FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people post meet wanted..but won't

By *onguester OP Man
over a year ago

street

What a waste of space... people post here... meet or whatever and it's all bull..why...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they don't meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it all bull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it all bull? "

They might still meet just might mean it’s with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re allowed to have a preference, just because they don’t meet you doesn’t mean they haven’t arranged something with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re allowed to have a preference, just because they don’t meet you doesn’t mean they haven’t arranged something with someone else "

Snap

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Did they cum n run…the equivalent to dine n dash

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Lots of people post meets and do meet. Why do you think that people don't meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots if people meet bur they're often quite choosy about who they meet.

Putting up a meet, doesn't mean that they will meet anyone who expresses an interest.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that you mean, that they post to meet but won’t meet you…

I’m sure that they do meet but there’s always that pesky personal taste in regards to who people will have sex with!

Good luck with the thread OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

That would be fun!

Imagine if all meets were based on various events, trials and first responders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting for a meet dose not mean my legs are open for anyone people still have the right to be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker! "

We can share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker!

We can share

Ermmm

I am here you know

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

It’s not bull just because they declined to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker!

We can share

Ermmm

I am here you know

So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker!

We can share

Ermmm

I am here you know

So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves.

Do you think they'll mud wrestle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So annoying! It's First come first serve! Gah... Why do people not go by the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

I’m replying just in case

Dam it I should have been quicker!

We can share

Ermmm

I am here you know

So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves.

Do you think they'll mud wrestle

I hope so

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed"

Sausage all the way in there

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sometimes my tummy rumbles when I'm hungry and I pick up a take away menu for a look. Nothing makes me drool so I have toast instead and sometimes I don't bother eating at all if there's nothing I REALLY want.

If there was something on the menu I REALLY wanted, I'd have had it.

Saying it or them are a waste of space is really fucking rude.

Saying it's bullshit is really fucking rude.

Thinking because they want a meet you'll be a perfect candidate and somehow deserve to get some action is presumptuous and really fucking rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes my tummy rumbles when I'm hungry and I pick up a take away menu for a look. Nothing makes me drool so I have toast instead and sometimes I don't bother eating at all if there's nothing I REALLY want.

If there was something on the menu I REALLY wanted, I'd have had it.

Saying it or them are a waste of space is really fucking rude.

Saying it's bullshit is really fucking rude.

Thinking because they want a meet you'll be a perfect candidate and somehow deserve to get some action is presumptuous and really fucking rude.

10/10 analogy

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By *ruman77Man
over a year ago

London

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

Actually I think you have to be like their seventh caller to score the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because they post wanting a meet doesn’t mean they will meet everyone that responds.

I go to the shop for milk, I don’t bring home every bottle of milk. I leave with one that suits my needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because they post wanting a meet doesn’t mean they will meet everyone that responds.

I go to the shop for milk, I don’t bring home every bottle of milk. I leave with one that suits my needs. "

Pick me pick meeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not meeting after posting or not meeting you?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your green arrow makes interesting reading.

Have you been turned down frequently? If so, are you blaming others for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet more often but the reality is I'm fussy. I want something good, enjoyable, on my terms, with someone who fancies me as much as I them. Someone who is going to match my efforts. Someone who will also be fully satisfied at the end.

To be honest that's really hard to find.

Yes if I wasn't fussy and didn't really care how enjoyable it was going to be, where or when it happens etc, I could meet lots of men easily. But most of the experiences wouldn't be worth shaving my legs for

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed"

Hahahaha...you put meat section lol

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

Actually I think you have to be like their seventh caller to score the meet. "

Hehe

And you have to reply with the phrase that pays

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed

Sausage all the way in there

I look in the breast thigh and loin section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.

We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

Haha god can you imagine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.

We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails."

This is true. I had Big Harold last time. Still can't walk straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like going to buy a car.

Sometimes you see something you like and sometimes you don't.

If you are looking for a sports car, you won't take a yaris just to have something.

There is no obligation to meet. It's an act of consent. It can change at any time, for any reason

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.

We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails."

I would be taking home either the wall or the carpet if it was women throwing for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed

Hahahaha...you put meat section lol

Yes I know

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"What a waste of space... people post here... meet or whatever and it's all bull..why...??"

Perhaps they just didn’t want to meet you . Build a bridge and get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a waste of space... people post here... meet or whatever and it's all bull..why...??

Perhaps they just didn’t want to meet you . Build a bridge and get over it.

I fear there are bridges burning here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like going to buy a car.

Sometimes you see something you like and sometimes you don't.

If you are looking for a sports car, you won't take a yaris just to have something.

There is no obligation to meet. It's an act of consent. It can change at any time, for any reason"

Oo this is a good analogy.... It's going in my book with my favourite Sunday lunch analogy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think that you mean, that they post to meet but won’t meet you…

I’m sure that they do meet but there’s always that pesky personal taste in regards to who people will have sex with!

Good luck with the thread OP! "

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I imagine they are looking to meet but with who takes their fancy, I can only imagine how many messages people must get especially single lady’s if they put a meet up, must take forever to get through reading them

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Your green arrow makes interesting reading.

Have you been turned down frequently? If so, are you blaming others for it?"

I did the same..

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Is it really just the case that no one has met or wanted to meet you, you are frustrated and decided to come on here to vent your frustration?.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm guessing you just can't see what they can see Gary. If you could you wouldn't ask.

Do your best to not spend all your time analysing their behaviour.

Just keep looking for the folk that are exactly like you.

Believe me...... there are fucking thousands of them on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

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what!!!! I thought that's how fab works.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Treat yourself …Don’t beat yourself!…would you ever want to meet yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Well that went well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re allowed to have a preference, just because they don’t meet you doesn’t mean they haven’t arranged something with someone else "

This

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

"How is it all bull? "
did someone say bull

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By *ocky-boyMan
over a year ago

Durness

Some people say they won’t meet single males…….. but do. Some say they are looking for a meet……and do. Maybe you should try a bit harder, there’s lots of nice honest people on here, but, you need to impress otherwise they won’t be interested in meeting with you, it’s nothing personal, just people being choosy, which they have the right to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus what I have come to realise on here is that some fabbers see the fact a meet request is up as an anything free for all.

I've discussed this candidly with one of my male friends and he tells me that all a male needs is an in road with female and then he'll try and convince her to do what he wants, not what she wants or not necessarily what was on the original meet.

For example, I quite often put up a request for a social meet because I want to meet someone socially before play. However, I get replies from men who try and glean the promise of a shag before even agreeing to meet socially, or they tell me they can accommodate and I should go see them. That isn't what I asked for. I'd asked for a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus what I have come to realise on here is that some fabbers see the fact a meet request is up as an anything free for all.

Yep.

I posted a meet, with some specific requirements, most messages completely ignored that.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis

Me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me mean me me me me me me mean men meme me me me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I posted a meet, with some specific requirements, most messages completely ignored that."

Ahem, in my most stern domly dim voice!

“When I want to know what you want I will tell you!”

Do I get the gig?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be they just don't want to meet you, just because they are on a swingers site, doesn't mean they have to meet any Tom, Dick or Harry!!!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Has the Op been told off enough yet ?

I’m sure he’s got the message, this Be Kind bollocks really is bollocks when it comes down to it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Has the Op been told off enough yet ?

I’m sure he’s got the message, this Be Kind bollocks really is bollocks when it comes down to it.

this.

Unfortunately he didn’t come back to explain. Probably too bloody scared to!

Maybe he had arranged to meet the person and they didn’t turn up. Maybe he didn’t word the thread correctly. Guess we’ll never know now.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

its not ALL bull

please don't generalize thats not polite to those of us who are genuine

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Then don’t look at the meat section OP then you won’t be annoyed

Sausage all the way in there

Ooo ooo where!?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They probably won't want to meet everyone who offers op, I wouldn't.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They don't meet you OP? The winners take it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a post screams why am I not getting the attention I think I'm entitled too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having read a few of your posts op, maybe this site isnt what your looking for, dont forget it isnt instashag, what can you offer to others? get to some socials, clubs etc and see how that goes, dont just rely on this site, plus your recent posts dont make you sound appealing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because they haven't met you doesn't mean they don't meet.

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