FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla sex

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it boring but lots of people still like vanilla.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love passionate vanilla sex. It's fun to try other things occasionally but I'll always come back to good old fashioned vanilla.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I don’t see Fab as being a specifically fetish/kink site, it’s a part of a lot of peoples wants, but I think plenty of people here are still looking for some good, regular fun sex.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don’t see Fab as being a specifically fetish/kink site, it’s a part of a lot of peoples wants, but I think plenty of people here are still looking for some good, regular fun sex. "

Thanks I’m still hoping!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're in a loving relationship then the vanilla side is there more than the kinkier side. I think it is what keeps are relationship strong. As we keep both very separate. We will play at clubs or away on holiday. But are very much vanilla in are home life.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

As a couple we get that between ourselves, so we are looking for more variety and something different.

Not to say we don’t do vanilla on meets…it’s not unusually kinky…we look to add elements which tick things off each other’s lists.

One meet, both me and another guy massaged C…she was in heaven…

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.

Nice to find a kindred spirit !!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It has irs place for sure. Can't been a good passionate fuck from time to time.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sensuality and passion are very much on top of my list , bar my liking of group sex …I’m fairly vanilla.

Many of my friends are on the same page, any “deviancies” are occasional treats rather than a way of life. A way of mixing things up a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wondered when sex stops being vanilla and starts being kinky.

Where is the line?

If you twist a nip are you excluded from the vanilla world?

My personal opinion is that everyone sits somewhere on the kink spectrum.

If you like missionary position but hold your partners hands down at one point ... does that make you kinky? That's restraint!!

Or passionate kissing where you are left gasping for air ... breath play.

Or sliding a silky nightdress over her head ... sensation play you filthy kinkster you!

squirting ... water play

Ejectulation ... cum play... maybe even humiliation play

Some people like more kink than others. Just find the people at your level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good bit of vanilla but variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "

When you’re baking cakes and biscuits, it’s amazing how many recipes have some vanilla in, to the point that you realise how great vanilla is, especially in anything sweet!!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I like a good bit of vanilla but variety is the spice of life "

Tell me more !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"

Fab is a swinging site not just a kink site. It attracts people who are into kink as they can be open about it. There are many people who like ‘vanilla’ just as much OP

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?

Fab is a swinging site not just a kink site. It attracts people who are into kink as they can be open about it. There are many people who like ‘vanilla’ just as much OP"

Thanks

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course."

Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"

I think this would be the majority of our club experiences.

Not everyone brings a flogger to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.

Completely agree

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There's a time & a place for both spicy & vanilla sex. Both work well

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.

Completely agree

When shall i come to Liverpool? Lol xx

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.

Completely agree

Indeed.

Though what is it that people consider vanilla sex?

I can imagine it will have varied means to different people. Is it a case of it viewed as lifeless and emotionless missionary with only a single position? At what point does sex cross over from being vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla all the way for me!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla all the way for me!

Glad you agree xx amazingly sexy pics as well xxx

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I love vanilla sex

I also love kinks

I want and do have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla all the way for me!

Glad you agree xx amazingly sexy pics as well xxx"

Awh thankyou! X

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I find it boring but lots of people still like vanilla. "

It’s nice occasionally , but tend to agree, the longer im here the less appeal it has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "

Um, isn't that anal?

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Totally mood depending for me but I do enjoy it x

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla all the way for me!

Glad you agree xx amazingly sexy pics as well xxx

Awh thankyou! X"

No problem xx I’ve sent you a message out that’s ok ? Xxxx

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I find it boring but lots of people still like vanilla. "

Vanilla sex is not boring, I find the person you do it with is, that why I try a throw in a bit of spontaneity.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, I would think the majority are unless they specify anything kinky in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.

Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx"
Thank you

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.

Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx Thank you

No problem!! Shame I’m unable to message you xxx

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Yes, I would think the majority are unless they specify anything kinky in their profile. "

Reassuring to know xx love raspberry ripple as well !! X

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Totally mood depending for me but I do enjoy it x"

Totally agree xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume people are vanilla here unless they say so (although many may be reticent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....

Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff

A good mix of both is healthy also

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I assume people are vanilla here unless they say so (although many may be reticent)"

True xx how about you? Xx

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....

Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff

A good mix of both is healthy also

Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about vanilla with sauce, nuts and a flake?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How about vanilla with sauce, nuts and a flake?"

Tasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about vanilla with sauce, nuts and a flake?"

A whole flake?

Not one of those half sized ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....

Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff

A good mix of both is healthy also

Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !!"

Charmer you!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....

Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff

A good mix of both is healthy also

Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !!

Charmer you!

I try my best !! I’ve sent you a message if you want to continue the conversation xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.

Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx Thank you

No problem!! Shame I’m unable to message you xxx"

Assures the forums are kept on the forums...

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.

Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx Thank you

No problem!! Shame I’m unable to message you xxx

Assures the forums are kept on the forums..."

Ok xx

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

I like it, and it’s the sex I’ve been having recently. But open to other things too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I enjoy it. You don’t have to be on fab just for the kink or the unusual. Whatever you’re comfortable with is fine

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I like it, and it’s the sex I’ve been having recently. But open to other things too. "

Sounds good xx nice and close in Coventry as well !! Maybe we should chat ?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I enjoy it. You don’t have to be on fab just for the kink or the unusual. Whatever you’re comfortable with is fine

Good point babs xx Vanilla or anything else would be nice !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"

I wouldn't necessarily class what you describe as vanilla... Sensual build up, anticipation and lovemaking is my alternative to your description and is definitely enjoyable and underestimated.

What floats your boat is what you enjoy so don't question it

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?

I wouldn't necessarily class what you describe as vanilla... Sensual build up, anticipation and lovemaking is my alternative to your description and is definitely enjoyable and underestimated.

What floats your boat is what you enjoy so don't question it

A nice alternative description xx and you definitely float my boat !! Xxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Gotta love a bit of vanilla but …. You know what! ….. everyone’s idea of vanilla is different so every adventure is different.

That’s why I love fab

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol "

It certainly is xx champagne however ....

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Too much salt can be bitter and leave a bad taste in you mouth lots of people forget that vanilla come from an island, parasites with sun and sea and who doesn't like a bit of sun and sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol "

Marmite is for the bin

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol

Marmite is for the bin

Snogging is not an option if they have just eaten marmite

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol

Marmite is for the bin

Snogging is not an option if they have just eaten marmite

Good point although some people love it apparently!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Um, isn't that anal?

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I laughed out loud at that

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By *outhwalesbbwWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend,

Yes please,

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Yes please,

Vanilla sex ? Shall I message you ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"

There's nothing wrong with plenty of passionate kissing and loads of foreplay x

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?

There's nothing wrong with plenty of passionate kissing and loads of foreplay x"

I couldn’t agree more xxx I see you aren’t far away from me ? Xxx

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Vanilla is a beautiful flavour when it is fresh and is as lovely in the mouth as sensual touch is against the skin. Mix in a mind full of mischief and adventure with a kindred spirit and the sex should take care of itself and be forever unforgettable.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Vanilla is a beautiful flavour when it is fresh and is as lovely in the mouth as sensual touch is against the skin. Mix in a mind full of mischief and adventure with a kindred spirit and the sex should take care of itself and be forever unforgettable."

You have convinced me!!! Xxx

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

You have convinced me!!! Xxx"

My work here is done.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Any spice variety of sex is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be great and can be really sensual but as they say "variety is the spice of life"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Nothing at all wrong with vanilla it’s also nice tho to add a little spice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of vanilla

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Love a bit of vanilla

Glad you like it as well xx I must come to Bristol!!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

I love variety, and that includes vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not keen on it being used as a term to describe what some think is boring sex

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m not one for labels and names. Kinky and vanilla are too subjective. I don’t find any sex boring with the right person.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I’m not one for labels and names. Kinky and vanilla are too subjective. I don’t find any sex boring with the right person. "

Good point it’s how you feel together xx not that I’ll ever get the chance unfortunately!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation"

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they? "

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a place for both. Depends on the mood and who with I guess.

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I love me a bit of ‘vanilla’!

However, I also love to be fucked deep, hard and have my hair pulled and ass spanked.

It’s mood dependant x

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I love me a bit of ‘vanilla’!

However, I also love to be fucked deep, hard and have my hair pulled and ass spanked.

It’s mood dependant x"

Sounds perfect either way xxxx

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I love vanilla sex

I also love kinks

I want and do have both

agreed, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx"

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone. "

I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol

It certainly is xx champagne however ...."

Well you already know my views on champagne

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.

Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone

Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol

It certainly is xx champagne however ....

Well you already know my views on champagne

I do xx love where that Champagne bottle is !! Would love to continue this conversation but I’m unable to message you xx Maybe you could message me? Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.

I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx"

I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What is kinky?

Spanking

Breast slapping

Pussy spanking

Restraints

Candle wax

Blindfolds

Butt plugs

Rimming

Spitting

Face slapping

Pee play

Gangbangs

Group sex /orgies

Cuckolding

Verbal humiliation

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.

I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx

I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.

Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"

No. Only boring, stale and unfulfilling sex is considered too boring for fab.

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over a year ago

I don't think vanilla sex is boring at all. Good sex is good sex regardless of if it's vanilla or not.

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over a year ago

"What is kinky?

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.

I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx

I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.

Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!!"

It means I'd only be with men if their partners were ok about it. Its a pretty standard term these days.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What is kinky?

I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?

Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx

Try all of them?

I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.

I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx

I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.

Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!!

It means I'd only be with men if their partners were ok about it. Its a pretty standard term these days."

Fair enough xxx

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m sure that seasoned kinksters would call the sex I have fairly vanilla but most vanilla people call me a thorough perv

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't think vanilla sex is boring at all. Good sex is good sex regardless of if it's vanilla or not. "

Very true xx we should find out xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I love all the flavours including vanilla but then I have more than one lover.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I love all the flavours including vanilla but then I have more than one lover. "

Lucky you xx fancy another lover ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla sex seems exciting to me, it's been so long I'd shag the empty dry cone!!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I forgotten what it's like to kiss a woman-it's so long....

I fear my lips have become: "comfortably numb!" Do you like the Pink Floyd reference?

Nah?

Tough crowd!

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

That’s all I’m really after when I want intimacy. I describe myself as enthusiastic vanilla when asked. As folks generally think I’m a kinky bugger when I’m talking. But there’s nothing too kinky I don’t think.

Plenty of fumbles and foreplay, variety of fairly normal positions. Maybe a thumb in the bum during doggy escalating to anal if they request. But that’s all vanilla to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just like a bit of sex vanilla or kinky lol

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