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By *iss Kiss OP   Woman
over a year ago

near Coventry

So I was thinking. I, and most women. We wear a lot of stuff that lets face it, is uncomfortable. But helps us to feel and look attractive. Bras, thongs, high heels, all sorts of things.

Do men ever wear anything that is uncomfortable for the sake of how they look/feel.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Good question

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Trousers.

Ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never saw a man look uncomfortable with any clothing that enhances his body look… because those things don’t exist just saying .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trousers.

Ties. "

I mean is a tie really that uncomfy??

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Speaking for myself... I can't say I ever do... I buy clothes that are just right and underwear that's comfortable

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I find suits and ties incredibly uncomfortable. Men’s contemporary formal footwear is also ridiculous with their pointy toes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have asked loads of times of previous partners - what can I wear that would turn you on?

Answer is usually: I nice suit...

Not really what I had in mind, but I f&^%ing hate wearing ties.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I guess... I feel uncomfortable in the tight shirts I wear but that's more of a mentally uncomfortable than the physical...

I still don't see myself as a thin guy anymore in my head.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Suits.

I hate them (and so hardly wear them).

They are just so restricting, and oddly make me feel claustrophobic. I can't stand things tight around my arms or neck.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I mean is a tie really that uncomfy??"

Try wearing a suit and tie in summer! Stupid tight collar and an anachronistic scarf.

These days I’d wear an open necked shirt with a jacket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are clothes that are less comfortable, ie suit shoes but nothing that compares to what women wear!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have worn a bra that makes my back itch and really uncomfortable. Also high heels that mean I can’t walk after a few hours in them.

So as a guy who wears men’s clothes for the majority of the time ….NO !

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I got a new pair of shoes for a social meet and when i opened them they were a size too small.

I wore them and was in agony all night soooh glad to take them off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean is a tie really that uncomfy??

Try wearing a suit and tie in summer! Stupid tight collar and an anachronistic scarf.

These days I’d wear an open necked shirt with a jacket. "

Fair, they look good on men tho x

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Bowler hat....

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I mean is a tie really that uncomfy??

Try wearing a suit and tie in summer! Stupid tight collar and an anachronistic scarf.

These days I’d wear an open necked shirt with a jacket.

Fair, they look good on men tho x "

They’re like a silk noose around my neck.

Maybe I’d wear one for a dominant partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sometimes uncomfortable in my chastity device. Especially browsing the forums here. I did have a brand new pair of shoes onetime that i had to wear all day to a formal work occasion that basically cut the heels of me.. I appreciate and actually would like to be able to experience some of the uncomfortable things women go through as societal norms

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

No. Needs to be comfortable otherwise I won't wear it.

Except when I want to be the knight in shining armour that some women desire. Then it's full on metal suit. I assume that's what they meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically the more formal it is the more uncomfortable it is. Not sure it’s to the same extent as some of the things women wear though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Needs to be comfortable otherwise I won't wear it.

Except when I want to be the knight in shining armour that some women desire. Then it's full on metal suit. I assume that's what they meant "

Same here,,, if it’s not comfortable or ill fitting I don’t wear it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Ties.

I get fidgety after a while wearing a tie.

First, I undo the top button of my shirt. Then I'll gradually loosen the tie & after a while, the whole thing comes off (Tie that is, not the shirt).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have worn smart new shoes and regretted it later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m gonna swing the trend of what’s already been posted in that I find suits very comfortable but I’m never comfortable in jeans I can’t wait to get home and take them off to put shorts or joggies on

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope... apart from the stoopid tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question OP. I think generally men are restricted in what they can wear as things don’t tend to reveal as much flesh and that isn’t the point of them.

Anything that wasn’t comfortable to wear I would wear them. I understand a few guys have put ties but personally I’m very comfortable with ties, suits etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sock suspenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boxer shorts, always ride up on my thighs and make me feel uncomfortable.

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Bowler hat...."

Agreed it’s a little uncomfortable , the rim is so tight ….(steady)

But I love em

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By *c4funMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Jeans and shirt and tie for me

Not together obviously lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gimp mask

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

always dress comfy but wife and friends are often trying to get me in tight sexy gear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Collars and ties.

Smart shoes (especially as I bare feet normally)

Suits tend to have little give so it's tight sitting or baggy standing up.

Smart clothes in general are unforgiving in hot weather. There's no option to cool down.

I personally find most jeans uncomfortable unless I go 90s on them.

And while not clothes, I 'kin hate shaving. My stubble is too coarse and no matter what my skin flares up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Collars and ties.

Smart shoes (especially as I bare feet normally)

Suits tend to have little give so it's tight sitting or baggy standing up.

Smart clothes in general are unforgiving in hot weather. There's no option to cool down.

I personally find most jeans uncomfortable unless I go 90s on them.

And while not clothes, I 'kin hate shaving. My stubble is too coarse and no matter what my skin flares up.

"

Why do you think have a beard

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Some of my trousers are currently uncomfortable, I think they shrank over the last 18 months.

But generally no, nothing is uncomfortable, I refuse to wear anything that I don't feel good in.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Getting ready for a sesh ....... ( let's assume everyone gets showered n dried )

WOMAN

Already had finger and toe nails done cos she's done this before.

Dry hair, Style Hair, Put in clips , combs n butterflies. Laqcuer tatty bits into shape. Smear first coat foundation over face, apply top coat , base eyeshadow, top eyeshadow, blender eyeshadow, false eylashes or mascara dry and then mascara. Lip liner, lip stick, blusher. Sexy bra - prob uplift, boned. Suspender belt - tightish lots of little hooks. Stockings . gently smooth out and roll down to toe. Carefully insert leg so as not to ladder stockings. Raise them up and smooth them out - fasten front clips ( fine ) fasten side clips (mmph ) fasten back clips ( fucking hell! ) Negligee or dressing gown. Leave heels till last moment cos they really hurt and make women totter like geishas... Heels on answer door. Spend a few hours going puce in the face if out ( would have dress on ) or best part of an hour dying to get out of clothes if home..... try to smile and look comfortable.

MAN.

Kecks off, shirt off. Ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not in the clothing or underwear department xx

But us men appreciate your uncomfortable efforts gorgeous ladies

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Jeans and shirt and tie for me

Not together obviously lol"

Glad you added that last sentence in

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not to mention earrings and jewellery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes boxer shorts, when your cock ends up down one leg and your balls are split between both legs it does need urgent readjustment but not much more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like getting dressed up

It doesn't suit me and it's hella uncomfy

My build is complemented by cargo pants, thick, box cut, overshirts and boots

Tailoring doesn't sit well on me

I had a bit of a toe to toe with a recruiter cos I said I wouldn't wear a suit to an interview

I find the whole suit, shirt & tie thing for work really stuffy & old fashioned

I don't want to work anywhere that feels that that is the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting ready for a sesh ....... ( let's assume everyone gets showered n dried )

WOMAN

Already had finger and toe nails done cos she's done this before.

Dry hair, Style Hair, Put in clips , combs n butterflies. Laqcuer tatty bits into shape. Smear first coat foundation over face, apply top coat , base eyeshadow, top eyeshadow, blender eyeshadow, false eylashes or mascara dry and then mascara. Lip liner, lip stick, blusher. Sexy bra - prob uplift, boned. Suspender belt - tightish lots of little hooks. Stockings . gently smooth out and roll down to toe. Carefully insert leg so as not to ladder stockings. Raise them up and smooth them out - fasten front clips ( fine ) fasten side clips (mmph ) fasten back clips ( fucking hell! ) Negligee or dressing gown. Leave heels till last moment cos they really hurt and make women totter like geishas... Heels on answer door. Spend a few hours going puce in the face if out ( would have dress on ) or best part of an hour dying to get out of clothes if home..... try to smile and look comfortable.

MAN.

Kecks off, shirt off. Ready."

Not always kecks or shirt off just drop them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also having big legs and 'Dad bollocks' is an uncomfy combo and has fuck all to do with clothes

First thing I do when I sit in the car is free my balls from their prison, somewhere between the tops of my legs and my arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was thinking. I, and most women. We wear a lot of stuff that lets face it, is uncomfortable. But helps us to feel and look attractive. Bras, thongs, high heels, all sorts of things.

Do men ever wear anything that is uncomfortable for the sake of how they look/feel."

Shirt and tie !

hate feeling restricted around the neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh a full Kilt getup too, the weight of the kilt can pull down on your hips and also cut in if I’ve been daft enough to let it slip that far

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Jeans. They’re tight around the bollocks.

I tend to refer to the central seam as a ‘Ball saw.’

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Shoes mostly. Especially when breaking in a new pair of smart looking ones

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

reminds me of the conversation I had with a man the other day I asked him was he not cold in shorts his reply to me was that he was driving a van and all he had was skinny jeans and they would cut the balls off him if he had to drive around in them all day

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Shoes mostly. Especially when breaking in a new pair of smart looking ones "

I can’t even imagine what you’d be like shopping for shoes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good question, OP. A few men have said suits and other formal wear but I think that's more mental than physical-a well cut suit should be very comfortable to wear.

So I think the answer is, no.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"So I was thinking. I, and most women. We wear a lot of stuff that lets face it, is uncomfortable. But helps us to feel and look attractive. Bras, thongs, high heels, all sorts of things.

Do men ever wear anything that is uncomfortable for the sake of how they look/feel."

boxer shorts / briefs I hate them. Find them super uncomfortable.but I’ll stick a pair in for the right occasions

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Only thing I wear just because is work uniform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really good question, OP. A few men have said suits and other formal wear but I think that's more mental than physical-a well cut suit should be very comfortable to wear.

So I think the answer is, no. "

A good suit is fine,you should always have it tailored. Personally I just find a tie a little restrictive.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It depends how you define uncomfortable mentally or physically?

Physically no, men’s clothes are mainly functional and therefore rely on comfort to perform.

Mentally yes. Speedos, jodhpurs, and clothes worn for occasions can make one feel mentally uncomfortable

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't like anything tight around my neck.

Sexually - I don't like my anus played with.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I find wool makes me itchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willy warmer (usually knitted) -

Must be scratchy/itchy!

Jock straps - gotta be a warm feeling from the front a cold one at the back....

I can't think of anything above the waist.....

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

That ever-rising, throbbing pain when your trousers or undergarments cause the incorrect alignment of yer plums. Kinda goes up your side.

A particular hazard when it’s cold, and they are cwtching up for some warmth. More so than when hanging loose, I feel.

Terrifying.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I wear a harness for work that's very uncomfortable not sure it makes me look any better as it squashes my nuts together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Formal shoes I wear for work can be rather uncomfortable especially in hot summer days. I often envy women with more open shoes which look more appropriate for the season but would be frowned upon on my feet at a business meeting.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Shoes mostly. Especially when breaking in a new pair of smart looking ones

I can’t even imagine what you’d be like shopping for shoes!! "

An absolute nightmare if clothes shopping is to be judged

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Shoes mostly. Especially when breaking in a new pair of smart looking ones

I can’t even imagine what you’d be like shopping for shoes!!

An absolute nightmare if clothes shopping is to be judged "

My point exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Formal shoes I wear for work can be rather uncomfortable especially in hot summer days. I often envy women with more open shoes which look more appropriate for the season but would be frowned upon on my feet at a business meeting."

Invest in better shoes?

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"Trousers.

Ties.

I mean is a tie really that uncomfy??"

Not usually but occasionally I've found a tie uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time is in a suit not a fan I feel restricted especially with a tie, I don’t like things around my neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeans and shirt and tie for me

Not together obviously lol

Glad you added that last sentence in "

thank God! That's one of my pet hates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suits.

I hate them (and so hardly wear them).

They are just so restricting, and oddly make me feel claustrophobic. I can't stand things tight around my arms or neck. "

Modern suits..buy one that fits!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Only time is in a suit not a fan I feel restricted especially with a tie, I don’t like things around my neck "

Not even arms or ankles with feet tucked behind your ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times wearing socks become uncomfortable when I get a new pair of shoes they uncomfortable for quite while but mainly feel uncomfortable in me at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only time is in a suit not a fan I feel restricted especially with a tie, I don’t like things around my neck

Not even arms or ankles with feet tucked behind your ears "

* I should have added that only applies to ties and shirts buttoned to the top

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By *ark eyesMan
over a year ago

city center

Some boxers can be a little restrictive/tight around the gentleman area. Only really when trying to keep the bulge to a minimum.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Only time is in a suit not a fan I feel restricted especially with a tie, I don’t like things around my neck

Not even arms or ankles with feet tucked behind your ears

* I should have added that only applies to ties and shirts buttoned to the top "

Glad we cleared that up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Some boxers can be a little restrictive/tight around the gentleman area. Only really when trying to keep the bulge to a minimum."

No such thing as boxers that are too tight

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Some boxers can be a little restrictive/tight around the gentleman area. Only really when trying to keep the bulge to a minimum.

No such thing as boxers that are too tight "

Depends how high pitched his voice gets.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We've only ever dressed for ourselves so generally comfortable. Beach bum style for me and Flik is a hippy at heart so long flowing dresses and no underwear is the norm. Occasionally other stuff but it's very rare and yes we also like they way each other looks so winning all round

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Can't say uncomfortable to wear, but the the leather jeans, and leather shirt that a lady friend bought me for a present, get a bit hot and sweaty during a summer afternoon afternoon of unbridled passionate pleasure.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

For many guys, I’d probably say a wedding ring…

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I can honestly say I don't wear anything that's uncomfortable. And I tend to look OK in most things.

Mind you I tend to wear waistcoats whwn I go dancing so my partners don't get a horrible sweaty back when they put there arm round me. So it gets a bit warm

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Clothing I find uncomfortable:

- Most things with collars.

- A lot of things with sleeves.

- Ties.

- "Smart" trousers.

- Jeans.

- Anything that just doesn't have enough pockets.

- Footwear that doesn't support or protect your feet.

Maybe some of the above issues would be mitigated if I could afford tailored clothes, but I still haven't won the lottery, I'm sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wedding ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clothing I find uncomfortable:

- Most things with collars.

- A lot of things with sleeves.

- Ties.

- "Smart" trousers.

- Jeans.

- Anything that just doesn't have enough pockets.

- Footwear that doesn't support or protect your feet.

Maybe some of the above issues would be mitigated if I could afford tailored clothes, but I still haven't won the lottery, I'm sorry. "

I spent £1500 on my tailored kilt problem is my weight goes up and down like a yo-yo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock and ball ring/harness after +20 mins....

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