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"I’ll say this. I list 5’9 because I’m 5’9. I get measured for competitions and I know I’m 5’9 Many girls take inches off their height. Apparently being shorter is better to them, and I’ve met many women then claimed to be 5’3 or 5’4 and were clearly 5’7 or 5’8 I don’t see the point in lying. You’ll disappoint them, and then yourself. I’d prefer to know height was an issue for them so I could just say no thanks. Only last week I was planning on going out on a date with a girl and she asked what I was looking for, I answer and asked her the same. She says the usual. Funny, kind, charming, likes animals…. And tall. Cancelled the date and said we weren’t right for eachother. There’s no need to lie and waste people’s time " Maybe she wanted a 5’9” tall? Like if a girl is 5’ then there’s still a height difference Maybe u should have asked for more deets x | |||
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"I have 6ft on mine, not because i am 6ft but because i am 5ft 11 and 1/2 and i couldnt put that, and since i dont work in cm's I decided 6ft was nearer that 5ft 11 (okay dont ask me i know its the same) !" I doubt people would notice that inch difference anyway. It’s when they say they are 6’ and in reality they are 5’8.5-9” | |||
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"I’ll say this. I list 5’9 because I’m 5’9. I get measured for competitions and I know I’m 5’9 Many girls take inches off their height. Apparently being shorter is better to them, and I’ve met many women then claimed to be 5’3 or 5’4 and were clearly 5’7 or 5’8 I don’t see the point in lying. You’ll disappoint them, and then yourself. I’d prefer to know height was an issue for them so I could just say no thanks. Only last week I was planning on going out on a date with a girl and she asked what I was looking for, I answer and asked her the same. She says the usual. Funny, kind, charming, likes animals…. And tall. Cancelled the date and said we weren’t right for eachother. There’s no need to lie and waste people’s time Maybe she wanted a 5’9” tall? Like if a girl is 5’ then there’s still a height difference Maybe u should have asked for more deets x " She’s 5’4 but if she wants tall that means like 6’0+ It’s like if I had said I wanted curvy and she wasn’t crazy curvy. Do you think me saying “oh but your still ok” sets the right tone? I’d just prefer to find someone that doesn’t list tall in their top 5 requirements | |||
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"I’ll say this. I list 5’9 because I’m 5’9. I get measured for competitions and I know I’m 5’9 Many girls take inches off their height. Apparently being shorter is better to them, and I’ve met many women then claimed to be 5’3 or 5’4 and were clearly 5’7 or 5’8 I don’t see the point in lying. You’ll disappoint them, and then yourself. I’d prefer to know height was an issue for them so I could just say no thanks. Only last week I was planning on going out on a date with a girl and she asked what I was looking for, I answer and asked her the same. She says the usual. Funny, kind, charming, likes animals…. And tall. Cancelled the date and said we weren’t right for eachother. There’s no need to lie and waste people’s time " There's no point in my lieing about my height because I'm disappointing anyway. | |||
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"Ok so maybe some guys ‘think’ they are that heigh and haven’t actually been measured? I was at a party and was talking to a guy who asked how tall I was …when I told him he then said no you’re taller than that cos I’m 5ft 11..I towered over this guy. He was around 5ft 9. He must have measured himself in Nike Air Force ones or something." This made me giggle | |||
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"Ok so maybe some guys ‘think’ they are that heigh and haven’t actually been measured? I was at a party and was talking to a guy who asked how tall I was …when I told him he then said no you’re taller than that cos I’m 5ft 11..I towered over this guy. He was around 5ft 9. He must have measured himself in Nike Air Force ones or something." Chinese whispers One guy is 5’9, adds an inch His friend is about the same height, “I must be 5’10”. Then adds an inch Another friend “I must be 5’11!” If only there was some kind of common house hold tool we could use to measure ourselves | |||
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"Ok so maybe some guys ‘think’ they are that heigh and haven’t actually been measured? I was at a party and was talking to a guy who asked how tall I was …when I told him he then said no you’re taller than that cos I’m 5ft 11..I towered over this guy. He was around 5ft 9. He must have measured himself in Nike Air Force ones or something. Chinese whispers One guy is 5’9, adds an inch His friend is about the same height, “I must be 5’10”. Then adds an inch Another friend “I must be 5’11!” If only there was some kind of common house hold tool we could use to measure ourselves " Just get against the wall, use a pencil to get the measurement from the top of ur head to mark and then measure with a measuring tape. Simples How people don’t know their exact height is beyond me!!! I’m 167cm on a good day | |||
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"No, I'm short and I'll admit I'm short lol I don't see the point in bending the truth as it will all come out eventually anyway. Besides, I may not everyone's cup of tea but that's fine too lol" Nice arse | |||
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"No, I'm short and I'll admit I'm short lol I don't see the point in bending the truth as it will all come out eventually anyway. Besides, I may not everyone's cup of tea but that's fine too lol" Holy crap you know how to take a photo!!! | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." Arrogant pricks on the whole, undesirable | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." Haha, I'm very thankful that this is utter bollocks! | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." Haha I’m nearly 5ft 10. If I was a size 12 I’d be too slim! That’s bollocks im afraid. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." Wow. Just wow. I know some dammed desirable men who are shorter than 6'. And most of the most desirable women I know are over a size 12. Sweeping statements like that should be swept into the bin where they belong. Or flushed away. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." | |||
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"Height seems to be a contentious issue on here. Some wanting really tall 6ft++ guys, others not really that bothered. Now I’m listed as 6ft …for all you know I could be 5ft 8 …guess all you have to go on is what’s listed. The problems start to arise when meets take place. Ladies in your experience of meeting guys how many men add on a couple of inches to their fab height? I guess it’s not much of an issue unless you’re 5ft6 and your date is listed as 5ft 10 and you think ok I can wear some four inch heels…only to turn up towering over him and it looks like you’re taking him shopping for the day. Men (not sure who’ll own up to this) do you fab height yourself? So if you’re 5ft 8 list yourself as 5ft 10? If you’re 5ft 10 list as 6ft or if you’re 5ft 6 list yourself as 5ft 8? Or even if you’re over 6ft fab yourself up to 6ft 2 etc? Women may even fab themselves down in the same way guys ‘fab up’. I get why people do it but everyone should feel comfortable in their height …I’ve seen many shorter fanny magnets " We're only looking for guys over 5.10 so they're taller than Mrs Flirty. That's our choice not an indictment of all shorter men of whom she's married to one such. Of course, height isn't our only criteria though and that's why our first meetings are always social only. In the unlikely event that a guy who's lied to us turns up, then we have lost nothing because we've still had a social evening. If we just don't click physically, nothing is lost. If we do click though then there's always the next meeting. Many of the issues here stem from the fact that so many people want/need/expect same day meetings and get their fingers burned when it turns out that their 'target' either isn't at all what they expected or just doesn't show up because they've told a whole load of lies. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us. " The best thing to do is ignore, and don't react | |||
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"I've heard of this a lot, but I've never actually met anyone that's lied about their height. Mine is correct with bare feet, but I usually wear heels, so my height will vary depending on which heels I'm wearing. I like being tall-ish, so wouldn't claim to be shorter. " I must meet the lying ones then I’m only 5’3 and I don’t mind “shorter” men. But it’s lying about it that gets me. Met a couple of guys that stated 5’8 or 5’9. And then when I met them, they were barely any taller then me, one exactly my height. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." I'd better put the cake down then ... | |||
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"I've heard of this a lot, but I've never actually met anyone that's lied about their height. Mine is correct with bare feet, but I usually wear heels, so my height will vary depending on which heels I'm wearing. I like being tall-ish, so wouldn't claim to be shorter. I must meet the lying ones then I’m only 5’3 and I don’t mind “shorter” men. But it’s lying about it that gets me. Met a couple of guys that stated 5’8 or 5’9. And then when I met them, they were barely any taller then me, one exactly my height. " That seems a little ridiculous. Surely they didn’t think they could get away with it? That’s like a 4 or 5 inch ‘fab-up’ ….rude! | |||
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"This literally happened to me on my last meet. The guy was sexy, attractive, but definitely many inches shorter than his stated height on his profile. I'm wondering whether to bring it up and see if he has a reason for his lie? I'm guessing it just comes down to shorter guys knowing that in person the height won't matter so much, if given the chance to meet. Lucky for him I'm not tall " Ask him then report back. It would be good to get insight into the minds of those that fab-up | |||
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"Nope, everything except my exact birthday is correct on fab (a few days out for security). I’d hate to turn up to a social and have the person be let down or disappointed by me. I think that fudging these things is tantamount to manipulation, especially if it’s to get around filters. Posting incorrect height, body shape or age are all the same thing and is basically lying to get people to meet you who wouldn’t otherwise. " | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us." Funny to see this touching some size 13+ nerves. It’s mostly true sadly though. Height is huge for guys, as is weight for women | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us. Funny to see this touching some size 13+ nerves. It’s mostly true sadly though. Height is huge for guys, as is weight for women " Not my nerves. If I’m ever a size 12 it probably means I’m very ill! I was simply stating that the comment was untrue. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us. Funny to see this touching some size 13+ nerves. It’s mostly true sadly though. Height is huge for guys, as is weight for women Not my nerves. If I’m ever a size 12 it probably means I’m very ill! I was simply stating that the comment was untrue. " Not my nerves either, but whatever anyone needs to believe to feel better about themselves, no skin off my nose! I'll carry on doing my own thing for as long as it's working for me | |||
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"TBF - your comments are subjective, even though you choose what’s acceptable or not acceptable. Because you choose which info you admittedly share incorrectly. Just pointing out the pot calling kettle black. Nope, everything except my exact birthday is correct on fab (a few days out for security). I’d hate to turn up to a social and have the person be let down or disappointed by me. I think that fudging these things is tantamount to manipulation, especially if it’s to get around filters. Posting incorrect height, body shape or age are all the same thing and is basically lying to get people to meet you who wouldn’t otherwise. " Reread my comment. The only information that is incorrect on my profile is the exact birthdate for security reasons. Not my age, the date. It’s not a case of me choosing what information I give out as factual, it’s all factual. | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us. Funny to see this touching some size 13+ nerves. It’s mostly true sadly though. Height is huge for guys, as is weight for women " Sweeping statement this way | |||
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"Short men on the whole are undesirable. Short men are below 6 foot. Larger ladies over size 12 are on the whole undesirable. Ignoring the outliers, It is what it is. Let’s just find our matches that works best for us. Funny to see this touching some size 13+ nerves. It’s mostly true sadly though. Height is huge for guys, as is weight for women " Not my nerves. They're fine. But there are some people who do get upset by people making statements. And height is often a big thing for women, along with weight being a big thing for guys. More sweeping statements that just show the ignorance of some people. | |||
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"Genuine LOL at "Short men are below 6 foot." UK average height is 5' 9" for men and 5' 3.5" for women. Souce: Moody's 'Adult anthropometric measures, overweight and obesity' from the Health Survey for England 2012 for the Health and Social Care Information Centre. This is Fab lie inflation again, like all the men fretting that their six-incher is too small when the average is 5.16". " Maybe he was meaning under six foot is fab short. Just like a 5.2 inch cawk or whatever is not fab average | |||
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"Genuine LOL at "Short men are below 6 foot." UK average height is 5' 9" for men and 5' 3.5" for women. Souce: Moody's 'Adult anthropometric measures, overweight and obesity' from the Health Survey for England 2012 for the Health and Social Care Information Centre. This is Fab lie inflation again, like all the men fretting that their six-incher is too small when the average is 5.16". Maybe he was meaning under six foot is fab short. Just like a 5.2 inch cawk or whatever is not fab average " Imagine someone looking for hung and you turn up with your 6 inch knob and a print out of “ Moody's 'Adult anthropometric measures”. “I’ll have you know I’m statistically above average” Watch those panties drop | |||
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"I’m 6 foot and shrinking as time passes " I’m excited to see what height I shrink to! | |||
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"Genuine LOL at "Short men are below 6 foot." UK average height is 5' 9" for men and 5' 3.5" for women. Souce: Moody's 'Adult anthropometric measures, overweight and obesity' from the Health Survey for England 2012 for the Health and Social Care Information Centre. This is Fab lie inflation again, like all the men fretting that their six-incher is too small when the average is 5.16". Maybe he was meaning under six foot is fab short. Just like a 5.2 inch cawk or whatever is not fab average Imagine someone looking for hung and you turn up with your 6 inch knob and a print out of “ Moody's 'Adult anthropometric measures”. “I’ll have you know I’m statistically above average” Watch those panties drop " | |||
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