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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's a no from me. And yes I'm a hypocrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only at Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Women have way higher standards than men but there a few of us who prefer chunky men like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure I'd say higher standards ... I'd say more choice .... And more thirsty men about lol ....

This is all about personal choices ... Hence why I'm interested in who likes a bigger man

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

I like bigger robust men.

Don't get me wrong I like the occasional gym king, but looks and body type aren't everything.

I tend to find the attitude of regular (dad bod of that's the phrase) guys more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deffo no from me as i totally dislike facial hair always have done

as for big men that dont have beards thats different my hubs is a big guy (6ft4) but then im in love with him ... for meets i have to at least fancy sexually before anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No beard and not hairy though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like bigger robust men.

Don't get me wrong I like the occasional gym king, but looks and body type aren't everything.

I tend to find the attitude of regular (dad bod of that's the phrase) guys more appealing.

"

Yes attitude is so essential ... Confident but not overconfident ... Flirty but not too forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ..."

I like your body type. I don't like VWE or gym people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No beard and not hairy though"

its only facial hair that has me saying no body hair is fine as long as neatly trimmed belove..

i dont think of body types .. ive been with all shapes and size's its just down to attraction for me no attraction no meet ...

as for guys saying whats the difference between bbm to bbw you'll have to ask other men as its them who sexulize body size most women i know dont....

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

A slight tangent on the thread but I find this quite interesting, I've always been referred to as a big guy. I'm 6'1 and don't consider myself over weight, im certainly not gym fit and I would happily go back to my pre lockdown weight. So do I now class myself as a 'dad bod'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The viking warrior look of big man, big belly and big beard definitely gets my vote

Highly polished gym bunnies not so much. Give me a hairy chest any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me but each to their own

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really. But neither am I into gym fit. I guess I like in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No beard and not hairy though

its only facial hair that has me saying no body hair is fine as long as neatly trimmed belove..

i dont think of body types .. ive been with all shapes and size's its just down to attraction for me no attraction no meet ...

as for guys saying whats the difference between bbm to bbw you'll have to ask other men as its them who sexulize body size most women i know dont...."

I’m just not hairy in general. I keep down below trimmed or shaved depending on the time of year

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's interesting to compare the dad bod thread to the mum bod ones ..a higher number of not for us votes on this thread....just shows quite a difference in attitudes

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By *ustjack400Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm no gym bunny by any means but I do have a toned body. That's only because I'd I put on weight I get a gut and I can't be dealing with that. I'm 6ft 7in with a thick ginger beard. I think being confident with what you have and not stress over what you think others want is more beautiful than people up their own arse. Personal opinion of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I'd say higher standards ... I'd say more choice .... And more thirsty men about lol ....

This is all about personal choices ... Hence why I'm interested in who likes a bigger man"

Agreed. Well stated mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The viking warrior look of big man, big belly and big beard definitely gets my vote

Highly polished gym bunnies not so much. Give me a hairy chest any time. "

Win for the Hairy chests.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

thats male privilege for you, heard the term on news today lol

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

No I think I will pass mrs m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pilot Viking + others on IG.. Yes yes and more yes.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing"

Because to body shame a woman is a terrible thing to do, to body shame a man is nobody gives a shit.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Because to body shame a woman is a terrible thing to do, to body shame a man is nobody gives a shit."

Body shaming anyone is a terrible thing to do

Man woman its not nice

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ..."

I'm a big broad guy and to be honest I never had a problem as a single guy on here.

Clearly Mrs Misfit likes it and we also met on here.

And as a couple me being a large guy doesn't seem to be a barrier.

Granted bigger people aren't everyone's cup of tea (we cant all like the same thing) but there's plenty of people who like a board larger guy. From experience nature and personality still reigns king.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Because to body shame a woman is a terrible thing to do, to body shame a man is nobody gives a shit."

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There's probably more ladies that like big guys, but it's not first preference.

But we are great at giving cuddles.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Because to body shame a woman is a terrible thing to do, to body shame a man is nobody gives a shit."

Welcome to the world of Fab. Lol

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

As a larger bloke, it doesn’t bother me what someone’s preferences are.

Someone prefers a gym fit bloke, so?

Someone prefers a dad bod, again so?

Someone prefers a Viking look, yet again so what?

If I see an ad that says “gym fit, VWE only”, I move on. I don’t fit what they’re looking for so why worry?

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By *attooedsmileMan
over a year ago

dudley

Well I’m 102kg around 16 stone , but around 5”11 I TRY and go to the gym 4/5 days a week but I enjoy the pub more lol. I’m wouldn’t consider myself as overweight (bad) but nowhere near gym fit , beard and covered head to toe in tattoos. I have found a lot of woman on here prefer clean shaven and gym fit guy. But to be fair when I’m out and about pub crawling I do get a bit of attention

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ..."

Not for me.

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

YES, YES AND YES!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have way higher standards than men but there a few of us who prefer chunky men like me "

So if you go for a bigger person its either that you have low standards or are one of a rare few who have standards but actually prefer a fuller figure? I hope all the larger ladies on here are suitably thankful that men have such low standards they'll fuck fat birds.

This place astounds me sometimes

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a 6ft plus, bearded warrior/Viking man

It’s the whole package - strong yet cuddly

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Women have way higher standards than men but there a few of us who prefer chunky men like me

So if you go for a bigger person its either that you have low standards or are one of a rare few who have standards but actually prefer a fuller figure? I hope all the larger ladies on here are suitably thankful that men have such low standards they'll fuck fat birds.

This place astounds me sometimes

Mr"

it astounds me all of the time

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I like bigger robust men.

Don't get me wrong I like the occasional gym king, but looks and body type aren't everything.

I tend to find the attitude of regular (dad bod of that's the phrase) guys more appealing.

"

My middle name is 'Tonka'

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Although I like big guys , I’m not keen on big belly … not even my own

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Although I like big guys , I’m not keen on big belly … not even my own "

I'll get me coat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing"

Didn't BHM close down a few years ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a belly on a lass, I am trying to get rid of mine though.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Didn't BHM close down a few years ago? "

Apparently - due to lack of demand.

But still available on-line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Didn't BHM close down a few years ago?

Apparently - due to lack of demand.

But still available on-line. "

HAHAHAHAHAHA Love it

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Yes please all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like his face and his attitude then I like everything... I don't base my attraction on body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is for men with a bit of chuck on them, neat beard.... Tattoos a bonus also like bearded and bald head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I'd say higher standards ... I'd say more choice .... And more thirsty men about lol ....

This is all about personal choices ... Hence why I'm interested in who likes a bigger man"

Seems you are a little defensive about being larger, just because the first 2 women said they don't want men of your stature... Standards have nothing to do with what body type people choose over another... My standards are always the same, regardless of how many men I have to choose from too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have way higher standards than men but there a few of us who prefer chunky men like me "

Men in general as in all men?

I must be in the minority then because I set my standards on here the same as I do in real life when looking for relationship

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys on here that do lower their standards to get their dick wet and thankfully I'm not one of them.

Respect and value yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm tall and large build, just no beard lol. I just go with the flow. We all have what we like or don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I'd say higher standards ... I'd say more choice .... And more thirsty men about lol ....

This is all about personal choices ... Hence why I'm interested in who likes a bigger man

Seems you are a little defensive about being larger, just because the first 2 women said they don't want men of your stature... Standards have nothing to do with what body type people choose over another... My standards are always the same, regardless of how many men I have to choose from too"

He was replying to a post that started men have lower standards than women but even though women have high standards a few do so prefer bigger men

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My club buddy loves this type of man, loves big bears so yes, some women are into that thank goodness

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If I like his face and his attitude then I like everything... I don't base my attraction on body type"

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I disagree. Some guys don't like there body's but diets and/or going to the gym doesn't always work.

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Big belly guys on here do way better than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more attracted to tall, broad shoulders, chunkier men... I like a man's man as it were?

Rather than a pretty boy who's over groomed and a muscle mary...

Tattoos, beard/stubble and hairy chest my legs generally buckle lol

However... If I'm getting all jiggy with someone, personality outweighs everything, and the above is not set in stone.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I don’t really have the belly, but definitely the hairy chest, big beard and bald head.

I actually feel a whole lot more comfortable about the above since joining Fab ten years ago. It’s not for everyone, but it’s lovely to see it’s a look that is very much appreciated.

I wouldn’t swap any of the above attributes now, if I was given the chance .

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm more attracted to tall, broad shoulders, chunkier men... I like a man's man as it were?

Rather than a pretty boy who's over groomed and a muscle mary...

Tattoos, beard/stubble and hairy chest my legs generally buckle lol

However... If I'm getting all jiggy with someone, personality outweighs everything, and the above is not set in stone. "

Damn. No tattoos. (Where's my Biro?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is why it is important to get out and meet people

Fab and platforms like it allow the user an almost tick box approach to compatibility

Obviously, for some, a beard and/or a belly would be a 'no' from the get go

For others, I believe there is often a blurred area that surrounds their preferences

Seeing someone move, seeing someone interact, hearing their thoughts and conversation, giving them some human traits, can often be a driver to things progressing further than a brief exchange from behind the security of a phone or computer screen

Group socials and attending clubs can be useful tool

So many think the Fab IS swinging

It so much isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more attracted to tall, broad shoulders, chunkier men... I like a man's man as it were?

Rather than a pretty boy who's over groomed and a muscle mary...

Tattoos, beard/stubble and hairy chest my legs generally buckle lol

However... If I'm getting all jiggy with someone, personality outweighs everything, and the above is not set in stone.

Damn. No tattoos. (Where's my Biro?) "

Oh sherrup you nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like his face and his attitude then I like everything... I don't base my attraction on body type

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"A slight tangent on the thread but I find this quite interesting, I've always been referred to as a big guy. I'm 6'1 and don't consider myself over weight, im certainly not gym fit and I would happily go back to my pre lockdown weight. So do I now class myself as a 'dad bod' "

Ask your OH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES, YES AND YES!!! "

Check out our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watches very closely x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"YES, YES AND YES!!! "

Hello Sally, I'm Harry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big guys. Has to come with a bit of swagger though (I know men have insecurities too so it's easier said than done) but anyone carrying themselves with confidence and a cheeky smile is more likely to catch my eye. I genuinely don't care about a belly etc.

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

I love big guys.... Love the squidge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have way higher standards than men but there a few of us who prefer chunky men like me "

Wow your pics are hot he is one lucky guy

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Anyone for medium men, medium belly, medium beard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji"

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy! "

Define big please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like big guys. Has to come with a bit of swagger though (I know men have insecurities too so it's easier said than done) but anyone carrying themselves with confidence and a cheeky smile is more likely to catch my eye. I genuinely don't care about a belly etc. "

Ha, in fact, that ^^ was me!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy! "

I think the vom was because he was being sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

I think the vom was because he was being sweet. "

Ah I wasn't sure if it was for the sentiment or the preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please "

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing

Because to body shame a woman is a terrible thing to do, to body shame a man is nobody gives a shit."

^^ This is sadly very accurate

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Yep allll day long xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark "

Aren't they both over 50 though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy! "

Then step right this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark

Aren't they both over 50 though "

If either were on Fab I'd be flexible on that age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark

Aren't they both over 50 though

If either were on Fab I'd be flexible on that age range "

Hi my name is Tony unfortunately that's where the similarities end

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I've got the belly suppose 1 out of 3 ain't bad

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Me!!!! I absolutely LOVE big men (I love the beards and tats too, but it's not a must).

My hubby is a size 4XL, 5'11 and truly the most sexy, amazing man in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

I think the vom was because he was being sweet. "

That’s exactly right. I wasn’t meaning vom at anyones body shape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me!!!! I absolutely LOVE big men (I love the beards and tats too, but it's not a must).

My hubby is a size 4XL, 5'11 and truly the most sexy, amazing man in my eyes. "

You missed off lucky. As are you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark

Aren't they both over 50 though

If either were on Fab I'd be flexible on that age range "

I did suggest you increased your upper age range.

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay


"Me!!!! I absolutely LOVE big men (I love the beards and tats too, but it's not a must).

My hubby is a size 4XL, 5'11 and truly the most sexy, amazing man in my eyes.

You missed off lucky. As are you "

I'm definitely the lucky one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me!!!! I absolutely LOVE big men (I love the beards and tats too, but it's not a must).

My hubby is a size 4XL, 5'11 and truly the most sexy, amazing man in my eyes.

You missed off lucky. As are you

I'm definitely the lucky one! "

Both lucky x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

Define big please

Hmmm, well I'd take Tony Soprano over Tony Stark "

You could defo work at Bada bing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've met large men with beards before.

I can't any more as I'm not fit enough.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"I've met large men with beards before.

I can't any more as I'm not fit enough. "

you should have no problem with us bigger lads as we are built for comfort not for speed

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I've met large men with beards before.

I can't any more as I'm not fit enough. you should have no problem with us bigger lads as we are built for comfort not for speed "

Unfortunately, the weight on my body is not comfortable, and is actually quite painful.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I have 2 out of the 3,

And since the lock downs I'm working on the big belly one also,

Saying that I did trim my beard with a whacker last month. So maybe I need to work on 2 of em now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

I think the vom was because he was being sweet.

That’s exactly right. I wasn’t meaning vom at anyones body shape! "

Sorry, that sounded dead confrontational and I didn't mean it to. You also look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big strong men and love to run my fingers through a nice beard too.

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

At just over 6 foot 1 and approximately 16.5 stone, hairy but without a beard - do I count?

Any BBW/SSBBW/BHM want to say hi then please do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I just need a few months to grow the beard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone

Where is the vom emoji

Out of curiosity, why the vom? I love a big guy!

I think the vom was because he was being sweet.

That’s exactly right. I wasn’t meaning vom at anyones body shape!

Sorry, that sounded dead confrontational and I didn't mean it to. You also look good "

You’re forgiven

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ..."

I think I fall very deep in this hole lol short big body beard but hey ho this is me I’m happy with the hand that I’ve been dealt with

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree "

(waves)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree "

Mind you don't get stuck on one of the branches.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

I have no problem with a man with a belly or facial hair cuddles are so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree

"

A great oak ready here with a woody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree

A great oak ready here with a woody. "

You'd be sawdust with me climbing

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I like a guy who is big and beardy and makes me feel like I want to climb him like a tree

A great oak ready here with a woody.

You'd be sawdust with me climbing "

Behave you. I'm sure we'd manage

Xx

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

You don’t need to climb the tree so much as just crash into it

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By *ouple 71Couple
over a year ago

Stonehaven


"Anyone here into the look ... See lots of adds for VWE guys and fit gym types. ..."

Absolutely

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I fancy you I fancy you, regardless.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I like a beard & I don't dislike a broad man, but I can't get on board with the big belly- I appreciate it's hypocritical as I'm a chunky woman but there are reasons; hygiene- alot of men with a big belly don't realise how smelly it can make everything below it & clean themselves accordingly ! It's also not nice going on an archaeological dig for a penis that's probably a third hidden in the bulge. Then there's the issue of either having a wide, heavy bloke on top of me, or trying to straddle him, which strains my hips! I also just don't find it attractive

Sorry if this offends anyone but those are my reasons!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"I like a beard & I don't dislike a broad man, but I can't get on board with the big belly- I appreciate it's hypocritical as I'm a chunky woman but there are reasons; hygiene- alot of men with a big belly don't realise how smelly it can make everything below it & clean themselves accordingly ! It's also not nice going on an archaeological dig for a penis that's probably a third hidden in the bulge. Then there's the issue of either having a wide, heavy bloke on top of me, or trying to straddle him, which strains my hips! I also just don't find it attractive

Sorry if this offends anyone but those are my reasons!

"

I don't think you should apologise for personal preference. And it's not hypocritical, what a dull world if because your one group your restricted to this group or that group. And body shape and size does restrict certain positions or acts and more so when both bodies are particularly large. That's not being unfair, that's simple logistics. We are all here to fulfil our sexual desires, not to be made to feel ashamed of who we fancy or told our own body shape/size should exclude us from seeking people of a different shape/size. Although I think some may find the bluntness of your explanation and the picture you depict a bit offensive.

Mr

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I like a beard & I don't dislike a broad man, but I can't get on board with the big belly- I appreciate it's hypocritical as I'm a chunky woman but there are reasons; hygiene- alot of men with a big belly don't realise how smelly it can make everything below it & clean themselves accordingly ! It's also not nice going on an archaeological dig for a penis that's probably a third hidden in the bulge. Then there's the issue of either having a wide, heavy bloke on top of me, or trying to straddle him, which strains my hips! I also just don't find it attractive

Sorry if this offends anyone but those are my reasons!

I don't think you should apologise for personal preference. And it's not hypocritical, what a dull world if because your one group your restricted to this group or that group. And body shape and size does restrict certain positions or acts and more so when both bodies are particularly large. That's not being unfair, that's simple logistics. We are all here to fulfil our sexual desires, not to be made to feel ashamed of who we fancy or told our own body shape/size should exclude us from seeking people of a different shape/size. Although I think some may find the bluntness of your explanation and the picture you depict a bit offensive.

Mr"

I can only speak from personal experience- if it makes some guys a little more aware of hygiene, for instance, it can only benefit them & their prospective meets!! As someone who had a big saggy tum removed through surgery after a massive weightloss, I can see it from both perspectives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes and yes

Emma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes and yes

Emma x "

Fancy seeing you here beautiful x x x

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By *ickedWhimsWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I often seek the look but never find it here. Big boys often hide their photos so so you can never approach them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just noticed this thread. Think I will stay here a while as the title does describe me

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I suspect I fit the criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind tall guys, but not into big bellies and beards, average dad bod fine as not into body builder bods either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to grow a beard

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I often seek the look but never find it here. Big boys often hide their photos so so you can never approach them!"

Not all of us.

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay


"I like a beard & I don't dislike a broad man, but I can't get on board with the big belly- I appreciate it's hypocritical as I'm a chunky woman but there are reasons; hygiene- alot of men with a big belly don't realise how smelly it can make everything below it & clean themselves accordingly ! It's also not nice going on an archaeological dig for a penis that's probably a third hidden in the bulge. Then there's the issue of either having a wide, heavy bloke on top of me, or trying to straddle him, which strains my hips! I also just don't find it attractive

Sorry if this offends anyone but those are my reasons!

"

Everyone is entitled to their preference, it's just a shame you feel you have to justify your preference by use of humiliation towards bigger men. I hope any bigger men that read what you said we're able to not let that chip a little more away at their mental health, because I have first hand seen comments like this destroy a person's confidence, hope and progress.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Big bellies - You have a choice of 3 bellies with me.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I suspect I fit the criteria"

Yes you really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m short, hairy, a bit of a belly, basically all the things people would have you believe women don’t like. I’m also confident, friendly and have been told I have a nice smile. I work with what I’ve got and have never really had a problem.

Focus on your strengths and not what you perceive as weaknesses and you’ll do fine

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m short, hairy, a bit of a belly, basically all the things people would have you believe women don’t like. I’m also confident, friendly and have been told I have a nice smile. I work with what I’ve got and have never really had a problem.

Focus on your strengths and not what you perceive as weaknesses and you’ll do fine "

I'm told I'm adorable - I'll stick with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m short, hairy, a bit of a belly, basically all the things people would have you believe women don’t like. I’m also confident, friendly and have been told I have a nice smile. I work with what I’ve got and have never really had a problem.

Focus on your strengths and not what you perceive as weaknesses and you’ll do fine

I'm told I'm adorable - I'll stick with that. "

An adorable Storm Trooper. It’s a niche market but you’ve got it more than covered

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Love them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m short, hairy, a bit of a belly, basically all the things people would have you believe women don’t like. I’m also confident, friendly and have been told I have a nice smile. I work with what I’ve got and have never really had a problem.

Focus on your strengths and not what you perceive as weaknesses and you’ll do fine

I'm told I'm adorable - I'll stick with that.

An adorable Storm Trooper. It’s a niche market but you’ve got it more than covered "

I just need a few princesses.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

P has a belly I can find his penis pretty easy and he always snell fabulous when we meet up , I have to say your imagination on larger man is not quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have big beard and big shoulders also legs that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all big belly big bearded guys.

Big good morning to all ladies who like them

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

A definite yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A definite yes from me "

Good to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big beard. Bit of a belly, seems to be getting bigger at the moment

Always a struggle to get meets, however am every social I’ve had we’ve had a great time and it’s led to more

Face pics on my profile if you are interestedn

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By *ikingandSubCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds perfect my fravrote type of men!

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big man big belly big beard right here

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Average size man, bit of a belly, and a beard here.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

All the above. Apply within

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what makes BBW attractive but a BHM less so?

I know it's all personal opinions, but it's a generalisation I have found ...

I find it intriguing"

To me, It doesn't really seem like a question that can be answered, I'm sure if women knew the science behind their preference they would let us know

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd like to see my belly and chest be admired - close up and personal.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Injured myself in the gym a few years ago. All went to pot after that. Comfortable in my skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Injured myself in the gym a few years ago. All went to pot after that. Comfortable in my skin. "

snap!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Injured myself in the gym a few years ago. All went to pot after that. Comfortable in my skin.

snap!

"

Literally! Burst my calf muscles twice. Got to face it, I can't do it anymore.

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By *oohLaLa2019Woman
over a year ago

Louth, Lincs


"There's probably more ladies that like big guys, but it's not first preference.

But we are great at giving cuddles. "

I'm sure you're great at giving everything

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By *oohLaLa2019Woman
over a year ago

Louth, Lincs

Like a few have already said I don't particularly have a body type attraction, it's more of an overall package.

Kind eyes, a nice smile and a bit of banter makes men attractive. However, I don't think anything can be decided about attraction before you've met someone face 2 face.

I've fancied a few celebs on looks and found out they're complete arrogant pricks in person, which is a complete turn off, no matter how handsome they are

**my opinion only of course

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Lolz XXXX

I love Big bellys in the small of my back like an anchor!

Sweaty bellys too! Not hairy ones, sorry.

I feel like a little bean when there's a bunch of bellys!

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I like big man but only if they also have big muscle. Soft big belly does nothing to me

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By *WDomMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Must be able to shout “Gordon’s Alive!”

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