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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Milton Keynes

A couple have sex two nights a week but the man masturbates 5 nights out of the week. Because the woman is to tired to have sex every night.

Whos at fault?

1. Him for being way too horny

2. Her for not being on his level

3. Nobody because 2 nights a week is more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one’s and not because 2 nights a week is sufficient

Some people just have higher sex drivers than others and that’s ok

Hence why a fully open relationship is the best bet

So both people needs can be satisfied sexually while still minting a love happy realship

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

He could be happy with the amount of sex he has and wanking just because he likes how it feels not because he’s not happy with his sex life

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

The relationship is fucked if you're looking to blame. Look to support and maybe it can be salvaged.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Why should it be anyone's fault? It is a totally natural thing for one person to want sex when the other doesn't. As someone else has said if people are looking too apportion blame then their is a large issue in that relationship that needs sorting.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Why should it be anyone's fault? It is a totally natural thing for one person to want sex when the other doesn't. As someone else has said if people are looking too apportion blame then their is a large issue in that relationship that needs sorting."

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"A couple have sex two nights a week but the man masturbates 5 nights out of the week. Because the woman is to tired to have sex every night.

Whos at fault?

1. Him for being way too horny

2. Her for not being on his level

3. Nobody because 2 nights a week is more than enough "

None of the above, its a simple mismatch of sexual appetite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should pull his weight a bit more than his penis

Maybe she'd be less tired then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she too tied because she's being vigorously frigging away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does anyone need to be to blame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He should pull his weight a bit more than his penis

Maybe she'd be less tired then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need more context. How much sex or wanking in the daytime ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have sex 24/7 but still wank when I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is at "Fault"

It's called life!!!

Claire

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

'Fault' ...I can't see where that even comes into it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"He should pull his weight a bit more than his penis

Maybe she'd be less tired then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No blame required x

I’m a pest, I seem to want more than my other half but that’s ok we make it work x

We have fab and toys so everyone gets what they need x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Would she want sex more than twice a week if she wasn't tired?

Why is she so tired? Is there something he could do to help, thus giving her a break?

Is she getting sufficient nutrients and sleep?

Is he wanking coz he's actually horny or out of boredom or habit? If it's habit would he even want sex more or would he miss his habitual 5 nights wanking? That could be his "him" time

Why does there need to be fault or blame? Is it even a problem?

Is he annoyed she ain't putting out as much as he wants or is she thinking he's some kind of weirdo?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd see the problem being more the mindset that see's fault and blame. I'd say that's more an indication of the problems with the relationship more than the sex (or lack of it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly in the example, there is little communication happening.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Is the sex twice a week even enjoyable for either of them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple have sex two nights a week but the man masturbates 5 nights out of the week. Because the woman is to tired to have sex every night.

Whos at fault?

1. Him for being way too horny

2. Her for not being on his level

3. Nobody because 2 nights a week is more than enough "

Option 4: Society. Everyone multitasking work, kids, home, commitments etc…

Although maybe could be 2. for her not being on his level and being open, good to have a bit of abstinence but a bit of balance too.

Four x week perfect !

SXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like the sort of post a cheating person would make, and then blame his mrs, because he's not getting enough... just saying.

If you love someone, it doesnt matter 'how many times a week' you have sex.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Milton Keynes


"This sounds like the sort of post a cheating person would make, and then blame his mrs, because he's not getting enough... just saying.

If you love someone, it doesnt matter 'how many times a week' you have sex. "

You can find most of this content on twitter, I find the content there and post it back here. I will send you the link if you like

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP why don't you start a new show called

1 2 3

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Wicklow


"A couple have sex two nights a week but the man masturbates 5 nights out of the week. Because the woman is to tired to have sex every night.

Whos at fault?

1. Him for being way too horny

2. Her for not being on his level

3. Nobody because 2 nights a week is more than enough "

There is no fault here. Both are getting sexual pleasure. And both seem to be taking responsibility for their own pleasure, and boundaries.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Milton Keynes


"OP why don't you start a new show called

1 2 3

"

Why not lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"OP why don't you start a new show called

1 2 3

Why not lol"

Do it

Do it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither are at fault, the both get their needs met happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it always the woman who is too tired. She's having a crafty wank those other nights too dont you worry. The sex is probably crap

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t think people stop wanking just because they have plenty of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sounds like the sort of post a cheating person would make, and then blame his mrs, because he's not getting enough... just saying.

If you love someone, it doesnt matter 'how many times a week' you have sex.

You can find most of this content on twitter, I find the content there and post it back here. I will send you the link if you like

"

I like your threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one at fault their sex drive just isn’t compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is to blame, sometimes we go a couple of weeks without having sex but I know we wank in-between, not together at the same time, doesn't mean anything wrong with us, we just go with the flow.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares,he's getting his jollies,and she's getting sleep

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