FabSwingers.com forum: Do you find it hard to meet up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First time posting and curious.

I've not met anyone on here yet and rarely meet on dating apps, once in a while I have.

Does anyone have a hard time finding people to meet with, and how long do you talk before meeting in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people particularly single guys find it very difficult on sites like this.

I think a lot depends on your outlook and expectation.

The best advice iv got is to try an organised social or maybe a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello welcome to the party

Depends on what I am looking at that particular time

Men easy insta shag anytime I want as long as I am not fussy

Couple hafe and hafe takes a bit longer to get a meet sorted

Woman prefer to take my time talk a little and stuff connect on a level above just sex

Tv/ts I know how long it takes us to look glamorous so no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First time posting and curious.

I've not met anyone on here yet and rarely meet on dating apps, once in a while I have.

Does anyone have a hard time finding people to meet with, and how long do you talk before meeting in person?"

Hey Jmac, just keep plodding away, get to a social or even a local club & active in the forums and just chat to people, break the ice and enjoy yourself.. You never know what'll happen.. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies.

Seems like it just takes some time to get involved with people worth while.

I've just been able to post to the forums. Not been in fab very long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies.

Seems like it just takes some time to get involved with people worth while.

I've just been able to post to the forums. Not been in fab very long"

Anything worthwhile takes time chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops wrote in wrong place lol.

Guess I need sleep zzz

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

"First time posting and curious.

I've not met anyone on here yet and rarely meet on dating apps, once in a while I have.

Does anyone have a hard time finding people to meet with, and how long do you talk before meeting in person?"

Takes a very long time for people to recognise your forum posts but some do take notice of what you comment and get a feel for you. Get a cam veri if you can for a starter, it's a good site and there are some great folk, it will take time to fiure the whole thing out but worth ticking with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies.

Seems like it just takes some time to get involved with people worth while.

I've just been able to post to the forums. Not been in fab very long

Anything worthwhile takes time chap "

Exactly! ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops wrote in wrong place lol.

Guess I need sleep zzz"

Was going to mention that Shortish.. But you deleted before I could lol.. I frequently put entries in the wrong logs at work owing to the system jumping

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oops wrote in wrong place lol.

Guess I need sleep zzz"

Haha sleep tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing stopping me is time and the cost and availability of fuel these days

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would only consider engaging in an initial chatting stage, if there was an indication of some compatibility on their profile. If the profile was a kind of 'here I am'....'looking to meet women', I would instantly give a polite no thank you.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

You’re profile doesn’t give much in the way of what your looking for or personality. You seem decent looking but a few more pics would help.

Also I keep getting distracted by your trousers cause it looks like your fly is down

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Hello welcome to the party

Depends on what I am looking at that particular time

Men easy insta shag anytime I want as long as I am not fussy

Couple hafe and hafe takes a bit longer to get a meet sorted

Woman prefer to take my time talk a little and stuff connect on a level above just sex

Tv/ts I know how long it takes us to look glamorous so no rush "

Great Post.

I think it's worth realising that as a male. The issue is not that it's hard to find someone to fuck. There will always be an abundance of males that want to fuck just about anything. The issue people have is in finding couples/women. So we men can all breathe a sigh of relief, there is always someone, some perverted human (mostly another male) getting their rocks off looking at you etc.

As a couple profile. You'll notice we mostly meet single men. Why? Well it's easy, about as easy as ordering an Uber. For couples/single women it requires time, patience, planning, basically a LOT of effort. Then it's like watching a rocket launch in the olden days when after all this preparation, you didn't know if it was going to take off, or blow up.

- I suspect that many single guys have relaxed their sexual attitudes in order to get a meet (with a another guy or TV)

We tend to use spas & adult parties for couple meets and I have my other avenues for finding single women (and luring them back to the marital bedroom for a threesome).

Statistically there are just far more available men that want to meet at any given time than couples and women. Perhaps 10x as many men with 10x the amount of free time in their flexible diary.

While females have the abundance of quantity (lots of eager males) issue solved. Their problem is difficulty in getting quality (or significant quantity of quality when they want it). Its the classic Employer-Employee problem but where there are far more job applicants than employers.

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