FabSwingers.com forum: Why do gays and tv/ts message when I’m straight

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do I keep getting messages off gays and tv/ts always telling me then need to suck my cock as they are better than women at it when my profile says I’m straight and looking for females haha can anybody help me out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it)

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You have a particular look OP

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I guess it comes down to the old saying, ‘Nothing ventured, nothing gained.’

I always choose to take it as a compliment myself.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You can set your filters from your Account to block men, TV's etc from messaging you, unless of course you secretly enjoy the attention

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why do I keep getting messages off gays and tv/ts always telling me then need to suck my cock as they are better than women at it when my profile says I’m straight and looking for females haha can anybody help me out haha"

Why have you not blocked them from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your message filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can set it so you can't be messaged if you don't want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like it, use your filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha no I don’t it’s not abit of me haha

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By *urvywomanWoman
over a year ago

New Longton

Use your filters, great function which really does work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why have you not blocked them from messaging you?"

I didn’t know I could do that haha I will have a look for it now thank you

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"You can set your filters from your Account to block men, TV's etc from messaging you, unless of course you secretly enjoy the attention

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So true!

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use your filters, great function which really does work."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a particular look OP

Beat me to it

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I guess they're not wrong- who better than a man to know how to give the best blow job?

There are alot of guys who state that they're straight but would meet with a gay man, TV, or TS so I suppose the worst that can happen is that you'll say no..

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Because may you have looked at theirs profile in first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have a particular look OP

Beat me to it

Haha do I jump on grinder then haha

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it)"
You are definitely safe! They? hahahaha

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Take it as a compliment pal.

I get more fabs and views from TVs and men than I do from women and couples.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You have a particular look OP

Beat me to it

This means we bum now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can.

Block whoever you don't want to message you on privacy settings.

Then when you do, don't moan about your lack of messages

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Take it as a compliment pal.

I get more fabs and views from TVs and men than I do from women and couples."
Swingers site and someone not comfortable with a little attention? I think i'm going to Narnia everyone so butt hurt these days.

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it) You are definitely safe! They? hahahaha"

I'll chat to anyone but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to anyone. Believe it or not there's even women I don't find attractive, but I still chat to friendly ones x

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Let me tell you, I chat with more men who are married, straight etc. Than people who are openly gay or bi on here.

No judgement, but it’s not uncommon for straight identifying guys to enjoy at least a bit of a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can set your filters from your Account to block men, TV's etc from messaging you, unless of course you secretly enjoy the attention

Exactly

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Because they can.

Block whoever you don't want to message you on privacy settings.

Then when you do, don't moan about your lack of messages

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it) You are definitely safe! They? hahahaha

I'll chat to anyone but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to anyone. Believe it or not there's even women I don't find attractive, but I still chat to friendly ones x"
obviously! Exactly don't fancy everyone but still can be friendly, I'm sure not every man or women fancies everyone. Haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it) You are definitely safe! They? hahahaha

I'll chat to anyone but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to anyone. Believe it or not there's even women I don't find attractive, but I still chat to friendly ones x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a particular look OP

Beat me to it

Haha do I jump on grinder then haha"

It’s Grindr

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Because they can. We all get some but thankfully I'm getting fewer these days. I think my profile explains it (if they bother to read it) You are definitely safe! They? hahahaha

I'll chat to anyone but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to anyone. Believe it or not there's even women I don't find attractive, but I still chat to friendly ones x

I agree with you I will happily chat with anybody I’m a genuine bloke but message after message of the same thing. (Send me your address I want to suck your cock now) kind of gets annoying haha but I know where the block button is now haha "
Omg as if they ask for your address without hardly knowing you! I mean that is taking thirst to a whole new level.

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sighs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best people I chat to on here are men (gay, bi, straight and all the inbetweeners)and TV/TS people. So I wouldn't block everyone for the few that don't respect boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*"

Smile you sexy little minx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean iv had those message too but when I politely reply saying no thank you, I’ve actually ended up having decent conversation, discussing varying things (non sexual) with some

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Why do straight men message me when I’m looking for women?

I think folk are just tryouts no their luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do straight men message me when I’m looking for women?

I think folk are just tryouts no their luck. "

It's because you have sexy socks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x"

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

Read the occasional message I send you Kylie and you'll smile xxxx

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Because they think fab grind you down enough that you'll take a blow job from anyone, just go to settings and turn off single male from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy bairns get nout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You love it lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

So many people lie about their sexuality on here so they are just trying their luck and hoping you aren't as straight as you say you are. If it's an issue then why not just block them from messaging you?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

You're gonna get even more messages now you've mentioned it..

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

To be fair in your status you want to meet "anyone"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

Read the occasional message I send you Kylie and you'll smile xxxx"

I’m terrible at replying

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just in case your “ fab straight”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

Read the occasional message I send you Kylie and you'll smile xxxx

I’m terrible at replying

xx "

Hadn’t noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

Read the occasional message I send you Kylie and you'll smile xxxx

I’m terrible at replying

Hadn’t noticed

Shuuuuuutttt up x

I get flooded in messages I just don’t do it on purpose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First world problems.

Guys sounds like he’s boasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*sighs*

Smile you sexy little minx x

I’m in mardy bum mode today … I’m sorry x

Read the occasional message I send you Kylie and you'll smile xxxx

I’m terrible at replying

Hadn’t noticed

Shuuuuuutttt up x

I get flooded in messages I just don’t do it on purpose x

I didn’t say anything

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"First world problems.

Guys sounds like he’s boasting

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A few do that! So true you going to Narnia too? Hahahaha

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Take it as a compliment pal.

I get more fabs and views from TVs and men than I do from women and couples. Swingers site and someone not comfortable with a little attention? I think i'm going to Narnia everyone so butt hurt these days.

hahaha "

What do you mean?

I did say to OP to take it as a compliment....?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Why do single men message when couples say not to?

I’d you don’t want it, just turn them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply adapt your filters in settings to exclude us gurls (problem solved).

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

block em..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they wanna

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I guess they're not wrong- who better than a man to know how to give the best blow job?

There are alot of guys who state that they're straight but would meet with a gay man, TV, or TS so I suppose the worst that can happen is that you'll say no..

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience, most straight guys like to play in discreet. And it's always worth taking a chance to message them.

I accept the comments back of refusal or disgust. That's the whole point of communication. You learn from your mistakes. And it's also exciting to try your luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are like straight guys who message women...optimists!

When I first joined I had far more messages from gay men/gay couples than women. I simply politely declined, no need to get nasty about it.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Straight guys message me although my profile states I’m not interested. It’s a site that can have people create a profile very quickly and then try their luck with anyone who’s actively on the site at that time. That’s why women or couples can get hundreds of messages every day.

You’ve already been advised about filters I wish I had one to stop ‘straight’ guys from messaging me, but they don’t.

It’s the site and you have to get used to it’s disadvantages as much as it’s positive side.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

As others have said, change your filters.

Either way though, it's a compliment when anyone messages you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have said, change your filters.

Either way though, it's a compliment when anyone messages you

totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps they are like straight guys who message women...optimists!

When I first joined I had far more messages from gay men/gay couples than women. I simply politely declined, no need to get nasty about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they're not wrong- who better than a man to know how to give the best blow job?

There are alot of guys who state that they're straight but would meet with a gay man, TV, or TS so I suppose the worst that can happen is that you'll say no..

Or he might do it and actually enjoy it.

Sorry forgot to add the Jimmy Carr hahaha laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get those filters set, job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This.

Wise words from Steph as usual. x

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