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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now. " Oh yes, the excuses I have heard, she's in the bath,sleeping, gone out, one on holiday, I'm not saying people don't do these things but there is always some reason why she can't chat, and it's funny when it gets to the number exchange bit and it tends to be the males number that's given out too. | |||
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly! We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx" I get lots of messages from couples from the male half asking if they can meet me on my own, and a new ish one I have found lots of people use is that I would get a message asking to help in a fantasy and the fantasy normally ends up being about me meeting just the guy x | |||
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly! We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx I get lots of messages from couples from the male half asking if they can meet me on my own, and a new ish one I have found lots of people use is that I would get a message asking to help in a fantasy and the fantasy normally ends up being about me meeting just the guy x" It’s tricky, we do both meet alone too. But would always both see messages and can both interact/talk on the phone to prove we’re a couple who both know etc. I guess sometimes it’s true…like us! However, we’re also approached by couple profiles who I just don’t believe! Always the man and he asks for it to be a secret! Just tell the truth!! | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I have also seen a few profiles where most of the photos are if the female half, but still I have found its mainly the male half that talks, I'm not being funny but if I was in a couple on here and decided to message a woman then I would be the one who would initially message as being a woman I know I prefer talking to a woman from a couple, especially when my profile states I'm mainly looking for potential play with other women." But thats your preference. Some women are happy to talk to the male half of the couple because thats (part of) what they are looking for. If a profile gave off an indication that they only wanted to speak with or play with the Mrs then we wouldn't reach out as thats not what we are looking for. | |||
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"I suppose the same could be said about some single females on here who are supposedly single but when a meet is arranged a boyfriend or husband suddenly appears to come along and watch " A lady asked to meet me alone (Mrs) … we were chatting a little bit then she said she’d be being brought to our meet by her man, as chaperone, to keep her safe etc etc. I thought ok, reasonable, so I said ok I’ll bring mine too … she never answered x | |||
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"My best advice to guys would be: Get permission/speak to the Mrs about what you intend to do, then set up a sole account. Honesty is the best policy..." Pretty much this. We have a couples account but don’t get as much free time together so use the single account too. For clubs etc we generally go together but I would normally message from my single account if we weren’t both available .x | |||
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"I have nothing against couples on here at all and this is not directed at all of the couples on here but does anyone else find that a lot of couples profiles tend to be run by the male half and a lot of public profile pictures are mainly of the guy from the couple, and it's normally the guy who messages? Just this morning about 80% of the couples who messaged me it was the guy who messaged and when looking at their profiles they were worded from the guy and 90% of the pictures were of the guy (mainly cock pictures). Again this isn't directed at all couples, I have met and chatted to a few great couple from here x x" It does seem to be the way tbh x and they always say what they'd do to me, completely disrespecting my husband and the information in our profile x I'm the active one on here as I'm a chatterbox but hubs sees and reads everything and vice versa when he chats to another woman or couple x Shame some ruin it for others x Her x x | |||
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly! We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx" We're the same. I'm the wife and hubby leaves most of the chatting to me | |||
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"We both read all the messages but I (Mrs) do 90% of the chatting and 100% on the forum. He occasionally joins in with messages but only if I prompt him, he trusts my judgements and can just sit back and perv whilst I do the leg work I know what we're both looking for but he has the final say on who we meet. " We are excatly the same | |||
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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now. Oh yes, the excuses I have heard, she's in the bath,sleeping, gone out, one on holiday, I'm not saying people don't do these things but there is always some reason why she can't chat, and it's funny when it gets to the number exchange bit and it tends to be the males number that's given out too. " To be fair with all the dreamers and wannabes on here would you want to give your wife's number out before you knew who you were giving it too? | |||
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"No. My finding are .... Thousands of pictures of a woman from every angle, external and internal ..... Pictures of her in undies, pictures of her outside, pictures of her arse hole, pictures of her getting jizzed on, pictures of her getting a roasting , pictures of her giving a blow job and one pic of his bell end..... in grey...... from a distance...... " This!!!! | |||
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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now. " Had a few messages from supposed couples saying exactly this. | |||
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"This is funny because so often the complaint on here is couples photos are all of the woman and none of the man - this has to be the first thread I've seen making the opposite complaint. I think there are fake couple profiles which are actually single men but I can honestly say the majority I look at are almost entirely full of female pics. This is actually an issue for us as her ladyship (understandably) isn't keen on blind dates. Mr" That is the usual complaint isn’t it. And I would say that when browsing “perving” profiles there is always a lack of male photos…If any at all. I would only message a profile with pictures of both parties | |||
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