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"Soon be time to hibernate for winter..." Haha yep. Get those curtains closed and that onesie on  | |||
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"Had 2 great years to be fair but feel for all how did not." Yeah I don’t feel I suffered greatly to be honest. It’s made me get used to it a bit I think and I don’t seem to be making much effort to be as sociable as I was. | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that "haha go girl! | |||
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"Had 2 great years to be fair but feel for all how did not. Yeah I don’t feel I suffered greatly to be honest. It’s made me get used to it a bit I think and I don’t seem to be making much effort to be as sociable as I was. " Not to worry people suck..  | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that haha go girl!"Woman! Girls sit in corners and cry. I am growing | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? " Absofuckinlutely I am ... Loving this year so far | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that haha go girl!
Woman! Girls sit in corners and cry. I am growing ". I’m not quite ready to grow up yet. My mum and dad are still the grown ups | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? Absofuckinlutely I am ... Loving this year so far "Not surprised ya big man tart | |||
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"Had 2 great years to be fair but feel for all how did not. Yeah I don’t feel I suffered greatly to be honest. It’s made me get used to it a bit I think and I don’t seem to be making much effort to be as sociable as I was. " December will poke you into a right direction | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that haha go girl!
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"Had 2 great years to be fair but feel for all how did not. Yeah I don’t feel I suffered greatly to be honest. It’s made me get used to it a bit I think and I don’t seem to be making much effort to be as sociable as I was. December will poke you into a right direction "Yeah definitely. Got a few things planned before then but I seem to be less excited about things. I really hope it’s not a sign of growing up!  | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? Absofuckinlutely I am ... Loving this year so far
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that haha go girl!
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You are lucky to still have them around "Oh yes I know that and i never take it for granted. I say to my children (eldest 24) they are so lucky to have all 4 grandparents at their age. I didn’t have any at 24 x | |||
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"There have been quite a few changes in my personal and work life in the last 3 or 4 years and especially in the last 18 months. As a result I'm finding it difficult to plan anything and don't seem to have either the energy or inclination to get out and meet people. I'm hoping that changes though as I feel I'm still on a journey but have pulled into a layby for a while " Do you think the lockdowns have affected that? | |||
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"We've finally organised our first naughty night out in 2 years which we're really looking forward to, but arranging anything off here seems to be as painful as ever. Started to think we should reverse everything on our profile because we seem to keep getting replies from those who are the opposite of what we're looking for, it might work "Haha that’s an idea! Aw hope night out happens and it’s worth the wait! | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short " Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on | |||
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"Honestly my anxiety issues have meant that I've been getting worse and worse as time has gone on. It is becoming more and more difficult to actually go out and do things, be around people and live life. People keep saying that I'm getting out because I am happy to go on a road trip to meet people and see friends, but realistically that's going from house to car to house. It isn't going out. And it takes something bloody special for me to do that. It takes me days to psyche myself up to go out to anywhere else, lunch, coffee, they're really hard and the only thing that makes me do it is not wanting to let anyone down when I've made plans. I've got plans ahead for group socials, and I have no idea if I'm actually going to manage to make it to any of them. I'm terrified."  . I understand. I won’t comment here as we chat privately xx
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"I’m loving being back at work "I worked from home anyway. I’m loving everyone else being back at work/school! | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on "That can be the hard part but small steps and it will come to gether I think we’ll that’s what I am trying to do lol | |||
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"I’m loving being back at work
I worked from home anyway. I’m loving everyone else being back at work/school! "Can’t do my job from home sadly
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"Honestly my anxiety issues have meant that I've been getting worse and worse as time has gone on. It is becoming more and more difficult to actually go out and do things, be around people and live life. People keep saying that I'm getting out because I am happy to go on a road trip to meet people and see friends, but realistically that's going from house to car to house. It isn't going out. And it takes something bloody special for me to do that. It takes me days to psyche myself up to go out to anywhere else, lunch, coffee, they're really hard and the only thing that makes me do it is not wanting to let anyone down when I've made plans. I've got plans ahead for group socials, and I have no idea if I'm actually going to manage to make it to any of them. I'm terrified. . I understand. I won’t comment here as we chat privately xx
Glad you made lunch with me though! "Me too. Very glad xx | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on
That can be the hard part but small steps and it will come to gether I think we’ll that’s what I am trying to do lol "Definitely. Small steps. Although it’s worse in the winter. I just wanna have a bath and put my pjs on rather than go out | |||
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"I wouldn't say I'm finding it easier but I'm definitely of the mindset and more appreciative of the fact that I'm relatively young (I'm only 32!), I've got fairly good health minus a woman's health issue and I have the finances and ability to get out there. So that's what I'm trying to do a bit more of. Stop making excuses, stop thinking I can't or shouldn't do such and such, I have to wait until I've more lost weight until I continue exploring my sexuality... I want to enjoy myself. With others, by myself whatever. See a bit more. Do a bit more. It's not always easy for me but I think that life is too short and I might as well make the most of the fact that I'm alive, young(ish), fairly attractive and fortunate in many ways. I don't want to regret the what ifs later on life. " I like this. Well said | |||
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"There have been quite a few changes in my personal and work life in the last 3 or 4 years and especially in the last 18 months. As a result I'm finding it difficult to plan anything and don't seem to have either the energy or inclination to get out and meet people. I'm hoping that changes though as I feel I'm still on a journey but have pulled into a layby for a while Do you think the lockdowns have affected that?" Yes and no. In regards to live outside fab I am still very active and go out hiking and meeting up with friends. Lockdowns were just a blip. As far as motivation within the site I've never been one to chat to a lot of people or meet frequently but the lockdown mentality of so many people and how they changed beyond recognition has made me more cynical and therefore less inclined to get caught up in other people's drama. | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on
That can be the hard part but small steps and it will come to gether I think we’ll that’s what I am trying to do lol
Definitely. Small steps. Although it’s worse in the winter. I just wanna have a bath and put my pjs on rather than go out "Yes same but it happen this outbreak has been a wake up call for me to just get out and do it to damm with everything It’s always next year for that then it comes and I am like no we can wait till the next not this time it’s been a eye opener for shour I don’t want to be sitting at 70-80 thinking I should have done this that and the next thing when I had the chance | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on
That can be the hard part but small steps and it will come to gether I think we’ll that’s what I am trying to do lol
Definitely. Small steps. Although it’s worse in the winter. I just wanna have a bath and put my pjs on rather than go out
Yes same but it happen this outbreak has been a wake up call for me to just get out and do it to damm with everything
It’s always next year for that then it comes and I am like no we can wait till the next not this time it’s been a eye opener for shour
I don’t want to be sitting at 70-80 thinking I should have done this that and the next thing when I had the chance "Great attitude to have x | |||
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"I'm raring to go....I want to live life fully again. One thing it has made me do though is to be more selective with who I spend my time with...no more accepting invitations because I feel obliged to, I'd rather give my time to those that mean something to me. " Ah so that’s why you didn’t come out with me in July   | |||
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"Gave me a outlook off stop putting this that and the next thing off just go do it life’s far to short Yes. I’ve started to think like that. It’s just putting it into practice I’m stalling on
That can be the hard part but small steps and it will come to gether I think we’ll that’s what I am trying to do lol
Definitely. Small steps. Although it’s worse in the winter. I just wanna have a bath and put my pjs on rather than go out
Yes same but it happen this outbreak has been a wake up call for me to just get out and do it to damm with everything
It’s always next year for that then it comes and I am like no we can wait till the next not this time it’s been a eye opener for shour
I don’t want to be sitting at 70-80 thinking I should have done this that and the next thing when I had the chance
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that "Yes absolutely this! Love it, you go girl xx | |||
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"I'm raring to go....I want to live life fully again. One thing it has made me do though is to be more selective with who I spend my time with...no more accepting invitations because I feel obliged to, I'd rather give my time to those that mean something to me. " Yes to this! Who knew grumpy old men could make you want to spend time with them?
Lockdown helped me realise how important those important people are. Before I'd accept invitations because it was polite, because I thought I should be sociable, meet different people. Now I'd rather decide who I spend time with and make sure it's with people who make me feel good. | |||
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"There have been quite a few changes in my personal and work life in the last 3 or 4 years and especially in the last 18 months. As a result I'm finding it difficult to plan anything and don't seem to have either the energy or inclination to get out and meet people. I'm hoping that changes though as I feel I'm still on a journey but have pulled into a layby for a while Do you think the lockdowns have affected that? Yes and no. In regards to live outside fab I am still very active and go out hiking and meeting up with friends. Lockdowns were just a blip. As far as motivation within the site I've never been one to chat to a lot of people or meet frequently but the lockdown mentality of so many people and how they changed beyond recognition has made me more cynical and therefore less inclined to get caught up in other people's drama. " Yes I agree. I was talking more in general life. I don’t really see fab as anything other than forums and an occasional giggle at the moment. | |||
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"This has to be the worse year I have had, physically, emotionally, mentally and financially. Hardly surprising that I have turned into a recluse" Oh no. I’m sorry  . I hope things turn around for you x | |||
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Now we are making up for lost time and getting out and about…London last weekend, Scotland in a couple of weeks, cruise at the end of the year…and still trying to cram in plenty of sex too
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"We couldn’t go on dates as everywhere was shut when we got together…so we had plenty of sex instead
Now we are making up for lost time and getting out and about…London last weekend, Scotland in a couple of weeks, cruise at the end of the year…and still trying to cram in plenty of sex too
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"Turned fifty this year and then had a cardiac arrest in aug. Think last year looks rosey comparatively " Oh! Are you fully recovered now x | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that " | |||
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"This has to be the worse year I have had, physically, emotionally, mentally and financially. Hardly surprising that I have turned into a recluse" Hope things turns around for you soon! | |||
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"I'm raring to go....I want to live life fully again. One thing it has made me do though is to be more selective with who I spend my time with...no more accepting invitations because I feel obliged to, I'd rather give my time to those that mean something to me. Ah so that’s why you didn’t come out with me in July " aww, Nora, you know you're one of the few that I'd like to spend time with 
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"I think I was pretty fortunate during lockdowns and still managed to do quite a lot when restrictions eased at certain times. I’ve just enjoyed a fabulous week in Spain with the other half and fab friends and have plenty more weekend trips booked and I’m off to a 90’s festival on Friday The downside is the lockdowns seriously impacted on my son. His ASD has become more complex and now diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. He hasn’t been in full time education since April and I’ve had to defer my second year of studying as now his full time carer. Lack of support and services is shocking "I can relate to that last paragraph lovely. It’s disgusting. So much so we’ve now gone private x | |||
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"I'm raring to go....I want to live life fully again. One thing it has made me do though is to be more selective with who I spend my time with...no more accepting invitations because I feel obliged to, I'd rather give my time to those that mean something to me. Ah so that’s why you didn’t come out with me in July
aww, Nora, you know you're one of the few that I'd like to spend time with
I might even flash my norks at you next time I see you to compensate for missing your trip oop norf "Oooh. I’m gonna screenshot that! No getting out of it now | |||
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"This year is easier as have the freedom to do something if I wish. However, except from one social with an old friend, I have no appetite to spend time with others, I’m very happy out and about in my own company. Autumn / winter will determine if this is a permanent feeling or just a blip. " I’m like that. I love my own company and nearly 2 years of hardly having it has almost finished me off! So I’m quite enjoying that for now x | |||
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"I've lost pretty much all the confidence I did have, I try and avoid conversations and social things. Especially on here " That's sad. You look amazing and just know you are bloody fantastic and IL fight anyone who says otherwise | |||
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"I've lost pretty much all the confidence I did have, I try and avoid conversations and social things. Especially on here " And yet you come across so lovely and friendly. I'd love to help you build on this. X | |||
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"I’ve lost a lot of confidence over the last two years, although I’ve gained it in some areas I suppose. The last two years have been the toughest of my life I think, with separating from an emotionally abusive ex, 2 lots of major surgery, and the accompanying health issues. Plus Covid on top of it. I know I need to start going out and meeting people, but I actually don’t know how to at the moment. " It's funny. The reality we see and the reality that is. You don't seem short of confidence and you present yourself strongly. But inside is different | |||
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"I’ve lost a lot of confidence over the last two years, although I’ve gained it in some areas I suppose. The last two years have been the toughest of my life I think, with separating from an emotionally abusive ex, 2 lots of major surgery, and the accompanying health issues. Plus Covid on top of it. I know I need to start going out and meeting people, but I actually don’t know how to at the moment. It's funny. The reality we see and the reality that is. You don't seem short of confidence and you present yourself strongly. But inside is different " Online flirting and chatting is easy. Actual people, nope . Then I finally plucked up the courage to say yes to lunch, and he dicked about  | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that "Best way to be, best step forwards and PMA! | |||
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"Had 2 great years to be fair but feel for all how did not. Yeah I don’t feel I suffered greatly to be honest. It’s made me get used to it a bit I think and I don’t seem to be making much effort to be as sociable as I was. December will poke you into a right direction
Yeah definitely. Got a few things planned before then but I seem to be less excited about things. I really hope it’s not a sign of growing up! "Possibly just a scar of the last year.. when we were hoping at times things eased off and you could make plans but then it all went to shit again. And again. So maybe optimistic caution? I'm glad you do. We need things to look fwd too! X | |||
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that
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"I'm more determined than ever. Wasted enough time and energy this year, time I could have spent bettering myself! So yes, my mood is a warrior mood. I battle for myself. I don't wave a white flag. I don't seek excuses any more. I don't ask for tissues. No more walking on eggshells either. It's all in. 6th gear or something like that
Yes absolutely this! Love it, you go girl xx"I'm going. how long does it take to walk to Edinburgh? | |||
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"Anyone who knows me knows the answer to that question! 2021 can go fuck itself " | |||
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"I’ve lost a lot of confidence over the last two years, although I’ve gained it in some areas I suppose. The last two years have been the toughest of my life I think, with separating from an emotionally abusive ex, 2 lots of major surgery, and the accompanying health issues. Plus Covid on top of it. I know I need to start going out and meeting people, but I actually don’t know how to at the moment. " They can come to you if you don't want to go out x | |||
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"I’ve lost a lot of confidence over the last two years, although I’ve gained it in some areas I suppose. The last two years have been the toughest of my life I think, with separating from an emotionally abusive ex, 2 lots of major surgery, and the accompanying health issues. Plus Covid on top of it. I know I need to start going out and meeting people, but I actually don’t know how to at the moment. They can come to you if you don't want to go out x"Get over here | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? " Hi Nora 100% easier, and better for a whole heap of reasons. Actively getting out and about, and loving every second of it! | |||
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"Honestly my anxiety issues have meant that I've been getting worse and worse as time has gone on. It is becoming more and more difficult to actually go out and do things, be around people and live life. People keep saying that I'm getting out because I am happy to go on a road trip to meet people and see friends, but realistically that's going from house to car to house. It isn't going out. And it takes something bloody special for me to do that. It takes me days to psyche myself up to go out to anywhere else, lunch, coffee, they're really hard and the only thing that makes me do it is not wanting to let anyone down when I've made plans. I've got plans ahead for group socials, and I have no idea if I'm actually going to manage to make it to any of them. I'm terrified." Yes you are! And we're gonna do stuff while you're here too! You kick my arse into sense so I'm gonna do the same back xx | |||
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"I’ve lost a lot of confidence over the last two years, although I’ve gained it in some areas I suppose. The last two years have been the toughest of my life I think, with separating from an emotionally abusive ex, 2 lots of major surgery, and the accompanying health issues. Plus Covid on top of it. I know I need to start going out and meeting people, but I actually don’t know how to at the moment. They can come to you if you don't want to go out x
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"Honestly my anxiety issues have meant that I've been getting worse and worse as time has gone on. It is becoming more and more difficult to actually go out and do things, be around people and live life. People keep saying that I'm getting out because I am happy to go on a road trip to meet people and see friends, but realistically that's going from house to car to house. It isn't going out. And it takes something bloody special for me to do that. It takes me days to psyche myself up to go out to anywhere else, lunch, coffee, they're really hard and the only thing that makes me do it is not wanting to let anyone down when I've made plans. I've got plans ahead for group socials, and I have no idea if I'm actually going to manage to make it to any of them. I'm terrified. Yes you are! And we're gonna do stuff while you're here too! You kick my arse into sense so I'm gonna do the same back xx" Jeez mum | |||
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"Honestly my anxiety issues have meant that I've been getting worse and worse as time has gone on. It is becoming more and more difficult to actually go out and do things, be around people and live life. People keep saying that I'm getting out because I am happy to go on a road trip to meet people and see friends, but realistically that's going from house to car to house. It isn't going out. And it takes something bloody special for me to do that. It takes me days to psyche myself up to go out to anywhere else, lunch, coffee, they're really hard and the only thing that makes me do it is not wanting to let anyone down when I've made plans. I've got plans ahead for group socials, and I have no idea if I'm actually going to manage to make it to any of them. I'm terrified. Yes you are! And we're gonna do stuff while you're here too! You kick my arse into sense so I'm gonna do the same back xx Jeez mum " | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? " I’m very adaptable. Enjoyed the chill last year and kicking back without as much pressure work/social. So far I’ve had some great outings with friends old and new this year and I’m loving being back at the sport events and drinking exotic extortionately priced cocktails in busy bars especially. In summary, I was happy last year and I’m happy this year too. | |||
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"This year and last have had major highs and worse lows, the weeks I had on furlough were the best as it's time I would never normally have with my kids, a lot of sadness though with lost loved ones. The middle to end of this year has had some highs though in my career and my personal/fab life is seemingly on the up too x" After waffling all that my answer is I'm raring to go for what the rest of this year and next has in store | |||
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"This year easier than last or are you still in can’t be arsed I’d rather stay in mood? " Each year just gets better. A few bumps in the toad but onwards and upwards. | |||
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, Mega busy with work and haven't had a holiday yet.
Finding someone on Fab is as hard as ever.
The great thing about this year is that after 14 years im finally mortgage free . | |||
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"Still single, still without girlfriend , Mega busy with work and haven't had a holiday yet.
Finding someone on Fab is as hard as ever.
The great thing about this year is that after 14 years im finally mortgage free ."Mortgage free, congratulations
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"I've lost pretty much all the confidence I did have, I try and avoid conversations and social things. Especially on here That's sad. You look amazing and just know you are bloody fantastic and IL fight anyone who says otherwise" You and chunky are too sweet, thankyou | |||
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"Still single, still without girlfriend , Mega busy with work and haven't had a holiday yet.
Finding someone on Fab is as hard as ever.
The great thing about this year is that after 14 years im finally mortgage free .
Mortgage free, congratulations
"Cheers chap | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x "Happy to help with the fourth one on the list
And don’t be too hard on yourself x | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x "I do like the list of needs and wants. Tick them off. x | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
Happy to help with the fourth one on the list
And don’t be too hard on yourself x"Haha. Always there to help Adam you are .
I’m more annoyed with myself. Had a real tough couple of months (not fab related lol) and I’m usually a coper but I’ve struggled and that makes me angry with myself. Hard to explain lol. I know what I mean! | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
I do like the list of needs and wants. Tick them off. x"I will I think! Apart from the arse kick unless they’re not wearing shoes | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x "Yes , you need all of those haha | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
Yes , you need all of those haha ". Why? So that you get a rest from my moaning . You must have loved it when WhatsApp was down!!! | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
I do like the list of needs and wants. Tick them off. x
I will I think! Apart from the arse kick unless they’re not wearing shoes "Could just use a gentle knee poke | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
Yes , you need all of those haha
. Why? So that you get a rest from my moaning . You must have loved it when WhatsApp was down!!! "A blissful 6 hours | |||
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"Loved reading all the comments. I can definitely resonate with a lot of them. I think I need a good shake, a serious talking to, a major kick up the arse and probably a bloody good seeing to! .
Thanks for all the comments. Think it made me feel better in some way x
Yes , you need all of those haha
. Why? So that you get a rest from my moaning . You must have loved it when WhatsApp was down!!!
A blissful 6 hours " | |||
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