FabSwingers.com forum: Trouble with replies

By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm a polite individual who in the first message I ask shall we get to know each other?

I send A FACE picture and I either get deleted or just read and ignored. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea but surely I'm not that bad am I?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Your profile is pretty sparse to be fair plus for a lot of women not being able to accommodate will have them wary of you being attached.

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By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you. I'm not attached but will look to update profile. If I can do hotels does that count as accommodate?

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No, you are not bad. However, personally, I would delete such a message, too, or reply I'm not interested.

It is important to me to read in a first message something that shows they have read my profile, and something that tells me why they are interested and why they are what I'm looking for. Basically, context for their message.

I need to get a sense of their personality through the first message. For me, a picture is not enough to feel attracted.

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

There will be a million reasons why folk won't reply and you don't have control over any of it.

Read the profile, send a good message and face pic and have a profile that reflects you.

That's it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

U look good to me! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given you have a face pic, I'd not send one. After all they only know you have attached a pic ... Could be of anything ...

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By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Good call thank you x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP your post is much longer than your profile.

Men are greatly outnumbered on here, you need to stand out in a positive way. Think of your profile as your shop window... all it tells me at the moment, is that you're a bloke who wants a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big bare is people who send “let’s get to know each other.”

I like guys to start a conversation. Give me something to work with. Most are just, hi how are you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say you’re on the right lines already but as has been said maybe just expand a little more on the type of person you’re hoping to find and what makes you different from anyone else here.

Personally I like that you’ve just used “everyday” photos for want of a better word on your profile , it would get my interest far more than the body and cock shots.

As for tips for first messages, always try to include something that shows you’ve read their profile. why you think you may be of interest to them and give them something to reply to , maybe ask a question or two ?

Wishing you best of luck

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By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you x.

How hard was it for you to change and who knew?

I have a cousin that went Scotland as Ben and they're now Lauren and are scared/afraid or uncomfortable to see the family. How can I get the message to them that they're still my little cousin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a visit to opticians, I read this as trouble with reptiles

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By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hahaha

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By *fricanguyMan
over a year ago

warr

Sounds like u looking for relationships saying u want women who u would meet the parents most people on here are looking for chats n fun nothing serious

2nd you got face pic all over yet u saying u need to be discreet

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Hahaha "

OP.... if you use reply+quote people will know who you're responding to

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By *ustjack400 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hahaha

OP.... if you use reply+quote people will know who you're responding to

Still working things out lol

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