encounter at a club once where I fucked the female and to finish me off they both sucked me I'm not bi at all but quite enjoyed it... Wouldn't mind again really..."

I think that makes you bi

*ducks*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I had an encounter at a club once where I fucked the female and to finish me off they both sucked me I'm not bi at all but quite enjoyed it... Wouldn't mind again really...

I think that makes you bi

*ducks*"

Yup defo bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I had an encounter at a club once where I fucked the female and to finish me off they both sucked me I'm not bi at all but quite enjoyed it... Wouldn't mind again really..."

Thats a clear case of "man doesn't care who sucks him off". Quite common and you're probably straight. Unless you now go actively looking specifically for guys who'll suck you off. You werent having sex or doing the sucking, and you probably wouldn't have let it happen if the woman wasn't doing it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I had an encounter at a club once where I fucked the female and to finish me off they both sucked me I'm not bi at all but quite enjoyed it... Wouldn't mind again really...

Thats a clear case of "man doesn't care who sucks him off". Quite common and you're probably straight. Unless you now go actively looking specifically for guys who'll suck you off. You werent having sex or doing the sucking, and you probably wouldn't have let it happen if the woman wasn't doing it too."

The mind boogles, and I am totally confused now.

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