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Does penis size really matter to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it’s a bit of a cliche question but just like to find out the thoughts of the wonderful fab world

So Personally I am just over 7.5 inches X 5 inches (above average but I know it’s not amazing lol!) and I’ve had plenty of partners say it’s the biggest they’ve had and plenty say they’ve had a lot bigger

So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me. You are too big.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"It matters to me. You are too big."

This is kind of it.

Size will always matter, as to the range of that size preference it will differ greatly.

Some will have a maximum size they want, some will have the minimum size. Some will have both!

Generally it's a Goldilocks situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't matter, but I prefer the more average size as my cervix doesn't like being in pain after. But a bigger guy that didn't bash the cervix wouldn't be totally off the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally it's a Goldilocks situation."

You hear that Ed? Bears.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends if you're 12th in line, by that time my cunt has swollen up like a puffer fish and you'd need a dick like a cotton bud to gain entry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters as women have said above. It's about your size matching my vagina. You are just on the edge of what I would take, any bigger and I'd say no thanks.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It matters as women have said above. It's about your size matching my vagina. You are just on the edge of what I would take, any bigger and I'd say no thanks."

Bullshit, ALL women want a gym fit muscle man with a 9" weapon. (According to the men who haven't had a meet from here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn't matter, but I prefer the more average size as my cervix doesn't like being in pain after. But a bigger guy that didn't bash the cervix wouldn't be totally off the table. "

This is exactly it. It really isn't difficult to watch your partners reaction and adjust your position/speed/depth to a level that she is enjoying. It isn't particularly comfortable to be bashing into a cervix anyway - and don't get me started on IUD's

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters to me. You are too big."

Agreed bigger is Definately not always better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my hand on my heart I can say penis size doesn’t matter to me anymore. Although if I pulled someone’s pants down and one plopped out that was heavy and 7.5 inches in length I’d give a silent squeal of delight!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

In my experience average isn’t quite enough for most

It matters, but to wha degree depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it’s a bit of a cliche question but just like to find out the thoughts of the wonderful fab world

So Personally I am just over 7.5 inches X 5 inches (above average but I know it’s not amazing lol!) and I’ve had plenty of partners say it’s the biggest they’ve had and plenty say they’ve had a lot bigger

So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?"

no point having a lorry with no where to park or know how to drive it - so nope !!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

6 inch is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if you're 12th in line, by that time my cunt has swollen up like a puffer fish and you'd need a dick like a cotton bud to gain entry "

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I always thought girth was more important than length when it comes to female sexual pleasure with a male. 7.5 inches is long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8.5 here

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

It does to some people but most genuine people dont seem to care as long as you have decent teq you can get by and most women prefer something in the middle

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

It matters to me what's the point in a small one does notting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it fits your good to go

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"I know it’s a bit of a cliche question but just like to find out the thoughts of the wonderful fab world

So Personally I am just over 7.5 inches X 5 inches (above average but I know it’s not amazing lol!) and I’ve had plenty of partners say it’s the biggest they’ve had and plenty say they’ve had a lot bigger

So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?"

Not seen a 'does size matter' post for a while, and you know what answers always come, which does make me think that congratulating ones owm penis without saying so, by saying bigger ones are out there.... but not by your feedback, is a nice touch. Comments about your big cock ensues.

Of course if I'm wrong, ignore all this. Ta

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I spent a long time thinking it mattered. It doesn't one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it fits, I sits.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"If it fits, I sits."

How do we know if it fits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does to some people but most genuine people dont seem to care as long as you have decent teq you can get by and most women prefer something in the middle "

Genuine people ?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

OP. When you book a hotel room what size bed do you prefer?

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

6.5x6.7" here and never had any complaints, I've heard plenty say longer dicks are painful if they go to deep and have seen it on meets which makes me wonder if these guys rocking footlongs are just using the same amount as me half the time

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It matters to me what's the point in a small one does notting for me. "

You want to be literally stretched, I take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does. If it's too small, it won't hit the right spots. If it's too big, at best - won't be fully used and I won't get to feel the balls slapping against me in doggy style. At worst - it would end up hurting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told the same as OP, larger than average, wide girth as well then another female said just average. Let you guys judge from my photos.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes it does and this is why I have a selection of different sized dildos, some I can only suck in at certain times of the month, some are perfect for rubbing my g spot, variety is the spice of life

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By *km1Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I don’t think it matters. If it feels good to both of you. Happy days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters to me what's the point in a small one does notting for me. "

Ummm they could use their other head I guess?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't matter to me and apparently has never mattered to anyone I've met either.

They all seemed to be more interested in how my mind responded when stimulated than in the size of my dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite happy with 7inches or under tbh. I have had 8 but it can’t all fit in if it does it doesn’t feel nice/enjoyable banging off my cervix!

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Only for sucking..big ones are best...otherwise , meh, its fine

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Rationally, no but I do like it when my chap receives a compliment or two

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Size only matters to me if its at either extreme on the scale. Then it's probably a no thanks either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some holes are bigger than others, variety is the spice of life.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

It does matter- in that it can be too big, or too small, or just right. But everyone will have different views on what’s small, average or big, and every I will have different preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does matter to me x usually I like it on the bigger size. So like 7.5-8” x 6” seem to be perfect dick size for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. Px

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

My favourite size is the size that stays hard in a condom.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I get the impression from reading numerous threads about it that having a big dick is generally something that a lot more men think about than women.

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By *km1Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"My favourite size is the size that stays hard in a condom."

Always a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy i like smaller slimmer cocks they slip in my arse easier and i have small cock i can say never had a complaint but do wish it was a little longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it matters to me, sex hurts so I need guys who are average and less girth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me if the person on the receiving end of it doesn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters to me if the person on the receiving end of it doesn't like it "

I bet that hasn't happened yet

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Of course it does. No matter what size penis a person has, I'm just not interested

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wish mine was a little smaller , some women just can’t take it , which then spoils the moment

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

Yes size does matter I wish mine was a bit bigger ha

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I get the impression from reading numerous threads about it that having a big dick is generally something that a lot more men think about than women. "

Yes, the male ego thrives on penile prowess. None of us are immune to that however primitive it might be.

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By *Mr MercuryMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Do many men get complaints of their penis?

Is there an official complaints recording system in which the complaints are tallied and black mark a certain individual?

Just asking for a friend

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do many men get complaints of their penis?

Is there an official complaints recording system in which the complaints are tallied and black mark a certain individual?

Just asking for a friend "

You're thinking of the Penis Adjustment Bureau, which is responsible for logging the performance of penises worldwide and withdrawing the underperforming ones from circulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters to me if the person on the receiving end of it doesn't like it

I bet that hasn't happened yet "

Well I haven't been told that to my face yet no but they might think it

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

My FWB is perfect for me. He’s 7.5” long by 6.5” girth. He fits in with a tight squeeze in every direction.

I’m not looking for anything smaller than him, but couldn’t cope with anything much bigger either.

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By *km1Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"My FWB is perfect for me. He’s 7.5” long by 6.5” girth. He fits in with a tight squeeze in every direction.

I’m not looking for anything smaller than him, but couldn’t cope with anything much bigger either. "

I’m the same size. Sounds like I’m perfect for you. Lol (jokes). X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few women that I’ve talked to on other sites that I can’t show pictures of my penis on have said to me that size doesn’t matter but then later on when we’ve moved off the site to WhatsApp and started sending pictures they will stop messaging me after I send them a picture of my dick. Everything can be going great until they see it and they lose interest straight away. I accept it though as it’s just down to personal taste and I don’t take it personally, I just wish they’d be honest about it from the start. Not everyone’s like that though, some say they’d prefer bigger but don’t mind that mine’s small and some actually love that it’s small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait a minute I'm supposed to measure girth as well I've only been doing length

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Haha it dies to me never mind other people . Ive Never been happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without the want of cumming across as a size queen, but yes it most certainly does matter...

as does, stamina and ability...

anything less than 7” long 4-6” girth would be less than average...

having said that everyone else has their own views and perception when it cums to gauging size...

if it makes you squeal then I guess it’s all good

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"without the want of cumming across as a size queen, but yes it most certainly does matter...

as does, stamina and ability...

anything less than 7” long 4-6” girth would be less than average...

having said that everyone else has their own views and perception when it cums to gauging size...

if it makes you squeal then I guess it’s all good "

Oh sis

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I definitely don't like too big because it really hurts & feels like my inner workings are getting rearranged. Also gives me jaw ache!! Smaller than average can be ok but would probably be praying he has good oral skills too!!!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

nope

having said that, Husbands suits me perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I definitely don't like too big because it really hurts & feels like my inner workings are getting rearranged. Also gives me jaw ache!! Smaller than average can be ok but would probably be praying he has good oral skills too!!!"

I always like to give oral to make up for my dick being so small and I find it much easier to satisfy a woman with my tongue than with my dick.

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By *lder A Wiser PassionWoman
over a year ago

morecambe

I like small cocks

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"I like small cocks "

How small

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yeah tiny cocks are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the tiny cock appreciation

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I know it’s a bit of a cliche question but just like to find out the thoughts of the wonderful fab world

So Personally I am just over 7.5 inches X 5 inches (above average but I know it’s not amazing lol!) and I’ve had plenty of partners say it’s the biggest they’ve had and plenty say they’ve had a lot bigger

So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?"

According to the best science available, the average erect penis is 5.17” (13.12cm) long and 4.59” (11.66cm) in circumference.

So, assuming you're telling the truth (penis size exaggeration is probably *the* most transparent lie men tell on Fab) you're actually something like 31% longer than and 8% thicker than "normal".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts!

Seem to be a full range of answers out there so I guess it just goes to show that everyone thinks a little bit differently on this matter. Always good to see everyone’s opinion on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter to me as it’s not what I’m after but if someone snipped the end off mine making it shorter I’d be pretty disappointed. Also on route to the hospital since someone chopped my peen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a little more lol.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Size does matter , big dicks seem to be popular

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Because of the all pervasive influence of pornography? This can have an effect on boys and men i.e perceiving they are underendowed, just as for teenage girls and women on breast size. We are obsessed with size!!!

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Not good for us as a society where we are all unique.

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By *r Bee 21Man
over a year ago

Warwick

We like it tight or should I just speak for myself

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By *atangMan
over a year ago

bolton

No

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?"

Enormously!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking length, girth or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a deal breaker but the bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But I can sympathise and understand how it would matter to people that haven’t got a beautiful perfectly sized penis like mine.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

To the extent that I'm hapoy with mine, then yes!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Mine is big enough for me.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Unless I put an ice pack on mine, I can't change it,,so you either have to love it or hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size makes no difference to me. I would rather have all foreplay than penetration.

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton


"Depends if you're 12th in line, by that time my cunt has swollen up like a puffer fish and you'd need a dick like a cotton bud to gain entry "

Fucking brilliant

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton


"I know it’s a bit of a cliche question but just like to find out the thoughts of the wonderful fab world

So Personally I am just over 7.5 inches X 5 inches (above average but I know it’s not amazing lol!) and I’ve had plenty of partners say it’s the biggest they’ve had and plenty say they’ve had a lot bigger

So just like to find out if penis size really matters to you or not?

Not seen a 'does size matter' post for a while, and you know what answers always come, which does make me think that congratulating ones owm penis without saying so, by saying bigger ones are out there.... but not by your feedback, is a nice touch. Comments about your big cock ensues.

Of course if I'm wrong, ignore all this. Ta "
yep nail on the head here

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Anything average and above is good for me but the really HUGE ones hurt a lot. A very small one doesn't attract me as much I'll admit. At the end though sex is still the greatest thing on Earth, small or large dick lol

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sure mine is shrinking ! To much use or old age !!!

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