FabSwingers.com forum: Why??

By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Why do people post meet.social or something else... and let you down..is it seriously about meeting people with same interested lifestyle...or just guys.looking for cheap chat... just wondering.xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Did you arrange to meet them and they no showed?

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Why do people post meet.social or something else... and let you down..is it seriously about meeting people with same interested lifestyle...or just guys.looking for cheap chat... just wondering.xx"

Oh dear, what happened?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Didn’t you ask this last week OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure what the question is myself

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Didn’t you ask this last week OP? "

...and the week before. I don't think he's figured it all out yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Didn’t you ask this last week OP? "

Last week was why do they post a meet and ignore your interest I think.

This week is why do they let you down, which suggests to me arrangements were made to meet.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh, ok.

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By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Lol obviously you're more experience...but respect???

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By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Lol obviously you're more experience...but respect???

I'm sorry I'm not sure what you mean.

The opening post isn't very clear at the point you're trying to make, and this one isn't very clear either as to who you're referring to or what you mean by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still confused

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By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Lol shits creek...lol

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By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Princess

You are a dream gone by....

But what I hate is all fake pretentious.. people.. sure you understand.xx

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

So did you make arrangements and get stood up or did you respond to someone and they didn’t get back to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So did you make arrangements and get stood up or did you respond to someone and they didn’t get back to you? "

I was about to ask that

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"So did you make arrangements and get stood up or did you respond to someone and they didn’t get back to you?

I was about to ask that

Well I got there first

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Rhubarb and custard squashams absolutely luv em

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Rhubarb and custard squashams absolutely luv em

I’m not sure what question you read or if you’re on the wrong thread but yes

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Didn’t you ask this last week OP? "

He did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it"

You’re not the only one mate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll try to cover both possibilities.

If you got stood up - some people are jerks, or occasionally emergencies happen and they haven't told you yet.

If people ask for a meet and aren't meeting you - they get to choose who they want to meet, or not meet.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It was a great tune by Carly Simon

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

You’re not the only one mate"

Maybe things will be explained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

You’re not the only one mate

Maybe things will be explained "

Going by the green arrow and looking at his other threads. I doubt it

Some of them read like they are written by yoda from Star Wars

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By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

Haha

Things are easy to explain...why ohh why are there so many false people on here... false profile's...lol... false meet..why??

What are they afraid off?

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Haha

Things are easy to explain...why ohh why are there so many false people on here... false profile's...lol... false meet..why??

What are they afraid off?

Why are they false though ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Haha

Things are easy to explain...why ohh why are there so many false people on here... false profile's...lol... false meet..why??

What are they afraid off?

How do you define false person, false profile, or false meet?

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Rhubarb and custard squashams absolutely luv em

I’m not sure what question you read or if you’re on the wrong thread but yes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

You’re not the only one mate

Maybe things will be explained

Going by the green arrow and looking at his other threads. I doubt it

Some of them read like they are written by yoda from Star Wars "

Ah now that's a bit harsh on Yoda .

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I think if I was so unhappy about the site and the people on it, that I had to keep posting how unhappy I was, I would also question why I was on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha

Things are easy to explain...why ohh why are there so many false people on here... false profile's...lol... false meet..why??

What are they afraid off?

With so many false people why do you waste time on here?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Haha

Things are easy to explain...why ohh why are there so many false people on here... false profile's...lol... false meet..why??

What are they afraid off?

Again though I'll ask the question, did you arrange a meet and they didn't show?

I'm not sure people are afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, it would help if you used reply +quote, and also explained exactly what you mean.

You don’t seem very happy with your fab experience so far, have you considered what you could do to enhance it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it"

Glad I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve searched for yoda on here and can’t find him

maybe blocked. Then again I’ve heard he can be a bit forceful

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

You’re not the only one mate

Maybe things will be explained

Going by the green arrow and looking at his other threads. I doubt it

Some of them read like they are written by yoda from Star Wars "

Are things any clearer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people post meet.social or something else... and let you down..is it seriously about meeting people with same interested lifestyle...or just guys.looking for cheap chat... just wondering.xx"

Sometimes it can be a simple case of sausages, sometimes i plan to go out but then i see those succulent pork and apple sausage just sat there on a plate in the fridge, i try to leave them.. close the door and walk away but curiosity becomes of me and i need the smell, the taste. Then before i know it they're under the grill.. sausage smell waftering up my sniffer... so you see sometimes things just dont go the way we forsee.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Have they stood you up? Or have they just rejected your response to their post?

If its the latter then that's their perogative like it has been said before on posts by you.

If its the former them it could be numerous reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more I read of this thread, the less I understand it

You’re not the only one mate

Maybe things will be explained

Going by the green arrow and looking at his other threads. I doubt it

Some of them read like they are written by yoda from Star Wars

Are things any clearer? "

Errrmm

Crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op, it would help if you used reply +quote, and also explained exactly what you mean.

You don’t seem very happy with your fab experience so far, have you considered what you could do to enhance it?

I suspect he may start another thread. Just a premonition....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People may want to meet someone who superficially is exactly you but they don't choose you. Not all meets are posted same day and people find that their availability, interests etc changes

Sometimes life changes plans. Don't focus on the failures, except to learn and refine your strategy.

You will never be mutually compatible with most people. Accept that and you can make realistic expectations

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