FabSwingers.com forum: Deja vu

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Weirdly I said exactly the same thing the other day in a thread and no one responded.

Just kidding

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

All the time...it's how I check if my invisibility cloak is still working

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"All the time...it's how I check if my invisibility cloak is still working

Who said that???

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By *isteaMan
over a year ago

Around

I feel like I'm more drawn to the topic than the person. If it's interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I'm more drawn to the topic than the person. If it's interesting. "

Same here.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Yup

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the time...it's how I check if my invisibility cloak is still working

Not too well, I can see your derriere ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I don't let it eat me up...

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Often, but it's not that you are always ignored, many people read the title and the opening post, then type their own response without reading the other comments. Plus there are a group of people on here who interact outside of here. As friends, they tend to respond to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Is that what you have done what with you being so hot and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often people dont read the whole thread and actually a lot of people read from the bottom up, so would probably see that post first.

Also how do you know that person is more attractive or more popular because those things are subjective.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, I am mostly invisible these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often, but it's not that you are always ignored, many people read the title and the opening post, then type their own response without reading the other comments. Plus there are a group of people on here who interact outside of here. As friends, they tend to respond to each other."

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people. "

Ah right, my mistake in my phrasing, I didn't go into enough detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

Ah right, my mistake in my phrasing, I didn't go into enough detail."

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people. "

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like to think that people ignore me in reverence to my sheer awesomeness.

Well….that’s what I keep telling myself anyhow…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I am mostly invisible these days

Red, black and leopard print!!!! I think we can definitely see that

;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to think that people ignore me in reverence to my sheer awesomeness.

Well….that’s what I keep telling myself anyhow…"

It can be quite the burden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear"

So because people build-up friendships and talk to a few others that makes it a clique?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear"

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all go through phases of being invisible on here. Try not to take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times."

That is quite obviously a dig at me because you have done it onseveral posts.

I am really offended that you have just had the cheek to suggest I'm in a clique because I respond to almost everybody on every thread I post regardless of who they are so will have less of that thank you!

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep, had it happen a while back on one of my previous outings here

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I was going to tell a joke about Deja Vu

But I think you've heard it before

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I feel like I'm more drawn to the topic than the person. If it's interesting. "

Same. I rarely even look who’s posted. Although I don’t usually read whole threads either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times.

That is quite obviously a dig at me because you have done it onseveral posts.

Don’t rise to it!!

Clearly fishing for attention or reaction which probably dumbs down to the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times.

That is quite obviously a dig at me because you have done it onseveral posts.

Don’t rise to it!!

Clearly fishing for attention or reaction which probably dumbs down to the same thing

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting for someone to remember that I'm alive and kicking and can be part of their fantasy cookery night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was going to tell a joke about Deja Vu

But I think you've heard it before

Ba dum tish!! ;-p

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah it happens now and again. Even when it's not your own, it can be quite obvious to see the link.

At times you will see a post ignored/skipped over only to see the minimum effort version responded to. Regardless of it being above or below.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for someone to remember that I'm alive and kicking and can be part of their fantasy cookery night

That would be quite the fantasy. Apparently cinnamon goes well with apples (shameless flirting)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Here and real life

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Here and real life

Yeah I second that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

What do you do in real life situations?

Here and real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for someone to remember that I'm alive and kicking and can be part of their fantasy cookery night

That would be quite the fantasy. Apparently cinnamon goes well with apples (shameless flirting) "

Now wouldn't that be an evening to remember!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

There are also other reasons for it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Here and real life

Yeah I second that too

Yes to the real life too. I'm never thought about. My boss rings me more than anyone else and asks me how I am (out of courtesy) more than anyone else. It's pretty disheartening especially when I try to make sure I look out for other people.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Can I just say its not sex related either, happens to Mrs mischief and happens on our joint profile so i think it just depends on who you are sometimes.

Although I am sure we are all guilty of just going to the last post on a thread and not actually reading it all.

150 comments is a lot to go through sometimes

I just don't let it bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"There are also other reasons for it though "

Like what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just say its not sex related either, happens to Mrs mischief and happens on our joint profile so i think it just depends on who you are sometimes.

Although I am sure we are all guilty of just going to the last post on a thread and not actually reading it all.

150 comments is a lot to go through sometimes

I just don't let it bother me."

I'm laughing at the thought of one of my posts reaching triple figures ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more"

I like your posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I know that people do see my posts. And that people pay attention. But the nature of the forums, any forum is that we see the posts of those we are attracted to first.

I'm 1000% guilty of doing it to others

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Can I just say its not sex related either, happens to Mrs mischief and happens on our joint profile so i think it just depends on who you are sometimes.

Although I am sure we are all guilty of just going to the last post on a thread and not actually reading it all.

150 comments is a lot to go through sometimes

I just don't let it bother me.

I'm laughing at the thought of one of my posts reaching triple figures ;-p "

You never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I know that people do see my posts. And that people pay attention. But the nature of the forums, any forum is that we see the posts of those we are attracted to first.

I'm 1000% guilty of doing it to others"

I think it makes sense if you know someone all you know they're posting style you are more likely to notice their comment and therfore reply to it. Like you said earlier if you just post for you and people respond then great, I dont think you can go too far wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I like your posts. "

Thank you. I really appreciate that. And it proves my point. We feel unseen but we are not.

I have seen posts by you lorna and nodded as I read it but I might not post a reply or might not want to seem like I'm stalking you.

It's all in my head and expectations are a killer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more"

I write so many things for my own amusement but end up deleting as I know the "I take issue with everything" brigade will get their claws out and I don't have the energy to deal with that concentration of stupidity.

I used to delete on a twice weekly basis lol. I keep it now for clubs and events.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Happens us all I never read entire threads usually a few from the top a few from the bottom then just blurt out whatever is in my head

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times."

I've noticed this, I find it rather entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I like your posts.

Thank you. I really appreciate that. And it proves my point. We feel unseen but we are not.

I have seen posts by you lorna and nodded as I read it but I might not post a reply or might not want to seem like I'm stalking you.

It's all in my head and expectations are a killer "

That is actually a very good point because sometimes I will deliberately not reply to someone because I don't want them to think I'm always just agreeing with them.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I used to delete on a twice weekly basis lol. I keep it now for clubs and events. "

Haha the calling people guys thread had to resist even typing on that one , seriously pc brigade will be on me a flash

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There are also other reasons for it though

Like what? "

Somebody wanting to respond/carry on the discussion or thread may want zero interaction with the first person to say it. Not because of looks but just avoiding contact and interaction.

I read it as when a thread bursts to life in response to what a "hot" person has said, when somebody else above said the exact same thing.

And less about posts getting lost and missed among the masses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I used to delete on a twice weekly basis lol. I keep it now for clubs and events. "
fuck that. I delete nothing. I have opinions and I can make mistakes but I'm just as entitled to write here as anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Often people dont read the whole thread and actually a lot of people read from the bottom up, so would probably see that post first.

Also how do you know that person is more attractive or more popular because those things are subjective. "

I know who is popular on here, it's quite easy to see.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"There are also other reasons for it though

Like what?

Somebody wanting to respond/carry on the discussion or thread may want zero interaction with the first person to say it. Not because of looks but just avoiding contact and interaction.

I read it as when a thread bursts to life in response to what a "hot" person has said, when somebody else above said the exact same thing.

And less about posts getting lost and missed among the masses. "

Either there a lot of overthinkers on the forums or I need to start overthinking a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often people dont read the whole thread and actually a lot of people read from the bottom up, so would probably see that post first.

Also how do you know that person is more attractive or more popular because those things are subjective.

I know who is popular on here, it's quite easy to see."

Is it?

You might see them as popular but others don't.

Some people post more than others or start threads more than others so its obvious those people are going to be noticed more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this all the time on here and social media and stuff and makes me fume hahaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I like your posts.

Thank you. I really appreciate that. And it proves my point. We feel unseen but we are not.

I have seen posts by you lorna and nodded as I read it but I might not post a reply or might not want to seem like I'm stalking you.

It's all in my head and expectations are a killer

That is actually a very good point because sometimes I will deliberately not reply to someone because I don't want them to think I'm always just agreeing with them.

I avoid quoting belle because I felt like I was a stalker.( Hi belle. )

She lives fairly close and I would be weirded out if some random local dude was wandering around the place I hang out

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I just do invisible threads now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just do invisible threads now

I've looked but I can't find them ;-p

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said "

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

No I didn't it was you. I was going to comment and say it was Nora, but then I thought I would just sit back and take the credit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

Mother fucker!

I typed Nora

I swear I did... I thought I did.

It was you I was thinking of. Sorry nora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

Mother fucker!

I typed Nora

I swear I did... I thought I did.

It was you I was thinking of. Sorry nora"

Lorna on the brain hey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

Mother fucker!

I typed Nora

I swear I did... I thought I did.

It was you I was thinking of. Sorry nora

Lorna on the brain hey!

You are quite lovely.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"So my final conclusion is its all overthinking like lorna said

Did she say that too

. See! Proof I don’t read full threads

Mother fucker!

I typed Nora

I swear I did... I thought I did.

It was you I was thinking of. Sorry nora"

. I’ll let you off

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I've no idea, I rarely revisit my comments unless it's a question I've asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no idea, I rarely revisit my comments unless it's a question I've asked

That's healthy

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I've no idea, I rarely revisit my comments unless it's a question I've asked

I forget I’ve done whole threads

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I call it screaming into the darkness.

You never know if people are there or if you are just talking for the sake of talking.

I have mostly resigned myself to it.

Now I type messages to amuse myself assuming no one can see me. It helps.

That said I'm close to deleting again and taking time away. Sometimes less is more

I like your posts.

Thank you. I really appreciate that. And it proves my point. We feel unseen but we are not.

I have seen posts by you lorna and nodded as I read it but I might not post a reply or might not want to seem like I'm stalking you.

It's all in my head and expectations are a killer

That is actually a very good point because sometimes I will deliberately not reply to someone because I don't want them to think I'm always just agreeing with them.

I avoid quoting belle because I felt like I was a stalker.( Hi belle. )

She lives fairly close and I would be weirded out if some random local dude was wandering around the place I hang out"

I don’t think you are a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

I like your thinking ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

I like your thinking ;-p "

It does work believe me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

I like your thinking ;-p

It does work believe me

I believe ;-p

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Every day

it always makes me laugh tbh (as I anxiously twitch whilst remembering the school days haha, I was invisible then too)

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

There isn't a group of people, there are lots of little groups of people.

I always wondered what that clicking sound was that I could hear

They also follow you around criticising your posts at times.

That is quite obviously a dig at me because you have done it onseveral posts.

Don’t rise to it!!

Clearly fishing for attention or reaction which probably dumbs down to the same thing

Aw, how lovely. A white knight in shining armour.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

I like your thinking ;-p

It does work believe me

I will second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life."
I never had a thread this popular

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes but... I think everyone skips people in favour of responding to the ones they like more. It's natural. Unless you're one of the Holy Inclusive Trinity, it's going to happen. Also, sometimes the pretty face makes difficult words easier for people to understand. Good for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every day

it always makes me laugh tbh (as I anxiously twitch whilst remembering the school days haha, I was invisible then too)

I preferred the company of the "outsiders" at school. The "casuals" were boring as fuck and listened to crap music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I haven’t noticed it myself.

I think it’s because I’m both hot and popular.

That or I’m just oblivious to it.

Nah, it’s because I’m so hot and popular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This one has it all, drama, intrigue, old grudges and new vendettas. I'm hoping Juliette Lewis will play me in the Netflix adaptation of this post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I haven’t noticed it myself.

I think it’s because I’m both hot and popular.

That or I’m just oblivious to it.

Nah, it’s because I’m so hot and popular.

Youre like a packet of chilli Doritos to be sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one has it all, drama, intrigue, old grudges and new vendettas. I'm hoping Juliette Lewis will play me in the Netflix adaptation of this post. "
you forgot the lust! I called lorna lovely. Positively pornstar level of dirty talk right there.

I think mat Damon could play my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you kind of have to find your place also, I don't comment on anything serious, as I know it doesn't go anywhere.

But light hearted threads I can say stupid shit and no one cares

and that is my place on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a bad thing getting ignored, you can say something controversial & get away with it

I like your thinking ;-p

It does work believe me

I will second that

Hey!!! I've seen your photos. You're too hot to be this cynical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but I don't let it eat me up..."

We all like a gobble though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I haven’t noticed it myself.

I think it’s because I’m both hot and popular.

That or I’m just oblivious to it.

Nah, it’s because I’m so hot and popular.

It must be, you always get replies and yet fuglies like me don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This one has it all, drama, intrigue, old grudges and new vendettas. I'm hoping Juliette Lewis will play me in the Netflix adaptation of this post. you forgot the lust! I called lorna lovely. Positively pornstar level of dirty talk right there.

I think mat Damon could play my part "

But what Damon, good will hunting, Bourne or Ripley?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

All the time. Every comment I post gets ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

All the time. Every comment I post gets ignored

Breaking the cycle x

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

All the time. Every comment I post gets ignored

Breaking the cycle x "

Mwahhh xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mat Damon could play my part

But what Damon, good will hunting, Bourne or Ripley?"

Good point.

OK.

Blood diamond version of Leo de caprio

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I haven’t noticed it myself.

I think it’s because I’m both hot and popular.

That or I’m just oblivious to it.

Nah, it’s because I’m so hot and popular.

Did somebody say something ??

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

This thread is doing quite well considering the subject matter. It will all go down hill from this post on though

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Every day

it always makes me laugh tbh (as I anxiously twitch whilst remembering the school days haha, I was invisible then too)

I preferred the company of the "outsiders" at school. The "casuals" were boring as fuck and listened to crap music. "

Haha me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all go through phases of being invisible on here. Try not to take it to heart.

Oh wait. I already said that up there ^^

*going through the invisible phase currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it deja vu there are 2 threads called deja vu?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve always wanted to do an experiment. One week a man posts a thread. The next week a woman posts a thread. She the contrast in comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all go through phases of being invisible on here. Try not to take it to heart.

Oh wait. I already said that up there ^^

*going through the invisible phase currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to do an experiment. One week a man posts a thread. The next week a woman posts a thread. She the contrast in comments. "

If I was going to do an experiment then it would be something that explodes and shatters all the windows in our street. Possibly involving a couple of naked lady lab assistants wearing glasses and holding golden clipboards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to do an experiment. One week a man posts a thread. The next week a woman posts a thread. She the contrast in comments.

Is that not called criminal damage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to do an experiment. One week a man posts a thread. The next week a woman posts a thread. She the contrast in comments.

Is that not called criminal damage?

Just put your glasses on and take my….notes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Um thats how my threads end up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This thread is doing quite well considering the subject matter. It will all go down hill from this post on though

I keep.my standards low to avoid disappointment;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it deja vu there are 2 threads called deja vu?"

It's more of an echo, echo, echo, ech ec e

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Um thats how my threads end up lol "

I've made posts and been the only one to comment on them. They were damn fine comments to adhering to the fab mantra of " quality over quantity" ;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to do an experiment. One week a man posts a thread. The next week a woman posts a thread. She the contrast in comments.

Sounds like a scene from Breaking bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I usually stop a thread in its tracks !

It’s a gift

But yeah when it’s your thread you obviously pick up on that !!

Wouldn’t blame the people jumping on it more they people taking your chat !

Happens a lot

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It absolutely happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It absolutely happens

??you mean when you hit up a thread ?

its a compliment

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It absolutely happens

??you mean when you hit up a thread ?

its a compliment "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are also other reasons for it though

Like what?

Somebody wanting to respond/carry on the discussion or thread may want zero interaction with the first person to say it. Not because of looks but just avoiding contact and interaction.

I read it as when a thread bursts to life in response to what a "hot" person has said, when somebody else above said the exact same thing.

And less about posts getting lost and missed among the masses. "

It's never a good idea to reply to anyone on a pegging thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It absolutely happens

??you mean when you hit up a thread ?

its a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I usually stop a thread in its tracks !

It’s a gift

But yeah when it’s your thread you obviously pick up on that !!

Wouldn’t blame the people jumping on it more they people taking your chat !

Happens a lot

I've killed more threads than ....... finish the sentence. This might be my next post title ;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are also other reasons for it though

Like what?

Somebody wanting to respond/carry on the discussion or thread may want zero interaction with the first person to say it. Not because of looks but just avoiding contact and interaction.

I read it as when a thread bursts to life in response to what a "hot" person has said, when somebody else above said the exact same thing.

And less about posts getting lost and missed among the masses.

It's never a good idea to reply to anyone on a pegging thread.

Unless your inbox has many filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I usually stop a thread in its tracks !

It’s a gift

But yeah when it’s your thread you obviously pick up on that !!

Wouldn’t blame the people jumping on it more they people taking your chat !

Happens a lot

I've killed more threads than ....... finish the sentence. This might be my next post title ;-p"

Do it !!!!

I could literally go all day

It’s original

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It absolutely happens

Time and time again lol.

Nice lacy daisies by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Happens to me everytime. I'm obviously not attractive enough

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I wouldn't worry too much its not worth it.

I have made comments in forums which i have been vilified for and received abusive messages only to find someone else makes the same comment and everyone jumps on agreeing, fawning after the person who made it. You have the groups with their hatevine also.

They are not worth letting it bother you. Same types if people will always gravitate towards the same kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I wouldn't worry too much its not worth it.

They are not worth letting it bother you. Same types if people will always gravitate towards the same kind of people

"
but do we care ???

Get vilified just don’t be a bully !

And its all good mate

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I wouldn't worry too much its not worth it.

They are not worth letting it bother you. Same types if people will always gravitate towards the same kind of people

I like seeing posts that ruffles the feathers of the forum egos. As long as you haven't broken any rules crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

Happens to me everytime. I'm obviously not attractive enough

I doubt that's true.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Nope can't say I ever have but I do feel like I am stuck in a never ending loop at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope can't say I ever have but I do feel like I am stuck in a never ending loop at the moment.

Enjoy the ride ;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I wouldn't worry too much its not worth it.

They are not worth letting it bother you. Same types if people will always gravitate towards the same kind of people

It's all fun and games ;-p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been cock blocked by someone using my own comment. And the one it was intended for commented on hers Waaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Always the bridesmaid never the bride ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been cock blocked by someone using my own comment. And the one it was intended for commented on hers Waaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Always the bridesmaid never the bride ;-p"

Least you didn’t get ignored though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been cock blocked by someone using my own comment. And the one it was intended for commented on hers Waaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Always the bridesmaid never the bride ;-p

Least you didn’t get ignored though

Yes I did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been cock blocked by someone using my own comment. And the one it was intended for commented on hers Waaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Always the bridesmaid never the bride ;-p

Least you didn’t get ignored though

Yes I did lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

I only ever reply to hot people

Lies, damn lies and half truths ;-p

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Back in the very early days of Fab, not quite at the beginning, there was a lot of posts about why some posts work and some fail. Those who had failed (not many answers) posts said it was because there was a clique. Those who had popular posts said it was because they have many friends and they used it as a sort of chat room.

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Trying to point out that this is not a pub but a forum, where anyone can talk to anyone was just a waste of time. I do understand their viewpoint though. If all they did was chat to friends, isn't that OK?

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Back in the very early days of Fab, not quite at the beginning, there was a lot of posts about why some posts work and some fail. Those who had failed (not many answers) posts said it was because there was a clique. Those who had popular posts said it was because they have many friends and they used it as a sort of chat room.

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do. "

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Have you ever posted a comment on a thread and it's been ignored but then later on someone hotter or more popular says the exact same thing and whoosh!!!! The tread bursts into life.

OP keep posting xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x"

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p"

You come across cool without trying to be cool but now we are pals your stock has plummeted I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p

You come across cool without trying to be cool but now we are pals your stock has plummeted I’m afraid

As the saying goes " I wouldn't join a club that would have me as a member" ;-p

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I was going to tell a joke about Deja Vu

But I think you've heard it before

Why do I always giggle at your jokes?

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over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p

You come across cool without trying to be cool but now we are pals your stock has plummeted I’m afraid

As the saying goes " I wouldn't join a club that would have me as a member" ;-p "

I had to start somewhere and you fit the bill !!

Now we can be a tad more picky ?

Any ideas on a name co founder ha

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over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p

You come across cool without trying to be cool but now we are pals your stock has plummeted I’m afraid

As the saying goes " I wouldn't join a club that would have me as a member" ;-p

I had to start somewhere and you fit the bill !!

Now we can be a tad more picky ?

Any ideas on a name co founder ha "

The defunct and dafuct club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things said was

"We don't know others that post, we are talking to our friends, just like we would in a pub."

Not sure that is always the case, but there are those who post quite a lot and interact with the same people. That is what friends do.

Very nicely put. guess I'm more used to friends I can touch not who can touch type x

You have friends ?

That alone is shocking

OK I over exaggerated to look cool. I have a friend - singular not plural ;-p

You come across cool without trying to be cool but now we are pals your stock has plummeted I’m afraid

As the saying goes " I wouldn't join a club that would have me as a member" ;-p

I had to start somewhere and you fit the bill !!

Now we can be a tad more picky ?

Any ideas on a name co founder ha

The defunct and dafuct club"

We need a name I can pronounce??

Something with 4 letters

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