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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Ummm let me think…. Nope

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

No way.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Simply no.

However, attraction for me isn’t instant _ased on looks, it is something that grows over time and it is more the whole person I get attracted to rather than the outside cover.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

If I’m mentally and personality-attracted to them, of course. People are hearts and spirit, not the meat suits we wear.

If you’re ugly INSIDE and there’s no connection whatsoever, then no.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

No. Not even if she had tea & cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

No. Unless i was heavily d*unk which has happened less times than i can count on one hand. Never making that mistake again. The morning after was a surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

Have done

More than once

I dare say some folks have dabbled with me too without me being their 'type'

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Nope

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By *ilthseeker69Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

Mmmmm it’s a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

Absolutely not, this goes for both of us and we wouldn't want someone to take one for the team with us.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

A maybe but probably no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup

Have done

More than once

I dare say some folks have dabbled with me too without me being their 'type' "

Let me add some context

About 10-12 years ago I was a bit addicted to 'there and then' meets, more often than not with other guys

Some turned up and I wasn't massively attracted to them, but my mindset was 'I'm horny, they showed up so let's do it'

The meets were often very quick and very transactional and I needn't bother ever seeing them again

I only ever turned one away at the door

I had one guy see me, get back in his van and drive off

Would I do it now?

Probably not, but not because I think it's wrong

I just don't have that 'need' any more

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No chance.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Depends if they had a secure supply of E10 petrol or not ! Or is a form of prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

No. Also can't fuck someone I'm not mentally attracted to. Damn it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have done.

I'll spare you the details. It's in my laugh bank though........ no regrets.

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By *pgxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope there has to be an attraction!

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Wot about u op ?

Me no way av 2 want that person x

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Maybe in the Uni days but not now… there’s got to be mental stimulation alongside physical, so these days I’m a monk!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Yup

Have done

More than once

I dare say some folks have dabbled with me too without me being their 'type' "

Haha…. Love a bit of honesty from the guys

I think I must of at some point when young and cate free, but now no, like physically no , I tried a couple of years ago taking one for the team

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wot about u op ?

Me no way av 2 want that person x "

No I haven't. I need to have that connection with someone, especially their sense of humour (they need it to meet me) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done. Many times.

These days, I try not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

Woman no definitely not

Guys emmm yip have done and emmm probably will again

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

No, I need to be physically attracted to them.

Mentally attracted? Absolutely! Sometimes a physical release has been all that was needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. She was bigger than me and not the most attractive. But she was happy to please and a squirter.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to have connection definitely but yes has happened in the past, we learn the hard way yes

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Simply no.

However, attraction for me isn’t instant _ased on looks, it is something that grows over time and it is more the whole person I get attracted to rather than the outside cover. "

This for me too. Because I take my time and don't "meet now" I get to know the person. Obviously there has to be a thing about them looks wise that attracts my initial interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

No, I have to have some attraction

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

Younger easily and happy to add another notch.

Older not anymore but my attraction has gone from looks to personality. So if they show a nasty side to their personality, no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not.

I’ve never tried so I can’t say for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past but it did absolutely nothing for me felt more like an exercise (never again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For one off just a fuck purposes absolutely not.

I’m trying to quiet my need for instant physical attraction though because it hasn’t done me any favours.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Probably not.

I’ve never tried so I can’t say for sure."

For scientific purposes I will volunteer.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, I'd rather sort myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No there's got to be some chemistry there

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

No, but just to be cheeky, that's not an issue you would need to worry about with us, Sparkle!

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes. But why would I? Where’s the enjoyment in that.

Any hole is a goal ... OMG, not since I was a spotty youth who didn’t know any better.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Attraction is a funny thing though. I had one lover who I was hugely attracted to but at the same time I found them ugly. I can't really explain it but the sex was fantastic.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

One? Yes

Again? No

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"One? Yes

Again? No "

I'm free

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Have I? Yes. Would I? No need.

Frank

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Old me yes. When I was a student I was a little wild.

Now. Not a chance. Need that attraction.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?

No, but just to be cheeky, that's not an issue you would need to worry about with us, Sparkle! "

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

No......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This depends on when you ask. Post nut regret is a real thing hahah.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I probably could but I wouldn't

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No I'd dry up if I was not attracted to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if there is no physical attraction, my willy won't work...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Absolutely not.

I was in a club and got asked ‘to help someone out’ as he was tired and the woman hadn’t finished…I didn’t fancy the woman at all and said I needed to go and have a shower

I couldn’t find anything more unsexy - I am definitely not a ‘any holes a goal’ guy

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. I don’t think my vagina would let somebody I wasn’t attracted to enter it

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By *es-sMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"No. Not even if she had tea & cake"
ah now that's a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to feel some connection with lady concerned in mind body soul x

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your _asement, Cuntsville

No I need to be physically and mentally attracted to them or it's all shut for business

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you mean just a one off, then probably not. But as a regular FWB or relationship, then yes. Its more about there personality than looks. I see Woman as more than tits and pussy and so its personality for me. everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

You get a lot of not my types at clubs....

It's the atmosphere that takes your mindset to another level....

Websites like this for me are the most unsexiest thing ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots of times. Personality and chemistry win me over. It's not a bad thing.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Contray to popular belief, not all of us guys are walking, talking sex toys with a pulse. If I don't actually fancy someone, they have more chance of raising The Titanic, than what makes me smile,as I dry myself down whilst looking in the mirror after taking a shower, whereas at a couples party it's not unknown for a woman to take just to be sociable.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No I need that physical attraction

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By *km1Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Bloody hell. I count on people doing that or I’d never get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what most people who have shagged me have done so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of another thread...

Could you fuck someone you aren't physically attracted too?"

My instinct is to say no. It would be like pushing a limp rope into a hole.

However I think in a group sex setting it might be possible. Hormones and the moment just get to you maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these nos mean I’m fucked (or not)

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