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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your size.. send them to me

Sending a fit massage therapist and weeks worth supply of finest chocolate. Magnesium is good for stress;-)

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Invite people over and have a shoe fayre, makeshift stall and some Wine ..

You can thank me later

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Cheer yourself up by buying a new pair of shoes to replace the ones you are getting rid of

Kx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help "

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"What's your size.. send them to me

Sending a fit massage therapist and weeks worth supply of finest chocolate. Magnesium is good for stress;-)"

Oooh. That seems a fair swap! Thanks sweet

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Get memory foam inserts

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Invite people over and have a shoe fayre, makeshift stall and some Wine ..

You can thank me later "

Huh? People? What kind of madness is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheer yourself up by buying a new pair of shoes to replace the ones you are getting rid of

Kx"

Could count on you to say that! x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Cheer yourself up by buying a new pair of shoes to replace the ones you are getting rid of

Kx"

I may or may not have some bookmarked

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Get memory foam inserts "

Doesn't work when they're too small.....

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!"

Sell the pretty and unworn ones. Donate the rest. You’re in the money AND feel virtuous AND have space to buy more pretties! Win/win!

x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Sell the pretty and unworn ones. Donate the rest. You’re in the money AND feel virtuous AND have space to buy more pretties! Win/win!

x"

It's like selling my children!

(I imagine..... I mean, I've never done that, obvs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!"

Send Bob?

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Send Bob? "

If you could please

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Sell the pretty and unworn ones. Donate the rest. You’re in the money AND feel virtuous AND have space to buy more pretties! Win/win!

x

It's like selling my children!

(I imagine..... I mean, I've never done that, obvs)"

Think of it as giving them the life that you couldn’t. Don’t keep them just to look at; they deserve to live, dammit!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Sell the pretty and unworn ones. Donate the rest. You’re in the money AND feel virtuous AND have space to buy more pretties! Win/win!

x

It's like selling my children!

(I imagine..... I mean, I've never done that, obvs)

Think of it as giving them the life that you couldn’t. Don’t keep them just to look at; they deserve to live, dammit!"

You make a good point. That's helping....

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob. "

Meanie.

Nothing wrong with being a meet now person. Except the grooming. I'm currently rocking the "yeti who has makeup left over from taking pics 2 nights ago and needs to sort her hair out" look.

Meet now?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob.

Meanie.

Nothing wrong with being a meet now person. Except the grooming. I'm currently rocking the "yeti who has makeup left over from taking pics 2 nights ago and needs to sort her hair out" look.

Meet now? "

I’m being deloused at 4

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob.

Meanie.

Nothing wrong with being a meet now person. Except the grooming. I'm currently rocking the "yeti who has makeup left over from taking pics 2 nights ago and needs to sort her hair out" look.

Meet now?

I’m being deloused at 4 "

I knew you'd reject me

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob.

Meanie.

Nothing wrong with being a meet now person. Except the grooming. I'm currently rocking the "yeti who has makeup left over from taking pics 2 nights ago and needs to sort her hair out" look.

Meet now?

I’m being deloused at 4

I knew you'd reject me "

Plenty more fleas in the sea. One day your prince will come, my loss. Etc. Etc. Etc.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nothing wrong with being a “meet now” person. I quite like being a “meet now” person. What’s wrong with “meet now” peoples? We don’t have fleas, well some of us do but not all of us. And accccctuuuually we are, wos the word, spontaneous that’s it. Spontaneous meet now bugger that’s me. With cherry on the top and everything.

Snob.

Meanie.

Nothing wrong with being a meet now person. Except the grooming. I'm currently rocking the "yeti who has makeup left over from taking pics 2 nights ago and needs to sort her hair out" look.

Meet now?

I’m being deloused at 4

I knew you'd reject me

Plenty more fleas in the sea. One day your prince will come, my loss. Etc. Etc. Etc. "

Aww. You're such a sweetie

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Take them to the charity shop ..go inflict your pain on others

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Take them to the charity shop ..go inflict your pain on others "

Any I don't sell will be going to the clothing bank. Can't afford to just give them all away sadly.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical..... "

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just don't get rid of them boots xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain...I’ve literally just dropped some off at the charity shop, I’m not likely to wear them again, (6pairs of heels gone) but I dooo need some boots

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts "

Deal

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Just don't get rid of them boots xx "

Well obviously not

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I feel your pain...I’ve literally just dropped some off at the charity shop, I’m not likely to wear them again, (6pairs of heels gone) but I dooo need some boots "

Yes.... yes you do

It's just a sad, sad time for shoes

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts

Deal "

Anywhere else you need attention?

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts

Deal

Anywhere else you need attention? "

Pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pretty shoes. Can I see pretty shoes. Pretty please

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Good luck OP! It's a great time to sell shoes that are heeled/really pretty, people will want them for parties etc in the run up to Christmas. Sell the impractical and buy one really good pair that fits you and brings you proper joy, Konmari the fuck out of them.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

sell them all on those clothes apps that are always being advertised and buy lots of chocolate and ice cream,,, lol

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like pretty shoes. Can I see pretty shoes. Pretty please "

I'll send some pics when I've taken them all SD. Don't know how actually pretty they are, but I like them

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Good luck OP! It's a great time to sell shoes that are heeled/really pretty, people will want them for parties etc in the run up to Christmas. Sell the impractical and buy one really good pair that fits you and brings you proper joy, Konmari the fuck out of them. "

That's the plan. After I've recovered from the trauma.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"sell them all on those clothes apps that are always being advertised and buy lots of chocolate and ice cream,,, lol"

Nah.... I'll buy more shoes.

Because the several I still have srent enough apparently

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think us ladies should have a group somewhere for this kind of thing!! I've always got clothes and shoes that need to go...

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh God, I can relate to this so much. Why is it so hard to let go?

I once did a KonMari on shoes and had 97 pairs (face-screaming-in-fear emoji). Managed to halve the number but it wouldn't surprise me if it was back to that again.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think us ladies should have a group somewhere for this kind of thing!! I've always got clothes and shoes that need to go... "

Excellent idea!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts

Deal

Anywhere else you need attention?

Pervert "

Just how you want me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there's some men on here would buy them to sniff and jerk into. Bet you've got an inbox full of offers already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like pretty shoes. Can I see pretty shoes. Pretty please

I'll send some pics when I've taken them all SD. Don't know how actually pretty they are, but I like them "

Thank you. I feel your pain.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think us ladies should have a group somewhere for this kind of thing!! I've always got clothes and shoes that need to go... "

Oh I completely agree!

I'd love that

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Oh God, I can relate to this so much. Why is it so hard to let go?

I once did a KonMari on shoes and had 97 pairs (face-screaming-in-fear emoji). Managed to halve the number but it wouldn't surprise me if it was back to that again."

Well.... I thought I had about 60 after the cull just now..... I forgot about the spare room

I may need to do some more culling

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Get modelling them all and we can give our comments.

Boobs also help

Even the ones that don't fit? That's impractical.....

I’ll give you a foot rub if it hurts

Deal

Anywhere else you need attention?

Pervert

Just how you want me "

Well I'm not denying it

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Try deciding which kidney to sell....

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm sure there's some men on here would buy them to sniff and jerk into. Bet you've got an inbox full of offers already "

Suddenly avoiding my inbox seems like an even better idea than it did before......

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like pretty shoes. Can I see pretty shoes. Pretty please

I'll send some pics when I've taken them all SD. Don't know how actually pretty they are, but I like them

Thank you. I feel your pain. "

Thank you for the support at this hard time.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Try deciding which kidney to sell.... "

Could be tricky that one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. I had to chuck out so much clothes, shoes and other items when I was moving back to Scotland. And my daughter even accidentally binned some things that were keepers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Send Bob?

If you could please "

Or Willy pics?

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I feel your pain. I had to chuck out so much clothes, shoes and other items when I was moving back to Scotland. And my daughter even accidentally binned some things that were keepers "

That's a sacking offense surely!!

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Send Bob?

If you could please

Or Willy pics?"

You have pics of Bob's willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Send Bob?

If you could please

Or Willy pics?

You have pics of Bob's willy? "

Just mine though you are probably bored of seeing that as you haven’t asked me for days for a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!"

I wish I could help. I would cook dinner for you. Ice cream too

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm having a traumatic day. I think it may have been a brain fart that turned into a follow through..... but quite frankly I had to do something and it was this or turn into a "meet now" person (and that's even more terrifying).

I'm having a shoe purge. I'm getting rid of pairs that don't fit or I'll never wear. And some of them are so pretty and hardly or never worn. It's horrible and I don't like it.

Send help. Send chocolate. Send ice cream. Help!!

Send Bob?

If you could please

Or Willy pics?

You have pics of Bob's willy?

Just mine though you are probably bored of seeing that as you haven’t asked me for days for a pic "

That's because I'm still all giddy over the last ones. I mean

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