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"Some will disagree ...But we are all here for the same thing..." You're looking for a perfect Victoria sponge recipe too? | |||
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"that single women generally look for from this site? What do single women generally think that single men look for from this site? What do those from within a couple think that any of the above generally look for from this site? Don't sweat the fact that it is a Monday morning..answer calmly at your leisure..the thread will still be here later. I'm not sitting here needing any immediate answers. " Different people are looking for different things. “One size fits all” doesn’t really work here. | |||
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"Some will disagree ...But we are all here for the same thing..." What is that same thing? | |||
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"I thought this was a golf site, and was looking for some golf tips from fab swingers. It was only when I turned up for a foursome that I began to suspect a misunderstanding. " ![]() | |||
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"SEX NOW" dont shout we are forming a queue lol x | |||
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"Single men... It evolves. They are looking for sex, but that evolves into looking for just one message that isn't a site support reminder. Single women.... The reverse of the above. " Expand on that..I think I get you..but not entirely. | |||
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"Tea, cake, optional dunking " Who is looking for those things? | |||
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"Cake and boing videos ![]() Do videos have something to contribute on the site? | |||
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"I think they both want the same things Something they can’t have Most men want limitless sex on tap Most women want a perfect 11/10 man" So you see a difference...why? | |||
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"Cake and boing videos ![]() Yeah! Cake! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I thought this was a golf site, and was looking for some golf tips from fab swingers. It was only when I turned up for a foursome that I began to suspect a misunderstanding. " Good job you weren't looking to practice your back swing ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I thought this was a golf site, and was looking for some golf tips from fab swingers. It was only when I turned up for a foursome that I began to suspect a misunderstanding. " Bet you enjoyed the afternoon fourballs tho. ![]() | |||
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"Different people want different things me i want sex and lots of it ![]() ...and are you totally clear with others about what you want? | |||
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"What is this SEX thing that keeps getting mentioned?? Ooh, someone said CAKE?? ![]() Exactly... it's all about cake! ...just don't mention jaffa cakes ![]() | |||
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"Couples are already having sex, so for us we are looking for more sex. Variety is the spice of life ![]() A very clear answer...which might be the only thing needed on a profile text..and the rest can be filtered on an ongoing basis? Or is that being too simplistic? | |||
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"What is this SEX thing that keeps getting mentioned?? Ooh, someone said CAKE?? ![]() ![]() I don't discriminate! It has the word CAKE, gimme some Jaffa Cakes ![]() | |||
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"Cake and boing videos ![]() ![]() ![]() In what type of surroundings do you like to have your cakes? | |||
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"Well Huey, some men are looking for a monogamous sexual relationship-with the woman bringing the occasional girlfriend into the bed. Some men want to fuck anyone who is up for it. Some men want to bang a wife while the limp-dicked husband wanks in the corner. Some men want pics and sex talk to wank over. Some men want to meet a particular type of woman. Some men blah, blah, blah into a vacuum. " So in your opinion the varieties are endless...no general impression? | |||
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"What is this SEX thing that keeps getting mentioned?? Ooh, someone said CAKE?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I thought this was a golf site, and was looking for some golf tips from fab swingers. It was only when I turned up for a foursome that I began to suspect a misunderstanding. Bet you enjoyed the afternoon fourballs tho. ![]() I did thanks, although I was already quite tired after 18 holes. | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. " It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario? | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario?" for THOSE reason... | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario?for THOSE reason..." ..s | |||
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"What is this SEX thing that keeps getting mentioned?? Ooh, someone said CAKE?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Damn - thought that had got under the radar ![]() ![]() | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario?" Lothario: a man who behaves selfishly and irresponsibly in his sexual relationships with women. I think the trendy term is "fuck boy" | |||
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"Cake and boing videos ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha sorry OP ... we needed a corrupted thread on cake ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some will disagree ...But we are all here for the same thing... You're looking for a perfect Victoria sponge recipe too?" I don't have the perfect Vic Sponge recipe but I do have the ultimate sticky toffee pudding recipe? | |||
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"What is this SEX thing that keeps getting mentioned?? Ooh, someone said CAKE?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just you wait ![]() | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. " I see someone projecting their own inner thoughts that fails to address reality. Or perhaps it’s me projecting on someone’s projection haha | |||
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"Cake and boing videos ![]() With the amount of threads dedicated to videos of different kinds, yeah I’d say so ![]() | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario? Lothario: a man who behaves selfishly and irresponsibly in his sexual relationships with women. I think the trendy term is "fuck boy" " Why would you think I might be looking for someone to call out ALL single men on here as Lotharios and ALL single women as seekers of love and marriage..someone could have that opinion..but limiting this to that..no. | |||
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"SEX NOW Is that a first impression kind of answer?" Yep.. what (many) single men think women want. I didn't answer the other q's because I was answering in the style of a caveman. ![]() | |||
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"SEX NOW Is that a first impression kind of answer? Yep.. what (many) single men think women want. I didn't answer the other q's because I was answering in the style of a caveman. ![]() Do you think anything on the site possibly leads single men to gain that impression..or do you think they most likely arrive here with ideas already formed? I of course know you have not interviewed (laugh) every single man that has arrived here. BUT what might you say to my questions? | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. I see someone projecting their own inner thoughts that fails to address reality. Or perhaps it’s me projecting on someone’s projection haha" Not in the slightest...if my profile was open you'd see that I was in a relationship. I was thinking more of behaviour that I've witnessed towards friends, and towards myself when I've met the object of someone's affections. Like I said though, you can't generalise, and it's only my interpretation of what I see....I don't for even one second believe that every woman on here is looking for love or that every man just wants to treat it like a free brothel, there are many, many varied reasons why people are here, but the OP was asking for generalisations, which is what I responded to. | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario? Lothario: a man who behaves selfishly and irresponsibly in his sexual relationships with women. I think the trendy term is "fuck boy" Why would you think I might be looking for someone to call out ALL single men on here as Lotharios and ALL single women as seekers of love and marriage..someone could have that opinion..but limiting this to that..no." You asked for generalisations in your OP ![]() | |||
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"Lol problem is 90% do not think or only with there dick." 90% of single men think only with their dick or do not think at all (in your opinion) Why might that be? | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. It is good that you raised the points that you did. BUT I'm not looking for a particular anything (BUT opinion(s) and have posed a few questions for THAT reason. What is a Lothario? Lothario: a man who behaves selfishly and irresponsibly in his sexual relationships with women. I think the trendy term is "fuck boy" Why would you think I might be looking for someone to call out ALL single men on here as Lotharios and ALL single women as seekers of love and marriage..someone could have that opinion..but limiting this to that..no. You asked for generalisations in your OP ![]() Whatever I asked for a good discussion is being had ![]() | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. " Fully agree, I like a good bio that says a lot about someone I try to be clear in mine what I’m after x | |||
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"SEX NOW Is that a first impression kind of answer? Yep.. what (many) single men think women want. I didn't answer the other q's because I was answering in the style of a caveman. ![]() I think you're right on both. The site is full of explicit pics, sex reviews etc. They assume all they have to do is ask for a fuck. The general public also seem to think that Swingers will fuck anyone who asks... in fact some seem to think that offering a Swinger a shag is doing them a favour because they need sex 24/7. | |||
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"OP, are you looking for someone to say that all the single ladies want love and marriage, and all the single men want to be lotharios? You really can't because people are individuals and are here for different things. Whilst I do see quite a lot of posts and behaviour that seems to indicate that some people are looking for perhaps more than it states they are on their profile, it's far from being everyone. I also think that some men will see this and exaggerate their lothario behaviour because they really are just here for NSA sex and want to make it clear that they don't want anything more than that. Just my thoughts after people watching for a long time. I see someone projecting their own inner thoughts that fails to address reality. Or perhaps it’s me projecting on someone’s projection haha Not in the slightest...if my profile was open you'd see that I was in a relationship. I was thinking more of behaviour that I've witnessed towards friends, and towards myself when I've met the object of someone's affections. Like I said though, you can't generalise, and it's only my interpretation of what I see....I don't for even one second believe that every woman on here is looking for love or that every man just wants to treat it like a free brothel, there are many, many varied reasons why people are here, but the OP was asking for generalisations, which is what I responded to. " You seem to be making mention of a behind the scenes infighting? | |||
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"Can’t generalise about all single men, all single women etc. Too simplistic. " Well said . ![]() | |||
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"SEX NOW Is that a first impression kind of answer? Yep.. what (many) single men think women want. I didn't answer the other q's because I was answering in the style of a caveman. ![]() Are single women subject to the same prompts or even couples? | |||
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"Different people want different things me i want sex and lots of it ![]() elle raise your age gap xx | |||
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"Some will disagree ...But we are all here for the same thing... You're looking for a perfect Victoria sponge recipe too? I don't have the perfect Vic Sponge recipe but I do have the ultimate sticky toffee pudding recipe? " I'm suddenly here for recipes ![]() | |||
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"Well Huey, some men are looking for a monogamous sexual relationship-with the woman bringing the occasional girlfriend into the bed. Some men want to fuck anyone who is up for it. Some men want to bang a wife while the limp-dicked husband wanks in the corner. Some men want pics and sex talk to wank over. Some men want to meet a particular type of woman. Some men blah, blah, blah into a vacuum. So in your opinion the varieties are endless...no general impression?" Well...yes. | |||
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"Well Huey, some men are looking for a monogamous sexual relationship-with the woman bringing the occasional girlfriend into the bed. Some men want to fuck anyone who is up for it. Some men want to bang a wife while the limp-dicked husband wanks in the corner. Some men want pics and sex talk to wank over. Some men want to meet a particular type of woman. Some men blah, blah, blah into a vacuum. So in your opinion the varieties are endless...no general impression? Well...yes." Would you say that having a general impression might lead to having a prejudicial attitude? | |||
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"Tea, cake, optional dunking " I think that's a direct quote from my profile ![]() | |||
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