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Why do a lot of women skip the guys who don’t go clubs but can bring club fun to the bedroom?

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Mainly a question for straight or bi woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they bring a load of wanking blokes who will watch us fuck?

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because they prefer to go to clubs?

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Just an observation I noticed on here but I suppose some ppl feel safer in numbers can’t blame anyone these days

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I definitely feel safer in clubs - I've got backup if something goes wrong.

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

I get that 100 per cent

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think a man could bring club fun to the bedroom.

Has he a crowd of people to chat to, a variety of people to have sex with, plenty of differently decorated bedrooms, a jacuzzi, dungeon, dancefloor etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an observation I noticed on here but I suppose some ppl feel safer in numbers can’t blame anyone these days"

That's definitely a factor.

Use the Reply + Quote button and we will know who you are replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think a man could bring club fun to the bedroom.

Has he a crowd of people to chat to, a variety of people to have sex with, plenty of differently decorated bedrooms, a jacuzzi, dungeon, dancefloor etc"

This is true.

And there is a communal energy in a club. You are surrounded by others fucking, the noises of sex is all you can hear, you are aware of everyone and of no one. At the end of the night there is a surge of energy and emotions and its magical

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Can that same man also ensure there are people around to step in if consent is withdrawn?

Or give me an easy away to get away if I decide not to go ahead with the meet?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Camden

How does a woman bring club fun to the bedroom? Does she charge you a gender-biased entry fee and limit the times you're allowed in? Is the comfortable bed with real sheets and pillows replaced with a judo mat?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Mainly a question for straight or bi woman "

Unless you go to clubs and not just one time and not just one club you will never know as a couple we like the variety and the party atmosphere sees all the sexy people have fun just gets the blood going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they bring a load of wanking blokes who will watch us fuck? "

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

My guess is they feel safer in the club environment

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I often see posts regarding people that are excluded for whatever reason.

Me I Focus on the ladies who fit my criteria.. its a waste of energy focussing on those who do not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often see posts regarding people that are excluded for whatever reason.

Me I Focus on the ladies who fit my criteria.. its a waste of energy focussing on those who do not."

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I’m going to say security, if the guy turns into a nutter in the bedroom then unlike in a club there is no one there to stop him

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never been to a club...much prefer something more intimate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to say security, if the guy turns into a nutter in the bedroom then unlike in a club there is no one there to stop him "

It can partly be about security but also it's just a completely different experience and environment in a club so I guess it just depends what you are looking for.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Club Tropicana drinks are free

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm confused.

What do men do at clubs that other men don't do in the bedroom?

I don't go to clubs, so I don't know.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Club Tropicana drinks are free "

Oh cheers

Now I'm going to be singing that all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are a good place to meet as there is no pressure to play. If you don't connect there are others to try your luck with. The person you meet will have been vetted as ID is required for membership. There are staff and fellow swingers that can see if something is getting to "hairy". If you get stood up you can play with others.

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Can that same man also ensure there are people around to step in if consent is withdrawn?

Or give me an easy away to get away if I decide not to go ahead with the meet? "
can’t speak for others but any female in my presence will have my 100 backing against any foul play

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"I've never been to a club...much prefer something more intimate x"
snap I’m the same abit more reserved to the public eye

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By *R PIPES 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Clubs are a good place to meet as there is no pressure to play. If you don't connect there are others to try your luck with. The person you meet will have been vetted as ID is required for membership. There are staff and fellow swingers that can see if something is getting to "hairy". If you get stood up you can play with others.

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thanks mite consider one day somewhere away from my normal surroundings

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You're more reserved, yeah, your profile pic shows it.... Does she know that too... Its a big no no with alot of ladies here having that as your profile

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

When most men here realise that most women want more than just a cock inside them, the angst will magically disappear and they will be set free.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Personal preference

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Our time is precious abd we have had a lot of no shows. At least at a club if they don't turn up, there's other people to meet and socialise with, possibly more

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I prefer clubs. Great atmosphere, great people.

If you meet somebody at the club and don’t feel up for it then there is no pressure and you can both look for fun elsewhere.

A lot more options.

And clubs are safer as other members will help and protect you if things go wrong.

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