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"i set up an infant feeding and breastfeeding peer support group a few years ago now, before i moved out of area. Obviously not charity work, but it did help people with their babies and feeding journeys Px "Aww ! High 5  x | |||
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"I help homeless people through a local charity. We set up community centres and churches in the winter months. Host evenings with food, games etc to keep people stay occupied and link then up with housing options that may help them. To get deep - due to shit parents, I spent a year on the street when I was 16, always said when I get in a position to, I will help people not feel as though they're alone. " I find personal experiences really help us to connect with issues and clientele who need help/support/inspiration It sounds very worthwhile | |||
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"I founded a big support network for breastfeeding mums in my local area. Did it for 3 years, had to take a break due to family and health reasons - just getting back into it. Also applied to help women who experience domestic abuse at Women Centre near me. There are too many vulnerable ones around who get their lives destroyed by toxic partners/other family members. And many of them do not even realise how tightly their web spinned around them before it's too late. There is not enough help and understanding and I hope to return the goodness I received in the past. "Not having children I've never considered breastfeeding challenges /support but i vsn see how that would be very reassuring as a parent! I would love to get more involved with supporting women escaping domestic abuse .i will see what local groups there are to me | |||
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"Agree with previous message. There are groups victim support etc but they are under funded and under staffed. " A lot of charities rely on donations from the public or businesses... wouldn't it be amazing if they were not needed I imagine it's hard to employ people in the voluntary sector with so much criticism /publicity over paid roles.. But people still have to pay their own bills and look after their own families | |||
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"Nothing at the moment but it's something I've done on and off for a long time. My most rewarding role was working with an adult literacy class - it's a subject I'm very interested in and we had a brilliant group that had fun while learning. To be honest I've always got as much out as I've put in so it's been a pleasure rather than a duty." That sounds really worthwhile amd must be incredible for the people you are helping. It must take a lot of courage for them to seek help too.. Huge admiration for you | |||
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 I also do other little things when I can for them.
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Because people deserve help, support, whatever when they have a loved one/child on the spectrum, if they want it. That person does also.
Because I'm on the spectrum as are most of my family.
Because sometimes autistic people are non verbal and don't have a voice. I do. A loud one. So I'm going to speak up for those who can't.
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"I worked in an Oxfam shop when I was younger. Just popped in and asked if they needed any volunteers and started work the next day." My workplace allows people to support a particular charity through its fundraising shops - people love it | |||
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"I don’t have the time with work and kids but it’s something I’d like to do when I retire in a few years. " Maybe you can persuade your company to adopt a charity or community group that you and your colleagues can help through the year with your skills /time? | |||
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"I volunteer in girlguiding and maintain a local farm's fish tank. My paid job is also of a similar ilk and pretty cool. " I like the diversity of yours. And I forgot I volunteer occasionally with my kids scouts groups too.  | |||
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"it isnt much but i pick litter would love to do more things when i retire i hope i have a lot to give " Where i live there is a growing swell of litter pickers.. I'm amazed at how much rubbish they clear every week.. . I think it's a growing issue with flytipping  | |||
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"I volunteer with a rescue organisation - less involved with call outs now, do more with training. Mr" Using your skills to impart knowledge is really important and training is often overlooked, but its very valuable to charitable organisations  | |||
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"i set up an infant feeding and breastfeeding peer support group a few years ago now, before i moved out of area. Obviously not charity work, but it did help people with their babies and feeding journeys Px "It sounds love a wonderful thing to do (nice to see you back!) | |||
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"I do voluntary work for a local autism charity. Kind of similar to my own work but... they're not paying me. I also do other little things when I can for them.
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Because people deserve help, support, whatever when they have a loved one/child on the spectrum, if they want it. That person does also.
Because I'm on the spectrum as are most of my family.
Because sometimes autistic people are non verbal and don't have a voice. I do. A loud one. So I'm going to speak up for those who can't.
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"I volunteer in girlguiding and maintain a local farm's fish tank. My paid job is also of a similar ilk and pretty cool. " Your real job is my dream job | |||
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"I've been a Girl Guide leader, worked in a soup kitchen. Set up and run toddler stay and play sessions. Children's art clubs providing free holiday schemes and after school support. " Ih you sound practical, multi-talented and organised! | |||
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I purposely went back to my paid job part time so I could do the above voluntarily on my day off. | |||
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"I volunteer with the local council as a Breastfeeding Peer Supporter. We support everyone who needs help with infant feeding and provide the information for mums to make an informed choice. We have helped a huge range of people and it even includes dad's/grandparents who want reassured that mum is doing a great job! We signpost to HCPs if necessary and get lots of newborn snuggles too
I purposely went back to my paid job part time so I could do the above voluntarily on my day off. "Love it.
And yes.. we supported family members too mainly to help them "mother the mothers " | |||
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"i set up an infant feeding and breastfeeding peer support group a few years ago now, before i moved out of area. Obviously not charity work, but it did help people with their babies and feeding journeys Px "Aah there's a few of us well done! | |||
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"Are volunteer workers sometimes exploited by charities?" Strange question. In what way? Mr | |||
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"Are volunteer workers sometimes exploited by charities?" Exploited how ? They can't force you to do more than you wish to commit to? And most organisations I engaged with shows their gratitude to volunteers in various ways. | |||
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"Are volunteer workers sometimes exploited by charities? Strange question. In what way? Mr" The internal politics I mentioned above involved a certain amount of exploitation. Volunteers were accepted into the charity and sent on various training courses which allowed the charity to apply for non specific funding. The training was completely useless outside of the charity but the funding was used to buy new equipment for a handful of team members. The volunteers incurred the expense of travelling to and from the training courses as well as an the promotional and collection days and had to pay for their own PPE while all money raised was squandered on the shiny new equipment which is still sitting in a container unused and unwrapped 5 or 6 years later. | |||
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"I’m a “snow warden “ in my area. There are many elderly and disabled people that live by me and they rely on others for shopping and going out. So when it snows I go out and clear and grit the roads and paths so these people aren’t cut of while the weather is bad" Oh one of my neighbours did this years ago.. Only he'd got d*unk in the pub then spent ages helping to push cars... He hadn't eaten and fell over in the snow and went to sleep at the end of our road .. I thought he was an attacker waiting to leap up and pounce on me.. It was early hours of the morning.. I was very traumatised  | |||
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"I should add to the above. My health visitor and mum are my motivators! My mum breastfed 7 children (yes!!) and did so to natural term (ie when it came to a natural and mutual end). My health visitor seen how much I enjoyed breastfeeding and being an advocate for myself and others that she told me to go for it... So I did! I was one of the first to set up a local breastfeeding group and it's gone from there. Of course I should thank my children too, if it wasn't for them I probably wouldn't be that interested "This is amazing - i think that's three of you now on one thread.. I never even thought about the need for such a service previously! | |||
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"I'm Santa's elf. Run the grotto and various other shiz. Not to mention wrapping over 1000 presents every year (so far this year 631 down, 512 to go). And lifeboat." Flipping heck! That's a lot of wrapping
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"I'm Santa's elf. Run the grotto and various other shiz. Not to mention wrapping over 1000 presents every year (so far this year 631 down, 512 to go). And lifeboat. Flipping heck! That's a lot of wrapping
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"I used to do cat rescue, massively rewarding, made lots of friends through it too. " Oh i am a failed cat fosterer.. Couldn't give her back
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"Are volunteer workers sometimes exploited by charities?" Would you like to expand your thought process more, it's quite a wide statement.. My broad reply would be, yes I'm sure some do? | |||
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"I help facilitate groups of elderly people - reducing isolation is our main remit, but we also look out for health and wellbeing (including some safeguarding). In some ways we're a safety net alongside GPs (we work explicitly in conjunction with local GPs and adult social services). It's incredibly rewarding but has been a lot more work during the pandemic - the burden hasn't relented yet. " Oh i love this... I became a B:friender at the start of lockdown .. I was worried about what we would talk about each week, but the time flies by! | |||
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"What an uplifting thread! I'm looking at retiring soon and would like to do some voluntary work to fill in the time and there's some great suggestions here. I'd like to get involved in helping the homeless and also at a pet rescue centre. " Isn't it just! I'm always amazed at how involved our fellow Fabbers are! Good luck with finding a charity, there are amazing people doing tremendous work | |||
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"I help facilitate groups of elderly people - reducing isolation is our main remit, but we also look out for health and wellbeing (including some safeguarding). In some ways we're a safety net alongside GPs (we work explicitly in conjunction with local GPs and adult social services). It's incredibly rewarding but has been a lot more work during the pandemic - the burden hasn't relented yet. Oh i love this... I became a B:friender at the start of lockdown .. I was worried about what we would talk about each week, but the time flies by! " Significant overlap with what I do - and yes, it's incredible. Thank you, as well - you'll know how much of a lifeline it was during lockdown for those who aren't online. | |||
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"Over the last 40 years I've volunteered with youth groups, an assistance dog charity and a search and rescue charity. The time involved varied from an hour a week to a full day every week. I left the youth groups due to other commitments and both charities due to internal politics and am not currently involved in any charity work. " Oh internal politics can suck the life out of volunteers
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"I'm Santa's elf. Run the grotto and various other shiz. Not to mention wrapping over 1000 presents every year (so far this year 631 down, 512 to go). And lifeboat. Flipping heck! That's a lot of wrapping
Where do the donations come from?
My dad donates them "
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"I help facilitate groups of elderly people - reducing isolation is our main remit, but we also look out for health and wellbeing (including some safeguarding). In some ways we're a safety net alongside GPs (we work explicitly in conjunction with local GPs and adult social services). It's incredibly rewarding but has been a lot more work during the pandemic - the burden hasn't relented yet. Oh i love this... I became a B:friender at the start of lockdown .. I was worried about what we would talk about each week, but the time flies by! Significant overlap with what I do - and yes, it's incredible. Thank you, as well - you'll know how much of a lifeline it was during lockdown for those who aren't online." I hope i get to meet them irl.. I feel like time is ebbing away
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"Nothing at the moment but it's something I've done on and off for a long time. My most rewarding role was working with an adult literacy class - it's a subject I'm very interested in and we had a brilliant group that had fun while learning. To be honest I've always got as much out as I've put in so it's been a pleasure rather than a duty. That sounds really worthwhile amd must be incredible for the people you are helping. It must take a lot of courage for them to seek help too.. Huge admiration for you "Thank you OP ! This is a great thread and has inspired me to look out for fresh volunteer opportunities in the New Year. | |||
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"Over the last 40 years I've volunteered with youth groups, an assistance dog charity and a search and rescue charity. The time involved varied from an hour a week to a full day every week. I left the youth groups due to other commitments and both charities due to internal politics and am not currently involved in any charity work. Oh internal politics can suck the life out of volunteers
It sounds like something you will return to when the time is right.. When it's in you, it is hard to resist "Actually no, my days of helping out are behind me. I've done it since I was 16 and no longer have the inclination or energy to help others. | |||
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"Nothing at the moment but it's something I've done on and off for a long time. My most rewarding role was working with an adult literacy class - it's a subject I'm very interested in and we had a brilliant group that had fun while learning. To be honest I've always got as much out as I've put in so it's been a pleasure rather than a duty. That sounds really worthwhile amd must be incredible for the people you are helping. It must take a lot of courage for them to seek help too.. Huge admiration for you
Thank you OP !
This is a great thread and has inspired me to look out for fresh volunteer opportunities in the New Year."Yaay i love this.. Good luck with your search.. They will be incredibly lucky to gain you | |||
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"Over the last 40 years I've volunteered with youth groups, an assistance dog charity and a search and rescue charity. The time involved varied from an hour a week to a full day every week. I left the youth groups due to other commitments and both charities due to internal politics and am not currently involved in any charity work. Oh internal politics can suck the life out of volunteers
It sounds like something you will return to when the time is right.. When it's in you, it is hard to resist
Actually no, my days of helping out are behind me.
I've done it since I was 16 and no longer have the inclination or energy to help others.
"well it sounds like you've definitely made a major contribution over those years x Time to focus on yourself for a while, nothing wrong with that | |||
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"I help facilitate groups of elderly people - reducing isolation is our main remit, but we also look out for health and wellbeing (including some safeguarding). In some ways we're a safety net alongside GPs (we work explicitly in conjunction with local GPs and adult social services). It's incredibly rewarding but has been a lot more work during the pandemic - the burden hasn't relented yet. Oh i love this... I became a B:friender at the start of lockdown .. I was worried about what we would talk about each week, but the time flies by! Significant overlap with what I do - and yes, it's incredible. Thank you, as well - you'll know how much of a lifeline it was during lockdown for those who aren't online. I hope i get to meet them irl.. I feel like time is ebbing away
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"Nothing at the moment but it's something I've done on and off for a long time. My most rewarding role was working with an adult literacy class - it's a subject I'm very interested in and we had a brilliant group that had fun while learning. To be honest I've always got as much out as I've put in so it's been a pleasure rather than a duty. That sounds really worthwhile amd must be incredible for the people you are helping. It must take a lot of courage for them to seek help too.. Huge admiration for you
Thank you OP !
This is a great thread and has inspired me to look out for fresh volunteer opportunities in the New Year."Can always volunteer at Park run too ? | |||
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"Some of these buggers are exciting volunteers in my opinion.. think twice people, think twice " Did you mean enticing ? What's the worst that could happen  | |||
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"Some of these buggers are exciting volunteers in my opinion.. think twice people, think twice Did you mean enticing ? What's the worst that could happen "People getting rich on your goodwill... | |||
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"I've been finding it really difficult to offer my time. For the longest time any charity I rang just wanted my money and said they had no vacancies. Then finally found somewhere just before Covid and it had to be put on hold. My charity helps families who are victims of domestic abuse. My first placement didn't work out as the demand for support was very low. I'm currently waiting for my next placement. I'm motivated because I think domestic abuse affects so many people and is so destructive. I also have been helped by charity in the past and now that I can, I want to give back." | |||
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"And yes we got a guy off heroin,who's now a counsellor,knock on effect" Is anyone ever off heroin ? | |||
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"I help facilitate groups of elderly people - reducing isolation is our main remit, but we also look out for health and wellbeing (including some safeguarding). In some ways we're a safety net alongside GPs (we work explicitly in conjunction with local GPs and adult social services). It's incredibly rewarding but has been a lot more work during the pandemic - the burden hasn't relented yet. Oh i love this... I became a B:friender at the start of lockdown .. I was worried about what we would talk about each week, but the time flies by! Significant overlap with what I do - and yes, it's incredible. Thank you, as well - you'll know how much of a lifeline it was during lockdown for those who aren't online. I hope i get to meet them irl.. I feel like time is ebbing away
You bring them such joy "Thank you | |||
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"Not sure would be considered as meaningful as other posts here but used to volunteer on my local scene, helping at socials and events, helping new people find their way and try to help them avoid the mistakes I made " I view it as improving your community and raising awareness, so absolutely | |||
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"Helped with several transgender support groups for a number of years. Dropped out of that about 3 years ago when mum died and I needed to spend part of my energy helping dad and all the remainder looking after my own mental health. At some point I hope to start giving my energy to others again, probably something general in the community as opposed to being specifically trans orientated." Oh there is so much awareness to raise on transgender issues.. I imagine it was very hard and feels ilke one step forward and three back at times.. But wow, once it starts to gain traction, it's very rewarding to know you were part of contributing to that
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"Some of these buggers are exciting volunteers in my opinion.. think twice people, think twice " Volunteering is very exciting.. So rewarding especially if you are passionate about your chosen partner
Do you do any volunteering Tom? | |||
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"Husband does a lot of building work for pensioners and doesn't charge. " Awww heart of gold | |||
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"Some of these buggers are exciting volunteers in my opinion.. think twice people, think twice Did you mean enticing ? What's the worst that could happen
People getting rich on your goodwill..."Find a local charity and give them your time.. That is your most precious commodity | |||
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"I used to do cat rescue, massively rewarding, made lots of friends through it too. Oh i am a failed cat fosterer.. Couldn't give her back
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"And yes we got a guy off heroin,who's now a counsellor,knock on effect Is anyone ever off heroin ?" yes,he's definitely clean | |||
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"I've been finding it really difficult to offer my time. For the longest time any charity I rang just wanted my money and said they had no vacancies. Then finally found somewhere just before Covid and it had to be put on hold. My charity helps families who are victims of domestic abuse. My first placement didn't work out as the demand for support was very low. I'm currently waiting for my next placement. I'm motivated because I think domestic abuse affects so many people and is so destructive. I also have been helped by charity in the past and now that I can, I want to give back." Oh i imagine that must be very rewarding!! It's lovely to be able to give back and know that you are helping others | |||
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"I do lots of charity rides,mostly action on addiction,two years ago we had 600 bikes and raised nearly 10k for an addiction centre,I'm on the admin team,it doesn't even seem hard work, although it takes a year to put together,as soon as the last run is done, were planning the next, it's nice to give a helping hand" Wow! That is astounding it must nake a huge difference to the amount of people they can help | |||
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"I do voluntary work for a local autism charity. Kind of similar to my own work but... they're not paying me. I also do other little things when I can for them.
Why?
Because people deserve help, support, whatever when they have a loved one/child on the spectrum, if they want it. That person does also.
Because I'm on the spectrum as are most of my family.
Because sometimes autistic people are non verbal and don't have a voice. I do. A loud one. So I'm going to speak up for those who can't.
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"And yes we got a guy off heroin,who's now a counsellor,knock on effect" That is a tremendous outcome | |||
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"I used to do cat rescue, massively rewarding, made lots of friends through it too. Oh i am a failed cat fosterer.. Couldn't give her back
I support a local cat charity
This is how I ended up with so many... " i have three! | |||
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"i pay the utility bills, business rates etc for two food banks in the area where i grew up. i have donated the use of 3 houses to partner charities under the ARAP and ACRS. i sponsor an autism charity. i gift other charities whenever i think it is appropriate." Gosh that is a wonderful gesture | |||
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"I can be in and around my village with my litter picker. Not my rubbish but it’s where I live so I like to keep it tidy!! " Litter picking is very popular at the moment! It definitely helps the environment and the community | |||
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"I should add to the above. My health visitor and mum are my motivators! My mum breastfed 7 children (yes!!) and did so to natural term (ie when it came to a natural and mutual end). My health visitor seen how much I enjoyed breastfeeding and being an advocate for myself and others that she told me to go for it... So I did! I was one of the first to set up a local breastfeeding group and it's gone from there. Of course I should thank my children too, if it wasn't for them I probably wouldn't be that interested
This is amazing - i think that's three of you now on one thread.. I never even thought about the need for such a service previously!"Oh, there definitely is! A huge lack of breastfeeding support/knowledge in the NHS and it can be very challenging. I volunteer at my children's school - well, in a more limited capacity due to restrictions of late, but still trying to keep a sense of school community going. Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I can be in and around my village with my litter picker. Not my rubbish but it’s where I live so I like to keep it tidy!! Litter picking is very popular at the moment! It definitely helps the environment and the community "Most definitely. I also retrieve errant helium balloons that are drifting across the fields!! | |||
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"I've done all sorts over the years.. from working with teenage mums to domestic violence and other things. Spent the last year or so working as a nhs volunteer and helping at vaccine centres. Also help at a museum as a dinosaur geek "How did you get involved with your chosen charities? They are very diverse! | |||
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"I should add to the above. My health visitor and mum are my motivators! My mum breastfed 7 children (yes!!) and did so to natural term (ie when it came to a natural and mutual end). My health visitor seen how much I enjoyed breastfeeding and being an advocate for myself and others that she told me to go for it... So I did! I was one of the first to set up a local breastfeeding group and it's gone from there. Of course I should thank my children too, if it wasn't for them I probably wouldn't be that interested
This is amazing - i think that's three of you now on one thread.. I never even thought about the need for such a service previously!
Oh, there definitely is! A huge lack of breastfeeding support/knowledge in the NHS and it can be very challenging.
I volunteer at my children's school - well, in a more limited capacity due to restrictions of late, but still trying to keep a sense of school community going.
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"I can be in and around my village with my litter picker. Not my rubbish but it’s where I live so I like to keep it tidy!! Litter picking is very popular at the moment! It definitely helps the environment and the community
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"Currently volunteer with a national charity as a COVID and flu vaccinator. I lead on fundraising for my wheelchair basketball team, which is a charity. In the past, I've been on a primary school governing body for 12yrs, 2 of them as Chair and have volunteered in a charity that supported people with specific health problems. I ran out of time! I am involved with support groups online for breastfeeding support, women's health issues and the specific pregnancy related injuries I experienced. " I'm not surprised you ran out of time, that is a lot of volunteering! Which is your favourite? | |||
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"Currently volunteer with a national charity as a COVID and flu vaccinator. I lead on fundraising for my wheelchair basketball team, which is a charity. In the past, I've been on a primary school governing body for 12yrs, 2 of them as Chair and have volunteered in a charity that supported people with specific health problems. I ran out of time! I am involved with support groups online for breastfeeding support, women's health issues and the specific pregnancy related injuries I experienced. I'm not surprised you ran out of time, that is a lot of volunteering! Which is your favourite? " Probably the vaccinating. I feel like I'm making a proper difference and it's using some of the skills I've learned over the years. Although my basketball team is a very rewarding group too, the constant writing of funding applications is draining sometimes. So much paperwork and hoops to jump through..... | |||
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"Currently volunteer with a national charity as a COVID and flu vaccinator. I lead on fundraising for my wheelchair basketball team, which is a charity. In the past, I've been on a primary school governing body for 12yrs, 2 of them as Chair and have volunteered in a charity that supported people with specific health problems. I ran out of time! I am involved with support groups online for breastfeeding support, women's health issues and the specific pregnancy related injuries I experienced. I'm not surprised you ran out of time, that is a lot of volunteering! Which is your favourite? Probably the vaccinating. I feel like I'm making a proper difference and it's using some of the skills I've learned over the years. Although my basketball team is a very rewarding group too, the constant writing of funding applications is draining sometimes. So much paperwork and hoops to jump through..... " You do become an expert at grant writing tho when you do so many !! Although sometimes the hoops you have to jump through are too much It must be brilliant to use your skills during the pandemic crisis and really know what an amazing difference you are making .. Thank you from a grateful member of the public
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"Oh, and I used to go into school as a STEM Ambassador, to widen horizons about careers in the sciences. " Oh yes! We have lots of them at work | |||
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"I should add to the above. My health visitor and mum are my motivators! My mum breastfed 7 children (yes!!) and did so to natural term (ie when it came to a natural and mutual end). My health visitor seen how much I enjoyed breastfeeding and being an advocate for myself and others that she told me to go for it... So I did! I was one of the first to set up a local breastfeeding group and it's gone from there. Of course I should thank my children too, if it wasn't for them I probably wouldn't be that interested
This is amazing - i think that's three of you now on one thread.. I never even thought about the need for such a service previously!
Oh, there definitely is! A huge lack of breastfeeding support/knowledge in the NHS and it can be very challenging.
I volunteer at my children's school - well, in a more limited capacity due to restrictions of late, but still trying to keep a sense of school community going.
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I imagine it's been a little taboo as well over the years , which must be very frustrating when you need help "It's not that. More that there's so much misinformation and misunderstanding out there about breastfeeding. Plus it's a very emotive subject for many. The minute you try to advocate for it, someone shouts you down for bashing people who formula feed. X | |||
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"I've done all sorts over the years.. from working with teenage mums to domestic violence and other things. Spent the last year or so working as a nhs volunteer and helping at vaccine centres. Also help at a museum as a dinosaur geek
How did you get involved with your chosen charities? They are very diverse! "the young mums because I was one.. and there wasnt many working in that area that have the life experience.. domestic violence because I am a survivor myself. The dinosaur bit.. oh I got lucky and applied and my enthusiasm got me on the job x | |||
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"I do voluntary work for a local autism charity. Kind of similar to my own work but... they're not paying me. I also do other little things when I can for them.
Why?
Because people deserve help, support, whatever when they have a loved one/child on the spectrum, if they want it. That person does also.
Because I'm on the spectrum as are most of my family.
Because sometimes autistic people are non verbal and don't have a voice. I do. A loud one. So I'm going to speak up for those who can't.
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"I should add to the above. My health visitor and mum are my motivators! My mum breastfed 7 children (yes!!) and did so to natural term (ie when it came to a natural and mutual end). My health visitor seen how much I enjoyed breastfeeding and being an advocate for myself and others that she told me to go for it... So I did! I was one of the first to set up a local breastfeeding group and it's gone from there. Of course I should thank my children too, if it wasn't for them I probably wouldn't be that interested
This is amazing - i think that's three of you now on one thread.. I never even thought about the need for such a service previously!
Oh, there definitely is! A huge lack of breastfeeding support/knowledge in the NHS and it can be very challenging.
I volunteer at my children's school - well, in a more limited capacity due to restrictions of late, but still trying to keep a sense of school community going.
Mrs TMN x
I imagine it's been a little taboo as well over the years , which must be very frustrating when you need help
It's not that. More that there's so much misinformation and misunderstanding out there about breastfeeding. Plus it's a very emotive subject for many. The minute you try to advocate for it, someone shouts you down for bashing people who formula feed. X" | |||
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"I've done all sorts over the years.. from working with teenage mums to domestic violence and other things. Spent the last year or so working as a nhs volunteer and helping at vaccine centres. Also help at a museum as a dinosaur geek
How did you get involved with your chosen charities? They are very diverse! the young mums because I was one.. and there wasnt many working in that area that have the life experience.. domestic violence because I am a survivor myself.
The dinosaur bit.. oh I got lucky and applied and my enthusiasm got me on the job x " dinosar jobs are not exactly 2 a penny | |||
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"I used to coach junior rugby for a spell, and rescued my dog if that counts?! "Oh definitely! I used to have rescue dogs a long time ago | |||
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"Jesus, I don't have enough hours in the day to do my day job never mind volunteering for another! "How about getting your firm engaged with a charity and let your employees use working hours to do some activities? | |||
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"Jesus, I don't have enough hours in the day to do my day job never mind volunteering for another!
How about getting your firm engaged with a charity and let your employees use working hours to do some activities? "They actually do a lot of charity stuff which is good and our MD ran the marathon last week for a charity | |||
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"Jesus, I don't have enough hours in the day to do my day job never mind volunteering for another!
How about getting your firm engaged with a charity and let your employees use working hours to do some activities?
They actually do a lot of charity stuff which is good and our MD ran the marathon last week for a charity"Oh that's pretty good! | |||
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"I help homeless people through a local charity. We set up community centres and churches in the winter months. Host evenings with food, games etc to keep people stay occupied and link then up with housing options that may help them. To get deep - due to shit parents, I spent a year on the street when I was 16, always said when I get in a position to, I will help people not feel as though they're alone. " Love this Amazing Jo xx | |||
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"I volunteer with my dog Mental health primarily I get such fulfillment I can't tell you
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"Helped at a homeless center in derby city for 2 years, got pricked with a needle because i refused to give her money. Waited for weeks to see if id contracted anything. Fu*k charitable work now. Never again. "Damn! | |||
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"I volunteer with my dog Mental health primarily I get such fulfillment I can't tell you
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"I've been involved in volunteering since the age of 11 as my parents were heavily involved with The Red Cross. So I assisted at First Aid Posts for years and taught First Aid for many years. I don't think a year has gone by when I haven't done some voluntary work. I've had many roles with the MS Society and the carers group in Stoke.I was on the board of Governors at the local school, hosted fundraisers for Nepal, Homeless charities, and Prostate Cancer and set up a Facebook group to provide mental health support through the pandemic. I now regularly volunteer at the local Vaccination Centre. Volunteering will always be an important part of my life." I love that it was engrained in you from a young age | |||
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"Helped at a homeless center in derby city for 2 years, got pricked with a needle because i refused to give her money. Waited for weeks to see if id contracted anything. Fu*k charitable work now. Never again. "Oh dear, i can see how that would be a very distressing and concerning situation situation... Have you thought about non-contact volunteering? | |||
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"Helped at a homeless center in derby city for 2 years, got pricked with a needle because i refused to give her money. Waited for weeks to see if id contracted anything. Fu*k charitable work now. Never again.
Oh dear, i can see how that would be a very distressing and concerning situation situation... Have you thought about non-contact volunteering? "No i knocked it on the head. If i ever do a enduro event and take sponsorship or ever sell anything small or like a phone thats come off contract i tend to ask for a donation to 'mind uk' thats asfar as i go now. | |||
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"Helped at a homeless center in derby city for 2 years, got pricked with a needle because i refused to give her money. Waited for weeks to see if id contracted anything. Fu*k charitable work now. Never again.
Oh dear, i can see how that would be a very distressing and concerning situation situation... Have you thought about non-contact volunteering?
No i knocked it on the head. If i ever do a enduro event and take sponsorship or ever sell anything small or like a phone thats come off contract i tend to ask for a donation to 'mind uk' thats asfar as i go now. "Yep, understandable x | |||
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"I used to do lots of charity work, ran one charity group for 16 years while my sons were at school. Took disabled children and their families on day trips. Then I ran one group that provided an after school club for disabled children at the local special needs playground. An after school football club for disabled children, helped at my children’s school, plus worked with lots of other parents to be ghe voice of disabled children regarding LA policy x " Oh my goodness that is a huge commitment, especially with your own family | |||
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"I've done all sorts over the years.. from working with teenage mums to domestic violence and other things. Spent the last year or so working as a nhs volunteer and helping at vaccine centres. Also help at a museum as a dinosaur geek
How did you get involved with your chosen charities? They are very diverse! the young mums because I was one.. and there wasnt many working in that area that have the life experience.. domestic violence because I am a survivor myself.
The dinosaur bit.. oh I got lucky and applied and my enthusiasm got me on the job x
dinosar jobs are not exactly 2 a penny "sadly it is not long term but I love telling people about the dinosaur | |||
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"Just spent 4 months volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary out in the amazon jungle, caring for and studying monkeys that have been rescued from the pet and tourist trade. Absolutely incredible" Not. At. All. Jealous. | |||
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"Just spent 4 months volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary out in the amazon jungle, caring for and studying monkeys that have been rescued from the pet and tourist trade. Absolutely incredible" wow that's amazing x | |||
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"I coach a youth rugby team its a good laugh parent politics do my head in mind you" Oh yeah i bet parents are a nightmare | |||
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" Used to transport nurses and dialysis patients during adverse weather and part of 4x4 response team. The challenge of doing so was always good and the feel good factor made all the difference. Ended up joining after inviting the group to my other previous place of volunteering and organising a classic and sports car show. And then was chairman and volunteer at a working steam railway... so not quite the normal volunteering as mentioned here but was still giving back to the community and also preserving our heritage. Started that in my late teens after being dragged there by a mate and having to be up at 6 on a Sunday morning to light and fire a steam train. Worked my way and enjoyed the challenge of running the place, organising staff, training, health and safety, maintenance, events etc. It was pretty much full time, alongside my engineering there and was proud to take it and turn the charity into a CIO and oversee some pretty big projects. " Oh those are unusual ways to help.. I love it when you can share your skills... It make hard work enjoyable and satisfying | |||
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"Just spent 4 months volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary out in the amazon jungle, caring for and studying monkeys that have been rescued from the pet and tourist trade. Absolutely incredible" Oh my niece would love this, she is animal obsessed, would you mind saying how you found the opportunity? DM if you prefer | |||
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"I've done all sorts over the years.. from working with teenage mums to domestic violence and other things. Spent the last year or so working as a nhs volunteer and helping at vaccine centres. Also help at a museum as a dinosaur geek
How did you get involved with your chosen charities? They are very diverse! the young mums because I was one.. and there wasnt many working in that area that have the life experience.. domestic violence because I am a survivor myself.
The dinosaur bit.. oh I got lucky and applied and my enthusiasm got me on the job x
dinosar jobs are not exactly 2 a penny sadly it is not long term but I love telling people about the dinosaur "We need an emoji (dinosaur) This is the best i can do  | |||
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"I volunteer as a Driver / Driver's mate for a Charity, that distributes surplus food from the Major Supermarkets, to smaller local charities in the community, that operate foodbanks and kitchens providing meals to those in need. The surplus food that supermarkets don't sell and send to landfill, results in a charge to them. By donating the (in date) surplas food, the Supermarket avoid the landfill cost. The charity is then able to redistribute the food, to those in need. It feels meaningful supporting the other volunteers who operate the foodbanks and community kitchens. I also enjoy the physically demanding task of loading and delivering the crates of food. I enjoy the role. I like being White Van Man for the day. " Oh this is great! My work place are about to partner with an organisation that provides this service - its very exciting to know you are practically helping people in need | |||
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"What an uplifting thread. Lovely to read "I didn't expect to find so many people doing so nany amazing things | |||
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"What started as an initiative to feed the homeless on Christmas day has now become a year-round charity that runs a food and clothing bank from a town centre unit. Christmas Day is still the best bit, though. I wouldn't want to spend the day differently now; it's knackering but joyous. " That is incredible | |||
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"Set up an animal charity while I lived abroad as there wasn’t anyone doing anything about the huge numbers of stray cats and dogs. Continued to do animal charity work when I came home. All my animals are rescued! " I'm a big supporter of animal rescues , especially the small local ones | |||
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"I’m a breastfeeding counsellor, all voluntary with a charity. I got involved after feeding my children and struggling with my first. Been involved in scouting all my life, at 18 I became a leader. Ready to leave now though. Part of a speed watch team, I’ve got my gun and I’ll catch you "Still involved in scouting after 30 plus years, when not working away. | |||
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"Just spent 4 months volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary out in the amazon jungle, caring for and studying monkeys that have been rescued from the pet and tourist trade. Absolutely incredible" Wow - that’s brilliant! | |||
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"I’m a breastfeeding counsellor, all voluntary with a charity. I got involved after feeding my children and struggling with my first. Been involved in scouting all my life, at 18 I became a leader. Ready to leave now though. Part of a speed watch team, I’ve got my gun and I’ll catch you "Oo do you get to give tickets out for speeding, or is it more of a deterent?? | |||
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"I’m a breastfeeding counsellor, all voluntary with a charity. I got involved after feeding my children and struggling with my first. Been involved in scouting all my life, at 18 I became a leader. Ready to leave now though. Part of a speed watch team, I’ve got my gun and I’ll catch you
Still involved in scouting after 30 plus years, when not working away."My mum used to be an akela (sp??) | |||
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"I’m a breastfeeding counsellor, all voluntary with a charity. I got involved after feeding my children and struggling with my first. Been involved in scouting all my life, at 18 I became a leader. Ready to leave now though. Part of a speed watch team, I’ve got my gun and I’ll catch you
Oo do you get to give tickets out for speeding, or is it more of a deterent?? "More as a deterrent, education. But if we do catch people speeding we pass the details on to the police and they send a letter, third time they get a hand delivered letter from transport police | |||
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