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"Not fabbing pics would be surely form of exclusion? Hereby I exclude you from a privileged circle of those I do fab! "So what? | |||
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"Not fabbing pics would be surely form of exclusion? Hereby I exclude you from a privileged circle of those I do fab!
So what?"Bloody hell. I'm playing with words. Chill  | |||
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"Hot photos and fabs pics helps keep a user base of woman that don’t meet but like the attention, and their pics keep other people coming back to view them Realistically, a swinging website doesn’t need a daily picture popularity contest. But it does have the desired effect of keeping traffic rolling " The majority of the hot pics women do meet, and they have verifications? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" They get to see the picture.. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? They get to see the picture.." Maybe we don't see the full picture. Yet..  | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" It’s not about getting something from it. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? It’s not about getting something from it. " You mean I shouldn't have sent those gift hamper baskets to you?! | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? It’s not about getting something from it. You mean I shouldn't have sent those gift hamper baskets to you?! "Wait- is that why I have all the goodie bags outside my office? | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. " I just fab the photos I’m wanking over I’m pretty sure the other photos do not feel excluded lol | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? It’s not about getting something from it. You mean I shouldn't have sent those gift hamper baskets to you?! "I did think you went a bit OTT really no need to but thanks | |||
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"Not fabbing pics would be surely form of exclusion? Hereby I exclude you from a privileged circle of those I do fab!
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Bloody hell. I'm playing with words. Chill "I'm pissing on your cornflakes,you chill | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange?" I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" A wrist exercise lol | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! | |||
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"You can fab pictures? "Apparently so.... | |||
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"You can fab pictures? Apparently so...."Yep you can just tried it out and it works.  | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" I've met guys through fabbing my pic..... Of course they have to tick a few more boxes, when it comes to reading their profile, looking at his pics.... Please don't be sarky about my input....much appreciated  | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! " This .
Some of us love it, but don’t need it.
It’s a bit of fun. I enjoy being fabbed, I enjoy fabbing others. I enjoy showing appreciation to others. | |||
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"Yep, I fab the photos of guys I'd like to fuck therefore excluding the ones I don't. " Agreed | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. " I don't know about that. It's enough for me most of the times. I don't even want most people to think I want something out of it. Take for example fab a fella Thursday. Do you think I want to fuck all the people I fab? Do you think I expect them to fab me in return? No! I want to show them that their participation is noted and leave them feeling good on a Thursday. Small random gesture. But i usually pick a pic which I actually like so no dishonesty. I see where you coming from but I cannot do anymore cynical. I overdosed last night. I want simple and happy thoughts. We can always look for ulterior motives. I don't want that shadow over my mind all the time on here. Just sitting in the corner like a discreet bodyguard to protect you from some harm along the way. Ps. Actually yes. Maybe teeny tiny bit does it for myself too. I want to feel like a good human being. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! " You’ve got it arse about tit. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit." Arse about tit…. Now that’s a pic I’d fab | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit." No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. Arse about tit…. Now that’s a pic I’d fab " | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. I don't know about that. It's enough for me most of the times. I don't even want most people to think I want something out of it. Take for example fab a fella Thursday. Do you think I want to fuck all the people I fab? Do you think I expect them to fab me in return? No! I want to show them that their participation is noted and leave them feeling good on a Thursday. Small random gesture. But i usually pick a pic which I actually like so no dishonesty. I see where you coming from but I cannot do anymore cynical. I overdosed last night. I want simple and happy thoughts. We can always look for ulterior motives. I don't want that shadow over my mind all the time on here. Just sitting in the corner like a discreet bodyguard to protect you from some harm along the way. Ps. Actually yes. Maybe teeny tiny bit does it for myself too. I want to feel like a good human being. " I am incredibly cynical. It would take a lot to change me back. There is a setting, where you can have your pictures not allowed to be fabbed. | |||
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" I am incredibly cynical. It would take a lot to change me back. There is a setting, where you can have your pictures not allowed to be fabbed. " Yeah I sense that. That is a solution. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. " Personally I don’t know how being selfish and fabbing a photo is related. What is there to possibly receive from fabbing a picture anyhow? What’s wrong with giving - making someone smile. You fab a picture of a friend or someone on your hotlist that they posted, it’s nice for them to know what others like and it makes them smile seeing a friend ‘likes’ it. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks " Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though " Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. Personally I don’t know how being selfish and fabbing a photo is related. What is there to possibly receive from fabbing a picture anyhow? What’s wrong with giving - making someone smile. You fab a picture of a friend or someone on your hotlist that they posted, it’s nice for them to know what others like and it makes them smile seeing a friend ‘likes’ it. "
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. Personally I don’t know how being selfish and fabbing a photo is related. What is there to possibly receive from fabbing a picture anyhow? What’s wrong with giving - making someone smile. You fab a picture of a friend or someone on your hotlist that they posted, it’s nice for them to know what others like and it makes them smile seeing a friend ‘likes’ it. " Very true. But very niche. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" A sore finger? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? " I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. " Clearly making someone smile isn't a valid reason for you. It is for many, though. I fab a photo because : - It's a sexy photo - They're a friend - It's fab a fella Thursday - I'm hinting that I fancy them - It made me smile | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. " Join in with fab a fella Thursday and see how you get on | |||
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"We try and fuck everyone who fabs our photos. Its worked a few times but also resulted in a lot of blocks...." | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point?" Why did you fab the photo? What did you think you were going to get out of it? You stating you were ignored implies that you expected a message, a proposition, or something back in return for your fab! | |||
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"We try and fuck everyone who fabs our photos. Its worked a few times but also resulted in a lot of blocks...." Now you have destroyed my whole argument. If only everyone shared your ethos | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" An erection? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point?" So in essence don’t to anything unless you get something for it. What a depressing world that would be. I send my friends birthday cards but don’t get anything back…. Maybe just jack that in? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Why did you fab the photo? What did you think you were going to get out of it? You stating you were ignored implies that you expected a message, a proposition, or something back in return for your fab!" Not exactly. I wasn’t expecting anything. I’m not so naive. By stating I was ignored doesn’t imply anything. Only being ignored. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get?" My OH got a relationship out of Fabbing one of mine  | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point?" Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. Personally I don’t know how being selfish and fabbing a photo is related. What is there to possibly receive from fabbing a picture anyhow? What’s wrong with giving - making someone smile. You fab a picture of a friend or someone on your hotlist that they posted, it’s nice for them to know what others like and it makes them smile seeing a friend ‘likes’ it. Very true. But very niche." There is also the potential of sparking a conversation from it. For example you fab a picture of someone’s feet or whatever it may be. The person who posted it likes you, see’s you like that and messages saying I never knew you were into that… Just an example but it’s happened to me | |||
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"have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Why did you fab the photo? What did you think you were going to get out of it? You stating you were ignored implies that you expected a message, a proposition, or something back in return for your fab! Not exactly. I wasn’t expecting anything. I’m not so naive. By stating I was ignored doesn’t imply anything. Only being ignored. " You can’t be ignored if there was no expectation of acknowledgement on your part. Therefore you claiming to be ignored does imply you expected something in return. Your whole argument is “what do I get when I fab a photo”! | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way " Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. " No your contradicting yourself | |||
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"You choose to fab, you choose to not fab. Only you can make that choice, but for me, I enjoy fabbing pics and showing my appreciation, I expect nothing in return. I enjoy my pics getting fabbed, and there’s nothing wrong with that. You make the decision that works for you. " Well said! | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself " Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. " If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. " Don’t patronise me, fabbing pics is an option open to everyone on here you choose if you wish to fab or not! Your discussion isn’t about exclusion it’s about you not getting what you want from an expectation however you claim not to have had one, your written word says otherwise - you feel ignored and excluded based on your pre conceived ideals | |||
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"No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. " If you are fabbing with no expectation of anything in return, please can you clearly explain how fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion? I fab pictures I like to show that I like them, I don’t fab pictures I don’t like. Is that the kind if exclusion you mean? I am excluding pictures that don’t meet my preferences, are you suggesting that is a bad thing? | |||
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"It’s always nice when someone fabs your pic however what we don’t get is people who feel the need to get fabs with statuses such as “ fab my pics if you want to fuck me “ ! Although we like fabs we would sooner get 10 off genuine people than 1000 off gullible men because we have begged for them . " This is me too. All my fabs are because someone has genuinely liked the pics I post. Give me that anytime | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. " I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. " But, why do you need/have to get something in return? | |||
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"People who enjoy getting fabs etc and get hundreds and thousands do you look at them all to see who fabbed? Just interested x" No | |||
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"I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. " Herein lies the issue. “What do you get in return?” assumes one is expecting something in return. I don’t expect anything in return, I fab a pic because I like it and see it as a way of paying a compliment, especially to people I’m nervous about messaging. IF I get a message or a connection out of it (and I have done a couple of times) then it is a nice bonus surprise, but I don’t expect anything. The point is simply to pay a compliment. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. " But you could say the same about anything in life - what do you get doing something for someone else? You might make someone feel a bit better about themselves? Which is reward in its self surely | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. Don’t patronise me, fabbing pics is an option open to everyone on here you choose if you wish to fab or not! Your discussion isn’t about exclusion it’s about you not getting what you want from an expectation however you claim not to have had one, your written word says otherwise - you feel ignored and excluded based on your pre conceived ideals " Maybe you are right. But I never made this about me. You are making it about me. We could easily make this about you. But we won’t. When someone fabs your pics how do you feel? Do you care why that person made that choice? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. But, why do you need/have to get something in return?" So why bother? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. But, why do you need/have to get something in return? So why bother?" Then don’t, it’s your choice, but I’m genuinely curious, why do you feel you need to get something back? | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. Don’t patronise me, fabbing pics is an option open to everyone on here you choose if you wish to fab or not! Your discussion isn’t about exclusion it’s about you not getting what you want from an expectation however you claim not to have had one, your written word says otherwise - you feel ignored and excluded based on your pre conceived ideals Maybe you are right. But I never made this about me. You are making it about me. We could easily make this about you. But we won’t. When someone fabs your pics how do you feel? Do you care why that person made that choice? " I give up! You specifically said you got ignored- you made this about you! No I don’t particularly care why they made the choice, if someone dabs my pic I appreciate there fab for what it is, a liking of a pic nothing more. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. Don’t patronise me, fabbing pics is an option open to everyone on here you choose if you wish to fab or not! Your discussion isn’t about exclusion it’s about you not getting what you want from an expectation however you claim not to have had one, your written word says otherwise - you feel ignored and excluded based on your pre conceived ideals Maybe you are right. But I never made this about me. You are making it about me. We could easily make this about you. But we won’t. When someone fabs your pics how do you feel? Do you care why that person made that choice? I give up! You specifically said you got ignored- you made this about you! No I don’t particularly care why they made the choice, if someone dabs my pic I appreciate there fab for what it is, a liking of a pic nothing more. " *fabs | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. But you could say the same about anything in life - what do you get doing something for someone else? You might make someone feel a bit better about themselves? Which is reward in its self surely" Perhaps. You are a better person than me. I’m not interested in making people feel better about themselves. What have they done to deserve it. Because they posted a picture on fab? | |||
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Bloody hell. I'm playing with words. Chill "You got a full suite of fabs from me, half for the pictures, half for that comeback | |||
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"I kind of thing fabbing of pictures can be exclusionary in a way. To some with certain kink. So exhibitionists love having their photos seen. But hot pictures are often filled with the same people (me included as I post often even though I'm at the lower end). And this is especially true the higher up the pages we go. Does this mean that those who are into exhibitionism are excluded from partaking in their kink, if they aren't able to get on the front page? " That makes sense. The person will be on the Fabbed Pics pages somewhere, even if it's page 1,938,946
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. If you're rude and won't explain, you won't get a discussion, you will just get people's backs up. I apologise if I have offended anyone. It’s difficult to explain. You fab someone’s picture. They feel better about themselves. You have a momentary feeling of having done something good. But ultimately what do you get in return? So why bother? It seems a pointless exercise. They get the validation they are looking for. You receive nothing. But, why do you need/have to get something in return? So why bother? Then don’t, it’s your choice, but I’m genuinely curious, why do you feel you need to get something back? Why post your picture for strangers to send you upvotes? Why do they need the approval of internet weirdos?" I don’t need approval, or validation, but I enjoy being appreciated | |||
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"I kind of thing fabbing of pictures can be exclusionary in a way. To some with certain kink. So exhibitionists love having their photos seen. But hot pictures are often filled with the same people (me included as I post often even though I'm at the lower end). And this is especially true the higher up the pages we go. Does this mean that those who are into exhibitionism are excluded from partaking in their kink, if they aren't able to get on the front page? That makes sense. The person will be on the Fabbed Pics pages somewhere, even if it's page 1,938,946
Every runner can't win the race. There has to be a winner. Apart from those weird schools where everyone taking part gets a star. "I totally agree there are all always winners. But in a way I can see how some can feel excluded from the excitement and buzz of so many people seeing their pictures. | |||
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is " You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. | |||
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. " No some have asked for clarification on what you mean by exclusion. I posted how fabbing can potentially be exclusionary. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point?" Whats the point of life ? | |||
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. No some have asked for clarification on what you mean by exclusion. I posted how fabbing can potentially be exclusionary. " Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. " Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. " You have just proved my argument correct. Your second scenario doesn’t exist. They have paid the compliment for a reason. | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. " Bloody hell! This is hurting my brain! | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. Bloody hell! This is hurting my brain! "Mine too | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. You have just proved my argument correct. Your second scenario doesn’t exist. They have paid the compliment for a reason. " No, I haven’t proven your argument correct at all. Your argument is only correct IF Person A is expecting a reply from Person B. The second scenario does exist because that is why I and a lot of other people in the thread Fab pictures - we are paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return. You might not understand that or do that, but that doesn’t mean it does not exist. | |||
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"Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. Whether or not Person A is excluded depends entirely on their motivation. Person A is only excluded in this scenario if they expect a response from Person B and do not receive one. They feel ignored and thus excluded. If Person A is paying a compliment with no expectation of anything in return, then it is a one-way transaction and they are not excluded from anything. They do not feel ignored and thus are not excluded. You have just proved my argument correct. Your second scenario doesn’t exist. They have paid the compliment for a reason. " So they should get a shag or a message or something as payment for the Fab....? | |||
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. No some have asked for clarification on what you mean by exclusion. I posted how fabbing can potentially be exclusionary. Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. " So person A chooses to do something knowing there is no reward and then comments about it on a forum because they haven’t been rewarded for something they don’t get rewarded for. Person B, C, D etc ask for clarification and they get a mouthful from person A because they ask why he feels that he should have been rewarded for doing something without a reward? The question I have for the OP is what reward do you want for Fabbing a picture? If you think it is excluding you and you are aggrieved enough to start a thread then you must have an idea of what you would like in response for your Fabs. Mr HH | |||
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"Jesus if we had to have sex with everyone who FAB’s our pics then C might as well stay in bed…I’ll have to make tea and coffee for everyone. I wouldn’t mind for my pics - I don’t get as many FAB’s but there’s some hot women who FAB them
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Joy of making others smile. Do we always need to get something in exchange? I don’t think that is a valid reason. To make someone smile. There must be a deeper, underlying reason. Most people are selfish creatures. They wouldn’t care what the person who posted the picture thought. They are doing for themselves. But receiving nothing in return. " If they are “doing it for themselves” then surely that is the return. Whilst I recognise a troll post when I see it, I do like to point out inconsistencies. There I replied to your thread. What do I get out of it? I feel excluded | |||
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"Jesus if we had to have sex with everyone who FAB’s our pics then C might as well stay in bed…I’ll have to make tea and coffee for everyone. I wouldn’t mind for my pics - I don’t get as many FAB’s but there’s some hot women who FAB them
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. " I disagree, you’re being asked questions, for clarity, not being dismissed. | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. " The point is to appreciate the effort that is go into taking the ones that you like and the fact someone has the confidence to share it with others. If you think this is exclusion, do you talk to everybody that you see each day, or are you excluding strangers? Get a grip OP | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? Validation from the press of a button…wow! I don’t see this as validation at all I see it as appreciation of a picture, for some maybe a confidence boost, maybe someone gets a fab from someone they have there eye on and it opens up a conversation they were perhaps to shy to initiate until then? or maybe it just makes them smile. Correct me if I’m wrong here but this is a site of 30+ thousand members were all seeking attention to a degree, some of us are exhibitionists and like posting photos, some of us are meeting, some of us aren’t…don’t know what’s worse, claiming that what is essentially a stranger to you is somehow validated by this or your expectations of something in return! You’ve got it arse about tit. No I’ve got an opinion, my arse and tits are just as they should be, thanks Your opinion is welcome, and you are entitled to it. Doesn’t make it correct though Never said it did, have you ever fabbed a pic? I have. What did it do for me? Did I think that the person would want to have sex with me? Obviously not. They got their ego massaged, I got ignored. So what was the point? Here in lies my point…you have fabbed a pic with an expectation of a response - you see no point as you got nothing from it. Do you always do things in life to get something for yourself? You may not have expected to have sex with the person you fabbed but your statement implies you had some kind of expectation and are disappointed it didn’t go your way Sorry that’s nonsense. You are making it about me. I’m not so egotistical that I would expect a thank you or anything else. I’m trying to discuss something deeper. Not about individuals. Your being simplistic. No your contradicting yourself Perhaps I am. Perhaps you don’t understand the premise of my argument. Fabbing pictures is a form of exclusion. Don’t patronise me, fabbing pics is an option open to everyone on here you choose if you wish to fab or not! Your discussion isn’t about exclusion it’s about you not getting what you want from an expectation however you claim not to have had one, your written word says otherwise - you feel ignored and excluded based on your pre conceived ideals Maybe you are right. But I never made this about me. You are making it about me. We could easily make this about you. But we won’t. When someone fabs your pics how do you feel? Do you care why that person made that choice? I give up! You specifically said you got ignored- you made this about you! No I don’t particularly care why they made the choice, if someone dabs my pic I appreciate there fab for what it is, a liking of a pic nothing more. *fabs " It seems to me that you've yet to explain how Fabs are exclusive? We've established that you don't feel like you get anything from Fabbing photos, ok, don't Fab them, however how are they exclusive? | |||
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"Hot photos and fabs pics helps keep a user base of woman that don’t meet but like the attention, and their pics keep other people coming back to view them Realistically, a swinging website doesn’t need a daily picture popularity contest. But it does have the desired effect of keeping traffic rolling " I completely disagree with this statement. If a pic hits hot pics it's gets more viewings. Opens up the possibilities to swing and the fabs is a list of profiles to look at plus all the veris are also profiles to look at. It's not a popularity contest, its a way of getting seen more and accessing more profiles you may not have come across yourself. And it works beautifully. Sometimes I do despair at your posts. | |||
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"Majority of FABS are to get attention, like empty complements. They are about geting round unread messages and deletions - simples. It is human nature to like complements even if there is no sincerity behind them same as FABs. How many posts asking for FABs, of course it is validation some need that. It is the same as others (guys especially) dissing other guys on threads like this who are entitled to their opinion, just because people don't like them doesn’t make them wrong. To get attention from others by trying to put them down. Just the way it is You are the only person who hasn’t dismissed me out of hand, because I don’t agree with their narrative. I was originally talking about exclusion. They supposed I was upset about a lack of vindication. No some have asked for clarification on what you mean by exclusion. I posted how fabbing can potentially be exclusionary. Person A fabs a picture. Person B receives the fab. Person A is left with nothing to show for their actions Person B doesn’t need to acknowledge person A. Person A is excluded because they don’t get any reward for their action. They are unimportant. All they have achieved is to make person B feel better about themselves. They are excluded from person b narrative. So person A chooses to do something knowing there is no reward and then comments about it on a forum because they haven’t been rewarded for something they don’t get rewarded for. Person B, C, D etc ask for clarification and they get a mouthful from person A because they ask why he feels that he should have been rewarded for doing something without a reward? The question I have for the OP is what reward do you want for Fabbing a picture? If you think it is excluding you and you are aggrieved enough to start a thread then you must have an idea of what you would like in response for your Fabs. Mr HH" I don’t expect anything in return. I’m not so naive. What I’m saying is why bother because you don’t get anything in return. | |||
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"Maybe the op regrets starting this thread now. Hope you have your tin hat on!! " I’m a big boy now. I can take it. Most of the replies have made this about me. That I’m aggrieved at being ignored after fabbing pictures and not being thanked profusely. I’ve been called a troll. I admit I haven’t explained myself very well. Perhaps I have upset the apple cart, because fab is perfect and can’t be criticised. | |||
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"This baffles me. It’s easy if you are Fabbing a photo with an expectation of something in return I would strongly recommend you stop for your own well-being. We fab photos we like or people we know or a subtle way to show an interest, but with no expectation and what is wrong with doing something you think someone will benefit from. If we all did a bit more of that the world would be a better place "I’m not saying that anyone should get anything in return. I’m saying that because you don’t get anything in return you are excluded | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. The point is to appreciate the effort that is go into taking the ones that you like and the fact someone has the confidence to share it with others. If you think this is exclusion, do you talk to everybody that you see each day, or are you excluding strangers? Get a grip OP "Some deep thinkers on here. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? . Oh, first a thread mocking, then the sarcasm of a post when there is a response. How droll. I fab a picture that I like. I get the satisfaction of having seen something that has given me pleasure and I am grateful that I can show my appreciation for their effort with a simple click on a link. And do you believe that they acknowledge your appreciation?" I don't fab the photo in expectation of an acknowledgement. I simply like it and if my fab gives the owner pleasure, all the better. That's my reason for doing it. Others may have other reasons also. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? . Oh, first a thread mocking, then the sarcasm of a post when there is a response. How droll. I fab a picture that I like. I get the satisfaction of having seen something that has given me pleasure and I am grateful that I can show my appreciation for their effort with a simple click on a link. And do you believe that they acknowledge your appreciation? I don't fab the photo in expectation of an acknowledgement. I simply like it and if my fab gives the owner pleasure, all the better. That's my reason for doing it. Others may have other reasons also." I’m sorry what you are saying doesn’t make sense. You have contradicted yourself. | |||
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"This baffles me. It’s easy if you are Fabbing a photo with an expectation of something in return I would strongly recommend you stop for your own well-being. We fab photos we like or people we know or a subtle way to show an interest, but with no expectation and what is wrong with doing something you think someone will benefit from. If we all did a bit more of that the world would be a better place
I’m not saying that anyone should get anything in return. I’m saying that because you don’t get anything in return you are excluded "How is participating being excluded? Surely, you would be excluded if you were unable to fab. If you attend a concert, are you excluded because the artist didn't thank you personally? The exclusion would be in your being prohibited from attending in the first place. By attending, you were able to enjoy the performance. That is your inclusion through participation. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? . Oh, first a thread mocking, then the sarcasm of a post when there is a response. How droll. I fab a picture that I like. I get the satisfaction of having seen something that has given me pleasure and I am grateful that I can show my appreciation for their effort with a simple click on a link. And do you believe that they acknowledge your appreciation? I don't fab the photo in expectation of an acknowledgement. I simply like it and if my fab gives the owner pleasure, all the better. That's my reason for doing it. Others may have other reasons also. I’m sorry what you are saying doesn’t make sense. You have contradicted yourself. " Please explain the contradiction. | |||
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"This baffles me. It’s easy if you are Fabbing a photo with an expectation of something in return I would strongly recommend you stop for your own well-being. We fab photos we like or people we know or a subtle way to show an interest, but with no expectation and what is wrong with doing something you think someone will benefit from. If we all did a bit more of that the world would be a better place
I’m not saying that anyone should get anything in return. I’m saying that because you don’t get anything in return you are excluded
How is participating being excluded? Surely, you would be excluded if you were unable to fab.
If you attend a concert, are you excluded because the artist didn't thank you personally? The exclusion would be in your being prohibited from attending in the first place. By attending, you were able to enjoy the performance. That is your inclusion through participation."This is a good point. But usually the artist thanks the audience at the end. Your last sentence is correct. The previous ones are nonsensical. | |||
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? . Oh, first a thread mocking, then the sarcasm of a post when there is a response. How droll. I fab a picture that I like. I get the satisfaction of having seen something that has given me pleasure and I am grateful that I can show my appreciation for their effort with a simple click on a link. And do you believe that they acknowledge your appreciation? I don't fab the photo in expectation of an acknowledgement. I simply like it and if my fab gives the owner pleasure, all the better. That's my reason for doing it. Others may have other reasons also. I’m sorry what you are saying doesn’t make sense. You have contradicted yourself. Please explain the contradiction." You seem like an intelligent chap. Figure it out for yourself. | |||
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"This baffles me. It’s easy if you are Fabbing a photo with an expectation of something in return I would strongly recommend you stop for your own well-being. We fab photos we like or people we know or a subtle way to show an interest, but with no expectation and what is wrong with doing something you think someone will benefit from. If we all did a bit more of that the world would be a better place
I’m not saying that anyone should get anything in return. I’m saying that because you don’t get anything in return you are excluded
How is participating being excluded? Surely, you would be excluded if you were unable to fab.
If you attend a concert, are you excluded because the artist didn't thank you personally? The exclusion would be in your being prohibited from attending in the first place. By attending, you were able to enjoy the performance. That is your inclusion through participation.
This is a good point. But usually the artist thanks the audience at the end.
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"I see the fab intelligencia have arrived, let me prostrate myself in atonement. Someone fabs a picture. The person who received the fab gets validated. What does the person who fabs the picture get? . Oh, first a thread mocking, then the sarcasm of a post when there is a response. How droll. I fab a picture that I like. I get the satisfaction of having seen something that has given me pleasure and I am grateful that I can show my appreciation for their effort with a simple click on a link. And do you believe that they acknowledge your appreciation? I don't fab the photo in expectation of an acknowledgement. I simply like it and if my fab gives the owner pleasure, all the better. That's my reason for doing it. Others may have other reasons also. I’m sorry what you are saying doesn’t make sense. You have contradicted yourself. Please explain the contradiction. You seem like an intelligent chap. Figure it out for yourself. " I'm certainly intelligent enough to tell when it's pointless to discuss with someone with a chip on his shoulder. With that, I shall leave this thread well alone. | |||
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"This baffles me. It’s easy if you are Fabbing a photo with an expectation of something in return I would strongly recommend you stop for your own well-being. We fab photos we like or people we know or a subtle way to show an interest, but with no expectation and what is wrong with doing something you think someone will benefit from. If we all did a bit more of that the world would be a better place
I’m not saying that anyone should get anything in return. I’m saying that because you don’t get anything in return you are excluded
How is participating being excluded? Surely, you would be excluded if you were unable to fab.
If you attend a concert, are you excluded because the artist didn't thank you personally? The exclusion would be in your being prohibited from attending in the first place. By attending, you were able to enjoy the performance. That is your inclusion through participation.
This is a good point. But usually the artist thanks the audience at the end.
Your last sentence is correct. The previous ones are nonsensical.
Ah, I see; someone who isn't able to have a discussion or debate without throwing insults when he is unable to make his point."I could easily say the same thing about you. Where is the insult? In what way have I insulted you? I have made my point. But you have twisted it to mean something else. When you said inclusion through participation, you made an excellent point. | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. Not unless you look like me then it’s the opposite
I’m joking ! Anyway what ?
You should be fabs official spokesman. Great positivity "I know right ? You’d be surprised! I didn’t read the thread but I’m not sure how the option of Fab’ing is excluding anyone ? Obviously not me my chin picture gets lit up constantly haha | |||
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. Not unless you look like me then it’s the opposite
I’m joking ! Anyway what ?
You should be fabs official spokesman. Great positivity
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You’d be surprised!
I didn’t read the thread but I’m not sure how the option of Fab’ing is excluding anyone ?
Obviously not me my chin picture gets lit up constantly haha
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"What is the point of this? Surely it’s a form of exclusion. Not unless you look like me then it’s the opposite
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You should be fabs official spokesman. Great positivity
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You’d be surprised!
I didn’t read the thread but I’m not sure how the option of Fab’ing is excluding anyone ?
Obviously not me my chin picture gets lit up constantly haha
It’s complicated and I’m getting bored of it now lol. Don’t bother reading the thread. Most of it is repetitive dull arguments. Highly boring. "But My mail was hilarious right ?! Don’t want you painting me with the boring brush !?
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"Exclusion - you have to explain that bit again - slowly so that mere mortals can understand "I don’t think he was referencing us attractive people ! So I don’t feel the need to comment any further | |||
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