FabSwingers.com forum: What do you most use the forum for?

By *ack688 OP Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Do you like creating new forum posts?

Do you write your reply without bothering much to read other people’s, then just look to see if anyone has replied to it?

Do you ignore the ones with too many replies as it’s too much to wade through?

Do you look for people you like the look of and comment on those posts?

Do you read everything in a post and try to interact with as much as you find interesting?

What’s your process?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I use it to make people laugh, to find others who make me laugh or think and of course to harvest pictures of sexy women doing filthy things

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I try and get everyone involved and make it fun xx

But I'm new here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to people on here a lot of great people and avoiding my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply if a thought pop into my head on a topic, I put it out into the ether of that thread and see what happens. For example...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No process. Just ride the Forum waves as they come and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post shit. If people respond then great

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

love answering forum threads

reading the replies helps get an idea of what people here are like

friendships stem from that sometimes

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I'm too lazy to make my own threads and my attention span isn't long enough. I just jump in here and there.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm mostly here to chat crap and be a shameless flirt/ smut merchant

Also if I have a particularly stupid thought and/or I'm bored I'll make an equally stupid thread for entertainment purposes

LvM

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I just post shit. If people respond then great

How do you do that sounds smelly?

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I enjoy the forums, some are so funny and others can be a tad feisty...but what ever the context, the replies they can be funny I have posted a few threads too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For just whatever feels good or needed in the moment.

Could be two posts a day or just silent observing, taking memory notes.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The forum is for sharing thoughts, information, making connections and finding others on your wavelength.

I try to post threads that do at least one of those things for as many people as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The top and bottom of it is I love to talk to new people and you can get a sense of people through their forum posts or replies.

I always make time for anyone on here if they show the same level of respect as I do with them. (I'd hope those who I talk to regularly realise that too!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just post shit. If people respond then great

How do you do that sounds smelly?"

That's why letterboxes were invented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t start many threads but reply when I feel it’s relevant.

I do like it when I actually get a response but I don’t think I’ve made the forum click yet

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I just post shit. If people respond then great

How do you do that sounds smelly?

That's why letterboxes were invented

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

Having a read of random stuff ... Keeps it real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like creating new forum posts?

Do you write your reply without bothering much to read other people’s, then just look to see if anyone has replied to it?

Do you ignore the ones with too many replies as it’s too much to wade through?

Do you look for people you like the look of and comment on those posts?

Do you read everything in a post and try to interact with as much as you find interesting?

What’s your process?"

pretty much, yes to all of that

I struggle to keep up with a thread most of the time (slooooow typer)! By the time I've written what I wanted to the thread's moved on and I'm catching up again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The top and bottom of it is I love to talk to new people and you can get a sense of people through their forum posts or replies.

I always make time for anyone on here if they show the same level of respect as I do with them. (I'd hope those who I talk to regularly realise that too!)"

I enjoy your thread and posts

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I hide in the shadows and take part in threads that interest me at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads off things

Flirt

Be goofy

Express my self

Try and help people

Maybe share some off my sexual past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to get people to block me

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Annoy people especially if I’ve had a drink, I’ve had a drink tonight

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have a browse and join in with some threads. I do tend to read through all the replies. I very rarely start threads, although I do have a talent for killing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dip in and out.. I tend to read all replies on the threads i participate in - and try to avoid repeating what the first 99m people said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a browse and join in with some threads. I do tend to read through all the replies. I very rarely start threads, although I do have a talent for killing them.

Hey, me too. I never get a quoted reply…. But you just did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of the forums, I stop by once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just post shit. If people respond then great

Do you take requests? Would love for my ex husband to be a recipient

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

To display my chuffing sunny disposition.. oh and sarcasm

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I hardly ever start a new thread.

I do post on a thread that interests me, makes me laugh or if I have an opinion on the subject. I also post to advertise myself a bit.

I like looking at the club events, see what's happening in Gran Canaria and enjoy the motorbike forum.

I do enjoy the forums it gives you a feel for people and I've made s friends through them.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I never start threads

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Kill time and keep in touch with what's going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never start threads "

Your evil twin does though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never start threads "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I never start threads

Your evil twin does though "

Who's that?

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I am feminist which calls out entitlement and misogyny in individuals.

But I am mainly an annoying bitch with an evil dark, really fucking dark sense of sarky humour.

Most dont read my posts.

Only those who throw their dummies oot the pram when called out read my posts and do their best to get me banded from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never start threads

Your evil twin does though

Who's that?"

Neemsay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dip in and out.. I tend to read all replies on the threads i participate in - and try to avoid repeating what the first 99m people said

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I never start threads

Your evil twin does though

Who's that?

Neemsay "

Shes a witch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dip in and out.. I tend to read all replies on the threads i participate in - and try to avoid repeating what the first 99m people said

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I never start threads

Bless

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

It's fun to see people's thoughts and views and swingers are just more open people in general plus its better than scrolling Facebook that place is a cesspool

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Forums it helps me to learn and practice English

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dip in and out.. I tend to read all replies on the threads i participate in - and try to avoid repeating what the first 99m people said

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I like the serious, thought-provoking threads. Ones that cover all aspects of the human experience.

Earnest, deep and profound gems of discussion float my boat.

The light-hearted ones vaguely interest me, as humour is still part of the human experience, so discounting it in its entirety would be unnecessarily churlish.

The flirty threads hold no interest to me whatsoever, however.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I just post shit. If people respond then great

Do you take requests? Would love for my ex husband to be a recipient

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Depends on the thread really. Get largely ignored though whilst the clique get instant replies or acknowledgements. So don't bother most of the time.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I read less posts of others through, unless the topic really interests me. Otherwise I'll post my tuppence worth and wander on. I'm shit at replying to people and I rarely maintain my own occasional threads. I tried it once and it was exhausting

kudos to those inclusive people that work to reply to all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like creating threads, some are fun, some are more serious topics more educationals (well at least I hope) .. some are to vent lol

So yeah. I like to gather info from people and what they think about certain topics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the best place to chat and get to know folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like creating threads, some are fun, some are more serious topics more educationals (well at least I hope) .. some are to vent lol

So yeah. I like to gather info from people and what they think about certain topics "

I did message you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Depends on the thread really. Get largely ignored though whilst the clique get instant replies or acknowledgements. So don't bother most of the time. "

Totally agree.

Except its the current clique not THE clique.

The cliques are evanescent and generally consist of lifelong 'friends' who have a falling out spat disappear and the new lot filter in.

Don't pay any heed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I use it for finger exercise. To reply on threads that interest me but mostly to chat and message with those that are fun and inclusive.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

"Depends on the thread really. Get largely ignored though whilst the clique get instant replies or acknowledgements. So don't bother most of the time.

Totally agree.

Except its the current clique not THE clique.

The cliques are evanescent and generally consist of lifelong 'friends' who have a falling out spat disappear and the new lot filter in.

Don't pay any heed

Doesn't really bother me, can expect it really from long term forum users. All part and parcel of life whether online or real world

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By *earl555Woman
over a year ago

Kingston upon Hull

I scroll through them, don't post or start any threads. Find alot of the topics quite interesting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I enjoy posting but I don't spend anywhere near as much time and energy as I used to on Fab (and the forums). I do read other replies, mainly because I get a bit

when you post something and then someone else says the exact same thing (admittedly dumbed down a bit) and get the yay, you go Glen Coco responses.

I tend to stay away from some threads because they aren't natural fits for me and I don't find them particularly interesting (unless I'm dared to!).

I find it easier to interact with those who understand my posting style and sense of humour. When people don't it's painful so easier to avoid.

I like threads that are inclusive and engaging, or the thinky ones.

I also enjoy people watching because it's fascinating watching the myriad of responses, even more so when there's cross thread references/"in" comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To test my sanity. If I start agreeing with more than 20% of threads, I'm fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy posting but I don't spend anywhere near as much time and energy as I used to on Fab (and the forums). I do read other replies, mainly because I get a bit

when you post something and then someone else says the exact same thing (admittedly dumbed down a bit) and get the yay, you go Glen Coco responses.

I tend to stay away from some threads because they aren't natural fits for me and I don't find them particularly interesting (unless I'm dared to!).

I find it easier to interact with those who understand my posting style and sense of humour. When people don't it's painful so easier to avoid.

I like threads that are inclusive and engaging, or the thinky ones.

I also enjoy people watching because it's fascinating watching the myriad of responses, even more so when there's cross thread references/"in" comments.

And where you see the a

Same response which has clearly been discussed first and then posted with slight changes of language

(maybe that's what you meant

)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"...I do read other replies, mainly because I get a bit

when you post something and then someone else says the exact same thing (admittedly dumbed down a bit) and get the yay, you go Glen Coco responses....

And where you see the a

Same response which has clearly been discussed first and then posted with slight changes of language

(maybe that's what you meant

) "

Yeah! It is. I understand people sometimes might repeat because honestly? A wall of text can be a looot to read. The peevish, bratty side of me will always bristle at the credit not going to the original artist but the crappy cover artist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read through threads that I find interesting, I sometimes contribute. I join in the games at times. On occasion I've started one or two threads, but am not the best at responding to comments.

I do find that they are a good way to connect with people and get to know others. On the whole when I do post, try to keep it light hearted and funny, but lack the wit for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to post stories on the fantasy section

I try to answer queries where think I can help

I ask questions as try to learn

I live vicariously through others fun

I take hope that others are like me and sometimes struggle in life and on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to posting, but I like to keep it on topic. I can be a sucker for details, so I like these generic ones, otherwise I end up reading everyones POV and using up a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To test my sanity. If I start agreeing with more than 20% of threads, I'm fucked."

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