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Abstaining from sex

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you have planned to meet someone for sex a fwb or fb, or a social with someone new and possibility of sex, do you abstain from sex with other people beforehand ? For how long ? And why? Or why not? Interested in replies from non-mono people in relationships etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did but unintentionally. It would take me ages to find someone I wanted to fuck in the first place so going through the admin and ball ache to find someone else would just be silly.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I did but unintentionally. It would take me ages to find someone I wanted to fuck in the first place so going through the admin and ball ache to find someone else would just be silly. "

Yeah I meant intentionally , like out of self respect or self control or something…

I’m sure you could assemble a little male harem here if you tried a bit harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t nope I am single and not in a locked off relationship witch means I am free to have sex with who ever I like when I like so I do

I sometimes tell the person sometimes not

Depends if it was that day I tell them let them choose if they want to re schedule the meet or take second

If it wasn’t that day I don’t tell them don’t see a need for them to know who or when I am have sex with someone else

If they don’t like it they have two choices

Get me in a closed relationship

Or I am not for them on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im abstaining for sex at the moment........... But its not by choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm in a relationship and have a FWB, I don't abstain before I see either of them. If I want sex with the other beforehand, I have it. Neither has ever asked me to (or would).

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not in a relationship, but no.

I've been let down enough times to know that uncommitted arrangements are exactly that, uncommitted.

If anyone wants to be exclusive they can always have that conversation with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have forthcoming plans to have sex with someone, given I'm single, I'm not gonna be making other plans beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleeping around doesn’t come naturally to me, so my attention would be focused on that one person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t, but I would be honest and open about it .

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to focus on one man/cock at a time if it looks like sex is on the cards. It’s just how I am, it’s not out of a sense of “keeping myself for them”, I’m just rubbish at giving that much of myself to many people at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! I live with my fwb and we have sex most days but if I was going to see someone new, I would still have sex with him before, if we wanted to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm abstaining from sex just now and it is by choice x

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