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Sympathy shag.............?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?"

Are they hot?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.

Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?

Are they hot?"

This and also, how horny am I?

If I'm. Horny and want to fuck I don't really care if I think they're throwing me a sympathy fuck, I'll use them if they're willing to lower their standards to get their dick wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bittersweet Sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would most likely resort to Jill or her sister palmela as sympathy shag would probably not hit the spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?

Are they hot?"

Medium but with a bored face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bittersweet Sympathy "

Good tune

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.

Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen."

Yeah it's a strange feeling. Grey apathy. I'm probably reflecting that back at them though. (Big sigh)

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

And when you climb into your bed tonight, And when you lock and bolt the door, Just think of those out in the cold and dark, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round

And sympathy is what we need my friend, And sympathy is what we need, And sympathy is what we need my friend, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round, No there's not enough love to go 'round

Now half the world hates the other half, And half the world has all the food, And half the world lies down and quietly starves, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round

And sympathy is what we need my friend, And sympathy is what we need, And sympathy is what we need my friend, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round, No there's not enough love to go 'round

(Sympathy, Rare Bird, 1969)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It depends on how much I liked them and how horny I was at the time. I'd rather shag for better reasons but I'm not above taking a sympathy shag from the right person at the right time!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Bittersweet Sympathy

Good tune "

Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'll tell you afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to fook off as I have more respect for myself and there will be much better out there than them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Tell them to fook off as I have more respect for myself and there will be much better out there than them "

Like me - for instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be hornier than a d*unk nun, and I still wouldn’t accept a sympathy shag under any circumstances. Think of the self-respect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bittersweet Sympathy

Good tune

Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy "

You've got some Verve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll tell you afterwards. "

You'll have to do me from behind so I can't see the look of disgust and horror on your face.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Yes i think I could, especially if it was from a female who's wearing a strapon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could be hornier than a d*unk nun, and I still wouldn’t accept a sympathy shag under any circumstances. Think of the self-respect!"

I have no self respect. B&M sold out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bittersweet Sympathy

Good tune

Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy

You've got some Verve "

Hahhaha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'll tell you afterwards.

You'll have to do me from behind so I can't see the look of disgust and horror on your face. "

I can live with that.

Send your Postcode via pm please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?"

Sorry...when you offered i thought it was a joke! Oh go on then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "

Not sure whether to laugh or cry at that one

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

No not really! That's why we have batteries hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know. Are they trying to cheer you up, and do you need cheering up in which case you could make it fun somehow and just enjoy it for what it was. Do they think you are just desperate for sex, in which case I may not bother, I mean they would have to like and be a bit keen themselves to be able to perform as it were but maybe just do something else more wholesome with them in the time you would have been shagging instead

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs


"I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.

Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen.

Yeah it's a strange feeling. Grey apathy. I'm probably reflecting that back at them though. (Big sigh)"

I’m taking from your comments that this is an offer you’ve received? To be honest I’m not sure how I’d feel about it. A small part of me is “well, at least I get to shag them” but then again I’d struggle to get into it if they weren’t into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now I’d do it cos I’m so horny I’d probably ride their dick to the nub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean are they gonna slack and make it look like they are doing me a favour? Cos if that’s the case they can F off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancy her, shag her anyway. Got to be better than a wank..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "

This is quite cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine getting particularly turned on if I were aware someone is going to shag me out of sympathy

I think if need to re-evaluate quite a lot!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Bittersweet Sympathy

Good tune

Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy

You've got some Verve "

That's because the drugs don't work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In retrospect I'm now convinced every shag I've had has been a sympathy shag

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I can't imagine getting particularly turned on if I were aware someone is going to shag me out of sympathy

I think if need to re-evaluate quite a lot! "
So true! Not flattering but each to their own.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

What the hell is a sympathy shag??

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?"

Got to the shag bit and put on my coat

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’d like to say I would refuse but in reality would probably just go for it xx

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What the hell is a sympathy shag??"

Every shag I’ve had

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By *hris55555Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Let’s all just be sympathetic with each other

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "
hilarious xx

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

Just have it

It’s their loss. I’ll be done in 4 minutes and off on my merry way

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By *acksparrow99Man
over a year ago

Canary Wharf, London


"Sympathy shag = draw a sad face on my dildo "

Roll it 180 degrees and it's happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont know. Are they trying to cheer you up, and do you need cheering up in which case you could make it fun somehow and just enjoy it for what it was. Do they think you are just desperate for sex, in which case I may not bother, I mean they would have to like and be a bit keen themselves to be able to perform as it were but maybe just do something else more wholesome with them in the time you would have been shagging instead "

Hmm good points there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What the hell is a sympathy shag??"

When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.

Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the hell is a sympathy shag??

When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.

Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing... "

My opinions of you have slightly changed after that coconut chocolates comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was an offer when I read the thread title

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Shag them lol

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"I thought this was an offer when I read the thread title"

From a hidden blank profile.... Nah mate keep fabbing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. I feel that most of the men I've met just looked at me as a body anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was an offer when I read the thread title

From a hidden blank profile.... Nah mate keep fabbing lol "

Dammit

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't do sympathy fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x"

Fuckin hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x

Fuckin hell"

Yip that's what I said to myself

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x"

What an absolute bell end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x

Fuckin hell

Yip that's what I said to myself "

well I only have a few weeks left, fancy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x

What an absolute bell end "

To this day, I don't know if he was actually telling the truth or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x

What an absolute bell end

To this day, I don't know if he was actually telling the truth or not x"

IS he still on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he is but he's on my "b" list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes he is but he's on my "b" list x"

Weeell, glad he's not dead then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What the hell is a sympathy shag??

When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.

Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing...

My opinions of you have slightly changed after that coconut chocolates comment "

For the better I hope!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought this was an offer when I read the thread title

From a hidden blank profile.... Nah mate keep fabbing lol "

Wet hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?

Try and get them to admit it

Shag them anyway

Or....?"

Do ppl really do sympathy shags?

I always thought it was something men say as an excuse because they couldn't get any better

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x"

Self diagnosed blue balls, I’ve only a month left

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over a year ago

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If I was attracted to them I probably wouldn't particularly care what their motivation was. In fact, I might even become tragic more often. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrremmm

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No it would be an immediate turn off

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

My mrs is thinking just that

My friend is in a no sex marriage and hes desperate fo a bit of attention .we have been discussing my mrs fuck him every now n then just as we feel sorry for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you pat them on the head and say aww?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Do you pat them on the head and say aww? "

So that's why she did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I would take a sympathy shag so ling as there was some reciprocation in the loving

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Have had 6 sympathy fucks in 28 years from a special friend. Enjoyed each one

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I can't even get a sympathy shag these days. I'd kill for pity shag Two years without a proper shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mrs is thinking just that

My friend is in a no sex marriage and hes desperate fo a bit of attention .we have been discussing my mrs fuck him every now n then just as we feel sorry for him "

The vicar will be proud of you.

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By *ld GreyMan
over a year ago

Aintree


"I can't even get a sympathy shag these days. I'd kill for pity shag Two years without a proper shag "

You think two years me it's 5 split with ex 5 years ago I couldn't even get a brass. Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gosh I would take a sympathy shag so ling as there was some reciprocation in the loving"

What if she keeps her eyes closed the whole time and has a bit of a frown?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"What the hell is a sympathy shag??"

Its when she keeps screaming "oh God, oh God, oh God..." , but in her head she's thinking 'when will this be over'.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ll take the fuck…have you seen the state of me just lately

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

I have, basically with exes, works both ways.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Wouldn’t say no

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Neither last thing i would want is to shag anyone for all tbe wrong reasons

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Neither last thing i would want is to shag anyone for all tbe wrong reasons "

There are right reasons??

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I could do with one tonight, to be honest.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I could do with one tonight, to be honest.

"

I promise not to cry

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I could do with one tonight, to be honest.

I promise not to cry "

Damn. If only I was 98 years old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long"

What is upsetting?

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long

What is upsetting? "

The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long

What is upsetting?

The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul."

Hope it was a happy cry.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

If theres connection, atraction and chemestry and if they are keen on me as much as i am keen on them .

Doing something for sympathy sounds almost like doing something for charity

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"My mrs is thinking just that

My friend is in a no sex marriage and hes desperate fo a bit of attention .we have been discussing my mrs fuck him every now n then just as we feel sorry for him "

Fuck I hope this is me

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long

What is upsetting?

The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul.

Hope it was a happy cry. "

Not really

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