FabSwingers.com forum: Thought I was gay. Thinking I may now be bi.

By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

I'm in my early 30s. Thought I was gay my whole life. For the past year I have been becoming interested in trying pussy. Never thought I would be in this position. Feels kind of strange. But it's something I want to try. I think I will properly know after I try it if I truly am bi. Has any of you been in a similar position or know someone who has?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in my early 30s. Thought I was gay my whole life. For the past year I have been becoming interested in trying pussy. Never thought I would be in this position. Feels kind of strange. But it's something I want to try. I think I will properly know after I try it if I truly am bi. Has any of you been in a similar position or know someone who has?"

Keep going, by 60 you will be straight..

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

I highly doubt that.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Plenty of men and women come out gay after being in heterosexual relationships, so actually wanting to experiment with your own sexuality isn’t so strange.

A colleague of mine who was married once, then in a gay relationship, now thinks he could be bisexual.

You are who you are, go for it and see if you like it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Bisexual is a good place to be.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

It does seem interesting.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

You like what you like! If you are curious then go for it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my supposed gay friends admitted he’s slept with several women in the past. He calls us a ‘posh wank’

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Interesting. I've never heard it being described as that before. I always thought a posh wank was a guy having a wank with a condom on lol.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Buy a cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I go through bicurious cycles for women, currently not in one at this time. It came quite late for me, started at 39. It is why I joined originally on my first profile. I was close to having MMFs, was in discussions, but I never did.

A bi MMF is the most likely way I would do it though. I have always been relaxed and accepted being gay, came to terms with it young, so like you came as a surprise for me too.

I do wish I was full blown bi though naturally as so many beautiful women out there and it would double my choices. You cannot force or rush these things though, let it take its course

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

I think the best thing would be for me to start experimenting would be to try a mmf threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy a cat"

He is not a lesbian lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Buy a cat

He is not a lesbian lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…

Very quickly lost interest in women after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the best thing would be for me to start experimenting would be to try a mmf threesome."

Yes make sure the other man is bi though. I would feel awkward doing it with a straight man, even though I got invites from them for their ladies. Bi man is the best way so he can get you going at the start, would be awkward if you are not revved up and the lady is disappointed, she is not an object of experimentation, she will need fun too. These were just my thoughts when I was going through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's a journey

I've been straight, gay, bi and all stops in between at some point

Curious is a good term because I am very curious about sexual dynamics between people

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I think the best thing would be for me to start experimenting would be to try a mmf threesome.

You go with him x

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Good to hear from someone who can relate a bit to what I am experiencing. I also would probably start with a MMF threesome.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi."

If you use reply + quote we’ll know who you’re replying to xx

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi.

If you use reply + quote we’ll know who you’re replying to xx"
Thanks. I'm new to the forums.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Good to hear from someone who can relate a bit to what I am experiencing. I also would probably start with a MMF threesome. "

I think realising that you may be bisexual as you get older is more common than you think.

I have always found women attractive but because the way I feel about wimen is different, I didn't realise until I was in my 30s.

The best description for me is probably bisexual but heteroromamtic.

Just enjoy exploring... there's no right or wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi.

If you use reply + quote we’ll know who you’re replying to xx Thanks. I'm new to the forums."

That’s ok. I’m here to help

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi.

If you use reply + quote we’ll know who you’re replying to xx Thanks. I'm new to the forums."
welcome xxxxx

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I thought I was straight but just admiring the female figure until my mid 30s so I know it can happen and my first proper experience with a woman was when I met with a couple.

Definitely loosen the nerves knowing I could end up only play with the guy if it was just curiosity …luckily it wasn’t

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Good to hear from someone who can relate a bit to what I am experiencing. I also would probably start with a MMF threesome.

I think realising that you may be bisexual as you get older is more common than you think.

I have always found women attractive but because the way I feel about wimen is different, I didn't realise until I was in my 30s.

The best description for me is probably bisexual but heteroromamtic.

Just enjoy exploring... there's no right or wrong way. "
I heard the term homoflexible. That may best describe me. Not something I personally would use though.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Buy a cat

He is not a lesbian lol"
Indeed I'm not lol.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

possibly! and terms really don’t matter. You’ll know what you want to be referred as after you get your curiosity out the way or experienced it

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"possibly! and terms really don’t matter. You’ll know what you want to be referred as after you get your curiosity out the way or experienced it "
Yeah, exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…

Very quickly lost interest in women after that.

The power of the D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always loved men since I was a little girl, my dad was 100% my first love , I discovered the attraction to men very early on as much as I can remember to be honest.

Anyway, recently I’ve started to fantasise a bit how it’d be experimenting with another woman, but more in a MF scenario and share a man or two with her, rather than a 1on1 (I don’t think I could ever do that)

I do very much need tho the female energy I get from my closest girlfriends, like trying out new clothes together, hugging each other, watching tv cuddling, squeezing our boobs to compare. Ya know that kinda stuff

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"possibly! and terms really don’t matter. You’ll know what you want to be referred as after you get your curiosity out the way or experienced it "
Thanks. Nice profile by the way x

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Would identify as bi find women in general attractive but it is only the very occasional guy I would find attractive.

I’d say have fun and try until you se what you like.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Would identify as bi find women in general attractive but it is only the very occasional guy I would find attractive.

I’d say have fun and try until you se what you like."
Thanks. That's what I'm going to do.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

You don't have to be anything, gay/straight/bi. Just be you and float your boat and if feels good do it, worry about your " lable" later if you must have one lol just enjoy.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sometimes your sexuality evolves over time. I used to be vastly more attracted to women when I was younger. My attraction to women is definitely more consistent and stable but I have found my attraction to men becoming stronger as I've gotten older though its still somewhat unpredictable.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Follow your curiosity and the journey it takes you on. Sometimes what we think we are, and what we really are, are very different things. Enjoy your journey.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Follow your curiosity and the journey it takes you on. Sometimes what we think we are, and what we really are, are very different things. Enjoy your journey."
Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…

Very quickly lost interest in women after that.

Is that because you thought you needed to fulfil a 'role' by being 'straight' before and now, you're being straight in the sense of who you feel you've been all along?

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over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ladies are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if straight people can become curious, it only makes sense that gay people can become curious also.

We are all people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…

Very quickly lost interest in women after that.

Is that because you thought you needed to fulfil a 'role' by being 'straight' before and now, you're being straight in the sense of who you feel you've been all along?"

I guess I just tried to be what people expected me to be.

I knew I wasn’t gay. Knew who I should be but didn’t know how to be.

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"OP, if straight people can become curious, it only makes sense that gay people can become curious also.

We are all people.

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Agreed.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I think there is too much pressure to pigeon hole people into a category. Sometimes you can meet someone who just changes your mind because you connect on a deeper level

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By *iCurious4Women OP Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"I think there is too much pressure to pigeon hole people into a category. Sometimes you can meet someone who just changes your mind because you connect on a deeper level "
Yeah, I think so too.

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