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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I signed up last year and have not used this because virus etc, now I’m vacs, i started messaging last weekend.

Many message not getting read (is this because females get hundreds a day and it’s like lottery to get read)

No direct message from people, could any female maybe give me some pointers of what you think or improve my profile or message please, thanks in advanced

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

We going to start charging for advise how to improve profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long.. Which would be ok, if it was interesting.... with correct spelling / sentence structure.. I gave up.

Tag line made me roll my eyes

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Your profile needs a serious amount of work to even begin standing out.

Good luck Op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So long.. Which would be ok, if it was interesting.... with correct spelling / sentence structure.. I gave up.

Tag line made me roll my eyes "

What she said ^

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There is no point in a time giving profile advice because then your profile won't reflect who you are.

All I will say is your profile is your shop window and entices people in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I absolutely hated your profile. Sorry. It’s far too ‘in your face’ with all the sexual stuff. You seem completely full of yourself, and reek of desperation.

Less is more, my friend, less is more.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I changed it now as apparently it was too much information describing sexual stuff lol, I thought this was that kinda site. I rather just send message to someone privately

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man "

I thought it was just me who always reverse searched pics

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile needs a serious amount of work to even begin standing out.

Good luck Op!"

This

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man

I thought it was just me who always reverse searched pics

LvM"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man

I thought it was just me who always reverse searched pics

LvM"

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man

I thought it was just me who always reverse searched pics

LvM

Nope "

Nope same here. First thing I did when I looked at OP's profile.

Found a female account on here that had pics that had been fabbed over 2000 times which were taken from various porn sites.

So many saddos and fantasists around unfortunately

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and use a real pic not a stock pic..... Google lens is our friend young man "

Oh dear

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I changed it now as apparently it was too much information describing sexual stuff lol, I thought this was that kinda site. I rather just send message to someone privately"

I didn't see your original essay but my advice to the short version is that it could do with something more specific. My personal opinion is that if it is too generic, the reader doesn't get a sense of who you are and you won't stand out.

You really ought to upload a picture, too, obviously of yourself. If not of your face then a tasteful body picture that shows enough of you to get a general idea. Doesn't have to be in underwear.

Messages should be personalised to the profile you are messaging. But your message won't even be read if the profile is not enticing.

Good luck!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I changed it now as apparently it was too much information describing sexual stuff lol, I thought this was that kinda site. I rather just send message to someone privately

I didn't see your original essay but my advice to the short version is that it could do with something more specific. My personal opinion is that if it is too generic, the reader doesn't get a sense of who you are and you won't stand out.

You really ought to upload a picture, too, obviously of yourself. If not of your face then a tasteful body picture that shows enough of you to get a general idea. Doesn't have to be in underwear.

Messages should be personalised to the profile you are messaging. But your message won't even be read if the profile is not enticing.

Good luck!"

He did have a pic.... It wasnt him

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"He did have a pic.... It wasnt him "

That's why I said the picture should be of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people join if they don't know how to put a profile together.

I mean really, have you never done it before......

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