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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone feel like they fantasise of falling in love with someone you see at a cafe or in the tube or at Waterstones or at the gym?

It used to happen to be ALL THE TIME, and I’d find new future husbands on the tube and have a rendez vous in my head. Sliding door style

I definitely fell at first sigh for the most beautiful man French man (don’t tell JACK!!!) I’ve ever seen in my life in a boulangerie in Paris by Canal Saint-Martin

In my head I’d have moved to Paris near Montmatre, and he’d buy me pain au raisins every morning till he’d propose to me with a box of macarons and a Tiffany ring inside… and I’d have said OUI! And we’d have lived the wildest love story.

I still think of that sometimes

Am I the only crazy bitch round here who has these very weird thoughts ?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t think that you are!

I’ve only recently said to someone how the desire to meet a person and settle down are seen as negatives on here at times, but it’s a natural part of human existence and fantasising about it just shows where you’re at in your head.

Unless you’re completely sworn off love and relationships (as some are) I think that it’s a normal thing, it certainly has been for me in the past

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fall in love

Noooo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think that you are!

Unless you’re completely sworn off love and relationships (as some are) I think that it’s a normal thing, it certainly has been for me in the past"

Im a true romantic at heart

I guess I love love and the idea of love

and the excitement you get when you start falling for someone !! It’s intoxicating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fall in love

Noooo x"

Girl yes!!! X

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

I always falling in love or lusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a someone my mind keeps drifting to, not sure anything will come of it but we'll see

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Fall in love

Noooo x

Girl yes!!! X

As you wish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm driving, I play out the fluffiest, most romantic love stories in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking back to what mum used to say !

Wise woman !

In this life in this world there is somebody for everyone !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. You’re crazy

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By *untimeabcWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

I just worry about falling down the stairs and breaking a hip

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique."

OUI!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep. You’re crazy

Please don’t call the mental hospital on me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique."

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?"

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet"

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

lol. Perhaps be less obvious on the forums if you don’t want gossip

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

Have they both left?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

lol. Perhaps be less obvious on the forums if you don’t want gossip

Hey I literally flirt with every person on here

Everyone knows that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

lol. Perhaps be less obvious on the forums if you don’t want gossip

Hey I literally flirt with every person on here

Everyone knows that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also peeps are gonna gossip regardless your honour

Whether founded or unfounded

x so might as well just carry on

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

When I was younger like you I did! Now I fantasise about no man invading my life and space and staying in the little bubble we create

. No you’re not crazy Kylie. You’re ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love?..no. Lust..frequently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was younger like you I did! Now I fantasise about no man invading my life and space and staying in the little bubble we create

. No you’re not crazy Kylie. You’re ace

Nora, I’m glad to hear that you were falling too in your head, the same way I do

I just see me as being either the lady who married 9 times ( I have to be a rich widow at some point - like HAVE TO

) and never learns .. or the kick ass lady who still has toy boys when she’s 60

on here complaining about fuck boys…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love?..no. Lust..frequently."

Maybe it’s a girl thing

I’m talking love story type shit

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Waking up on a Sunday morning, she’s wearing something slightly see through and carrying a tray with fruit juice, fresh coffee and an array of breakfast muffins and danish. We sit eating and watching an old black and white movie, later we finally get up and a romantic walk by the river to our favourite country pub for a traditional English roast dinner.

Home for cheese and wine and she slips into that slightly see through garment and we make love next to our log fire.

Never once have I had a romantic that dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love?..no. Lust..frequently.

Maybe it’s a girl thing

I’m talking love story type shit

Maybe the Mills & Boon site?..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"When I was younger like you I did! Now I fantasise about no man invading my life and space and staying in the little bubble we create

. No you’re not crazy Kylie. You’re ace

Nora, I’m glad to hear that you were falling too in your head, the same way I do

I just see me as being either the lady who married 9 times ( I have to be a rich widow at some point - like HAVE TO

) and never learns .. or the kick ass lady who still has toy boys when she’s 60

on here complaining about fuck boys…

Haha. I’m going for the toy boys when I’m 60

Option

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Who doesn't sometimes have the happy ever after dream?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was younger like you I did! Now I fantasise about no man invading my life and space and staying in the little bubble we create

. No you’re not crazy Kylie. You’re ace

Nora, I’m glad to hear that you were falling too in your head, the same way I do

I just see me as being either the lady who married 9 times ( I have to be a rich widow at some point - like HAVE TO

) and never learns .. or the kick ass lady who still has toy boys when she’s 60

on here complaining about fuck boys…

Haha. I’m going for the toy boys when I’m 60

Option

I mean it’s a pretty good option tbf x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who doesn't sometimes have the happy ever after dream?

But do you have it with strangers? X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"When I was younger like you I did! Now I fantasise about no man invading my life and space and staying in the little bubble we create

. No you’re not crazy Kylie. You’re ace

Nora, I’m glad to hear that you were falling too in your head, the same way I do

I just see me as being either the lady who married 9 times ( I have to be a rich widow at some point - like HAVE TO

) and never learns .. or the kick ass lady who still has toy boys when she’s 60

on here complaining about fuck boys…

Haha. I’m going for the toy boys when I’m 60

Option

I mean it’s a pretty good option tbf x

You’ve got time to do the rest in between though girl!

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

Who left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmaooo this proper made me laugh

I'm not as bad as your example but I do like to daydream about scenarios sometimes and I'm always curious about others whenever they catch my eye. It's cute, not crazy unless you start breaking into their garden to watch them shower in the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

Who left?"

Couple of fellas that the OP may or may not have done rudies with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lmaooo this proper made me laugh

I swear to god it must have happened in 2018 and I still remember his face and how handsome he was. I thought I need that French man to marry me. I think I even talked to friends about him

I was shook for days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x"

This

Pablo you're also lovely for saying it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

Who left?

Couple of fellas that the OP may or may not have done rudies with "

I am LAUGHINGGGGH !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a crazy bitch. You sound very romantique.

No hun shes crazy you should see her cellar

… the French man is in there

as I’ve got bored of him and now I’m all over Jack Grealish and I’m just waiting to say yes.

They call her Lady of the rings

And Drama freee?

Cj?

Errrrrr what’s all this gossip central!!!!

I plead the 5th….

Nowt yet

I promise you it’s just a coincidence they aren’t on here any longer

Who left?

Couple of fellas that the OP may or may not have done rudies with "

Off site bitching and lies again. No surprise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x"

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

It's when you meet someone for a chat and cuppa,and there's an attraction straight away and after you had a chat and a cuppa you say good bye, in the hope to meet them again. And when you do the feeling is still the same, and nearly 2 years your in love with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

Errr YAH!

Coleen Rooney who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No il never allow it to happen again

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good "

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Who doesn't sometimes have the happy ever after dream?

But do you have it with strangers? X

All the time. After all, a stranger is just a future friend who hasn't taken out the restraining order yet

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

Is it because living a fantasy in your head is easier than actually trying? Where trying would result in pain or embarrassment, you instead choose to live vicariously thought your imagination?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

Is it because living a fantasy in your head is easier than actually trying? Where trying would result in pain or embarrassment, you instead choose to live vicariously thought your imagination?"

Dear doctor

She lives life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who doesn't sometimes have the happy ever after dream?

But do you have it with strangers? X

All the time. After all, a stranger is just a future friend who hasn't taken out the restraining order yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who doesn't sometimes have the happy ever after dream?

But do you have it with strangers? X

All the time. After all, a stranger is just a future friend who hasn't taken out the restraining order yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

Is it because living a fantasy in your head is easier than actually trying? Where trying would result in pain or embarrassment, you instead choose to live vicariously thought your imagination?"

All my previous relationships turned out to be a disappointed eventually somewhere down the line, I guess in my head The supercut looks way better and more romantic than the real thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

Errr YAH!

Coleen Rooney who?

And like all the wags she'll have a yoga fitness program released every November just in time for new year's resolutions to be planned and be a multi millionaire in her own right and not need the footballer any more!

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I definitely do, I'll build up a whole story and life in my head over seeing random hot strangers so you're not alone there!

A big part of me would love someone to be in love with me and treat me well, I do feel like I deserve it, I was only in one ltr from age 17 and I fell out of love with him many years ago but he was abusive and I didn't have the courage to leave until he got violent in front of our little one two years ago. I've been single since. I often look at happy smitten couples and think I'd love someone to love me like that.

My problem is I get feels for the wrong guys, the 'good looking and they know it so they use me and treat me shit' guys! I've only had feels for one guy since splitting with ex, and he hasn't treated me very well because he knows I care about him so he picks me up and uses me then blanks me for ages. Ridiculous but I can't stay away from him so I know I have no one to blame but myself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

Errr YAH!

Coleen Rooney who?

Yes!!! Retreat in Bali for yoga and mindfulness and SEX??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely do, I'll build up a whole story and life in my head over seeing random hot strangers so you're not alone there!

Still plenty of decent guys around. Ditch the user x

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

Is it because living a fantasy in your head is easier than actually trying? Where trying would result in pain or embarrassment, you instead choose to live vicariously thought your imagination?

All my previous relationships turned out to be a disappointed eventually somewhere down the line, I guess in my head The supercut looks way better and more romantic than the real thing x

I can relate. That’s why I try to avoid it. Setting unrealistic expectations in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

Errr YAH!

Coleen Rooney who?

Yes!!! Retreat in Bali for yoga and mindfulness and SEX??

I want royalties and a free timeshare for inspiring the idea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it’s cute to do it occasionally, but if it’s really often it might not be good

It isn’t as common now but only because Jack Grealish is *mostly* occupying that place atm

Is it because living a fantasy in your head is easier than actually trying? Where trying would result in pain or embarrassment, you instead choose to live vicariously thought your imagination?

All my previous relationships turned out to be a disappointed eventually somewhere down the line, I guess in my head The supercut looks way better and more romantic than the real thing x

I can relate. That’s why I try to avoid it. Setting unrealistic expectations in my head. "

Hey, love is what makes the world go round

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a wee sweetheart, Kylie. You'll get your romance novel type encounter one day when you least expect it. And it'll be better then anything you've ever dreamed x

I mean y’all gonna get me and Jack’s save the dates relatively soon x

Are you going to be a footie WAG?

Errr YAH!

Coleen Rooney who?

Yes!!! Retreat in Bali for yoga and mindfulness and SEX??

I want royalties and a free timeshare for inspiring the idea!"

done

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