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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ? | |||
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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ?"It’s a niche market man, but every niche is present. If there’s no luck in your area, try expanding and be will to catch a train. Stopping into a few clubs and collecting verifications helps too, since people can put behavior to a face. Just chat people up and slide what your Fab is, if convo goes well. Along with networking, we also had after club parties in hotels back in the states. That was where the real fun is. | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? " I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland | |||
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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ?
It’s a niche market man, but every niche is present. If there’s no luck in your area, try expanding and be will to catch a train.
Stopping into a few clubs and collecting verifications helps too, since people can put behavior to a face. Just chat people up and slide what your Fab is, if convo goes well.
Along with networking, we also had after club parties in hotels back in the states. That was where the real fun is. "I don’t know man I’m quite introverted and little socially awkward, those kind of setting me make me feel out of place | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland" you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. | |||
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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ?"You must have zero chat or personality! Not having a go but you look in good shape the only sad part is you feel the need to bang up a thread like this Anyway hope you get what you where looking for out of this All the best OP | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much." Oh right I see | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see " Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? | |||
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"It’s quite sad
What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ?
It’s a niche market man, but every niche is present. If there’s no luck in your area, try expanding and be will to catch a train.
Stopping into a few clubs and collecting verifications helps too, since people can put behavior to a face. Just chat people up and slide what your Fab is, if convo goes well.
Along with networking, we also had after club parties in hotels back in the states. That was where the real fun is.
I don’t know man I’m quite introverted and little socially awkward, those kind of setting me make me feel out of place "Drink a bit of alcohol (not too much) and use that as an opener. My conversation started is usually something along the lines of “You both look very well, fancy a chat? My social skills got a bit dull during the pandemic but some conversation always helps.” After that, it’s a normal conversation with a bit of flirting dropped in. Either that or talk with the staff and dip your toe in the conversation water. Everyone has awkward first experiences. But with a body like yours, you can definitely meet people if I can. | |||
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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ?"the joys of being a male on here | |||
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"SHOUT VERY LOUDLY AND STAMP YOUR FEET "Alternatively, if your club has a pole, become a male stripper for the night. It’s pretty fun and ya might walk away with some laughs and tips. | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality?" We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! | |||
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What do I have to do to get peoples attention on here ? the joys of being a male on here"If y’all just use the site as a dating tool, gonna be wildly dissatisfied. Tinder, Hinge and bumble are alright, but meeting people irl has never been easier after COVID. This site works best when you’re looking to be a degenerate like me and experience wild, crazy sex. | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!!" Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. | |||
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"SHOUT VERY LOUDLY AND STAMP YOUR FEET "Would tap dancing shoes help in this situation? | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. " I train BJJ full time. I’m a purple belt competitor and coach . It’s all I do  but my club is kind of serious, no one goes to clubs or drinks or anything like that Just a bunch of jiu jitsu nerds lol | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. I train BJJ full time. I’m a purple belt competitor and coach . It’s all I do but my club is kind of serious, no one goes to clubs or drinks or anything like that Just a bunch of jiu jitsu nerds lol "You obviously have social skills you train people your in good nick Mate just keep on the threads best advice ! | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. I train BJJ full time. I’m a purple belt competitor and coach . It’s all I do but my club is kind of serious, no one goes to clubs or drinks or anything like that Just a bunch of jiu jitsu nerds lol
You obviously have social skills you train people your in good nick
Mate just keep on the threads best advice !"Always nice to see a self improvement thread for men. There’s nothing standing in someone’s way, when they decide to get better, Tons of dudes wonder why they can’t get laid, and the answer is usually a lack of desirability. A little effort and you’re set. | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. I train BJJ full time. I’m a purple belt competitor and coach . It’s all I do but my club is kind of serious, no one goes to clubs or drinks or anything like that Just a bunch of jiu jitsu nerds lol
You obviously have social skills you train people your in good nick
Mate just keep on the threads best advice !"Thanks I usually just lurk the forums but I’ll post more for sure | |||
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"maybe change your profile? comes across as you are your number one priority??? I don’t think my profile is too self centred. I mean, I’m not that type of person at all and if anything my profile is pretty bland you asked, I gave my opinion, it's not what you say, it's more the pics, gym bunnies don't impress me much. Oh right I see Maybe consider some other pictures which demonstrate your interests other than your body??? just a suggestion. Show something of your personality? We go to the gym cause we have no personality! If I had I wouldn’t drag my ass to that sweaty kip every morning !!!! Considered picking up a recreational sport? You can meet tons of people in BJJ and Kickboxing classes. That’s how I got my invite to my first club. I train BJJ full time. I’m a purple belt competitor and coach . It’s all I do but my club is kind of serious, no one goes to clubs or drinks or anything like that Just a bunch of jiu jitsu nerds lol
You obviously have social skills you train people your in good nick
Mate just keep on the threads best advice !
Thanks I usually just lurk the forums but I’ll post more for sure "That’s the attitude! Look Wasn’t been harsh earlier Regardless I apologize if it came off I tad blunt ! Anyway best of luck pal keep on here and be active | |||
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