FabSwingers.com forum: Personality or Looks

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality All day someone could be hottest person in the world but be as dry as paint

The conversation afterwards wouldn’t be much good

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Looks initially attract, but then people grow more attractive if they have a good personality and are funny.

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By *isteaMan
over a year ago

Around

"Looks initially attract, but then people grow more attractive if they have a good personality and are funny. "

Second that

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Gotta be both surely?

But if I had to pick one? For a playmate? Looks. She’s a playmate, not a partner, so I’d prefer someone I can actually be turned on by than a troll that I enjoy the company of. For a playmate anyways

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Gotta be both surely?

You have a way with words

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By *asian_fruitMan
over a year ago

Fuckingham Palace

"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"

It’s best when both go hand in hand!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"

For someone I get together once in awhile to have sex with or play out fantasies. Bollocks to their personality if our fantasies match and the sex is great. Just kick them out afterwards…until next time

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Both and humour

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By *orkcouple81Couple
over a year ago

west

As alot of profiles don't have a face picture it's personality first and then looks.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Both really. Obviously I want a clit twitch whenever I look at them but I also want that bit more, personality that's compatible with mine. The more I like someone's personality the more I'll find their physical appearance attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's split, but personality is more important for me. I still need to be attracted to them though but I don't like men that are pretty love island boys. That is a huge turn off!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It has to be both, but personality probably would be weighted as more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks always grab my attention first. But I don’t care how hot she is, if there’s no connection it won’t go any further. I like to enjoy getting to know someone while arranging a weekend meet up. Back and forth banter and flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a fuck - looks

For a relationship - both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"

Both, looks is for short time.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Personality every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both... By looks, I mean, I am attracted to them.. Not that they have to be of a certain beauty standard... I don't like that assumption

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You can be the most attractive person in the world but if your personality stinks so do you literally

Looks are important as in personality

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Looks are the initial draw but personality is what makes me want to do it again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually looks get me interested then Personality has killed it. Recently Personality got me curious then other things drew me in

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Personality adds to the attraction! Everyone has types though. You have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them, But it's more than just the physical appearance to me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

85% personality for me

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"You can be the most attractive person in the world but if your personality stinks so do you literally

Looks are important as in personality "
Amen sister! Hahaha

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Looks initially attract, but then people grow more attractive if they have a good personality and are funny. "

agree! xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"You can be the most attractive person in the world but if your personality stinks so do you literally

Looks are important as in personality Amen sister! Hahaha

xx"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's got to be some spark physically AND mentally. I'm rarely attracted to typically good looking men though.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"You can be the most attractive person in the world but if your personality stinks so do you literally

Looks are important as in personality Amen sister! Hahaha

Xxx

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Looks might draw me into a profile, but personality will make hotlist them

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Personality for me every day of the week!

Wouldn’t want to be with anyone if they had no or a bad personality tbh

Looks and personality would be great but not everyone has that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"

Both.

There has to be physical attraction as well as a good personality to make the two a full package.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Looks first... doesn't matter how much I like him as a person if I'm not attracted to him into the friend zone he will go

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Both for me but probably looks first if I’m honest. If I don’t like the face it wouldn’t matter about anything else.

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely looks first, however it's the personality that will draw me back for further meets

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By *queegeeMan
over a year ago

northampton

I think you to look be4 you 'personalise'

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

They have to have something about them to catch my attention but if they have the personality of a dead fish then it's going nowhere.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I don't know what my wife went for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both for me but probably looks first if I’m honest. If I don’t like the face it wouldn’t matter about anything else. "

Definitely this... And the same the other way around... If I do like the face (and personality) then like whatever body type they are too... But a crappy personality can kill it too

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"

Looks. Just looking to f**k not to find a relationship. I don't want to have to put a bag over his head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both, personality over looks mostly so 80/20 for personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't put one over the other, they're both as equally important ...but I would say if there is no personality I'm not going to get excited or engaged.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Both equally important to me, with personality edging slightly more important.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Looks initially attract, but then people grow more attractive if they have a good personality and are funny. "

This for me too

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Has to be both

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In the old days of pulling on nights out it was based on looks wasn't it.

It was luck if they came with a cracking personality but as it was primarily about the sex there was no need......

Now what I'm looking for is mainly personality. Looks are subjective. But that's my situation. If your personality isn't doing it for me then I'm not likely to meet you.

Your situation is your own. You do you.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A little bit of looks and a mass of personality does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can look past both if there's some filthy fun involved. Although a bit of looks and a lot of personality would see me back for more.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I have a visual type but personality will always outweigh looks or age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wins every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks matter. A playmate needs both for me. If they only have a great personality but I'm not attracted to them at all, well then that's a friend isn't it?

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By *dris12345Man
over a year ago

home

On here personality is usually what makes me interested, and looks are secondary. But obvious in the normal world looks probably are more important as you can’t stop personality from the other end of a bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it has to be a bit of both, but I prefer personality over looks any day. You have to get on with each other and I prefer someone who doesn't take themselves seriously and can have a laugh and joke about life rather than be up their own bottoms

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Always the person……

Having a shiny trophy usually lasts a season…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say you could look like Brad Pitt but if there is no vibe, or connection the sex is gonna be shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For one offs it's mostly looks. For those longer term a good balance of both. It's never personality over looks for my fab connections.

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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago

hidden location

Physical attraction is the first gate for me. I need to be physically attracted; Now that is not necessarily the persons facial features.

Then they have to have a sense of humour and be intelligent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our types that we like but the main attraction for us comes from the conversations that follow.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Sense of humour with blue eyes

thank you

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