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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'm struggling with the verification side, you can't get verified unless you've met someone who is already verified, but also no one will meet someone who is not verified. Is there another way round this? I don't believe in webcam as its much better in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op don’t mean to be blunt but you have awarded your own question

No there’s no way around it

You have all ready named the alternative and stated it’s a no go

Ie cams

So there no other alternative or in less someone takes a chance on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs is your only alternative

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I know you don't believe in webcam but, it's a quick & easy thing to do. The chatrooms can be quite fun too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Go on a web cam to get it done, or go to a social or go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on a web cam to get it done, or go to a social or go to a club."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit strong saying you don’t believe in webcams

There is concrete evidence to counter your beliefs.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Been told webcam don't mean nothing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Been told webcam don't mean nothing "

It's better than nothing. Not much, but not being verified at all is worse.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Been told webcam don't mean nothing "

Rubbish. It proves you're who you are. That means a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Webcam is the domain of the keyboard wankers and attention seekers. They are exactly the people who don’t meet. Webcam verifications are a red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or a social

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I have tried webcams will give it ago again later. I stand out more in person thats all thanks for all you support and help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet people have verifications, crazy!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Exactly. Webcam is the domain of the keyboard wankers and attention seekers. They are exactly the people who don’t meet. Webcam verifications are a red flag. "

I'm a webcam attention seeker but I also meet! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yeah I know, I just read what people say on others.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling . "

Sure x

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Well maybe we can go on webcam together, be nice to actually talk to someone with involving sex talk all the time.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

How do you do 1 to 1 webcam?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"How do you do 1 to 1 webcam? "

Cant I dont think can go to empty room but others can join I've never done 1xto 1 here as I am the attention seeking sort pmsl like a big audience x

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Oi stop taking the lime light off me ?? would like to webcam chat with you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Oi stop taking the lime light off me ?? would like to webcam chat with you "

Sure if u still here in say an hr or so? Will cam with u x

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I'm struggling with the verification side, you can't get verified unless you've met someone who is already verified, but also no one will meet someone who is not verified. Is there another way round this? I don't believe in webcam as its much better in person "

Dp you think a verification will get you laid?

T.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Ye sure be great to see an attention seeker pmsl

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Ye sure be great to see an attention seeker pmsl "

Cool will pm u when ready x

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

No but would be nice to have 1 so people can see that I am genuine

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"And yet people have verifications, crazy!"

I was introduced to fab by someone who was already here and verified - only a social acquaintance. That got me my first tick in the box although shortly thereafter a lady berated me for having it published as it “wasn’t a proper verification and it was cheating”

Odd... I thought it just meant I was a real person. But thanks!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Been told webcam don't mean nothing "

You don't need to display the veri or even the veri summary, your profile will still show the green tick.

But I have never understood why people say that cam veris mean nothing, they mean as much to me as reading what someone who I have never met has written about Their experience with the person. I've met people who's veris say he was 'the best fuck ever'.... Well he wasn't mine. Arrange meets with very well verified profiles..... they never showed up.

So to me, veris mean very little, I now just trust my own intuition about a person.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Ok looking forward to it

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thats the same with me, I just trust my instincts about someone

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By *inglerubixMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I was quite lucky that someone took a chance on me, I got talking to her in the cam rooms and built it from there… tbh it doesn’t change too much being verified you still get ignored haha.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Been told webcam don't mean nothing

Rubbish. It proves you're who you are. That means a lot. "

You don't get many men pretending to be men though. Which is all it proves. Going to a social and getting verified at least shows you will turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats the same with me, I just trust my instincts about someone "

OP If you press quote +reply on the post you are responding to it will make it easier for people to reply

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Ok looking forward to it"

About to go in south east room x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Well cant say I didnt try lol! And I turned down a cream t at the garden center so I could go on cams a while! Nevermind! Had a laugh with the guys in south east! X

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well cant say I didnt try lol! And I turned down a cream t at the garden center so I could go on cams a while! Nevermind! Had a laugh with the guys in south east! X "

Sorry just saw this message 1 sec huj x

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well cant say I didnt try lol! And I turned down a cream t at the garden center so I could go on cams a while! Nevermind! Had a laugh with the guys in south east! X "

Go back on

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling . "

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure"

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x"

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been told webcam don't mean nothing

You don't need to display the veri or even the veri summary, your profile will still show the green tick.

But I have never understood why people say that cam veris mean nothing, they mean as much to me as reading what someone who I have never met has written about Their experience with the person. I've met people who's veris say he was 'the best fuck ever'.... Well he wasn't mine. Arrange meets with very well verified profiles..... they never showed up.

So to me, veris mean very little, I now just trust my own intuition about a person."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post "

Yes its him I'm referring to x

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

Yes its him I'm referring to x"

Go back on ill go on now I not long saw your message

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

Yes its him I'm referring to x

Go back on ill go on now I not long saw your message"

Ok a quickie south east x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

Yes its him I'm referring to x

Go back on ill go on now I not long saw your message"

U never showed again?

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

Yes its him I'm referring to x

Go back on ill go on now I not long saw your message

U never showed again? "

I just got on said hello then you went off

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any ladies open to verifying me over webcam ?

Serious question, as I’m also struggling .

Very handsome, You won't be struggling for long I'm sure

He cant go on cam as he not a supporter he did try x

I was replying to the other guy that hijacked his post

Yes its him I'm referring to x

Go back on ill go on now I not long saw your message

U never showed again?

I just got on said hello then you went off"

Never saw u ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble with webcam verifications is it marks you down as a keyboard wanker rather than someone who meets. Depends what you are here for.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Trouble with webcam verifications is it marks you down as a keyboard wanker rather than someone who meets. Depends what you are here for. "

Not really it dont

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