FabSwingers.com forum: Absolutely no luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been here off and on nearly a year, and had two social meets, is that normal? Par for the course? Or am I doing something wrong

Any help/advise would be gratefully received

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a social meet up in your area and go mingle with large groups of swingers. Make real connections

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I'm the first to admit. I got very lucky on here. Although never had a social, just straight to the naughty stuff

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Considering covid I'd say that was pretty normal OP. The last 12 months haven't exactly been normal times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you can define normal by how many meets you’ve had. Remember we have been in lockdown most of the year…

All I can say is don’t just rely on this site for meets use it as a tool. Go to socials and clubs if you want to meet more people…

Good luck

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I’ve been here off and on nearly a year, and had two social meets, is that normal? Par for the course? Or am I doing something wrong

Any help/advise would be gratefully received

Tom "

This question comes up most days and there are numerous threads with advice in the Help & Advice forum.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Since you've had meetings it's something that you've been doing something right remember we've been going through a pandemic and many have been chatting with someone who have long been awaiting to meet when was safe to do so.dont lose hope change your approach if you think it might work or get yourself out to one of the club's

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’ve been here off and on nearly a year, and had two social meets, is that normal? Par for the course? Or am I doing something wrong

Any help/advise would be gratefully received

Tom try losing 3st be 6" 4" and 35 years old thats will fix it or just start going to clubs.

Tom "

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

It's always tough for Single Guys, as you can be just one of 100's of guys in your area all seeking the same thing!

It's all about being noticed, so it's not just your profile but getting to Social MEETS and trying clubs in yoyr area too.

Your profile has to be like a Job CV, saying what you can contribute to as well as what you seek in a meet.

If you cannot accommodate, say why, as that can put people off.

The pandemic hasn't helped you and to some extent, some people are still reluctant to meet.

Patience, Perseverance, and a thick skin for the negative times are all required, but it does work.

Good luck.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Do you remember to splash on the Brut 33 before your socials?

Splash it all over son. Works neverytime for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I’ll keep plugging away

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By *JBezantMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"OP.

It's always tough for Single Guys, as you can be just one of 100's of guys in your area all seeking the same thing!

It's all about being noticed, so it's not just your profile but getting to Social MEETS and trying clubs in yoyr area too.

Your profile has to be like a Job CV, saying what you can contribute to as well as what you seek in a meet.

If you cannot accommodate, say why, as that can put people off.

The pandemic hasn't helped you and to some extent, some people are still reluctant to meet.

Patience, Perseverance, and a thick skin for the negative times are all required, but it does work.

Good luck."

This x1000.

It’s not easy to find exactly what your looking for on here as the competition is fierce. I find that it can be about luck as much as anything else. Persistence is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find socially meeting is so much better,people can see your genuine,I've messaged absolutely loads of ladies and couples,and personally,I think had I talked to these people face to face it may have had a different outcome,that's why I'm a regular at gems,not necessarily to play,but to show people I am who I say I am

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