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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?

Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?

Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Equal parts nervous and excited, with a small sprinkling of "what if they don't show up?"

LvM

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

The day I don’t get butterflies in advance of a first (or any meet) is the day I hang up my libido

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous and excited x I’m pretty good with my nerves tho, usually I feel the more we spoke and created connection the more nervous I get tho!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous that she’s some Villanelle style psychopath and that she’ll dice me up and wear my testicles as earrings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Equal parts nervous and excited, with a small sprinkling of "what if they don't show up?"

LvM"

Why on earth would they not turn up for you … look at your profile t is absolutely stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nervous and excited x I’m pretty good with my nerves tho, usually I feel the more we spoke and created connection the more nervous I get tho!! X

Nerves are good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nervous that she’s some Villanelle style psychopath and that she’ll dice me up and wear my testicles as earrings. "

And your penis as a necklace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was nervous about mine, well we both were we just went with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or a room full of dolls like in the advert

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.

You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

If I wasn't excited about meeting someone new it would be time to retire and start wearing my comfy slippers everywhere and constantly moan about the weather

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.

You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie

It’s a great feeling indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous and excited.

First social I ever drove to I was nervous as hell and don't know how I didn't bottle it. So glad I didn't though.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just excited…the nerves are already dealt with leading up to it.

Just a continuation of the chat but in real life and putting into practice the things you’ve wound each other up with…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always get nervous and excited.

First social I ever drove to I was nervous as hell and don't know how I didn't bottle it. So glad I didn't though. "

Just got to let the imagination of fun overpower the ‘oh shit’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just excited…the nerves are already dealt with leading up to it.

Just a continuation of the chat but in real life and putting into practice the things you’ve wound each other up with…

If the build up has been that good…. Then the real thing can only improve

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By *enji280590Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I start of excited, the closer to the time im ment to meet I get more and more nervous and then start thinking are they going to show up or what if they don't like me

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

so go back to sleep after a burst of enthusiasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted

I am the same as you and I just wouldn't be able to stop staring.. at your eyes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of everything. Just love the build up to a social or a meet..

The sexting Just before really gets .y heart racing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first meet is always a social and usually I only half expect them to show up, so I'm calm. If it goes beyond social - that's when the nerves, excitement, anticipation and all that kick in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly excited, with a dash of nerves and a few lag minute butterflies…

I wouldn’t want it any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted

I am the same as you and I just wouldn't be able to stop staring.. at your eyes..

Your too kind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had meets for drinks, coffee and also meet at a hotel room with the door ajar.

I minute my nerves by having good communication with my date in the hours before the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had meets for drinks, coffee and also meet at a hotel room with the door ajar.

I minimise my nerves by having good communication with my date in the hours before the meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nerves and excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted

I am the same as you and I just wouldn't be able to stop staring.. at your eyes..

Your too kind xx"

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves, self doubt, a zillion wees.

And repeat.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.

You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie

Better than sex??

No way!! But all the chatting and chemistry raging around does make for better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?

Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?

Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts

I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.

A mixture of above!

But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right?

I hope so anyway.

Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*that's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted

Hopefully as more meets happen it will get easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A mixture of everything. Just love the build up to a social or a meet..

The sexting Just before really gets .y heart racing

Mmm yes more building …. Get them ready to jump

You with the pre sexting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The first meet is always a social and usually I only half expect them to show up, so I'm calm. If it goes beyond social - that's when the nerves, excitement, anticipation and all that kick in."

The joys of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mostly excited, with a dash of nerves and a few lag minute butterflies…

I wouldn’t want it any other way

It’s what the fab fun is all about… the start of experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nerves, self doubt, a zillion wees.

And repeat."

A zillion wees haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?

Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?

Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts

I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.

A mixture of above!

But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right?

I hope so anyway.

Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation. "

Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.

You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie

Better than sex??

No way!! But all the chatting and chemistry raging around does make for better sex

All that built up sexual tension, suddenly going off like a champagne cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't usually get nervous, long done putting the pressure on myself and I get such a buzz out of getting ready I tend not too. It is not until I am at the venue I think shit lol, then I think "meh, take me or leave me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?

Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?

Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts

I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.

A mixture of above!

But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right?

I hope so anyway.

Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation.

Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore

Well I should hope so!

there is much to explore before I turn into dust

and no better day than today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?

Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?

Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts

I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.

A mixture of above!

But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right?

I hope so anyway.

Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation.

Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore

Well I should hope so!

there is much to explore before I turn into dust

and no better day than today

Is that an invite haha

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