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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??"

Clothing depends on the club as some are dress down on arrival and others aren't. Of the ones that aren't some want smart, others are ok with casual.

If someone you aren't interested in talks to you I'd be polite but show with responses and body language that you are closed off to them, if that doesn't work turn the convo to swinging interests and make it plain they aren't yours. Failing that if they ask you to play a simple no is enough. No means no in all clubs x

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??

Clothing depends on the club as some are dress down on arrival and others aren't. Of the ones that aren't some want smart, others are ok with casual.

If someone you aren't interested in talks to you I'd be polite but show with responses and body language that you are closed off to them, if that doesn't work turn the convo to swinging interests and make it plain they aren't yours. Failing that if they ask you to play a simple no is enough. No means no in all clubs x"

Thank you

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??"

What to wear would depend on the club, if there’s a theme night, etc.

If someone starts talking to you just go with the flow. They may not actually be interested in you, just being friendly and can see you’re nervous, so want you to feel a little more comfortable and included. Not everyone that speaks to you wants to jump you

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Do's in a club: smile, be friendly and polite, appear confident (even if you aren't), engage in conversation, use the facilities, be approachable, know your boundaries and be assertive.

Don't's: don't drink too much alcohol, don't touch without asking/being invited to, don't get into arguments with people.

What to wear? All depends on the club. Some clubs are spa-based and they require all people to dress down on arrival- they provide lockers for your clothes and normally provide towels. You can wear a towel there or lingerie, or walk around naked if you're comfortable.

Other clubs work like nightclubs- you either don't need to dress down at all or only if you choose to go into play areas. In those clubs, you can wear whatever you feel comfortable yet sexy in.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??

What to wear would depend on the club, if there’s a theme night, etc.

If someone starts talking to you just go with the flow. They may not actually be interested in you, just being friendly and can see you’re nervous, so want you to feel a little more comfortable and included. Not everyone that speaks to you wants to jump you "

Thank you, and I know not everyone wants to bed me, BUT I have had one bad experience at a club, that’s why I’m asking these questions

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If someone touches you inappropriately them make it clear you're not interested. If they continue - report the idiot.

You should be safe in a club.

Good luck. X

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??"

‘Do’ go and ‘don't’ leave it any longer.

I have limited experience, but just start by having normal conversations. If I'm not interested, will just say I'm going for a mooch. People can tell by your body language.

I would wear a sexy dress that you feel comfortable in. You can always take a more risque outfit with you if your feeling confident.

Go for it, it's lots of fun!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

You can't sit the kids in the corner of the club with a bottle of Panda pop and a packet of KP crisps.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


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What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

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I've had good conversations with plenty of people I'm not interested in, nothing wrong with having a chat.

If they're being forward, I'd politely make it clear to them that you're not interested

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??

What to wear would depend on the club, if there’s a theme night, etc.

If someone starts talking to you just go with the flow. They may not actually be interested in you, just being friendly and can see you’re nervous, so want you to feel a little more comfortable and included. Not everyone that speaks to you wants to jump you

Thank you, and I know not everyone wants to bed me, BUT I have had one bad experience at a club, that’s why I’m asking these questions "

There is a forum thread for single women attending clubs together which maybe an idea for you?

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"What are some dos and don’t for being at a club???

What should I do when someone I’m not interested in starts to talk to me??

What should I wear??

What to wear would depend on the club, if there’s a theme night, etc.

If someone starts talking to you just go with the flow. They may not actually be interested in you, just being friendly and can see you’re nervous, so want you to feel a little more comfortable and included. Not everyone that speaks to you wants to jump you

Thank you, and I know not everyone wants to bed me, BUT I have had one bad experience at a club, that’s why I’m asking these questions

There is a forum thread for single women attending clubs together which maybe an idea for you? "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd recommend a Patrick costume (from Spongebob)

Do not approach the ladies let the ladies approach you whilst you do an erotic pole dance

Make sure to bring plenty of WD40 for the dry vaginas and super tight rectums

Don't fall in love with that woman who has beautiful tits and a big vagina (me)

Don't spunk on anyone because it could contain the deadly Covid virus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd recommend a Patrick costume (from Spongebob)

Do not approach the ladies let the ladies approach you whilst you do an erotic pole dance

Make sure to bring plenty of WD40 for the dry vaginas and super tight rectums

Don't fall in love with that woman who has beautiful tits and a big vagina (me)

Don't spunk on anyone because it could contain the deadly Covid virus "

I got vaccinated in each bollock on the understanding I could go around spaffing on people.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I'd recommend a Patrick costume (from Spongebob)

Do not approach the ladies let the ladies approach you whilst you do an erotic pole dance

Make sure to bring plenty of WD40 for the dry vaginas and super tight rectums

Don't fall in love with that woman who has beautiful tits and a big vagina (me)

Don't spunk on anyone because it could contain the deadly Covid virus

I got vaccinated in each bollock on the understanding I could go around spaffing on people."

It wasn’t the vaccine that I injected you with

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I'd recommend a Patrick costume (from Spongebob)

Do not approach the ladies let the ladies approach you whilst you do an erotic pole dance

Make sure to bring plenty of WD40 for the dry vaginas and super tight rectums

Don't fall in love with that woman who has beautiful tits and a big vagina (me)

Don't spunk on anyone because it could contain the deadly Covid virus "

Please take me with you!

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