FabSwingers.com forum: Secret bi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi what’s your opinion on secret bisexual males in partnerships.

They seem to be quite a lot around. Or is that just so that they can sleep with a female in the other couple.

We find it a turn on when people are honest about their sexuality.

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow

I’m bi but only discovered after marriage. I prefer the female touch but don’t kiss men. My wife is very religious and reserved so sexually isn’t adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in my younger years I just accept it

End up with a bunch off one hit wonders

Now though I don’t more looking for consistency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly nicer when people are/can be honest about their sexuality (assuming they're comfortable with it and even that they know themselves).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's certainly nicer when people are/can be honest about their sexuality (assuming they're comfortable with it and even that they know themselves).

I think sometimes people take a while to appreciate what their sexuality is. We have known we’ve been bisexual since our early 20s. And now it’s so important to us. Most of the time it’s the only people we play with.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

There are a lot of different situations.

- Guys who are confused by it

- Guys who know it but think it’s wrong

- Guys who are fine with it but just have a female partner

- Guys who pretend so they can meet women

- Guys who are straight but get so horny they’ll have a BJ of a guy (have seen this a lot on fabguys)

A case by case situation. I do agree it’s easier, simpler and more fun when people are honest in what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a lot of different situations.

- Guys who are confused by it

- Guys who know it but think it’s wrong

- Guys who are fine with it but just have a female partner

- Guys who pretend so they can meet women

- Guys who are straight but get so horny they’ll have a BJ of a guy (have seen this a lot on fabguys)

A case by case situation. I do agree it’s easier, simpler and more fun when people are honest in what they want. "

That makes complete sense. It’s just the honesty but I suppose if you’re confused as well it’s not that easy.

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I’m married but bi she not know but have met bi couples in past so I do enjoy being witn a gout as much as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi but mrs dont know, im very dom with women but extremely sub with guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the Mrs must be blind if she doesn't know that her husband is bi . I know that i would tipple if my wife was bi in the 1st month or before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi and was married for 30 years but knew she wouldn't except that side of me so hid it . I loved her so a small scarfice as I wasn't going to be unfaithful with anyone . Now im single im open on sites but still not with her as it would most likely ruin what friendship we still have left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG. There are so many on this site. And it's not always BI guys, It's straight guys as well. and I've discovered that the " straight guys" are much dirtier than the BI guys and Gay guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi what’s your opinion on secret bisexual males in partnerships.

They seem to be quite a lot around. Or is that just so that they can sleep with a female in the other couple.

We find it a turn on when people are honest about their sexuality."

The ones I know/knew were simply dishonest because they were petrified of being rejected by their objects of interests whose profile would say "no bi men". Misleading people is ugly thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi what’s your opinion on secret bisexual males in partnerships.

They seem to be quite a lot around. Or is that just so that they can sleep with a female in the other couple.

We find it a turn on when people are honest about their sexuality.

The ones I know/knew were simply dishonest because they were petrified of being rejected by their objects of interests whose profile would say "no bi men". Misleading people is ugly thing to do."

It’s true sadly.

Totally understand the worry some people. But be honest.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yesterday was national coming out day.

One day I wish that wouldn't be a thing, but the fact is, homophobia is rife (as as a part of an LGBTQ+ charity I had to deal with all the horrific comments yesterday)...

Male homosexually or bisexuality is the least acceptable it would seem, you only need to look at some of the comments made about a comic book character being announced as gay (Jon Kent) to see that (the same fans have no issue with Harley Quinn and Poison ivy being in a relationship).

There are many deep rooted reasons why this is. But the patriarchy has a lot to answer for.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I think that the Mrs must be blind if she doesn't know that her husband is bi . I know that i would tipple if my wife was bi in the 1st month or before

Really? How so? Because most people in the closet are exceptionally skilled at keeping it that way.

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