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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

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By *ur sheepskin loverMan
over a year ago

Redhill, now i live in Germany

Tbh i'm not into realy quick meetings as you don't know who's gonna show up on your door step.i don't meet without a small chat about it..even if i'm super horny..a masturbation will solve the problem.

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By *1896Man
over a year ago

kidderminster

Ye I would fuck you with frizzy hair or what ever I’m only gonna mess it up anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past, but found the best sex has been with somone ive chatted and connected with

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

"

Lol this is so me

I would love to arrange spontaneous meets but the length of my leg hairs have become a tripping hazard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a regular friend. They can take me as I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

Lol this is so me

I would love to arrange spontaneous meets but the length of my leg hairs have become a tripping hazard lol "

Ahahahaha my pubes got caught in my wand this morning time to get the Bic out I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I was looking for "now" meets. I had a few, some planned ones too. I've not met anyone from here since July except one person who I knew 20 years ago and was "fab reunited".

A lot of people say they want to meet "now" and don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it was a regular friend. They can take me as I am. "

Yeah see even when I meet FWBs. I don't feel comfortable being at least clean, smooth and looking like I've made an effort. And I just absolutely cannot be arsed to do all that for the 30 min quick fix.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

If you have tea and cake, I couldn’t care less what your hair’s like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have tea and cake, I couldn’t care less what your hair’s like "

There's always extra homemade cake and tubs of frosting in my freezer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have tea and cake, I couldn’t care less what your hair’s like

There's always extra homemade cake and tubs of frosting in my freezer! "

Although bless you for thinking it's just the hair that's a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was a regular friend. They can take me as I am.

Yeah see even when I meet FWBs. I don't feel comfortable being at least clean, smooth and looking like I've made an effort. And I just absolutely cannot be arsed to do all that for the 30 min quick fix. "

As long as I’m showered I’m good to go.

I’ve shave my legs once a week. Don’t shave my public area or pits and wear little make up.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"If you have tea and cake, I couldn’t care less what your hair’s like

There's always extra homemade cake and tubs of frosting in my freezer!

Although bless you for thinking it's just the hair that's a problem "

You could be wearing a boiler suit for all i care. You said the magic word…homemade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a free house and would love some fun but I really can’t be arsed with getting ready. I’m currently lay on the sofa chilling

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Regular friend, yes. Otherwise, no. Stranger, absolutely not.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Spontaneous is always best for me,

A dab of creed and I’m ready to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it pretty unfulfilling to meet a stranger for sex just to scratch an itch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular friend, yes. Otherwise, no. Stranger, absolutely not."

^^^ This ^^^ I can't fuck someone I have no connection with at all. It would make me feel like shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope need a 3hour bath in Veet before meeting anyone

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

This is the way we arrange most of ours. Somtimes Mr phones me, and says be dressed and ready in an hour and meet me at xyz. He's arranged something and I have no clue who or what it is. Adds to the excitement.

Doggin can be hit and miss, planned meets can bale after chatting forever! Clubs - are good too thou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to in the past but I can say that without exception they all left me feeling “meh” afterwards, you get what you wait for lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I have done in the past, back when I went through my randy sex starved woman in a dildo factory phase. Always (she types like it was more than a handful of times) left me feeling a bit flat to be honest. Unsatisfied. I'd end up masturbating and watching some porn after.

So no, definitely not now. Besides I have a stunt cock next to me.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We took a couple up on a meet now status once in our early days of fab, female half didn’t even know we were coming until we got there, have to say it was one crazy old night that had us in fits of laughter on the way home and both asking each other wtf happened there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done in the past, back when I went through my randy sex starved woman in a dildo factory phase. Always (she types like it was more than a handful of times) left me feeling a bit flat to be honest. Unsatisfied. I'd end up masturbating and watching some porn after.

So no, definitely not now. Besides I have a stunt cock next to me. "

Bloody hell, how does one obtain a stunt cock!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the past

Normally if I am doing that kind off thing

It’s not just one meet normally try and cram as meny in as I can in the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been known to in the past but I can say that without exception they all left me feeling “meh” afterwards, you get what you wait for lol "

I agree for the most part but also once had an AMAZING spontaneous meet with an incredibly gorgeous, slightly older (at the time) man back when I was living at uni. We matched on Tinder and I invited him over pretty quickly. We chilled and had a few drinks, chatted about anything and everything and then finally had a couple of rounds of great sex. He stayed the night and took me for lunch the next day. He moved across the country shortly afterwards and (unsurprisingly) got a new girlfriend pretty quickly so there weren't any repeats but he set the benchmark so high...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I had a bit of a revolving door. All people I knew already.

One in the afternoon, one in the evening and one the following morning.

It was great fun!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have done in the past, back when I went through my randy sex starved woman in a dildo factory phase. Always (she types like it was more than a handful of times) left me feeling a bit flat to be honest. Unsatisfied. I'd end up masturbating and watching some porn after.

So no, definitely not now. Besides I have a stunt cock next to me.

Bloody hell, how does one obtain a stunt cock!? "

God knows how I managed it. He's going to love reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not my thing. Sex is everywhere. Chemistry and connection isn't. Prefer to meet socially first and find out more about each other before having sexual activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, with guys, I prefer this kind of meet

I tend to overthink it otherwise

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Unexpectedly did twice but this was due to being difficult for both finding availability time and did add that extra bit of excitement especially when you've both been waiting

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

When I had a couple of regular playmates, when I was single, I'd meet them spontaneously

Not someone I've never met or spoken to before.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If I know them, not a problem. Got half an hour warning the other night, not a problem! But they have to be a bit special for that kind of spontaneity.

Any other time at least 24 hrs notice, and if it fits in with my hair washing schedule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

"

I hate the whole looking for now, as I have to be ready mentally and also get all presentable as just jumping in the shower for 5 mins and putting the first knickers available on isn’t enough for me. But I’d say it’s the same for most girls where we want to make effort to impress

It’s one of the things I like of being in a relationship where you can have sex and satisfy the desires and be comfortable with the person without looking like a 10/10 all the times

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow


"Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

"

And 9/10 garlic breath

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I enjoy spontaneous meets and have enjoyed every one of them. Best one was on arriving back from a night out at 1.30am and seeing who was near getting an invite to join a couple, wife was asleep and hubby brought me into the bed and said surprise and we all fucked all night!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"

Lol this is so me

I would love to arrange spontaneous meets but the length of my leg hairs have become a tripping hazard lol "

Just put some hold ups on

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By *eep80Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I sit on here and by the time I find a spontaneous meet I think , should I message and can I be arsed , if you plan a meet you know you have to make an effort

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I expect anyone we meet to at least have the decency to wash if you can even be bothered to do that I'm sure the performance isn't going to be great....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have done, when able to. But it’s trickier these days.

If my personal circumstances were different then I’d probably do it a bit more as I find the build up to meets just makes me overly nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood "

Durt burd

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think I would only want a spontaneous fuck from a friend I know so..... If they are willing to shag a fizzy hairy mess in PJs then I'm willing to do the same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done in the past, back when I went through my randy sex starved woman in a dildo factory phase. Always (she types like it was more than a handful of times) left me feeling a bit flat to be honest. Unsatisfied. I'd end up masturbating and watching some porn after.

So no, definitely not now. Besides I have a stunt cock next to me.

Bloody hell, how does one obtain a stunt cock!?

God knows how I managed it. He's going to love reading this. "

He will be preening

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By *eep80Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Love that lol

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Meets have always been planned in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood

Durt burd "

You is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I had a couple of regular playmates, when I was single, I'd meet them spontaneously

Not someone I've never met or spoken to before. "

I would still happily see one or two ex-FWB on the spot. Because I trust them & they wouldn't give a toss if I was unshaven and frizz-haired.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood

Durt burd

You is "

Maybe you is too but

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I have done, had some of the best times too & made life long friends out of it who I still see now socially but someone always knew where I was going and who I was meeting.

I don’t do it now as my wants/needs are different to back then. Working and living alone 24/7 puts the emphasis much more on socialising with someone first and maybe that’s all it turn out to be. Then I sort myself out at hone later.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It feels a lot of effort if it's going to just be a quickie. I'd rather have a wank.

I once had a FWB arrangement with a guy who lived within a 5 minute walk of me. He liked a hairy bush so no need to shave, and he wasn't arsed if I was wearing lingerie or rocked up in a onesie. I always knew if I wanted a last-minute quickie I could give him a shout but other than having a shower we neither of us would do any additional grooming so we looked how we looked. He's the only guy where I'd do a booty call and it worked well for a few years.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I definitely would if I was in the right mood.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, too many weirdos about now to bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie, I'm pretty fucking horny and would love a shag right now but I actually really, truly can't be bothered. The thought of having to shower, shave until I look like a baby seal, do my hair and makeup, squeeze into nice lingerie etc for a quick hookup is just... No thanks

Have to admit in my younger days I have arranged spontaneous hook-ups a few times though. But it's always just such a mad dash trying to get ready (I did leave one poor bloke standing outside my front door for about 20 mins, and forwent knickers as I couldn't find any clean lacy ones )

Ladies - when you're on here, are you looking for now? In a few days? Weeks?

Gents - when you say you want a spontaneous fuck, are you actually really prepared to shag a frizzy, hairy mess in PJs?

"

I shower every day anyway, so likely I’m already showered or about to shower if I meet someone. I haven’t shaved my legs in years though. I’m bald so don’t have to worry about my hair in a nutshell, I’m pretty easy to get ready. I would only do a spontaneous meet in a hotel. I wouldn’t even go to his place and there’s no way he’s coming to mine. I do prefer connecting first, though!!

For my regular fb, I have a shower before going. No make up (but I hardly wear the stuff anyway), put a black dress on, thong, sliders and off I go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fastest 'meet today' on here was within the hour and I think he had to drive about 50 mins

Organised it while Elle was tied to the bed.

We've done a few spur of the moment last minute meets after a bottle of wine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood

Durt burd "

I didn’t expect him to be such a dirty birdy

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Yeah I have had spontaneous on the night meets replying to meet now’s if I’ve been in horny mood

Durt burd

I didn’t expect him to be such a dirty birdy "

When the horn takes over no one is safe

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

As a bloke I have a pretty tough preparation schedule. I’ve always got a clean shirt somewhere and I run my hand through my hair, backwards *and* forwards (if she’s worth it) then I’m ready to go

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