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"Get a few hobbies " This is not about myself | |||
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"How many of you live alone? Not only living alone at home but in the sense of the daily life where you have no family, you have no friends to come at your house just to chat or watch a movie or friends to go out,you have no one to open about yourself or talk about your worries or dreams, and the only time you are with people is when you go work. Is anyone living this situation? How do you cope? Yes this is my life but I do have friends and some family visit occasionally (rarely) and I bloody love it I don’t know how I cope I just do and my serenity is bliss, it’s not for everyone but it suits me fine " That's why my thread because i know is not for everyone | |||
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"Not currently but I did live like that for a few years. I found that learning to love my own company was essential, doing things that I enjoyed and take myself on ‘me dates’ on occasion was important as well. It doesn’t need to be purgatory nor seen as a bad thing, it can be a very enjoyable time " I completely agree with you , can be enjoyed , not my intention make this look like a bad thing but just know peoples experiences and what they do to cope with as i know loneliness most the times is not a choice | |||
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"Not currently but I did live like that for a few years. I found that learning to love my own company was essential, doing things that I enjoyed and take myself on ‘me dates’ on occasion was important as well. It doesn’t need to be purgatory nor seen as a bad thing, it can be a very enjoyable time I completely agree with you , can be enjoyed , not my intention make this look like a bad thing but just know peoples experiences and what they do to cope with as i know loneliness most the times is not a choice " That’s very true. Things like birthdays and Christmas were tough but other than that, it really wasn’t an issue | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full " Don't think is always by choice someone chosen to isolate itself | |||
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"I'm alone. Having 2 cats helps. I won't go in to all the details." Sending lots of to you | |||
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"Earlier in the year, this was definitely me. Mainly due to physical and mental health issues. I actually cut myself off from all my friends. It has got the point now where if I don't make the effort to get out and see them, I wouldn't see anyone" Sending keep strong | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full " You can live a good life alone. | |||
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"Earlier in the year, this was definitely me. Mainly due to physical and mental health issues. I actually cut myself off from all my friends. It has got the point now where if I don't make the effort to get out and see them, I wouldn't see anyone" This was definitely me for quite a long time after my car crash, because I had to use a wchair for a long time plus putting weight on being immobile I felt like everyone was staring at me and whispering about me, and I actually developed agoraphobia and was afraid to go out, in the worst period I didn't go out in months. Luckily I'm a lot better now but I still have to force myself to go out sometimes, and I do still struggle with my MH son, but not gonna lie it's been hard work! | |||
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"This is my life. After the last 18 months, you find out who is really there for you. Permanent working from home has been put in place. I'm ok. I cope. Friends are few and far between. But I invite guests when I want them, family, playmates or friends. I intend going back to the gym and thinking about a solo holiday in spring. I want a partner but its not the end of the world. Plus I love my home. " Loving ower own home is such a great feeling , completely the feel and meaning of that | |||
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"How many of you live alone? Not only living alone at home but in the sense of the daily life where you have no family, you have no friends to come at your house just to chat or watch a movie or friends to go out,you have no one to open about yourself or talk about your worries or dreams, and the only time you are with people is when you go work. Is anyone living this situation? How do you cope? " That’s life and it goes on | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full You can live a good life alone. " You can,, but I think it’s a limited life. For a start, swinging would be off limits | |||
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"I love being and living alone...nobody to answer to.. It's like wedded bliss .. " I supose that is true , living alone you have no one to answer | |||
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"I love being and living alone...nobody to answer to.. It's like wedded bliss .. I supose that is true , living alone you have no one to answer " But can be lonely (find your self talking to tv) | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full You can live a good life alone. You can,, but I think it’s a limited life. For a start, swinging would be off limits " Swing clubs are a good start point | |||
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"I enjoyed my time living alone. Peace and quiet is a wonderful thing if you enjoy your own company. I miss it. When my kids are in School and I have a day off work I sometimes just sit in the quiet and let it envelop me. I feel myself relax and distress. You either like it or you don’t I guess." De-stress! I’m in distress when my kids get home! ((love them really!!) | |||
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"I love being and living alone...nobody to answer to.. It's like wedded bliss .. I supose that is true , living alone you have no one to answer But can be lonely (find your self talking to tv)" That's where my question goes | |||
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"I live alone and spend most of my time alone. Sometimes it’s ok, but today I’ve really struggled. It’s been a beautiful day and everyone I knew was busy with their families. I didn’t want to spend another day alone but didn’t have anyone to do anything with. And of you go sit in sun in park your looked at like a freak " | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full You can live a good life alone. You can,, but I think it’s a limited life. For a start, swinging would be off limits " Confused... Swinging or whatever you call this is an activity that doesnt affect whether you live alone or not. | |||
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"I enjoyed my time living alone. Peace and quiet is a wonderful thing if you enjoy your own company. I miss it. When my kids are in School and I have a day off work I sometimes just sit in the quiet and let it envelop me. I feel myself relax and distress. You either like it or you don’t I guess." That is very important it allows you to have your own space in that period of time i would guess | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full You can live a good life alone. You can,, but I think it’s a limited life. For a start, swinging would be off limits Confused... Swinging or whatever you call this is an activity that doesnt affect whether you live alone or not. " So true | |||
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"I think we are social creatures and need others to listen to , talk to , laugh and cry with, share learn from and grow. If you are completely isolated then I would imagine it’s by choice and over time you get used to the safety of it and even enjoy but at a huge personal cost to growing and living life to the full You can live a good life alone. You can,, but I think it’s a limited life. For a start, swinging would be off limits " If its a life that someone chooses, it's not limited at all. I live my full life...on my own with occasional interactions of my choosing, including those of the swinging kind. T. | |||
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"How many of you live alone? Not only living alone at home but in the sense of the daily life where you have no family, you have no friends to come at your house just to chat or watch a movie or friends to go out,you have no one to open about yourself or talk about your worries or dreams, and the only time you are with people is when you go work. Is anyone living this situation? How do you cope? " They say you can be alone in a crowd. I Have been alone pretty much all my working life, i.have travelled the world many times over, airpory lounges, hotels, restaurants. It is a state of mind and is very difficult, but i guess for me it was my focus tjat got me through, focussed about who i am and my work. But for everyone it is different, you have to find your focus and be thenperson you want to be. | |||
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"Love the green day boulevard of broken dreams. My shadow's the only one that walks beside me My shallow heart's the only thing that's beating Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me Till then I walk alone…. " Posted by a couple | |||
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"I live alone and spend most of my time alone. Sometimes it’s ok, but today I’ve really struggled. It’s been a beautiful day and everyone I knew was busy with their families. I didn’t want to spend another day alone but didn’t have anyone to do anything with. And of you go sit in sun in park your looked at like a freak " Who says sitting out in the sun makes you a freak. Granted a man sitting aline in a busy children's play park is to be avoided obviously. | |||
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"Yup that's basically me. No family, lots of people I'm friendly with but none close, wasn't how I saw my life panning out but its how it is, bout 95% of the time I'm quite happy. Times when I long for company but what you gonna do, not going to cry over it. The serenity is a fair exchange. I've no worries, no rows or fall outs, no one messes the place or leaves crap lying around. My only worry is I'm getting more n more used to it and less inclined to meet people. I'd not choose this way of life but.... Its what I've got so gotta make most of it " Sending | |||
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"I live alone and spend most of my time alone. Sometimes it’s ok, but today I’ve really struggled. It’s been a beautiful day and everyone I knew was busy with their families. I didn’t want to spend another day alone but didn’t have anyone to do anything with. " Sending | |||
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"Yup that's basically me. No family, lots of people I'm friendly with but none close, wasn't how I saw my life panning out but its how it is, bout 95% of the time I'm quite happy. Times when I long for company but what you gonna do, not going to cry over it. The serenity is a fair exchange. I've no worries, no rows or fall outs, no one messes the place or leaves crap lying around. My only worry is I'm getting more n more used to it and less inclined to meet people. I'd not choose this way of life but.... Its what I've got so gotta make most of it Sending " Aww thank you xxx Reading it back it makes me sound like a saddo... I'm deffo not lol I've a good life and had a gut full of dramas so the quiet life is all good but ty xx | |||
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"I live alone and spend most of my time alone. Sometimes it’s ok, but today I’ve really struggled. It’s been a beautiful day and everyone I knew was busy with their families. I didn’t want to spend another day alone but didn’t have anyone to do anything with. And of you go sit in sun in park your looked at like a freak " I don’t feel like anyone would look at me like a freak, but on days when I’m lonely it makes it worse for me to do things alone that I want to be doing with other people | |||
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"I live alone and spend most of my time alone. Sometimes it’s ok, but today I’ve really struggled. It’s been a beautiful day and everyone I knew was busy with their families. I didn’t want to spend another day alone but didn’t have anyone to do anything with. Sending " Appreciated. Thank you. | |||
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"Yup that's basically me. No family, lots of people I'm friendly with but none close, wasn't how I saw my life panning out but its how it is, bout 95% of the time I'm quite happy. Times when I long for company but what you gonna do, not going to cry over it. The serenity is a fair exchange. I've no worries, no rows or fall outs, no one messes the place or leaves crap lying around. My only worry is I'm getting more n more used to it and less inclined to meet people. I'd not choose this way of life but.... Its what I've got so gotta make most of it Sending Aww thank you xxx Reading it back it makes me sound like a saddo... I'm deffo not lol I've a good life and had a gut full of dramas so the quiet life is all good but ty xx" No you haven't sounded like that at all , i completely understand your words | |||
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