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"Look at Lucy Locket Loves - they have just bought out a new line of reflective clothing including bobble hats! Also their leggings are the best!! So comfortable and really great patterns (couple of photos on my profile ![]() That's such a great advice. Thanks. I'll get the app too. ![]() | |||
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"Look at Lucy Locket Loves - they have just bought out a new line of reflective clothing including bobble hats! Also their leggings are the best!! So comfortable and really great patterns (couple of photos on my profile ![]() Wow thanks, that's really helpful advice! | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link " ^^ this. I use midnights app to track her as well ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Look at reflect360 or provis. Also think about how you wear your hair, where you run, carrying ID. I use roadID as I run without a phone or wallet. Make sure someone knows you’re running and your route. Sorry to say men don’t need all this advice | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() How I wear my hair? | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Don’t make it easy for someone to grab! A long ponytail May look great hanging out of a cap but for a predator it’s a target | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Men have a higher chance of being attacked by a stranger on the street than women, they are also equally likely to be hit by a car of not wearing adequate lighting or hi viz clothing. A head torch is great if you're running in real darkness like off road/trail but most places you can see where you're going just fine. The issue is being seen by drivers. Reflective clothing and flashing armbands are great for this. Try not to buy into the media hysteria about being attacked and dragged off while out running. Women absolutely are often victimised but this is far more likely to happen in a pub/club/night out in town setting or indeed by a man you already have in your life. The reason stories like Sarah Everard's hit so hard is that they are so rare. The two other women killed each week by their partners are so mundane no one cares enough to report their stories. That said, taking precautions is a sensible idea - try to run different routes/days/times so you don't have a regular pattern, as others have said, ditch the earphones. Strava and Garmin both support safety tracking whereby a trusted friend or relative can track you in pretty much real time. Winter running seems daunting but it can also be a good way to fight the winter blues with some endorphins. Good luck. Mr | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() It isn’t hysteria. I am a seasoned runner with many female running friends that have relayed some harrowing experiences to me. Don’t be a man and minimise the risk to females by balancing up the likelihood to suit your narrative. Very disappointing | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() And I have my own harrowing story of being attacked and very nearly killed. For a long time after this I found going out at night really hard and scary. Learning to deal with my fear was incredibly liberating. OP, feel free to PM NBVN, she regularly runs alone in the dark and is always happy to chat about running. Mr | |||
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" How I wear my hair? Don’t make it easy for someone to grab! A long ponytail May look great hanging out of a cap but for a predator it’s a target" This ^ One tip I was taught at an early age. I always tuck my hair in my clothes / coat when walking after dark | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Read paragraph 1 and 3 of your response if ever there was case of minimising impact on women it’s there. I am sorry for your experience I wouldnt wish it on anyone but having gone through that I’d expect better understanding and empathy of risks faced specifically by woman. I stand by what I said a very Man response and very disappointing | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Go to a gym and use a treadmill. " ![]() | |||
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"It's not just women,just as many men are attacked, every one needs to be careful,take off the headphones,be aware and ideally run with someone else or a group,mainly use common sense and you should be fine,as another poster said,the reason it's all over the news is because it's not that common,don't let others change the things you enjoy or they have wine. Just be sensible and above all enjoy you runs" But this post is a woman asking for advice that's why it's relevant that people are mentioning women and safety when running. | |||
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"It's not just women,just as many men are attacked, every one needs to be careful,take off the headphones,be aware and ideally run with someone else or a group,mainly use common sense and you should be fine,as another poster said,the reason it's all over the news is because it's not that common,don't let others change the things you enjoy or they have wine. Just be sensible and above all enjoy you runs" Sorry wone not wine, autocorrect | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Could you find a running buddy or just stick to very well lit areas where you know there maybe a lot of foot traffic | |||
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"Thanks everyone, I'll definitely get some lights, there are just so many options and I wasn't sure if a head torch would bounce all over the place and be annoying while running, does anyone use one? The ponytail thing hadn't actually occurred to me ![]() There are plenty out there… they don’t tend to move at all and personally I have a rechargeable one… like anything you get what you pay for. GoOutdoors used to do them and you can try them on … good luck | |||
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"It might be worth investing in a gym membership for the colder/darker months Many of the big 24/7 gyms have no joining fee or contract, and very reasonably priced. Join for 4-5 months when the weather turns and leave once it gets warmer/lighter again " Yeah, I guess I could do. But I find them boring and I enjoy being outside (plus it's free!), so I was hoping to find ways to stay outside but feel a bit safer. The gym is always an option though. | |||
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"If you want to listen to music, invest in some aftershokz as they don't go in your ear (they're bone conductors) so you can still hear what's going on around you. To keep warm, I've got nice running gloves with reflective steps, and I wear a head band rather than a full hat. " I’ve been looking at those headphones and they get amazing reviews and aren’t scarily priced either | |||
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"It might be worth investing in a gym membership for the colder/darker months Many of the big 24/7 gyms have no joining fee or contract, and very reasonably priced. Join for 4-5 months when the weather turns and leave once it gets warmer/lighter again Yeah, I guess I could do. But I find them boring and I enjoy being outside (plus it's free!), so I was hoping to find ways to stay outside but feel a bit safer. The gym is always an option though." Couldn’t agree more, but for me the winter makes running not fun. Wet, cold, miserable. The gym fixed that and I get to do different kinds of cardio, some weights, mix it up. Most of the time I just put the treadmill on 15% inclined and catch up on Netflix or txt friends. It’s a great workout, very low impact and since it’s at a walking pace being as to use my phone or watch shows makes the time fly | |||
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"If you want to listen to music, invest in some aftershokz as they don't go in your ear (they're bone conductors) so you can still hear what's going on around you. To keep warm, I've got nice running gloves with reflective steps, and I wear a head band rather than a full hat. " I have just gotten a set of those, they are ace! If it’s a good time for you, run during commuting time, lots more people passing by. Chance for injury increases in winter months too, so always let someone know where you are going | |||
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"Thanks everyone, I'll definitely get some lights, there are just so many options and I wasn't sure if a head torch would bounce all over the place and be annoying while running, does anyone use one? The ponytail thing hadn't actually occurred to me ![]() I don't like anything on my head. I have a chest torch, front & back light. Very comfortable to wear. | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link " I use Strava but switched the tracking stuff off as I don't want random strangers seeing where I run. Does anyone know if I set it up to share with a friend, will that friend be able to track my phone constantly or just when I'm 'recording' a run? | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link I use Strava but switched the tracking stuff off as I don't want random strangers seeing where I run. Does anyone know if I set it up to share with a friend, will that friend be able to track my phone constantly or just when I'm 'recording' a run? " Google "strava beacon" .. It shares your live location with up to three people.. It will be more worthwhile if you tell people the time you expect to be back on your street | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() You could post on Facebook or NextDoor for an evening running partner, I responded to a post from a female for this exact reason and we ended up running together regularly. The other option is just join a local running club. If you prefer to run alone and are concerned about being jumped , don’t wear earphones, carry an alarm device, plan the route in well lit areas, wear your performance runners ![]() | |||
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"It might be worth investing in a gym membership for the colder/darker months Many of the big 24/7 gyms have no joining fee or contract, and very reasonably priced. Join for 4-5 months when the weather turns and leave once it gets warmer/lighter again Yeah, I guess I could do. But I find them boring and I enjoy being outside (plus it's free!), so I was hoping to find ways to stay outside but feel a bit safer. The gym is always an option though. Couldn’t agree more, but for me the winter makes running not fun. Wet, cold, miserable. The gym fixed that and I get to do different kinds of cardio, some weights, mix it up. Most of the time I just put the treadmill on 15% inclined and catch up on Netflix or txt friends. It’s a great workout, very low impact and since it’s at a walking pace being as to use my phone or watch shows makes the time fly " I love winter endurance running but more in late Dec/jan when you get cold bright days . I’m usually bulking a little over winter so will put on warm clothes , 5k backpack with drinks and snacks and go for a long slow jog through the countryside, take a few breaks and run 15-20 miles over about 4 hours | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh what about asking on your local street /neighbour whatsapp? | |||
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"I'm sorry but it comes to something when women are asking for safety advice and being told to hide their ponytail!" I agree it’s shocking that is the works we live in.i know of two female running friends that have both been verbally and physically assaulted (unprovoked) on both occasions the person attacking grabbed their ponytails and pulled them off the road they were running on. It makes me very angry | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link I use Strava but switched the tracking stuff off as I don't want random strangers seeing where I run. Does anyone know if I set it up to share with a friend, will that friend be able to track my phone constantly or just when I'm 'recording' a run? " If you have Whatsapp then you used to be able to use the tracker on their and add selected friends only. Might be worth looking into? | |||
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"It might be worth investing in a gym membership for the colder/darker months Many of the big 24/7 gyms have no joining fee or contract, and very reasonably priced. Join for 4-5 months when the weather turns and leave once it gets warmer/lighter again Yeah, I guess I could do. But I find them boring and I enjoy being outside (plus it's free!), so I was hoping to find ways to stay outside but feel a bit safer. The gym is always an option though. Couldn’t agree more, but for me the winter makes running not fun. Wet, cold, miserable. The gym fixed that and I get to do different kinds of cardio, some weights, mix it up. Most of the time I just put the treadmill on 15% inclined and catch up on Netflix or txt friends. It’s a great workout, very low impact and since it’s at a walking pace being as to use my phone or watch shows makes the time fly I love winter endurance running but more in late Dec/jan when you get cold bright days . I’m usually bulking a little over winter so will put on warm clothes , 5k backpack with drinks and snacks and go for a long slow jog through the countryside, take a few breaks and run 15-20 miles over about 4 hours" That sounds pretty nice but I just couldn’t get into it Give me those summer days when you can take your shirt off and get a tan on a long slow run any day. But those cold, bleak winter days? Find me in the gym walking up the treadmill rewatching the office | |||
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"I'm sorry but it comes to something when women are asking for safety advice and being told to hide their ponytail! I agree it’s shocking that is the works we live in.i know of two female running friends that have both been verbally and physically assaulted (unprovoked) on both occasions the person attacking grabbed their ponytails and pulled them off the road they were running on. It makes me very angry" I shall avoid a ponytail, I hadn't even thought of this ![]() | |||
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"I'm sorry but it comes to something when women are asking for safety advice and being told to hide their ponytail! I agree it’s shocking that is the works we live in.i know of two female running friends that have both been verbally and physically assaulted (unprovoked) on both occasions the person attacking grabbed their ponytails and pulled them off the road they were running on. It makes me very angry I shall avoid a ponytail, I hadn't even thought of this ![]() If you start worrying about every little detail like that, you'll put yourself off going out at all | |||
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"Does anyone have any practical tips for running in the dark safely during winter? I only started running a few months ago but suddenly the evenings are getting darker and I'm feeling slightly more nervous ![]() ![]() Yep don’t do it ! Stay warm safe ! Blue brrrrr x ![]() | |||
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"It might be worth investing in a gym membership for the colder/darker months Many of the big 24/7 gyms have no joining fee or contract, and very reasonably priced. Join for 4-5 months when the weather turns and leave once it gets warmer/lighter again Yeah, I guess I could do. But I find them boring and I enjoy being outside (plus it's free!), so I was hoping to find ways to stay outside but feel a bit safer. The gym is always an option though. Couldn’t agree more, but for me the winter makes running not fun. Wet, cold, miserable. The gym fixed that and I get to do different kinds of cardio, some weights, mix it up. Most of the time I just put the treadmill on 15% inclined and catch up on Netflix or txt friends. It’s a great workout, very low impact and since it’s at a walking pace being as to use my phone or watch shows makes the time fly I love winter endurance running but more in late Dec/jan when you get cold bright days . I’m usually bulking a little over winter so will put on warm clothes , 5k backpack with drinks and snacks and go for a long slow jog through the countryside, take a few breaks and run 15-20 miles over about 4 hours That sounds pretty nice but I just couldn’t get into it Give me those summer days when you can take your shirt off and get a tan on a long slow run any day. But those cold, bleak winter days? Find me in the gym walking up the treadmill rewatching the office " I prefer running when it’s cold as I find it much easier ![]() | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link I use Strava but switched the tracking stuff off as I don't want random strangers seeing where I run. Does anyone know if I set it up to share with a friend, will that friend be able to track my phone constantly or just when I'm 'recording' a run? " Yes, depends how you use Strava. If you record directly on the app on your phone it gives you the option to use Buddy Beacon. If you record on a different device then up load then no, it won't work. Some Garmin devices allow safety tracking. I use this when running on the mountains. One of the big advantages is that I can plot a route then when I turn it on, her ladyship gets an email with a link that shows my route, where I am on (or off that route) and how fast I'm moving. Once you have planned a route you can use it as many times as you like, you just select it at the start of a run, turn on safety tracking on the Garmin connect app on your phone and your designated safety numbers get a mail. Because my Garmin is linked with Strava this automatically turns on Stravas version and C gets a text from them too. As above, you can change your Strava settings so that people have to request to follow you, though you can always see who does and block them if you want. You can also choose a security setting where you set a distance around your home that doesn't display on your route maps so strangers can't work out where your house is. You asked about head torch light bobbing around, no they don't. A good light only moves with your head so it always points the same way relative to where you are looking. I often run off road on mountainous terrain with one and its fine. Mr | |||
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"You can also use a tracking app - strava etc and send a mate /family member a link I use Strava but switched the tracking stuff off as I don't want random strangers seeing where I run. Does anyone know if I set it up to share with a friend, will that friend be able to track my phone constantly or just when I'm 'recording' a run? Yes, depends how you use Strava. If you record directly on the app on your phone it gives you the option to use Buddy Beacon. If you record on a different device then up load then no, it won't work. Some Garmin devices allow safety tracking. I use this when running on the mountains. One of the big advantages is that I can plot a route then when I turn it on, her ladyship gets an email with a link that shows my route, where I am on (or off that route) and how fast I'm moving. Once you have planned a route you can use it as many times as you like, you just select it at the start of a run, turn on safety tracking on the Garmin connect app on your phone and your designated safety numbers get a mail. Because my Garmin is linked with Strava this automatically turns on Stravas version and C gets a text from them too. As above, you can change your Strava settings so that people have to request to follow you, though you can always see who does and block them if you want. You can also choose a security setting where you set a distance around your home that doesn't display on your route maps so strangers can't work out where your house is. You asked about head torch light bobbing around, no they don't. A good light only moves with your head so it always points the same way relative to where you are looking. I often run off road on mountainous terrain with one and its fine. Mr" Thanks, that's really helpful! ![]() | |||
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"Head torches Amazon £12 reflected rain coat Primark £20 all you need but I away do town runs with streetlights this time of year so will not need a torch. Also, remember to dress up warm bet for your mussels do not need to punish yourself going out cold." (Bet) better... | |||
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"I’ve got a running light off of Amazon it’s more like a harness and a head torch which is quite good and got some for got myself some fluorescent like fleece thing from sports direct " Forgot to add as well my running harness light has got a light at the back as well so as well anyone coming up behind can see the light as well which is red so helps as well | |||
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