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By *irtydevil666 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

So as I sit in the October sun I was thinking what's it like to be popular...is it good? Is it a hinderance?.....Popular people tell me....maybe you were at school work ??? Enlighten me...

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I would imagine it's a royal pain in the ass to be honest.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not saying I’m popular but I do have a presence because of work.

It is hard at times because people want to be associated with you but all they want to do is take and use that association for their own gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I was always more notorious than popular. Everyone knew me but few liked me. I like it that way.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Blimey - I can't even spell poppuler.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

People expect you to be life and soul of the party all the time. The one to get things going and make it good . And yet some times in a crowd you can feel like your the entertainment and somewhat lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask Kitty ! Lol I would say at school it was cool but as I get older I don’t really care

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I would much rather just be me I don’t really care if you like me or not

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Nope, I was always more notorious than popular. Everyone knew me but few liked me. I like it that way. "

Very similar to my experience of school.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ask Kitty ! Lol I would say at school it was cool but as I get older I don’t really care "

Well since I've been asked... I actually wasn't that popular at school, I was more studious! I suppose on here my photos are popular, but that's all. And whilst it's nice of course to receive compliments, it actually makes it hard to talk to anyone as my inbox is just impossible.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

It carries its own baggage as others have said. Some thrive on it, others positively hate the attention.

At a fundamental level, it's a tool for socially-engineering other people, so it is used in a manipulative context. Typically for the betterment of the one doing the engineering. There has to be something to be obtained from the populism, be it adoration, status-enhancement, attention, validation, etc.

I prefer to fly-low under the radar and blend in. Disappear preferably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I was always more notorious than popular. Everyone knew me but few liked me. I like it that way.

Very similar to my experience of school..... "

Do you keep in contact with any of them?

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Nope, I was always more notorious than popular. Everyone knew me but few liked me. I like it that way.

Very similar to my experience of school.....

Do you keep in contact with any of them? "

Only the older brother of a school friend, been mates since I left school and he was my Best Man when I married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would imagine it's a royal pain in the ass to be honest.

LvM"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would much rather just be me I don’t really care if you like me or not "

xx

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I would much rather just be me I don’t really care if you like me or not "
Same! More about quality than quantity. Lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I would much rather just be me I don’t really care if you like me or not "

. This. I’d rather some dislike me for who I really am then everyone like me for someone I pretend to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t know. I bimble along in my own little bubble, some like me, some don’t, can’t do much about it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never been popular but mysterious yes & that’s the way I like it …. It keeps people guessing about you

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Speaking as someone who is not popular and never will be, but whose observational faculties are entirely intact, it seems to me that being popular is effectively playing life on easy mode. I envy it greatly.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I know both.

It's good being popular, just for the backup and feeling supported.

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