FabSwingers.com forum: Is there honestly

By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is the same as general life. Can't do anything right.

It's freeing. Why worry ... someone will be pissed off anyway so just do it.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In short, no.

Fab is often a hedonists playground, people do what they want when they want but are often quick to call foul if something or someone gets in their way.

Try not to let others get to you too much.

I try to behave ethically and treat others as I want to be treated but beyond that, it’s not really here or there. If I care about a person then I’d likely take them into consideration but for randomers? It really doesn’t matter

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. There will always be someone offended or taking something the wrong way whatever you say

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Probably not pablo. Each to their own but even be nice threads or positive threads end up with someone on there taking offence or making a comment just to stir things up.it’s starting to leave me not want to comment anymore. But there are far more good people on here than not so I’ll plod along for now

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Why is fabbing a pic wrong ?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Smile and wave! Smile and wave!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Why is fabbing a pic wrong ? "

There’s a thread on it mate

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Sod em is what I say. Do what works for you and ignore or block the haters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do you and that’s good enough OP. Don’t care what people think, I’m far too old and wise to be someone that someone else wants me to be

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Just do what you think best. If anyone disagrees then ignore or block.

It’s the only way to cope with the internet since they let the plebs on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smile and wave! Smile and wave!

Haha love that movie

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

To old to give a fig these days....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You’ll always get some that forget it’s just a website and normal social manners don’t apply.

Yes you can ignore someone.

You didn’t ask for their message, so you don’t have to reply.

Site rules are there to be read, it’s your fault if you don’t read them.

It’s a comment on a forum, doesn’t make me a bad person for having a different opinion.

However it’s not rude or bullying to question your comment.

I owe you nothing. You are a stranger to me, we haven’t created a bond or relationship yet. So get off your high horse if you think a few messages mean you’re owed something.

Just random thoughts I have about the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In short, no.

Fab is often a hedonists playground, people do what they want when they want but are often quick to call foul if something or someone gets in their way.

Try not to let others get to you too much.

Well said Tea, nothing wrong with a little chuckle to ones self at some of the snowflakery either!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

And …blocking isn’t rude or uncalled. It’s a tool to ignore someone you think is a tool

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Walk on by a thread that gets your back up.

Delete one liners and/cock pic messages/profile.

Do FAB as you want to do it rather than be swayed by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is far too short and precious to worry about upsetting people that live inside your laptop screen on a swingers site!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

The list is just evergrowing here.

“Fab pictures”

“No responses”

“Single guys”

“Single women”

“Single couples”

“Deleted messages”

“No responses”

“Rude responses”

Can’t aim to please everyone, and certainly in the current environment it’s gotten worse.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"

Xxxx

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.

Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?

As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin

You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.

It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"

(emoji answers the way forward)

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I know what you mean OP; if you send a friendly short message it gets ignored; if you send a long thoughtout message giving lots of detail about yourself, it gets ignored; if don't have any verifications, you're ignored; if you have verifications stating that you're a great person that is reliable, respectful and friendly, you're ignored; if you participate on the Forum without being hateful or aggressive, you're ignored; if you go to clubs and get a reputation as being one of the good guys, guess what? Yep, you're ignored.

So OP, you're right, there's nothing left for you to do but to stick your head out of the window and shout (infact use a mega-phone on max volume) "FOR GOOD SAKE FAB!" No one will hear you though as you'll be drowned out by the massed voices of the decent rule following, non-time wasting, Fab males.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.

Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?

As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin

You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.

It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.

I fab people as I like their pictures as I'm sure a lot of people do. No hidden agendas behind it and no pissing contest to be had.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"

Need to be thick skinned on here otherwise you will go crazy for sure.x

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!

Need to be thick skinned on here otherwise you will go crazy for sure.x"

Oh I'm thick skinned, but you think about it over the months of all the things that someone has taken offence to, if we stopped doing it all, what could we actually do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.

Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?

As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin

You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.

It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.

And yet you choose to comment on the forums??

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.

Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?

As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin

You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.

It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.

And yet you choose to comment on the forums??

Maybe still stupidly believe things may change, hopless case things may change in my last days.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.

Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?

As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin

You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.

It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.

And yet you choose to comment on the forums??

Maybe still stupidly believe things may change, hopless case things may change in my last days.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"

Quitters offend me !

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.

Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.

If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong

. Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!

(emoji answers the way forward)"

We need more emojis to cover every possible base for that to work, but I like your thinking

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.

Sadly we are yet to see you wear any

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.

Sadly we are yet to see you wear any

Incoming.

(Don't say I didn't warn you)

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.

Sadly we are yet to see you wear any

Incoming.

(Don't say I didn't warn you)

Very nice, as are the dungarees, even though you are looking slightly jaundice in that one lol

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By *herrychapstickWoman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Everyone is lying about something, especially on here. Your truth is yours to believe. Be who you are, ignore them and live your life

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.

Sadly we are yet to see you wear any

Incoming.

(Don't say I didn't warn you)

Very nice, as are the dungarees, even though you are looking slightly jaundice in that one lol"

I think it was the filter on the camera. At least I was clean shaven.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

You can’t please all the people all the time!

But you sure can piss them all off at once

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