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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

When you went through the menopause, did you get your sex drive back?

My missus is going through it at the minute & I haven’t had sex in over 2 years, I’m concerned that her sex drive won’t come back.

Thanks in advance

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Mine was low to mediocre before meno, but has been through the roof since.

There are so many factors involved in going through meno. It's not just physiological & hormonal- it's physiological too.

I do really feel for you because it's tough not being in the same place as your partner in this respect but I urge you to do some research on menopause because it's a very complex issue & requires alot of understanding from a partner

Good luck to you both x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

That should have read psychological too!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Mine never went away in fact I had no symptoms whatsoever. Not even a flush. Lucky old me.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

People have different experiences on HRT or not. I think it’s down to the individual. I’m certainly in the menopause and my sex drive is ok, although o had to dig deep to find it again at the start.

Have you chatted to your wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you went through the menopause, did you get your sex drive back?

My missus is going through it at the minute & I haven’t had sex in over 2 years, I’m concerned that her sex drive won’t come back.

Thanks in advance"

What makes you think that the menopause is the reason that she won't fuck you?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Hrt did it for me.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"When you went through the menopause, did you get your sex drive back?

My missus is going through it at the minute & I haven’t had sex in over 2 years, I’m concerned that her sex drive won’t come back.

Thanks in advance"

Mine is definitely better but mainly because I am sleeping better.

Every woman is different and will be affected by menopause in a different way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine never went away. Just got and continue to have hot flushes. But the sex drive is worse than before the menopause now..Not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine never went away. Just got and continue to have hot flushes. But the sex drive is worse than before the menopause now..Not complaining "

Had to click on your profile because I didn't think someone in their late 20s would be going through a natural menopause

You look amazing for your age!!

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"When you went through the menopause, did you get your sex drive back?

My missus is going through it at the minute & I haven’t had sex in over 2 years, I’m concerned that her sex drive won’t come back.

Thanks in advance

What makes you think that the menopause is the reason that she won't fuck you? "
. Brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going through the menopause and my sex drive hasn't dipped.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine never went away. Just got and continue to have hot flushes. But the sex drive is worse than before the menopause now..Not complaining

Had to click on your profile because I didn't think someone in their late 20s would be going through a natural menopause

You look amazing for your age!! "

Aww thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine never went away either but is through the roof now.

Hot flushes & brain fog are the main problems.

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By *ll make you laugh OP   Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

I wouldn’t expect my wife of 17 years to “fuck me”, and your arrogance response. But thank everyone with positive comments that have replied xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t expect my wife of 17 years to “fuck me”, and your arrogance response. But thank everyone with positive comments that have replied xx"

It’s a valid question though. Maybe your “game” is rubbish.

I’ve slept (unknowingly) with some married men…and can totally see why their wives wouldn’t sleep with them anymore

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Menopause hits us all differently, either to a bigger or lesser degree.

Some have all the symptoms, some none (the lucky ones).

As for your wife's sex drive...who knows.

An empathetic husband would be a good start.

I can tell you one thing for sure, when those symptoms hit it really isn't much fun. In fact it can be a really difficult time!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Is your wife on Fab just for the friendship and support m, whilst you get to have the sex?

If you're both fully honest with each other, you may need to enhance your communication, so that you can both understand evolving needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine never went away in fact I had no symptoms whatsoever. Not even a flush. Lucky old me."

nor me maybe having a high libido helps with the symptoms ?? interesting thought ??

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mine never went away! And had no symptoms at all dont know when it ocured just assuming it did now I'm 64 xpl

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

It usually means the sex drive will drop for a while.

The lady will have to give....... Men a pause.

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