FabSwingers.com forum: Who knew!?

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

I recently found out that adultery is only if a married man has sexual intercourse with another woman ( or a married woman with another man). But if a man or woman has a same sex relationship it doesn't count as adultery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not know this. Interesting.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thats the way forwards then

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I recently found out that adultery is only if a married man has sexual intercourse with another woman ( or a married woman with another man). But if a man or woman has a same sex relationship it doesn't count as adultery.

I only found this out recently too, when I was filling my divorce papers in. Who knew

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Loopholes and oversights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the person that invented this loophole clearly had a bit of spice (and foresight) within them

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's any sex outside of the marriage even a kiss

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's any sex outside of the marriage even a kiss "

Only socially. And even then it varies person to person on what they consider it to be.

The actual definition is vaginal intercourse

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It's any sex outside of the marriage even a kiss

Only socially. And even then it varies person to person on what they consider it to be.

The actual definition is vaginal intercourse "

Well well... Does that mean anal and oral is OK?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's any sex outside of the marriage even a kiss

Only socially. And even then it varies person to person on what they consider it to be.

The actual definition is vaginal intercourse

Well well... Does that mean anal and oral is OK? "

Technically yes. Only technically!

It is highly likely that any kind of voluntary sex, oral or anal, with any gender will be viewed adultery in today's modern world.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

What if it’s consensual? Is that still classed as adultery I wonder

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What if it’s consensual? Is that still classed as adultery I wonder "

It must be consensual, yes. Oh wait you mean consensual between the spouses?

Grey area again I guess, bringing it back to today's world views and subjective per person.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What if it’s consensual? Is that still classed as adultery I wonder

It must be consensual, yes. Oh wait you mean consensual between the spouses?

Grey area again I guess, bringing it back to today's world views and subjective per person. "

Yeah consensual between the spouses. If what vine said is quoted. I wonder if there is a “unless it’s consensual” bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a lot worse of legislation that only includes opposite sex couples because a lot of it hasn't been updated for decades. It was only in 2003 that there was a legal age of consent between two females, previously there wasn't one.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

That’s interesting!

The fact that legally it’s only sex if penetration occurs is a long held view that desperately needs to change but it also colours societal views as well.

Another example of how legislation and legalities on many things fall very very far behind the realities of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well huh, didn't know this. I guess back when they made the law same-sex fun was too taboo to mention

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

The law is an ass!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Well huh, didn't know this. I guess back when they made the law same-sex fun was too taboo to mention

I think it must even apply to same sex marriages. Daft

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Even the law is behind the times

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"It's any sex outside of the marriage even a kiss

Only socially. And even then it varies person to person on what they consider it to be.

The actual definition is vaginal intercourse "

Yes I understand because it can also lead to buggery

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

What if you’re not married

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