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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Do you push people's buttons on purpose... maybe when you are unsure of them for instance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really unless the person is due a button pressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only push peoples buttons if they’re acting like an arse themselves.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t ever deliberately push someone’s buttons in a wind up way. I will sometimes ask a question that may give them cause for consideration, if that may be beneficial for them (in my opinion)

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no "

Exactly the same for me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only if they push mine first

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Fuck no, to my mind pushing someone's buttons you're not sure of means you're a twat who that person should avoid anyway.

You either work each other out like decent people or you walk away if you're not sure. I've had too much crap from game playing narcissists in my life to contemplate hanging around no matter what the outcome could be and I'd rather spend my time with people who aren't cunts

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Not on purpose no, I think I’m just naturally annoying Miss Pc

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I try not to push buttons, but am quite partial to a bit of unzipping dresses and removing bras...

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no "

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in "

^ This description... yes.

Firing people up gets them to open up, discuss, possibly see things differently.

Mundane beige doesn't give any opportunity for anything interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I’d rather use my energy to make someone happy. Too much unhappiness in the world without me adding to it

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in "

So more a probing tactic wanting to know more. Then yes in some instances I will do this to try to understand them or a previous answer better or get them to say something more open.

As for the last part, I’d say listen to your gut no matter how frustrating it could be, knowing when to walk away is best than purposely pushing buttons

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My button is stuck

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"My button is stuck"

On repeat

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope unless I need to push the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in

So more a probing tactic wanting to know more. Then yes in some instances I will do this to try to understand them or a previous answer better or get them to say something more open.

As for the last part, I’d say listen to your gut no matter how frustrating it could be, knowing when to walk away is best than purposely pushing buttons "

This is a area I need to grow in, on when to walk away and give up on someone xxx

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in

^ This description... yes.

Firing people up gets them to open up, discuss, possibly see things differently.

Mundane beige doesn't give any opportunity for anything interesting. "

Xxx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Not to be mean if that's the sort of thing you mean. My ex used to intentionally push my buttons, as did my brother. I don't behave like that. I want a world where everybody gets on. I have never enjoyed annoying or upsetting anybody. Luke

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No never a mean way, I meant in an different way, I misworded my OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also good to gently probe and poke in an friendly, inquisitive way I feel. And if they don't want to answer, just press the pause button.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No. Can't say that I do. I don't think it's fair to wind someone up just to get a reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good probing. I also like someone that can stand up to a good probing... so yeah. I push some buttons on purpose

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m very open so possibly yes if I feel like others are hiding something.. although if it was that kind of scenario I doubt we would be friends and I’d probably move on first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am a little bit of a wind up merchant

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Smile and be polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been pushing the block button a lot over the last few days

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"For me pushing buttons means you know what winds them up, so must know them enough to do it. So in regards to your OP it would be a no

Very true

I mean more of a generic button way, not game playing more of closed sentences, thought provoking topics etc, trying to open a closed book for instance.

You know when your gut tells you to walk away but your brain isn't quite ready to give in

So more a probing tactic wanting to know more. Then yes in some instances I will do this to try to understand them or a previous answer better or get them to say something more open.

As for the last part, I’d say listen to your gut no matter how frustrating it could be, knowing when to walk away is best than purposely pushing buttons

This is a area I need to grow in, on when to walk away and give up on someone xxx"

You’ll find your way, it’s not always easy or black & white xx

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I find I often deliberately argue with people when I want to know more about something. Because then you have to check what they're saying and you educate yourself. Unlike just reading up on something, if you're talking to passionate people about a certain topic. They can throw stuff into a conversation that you never thought of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I often deliberately argue with people when I want to know more about something. Because then you have to check what they're saying and you educate yourself. Unlike just reading up on something, if you're talking to passionate people about a certain topic. They can throw stuff into a conversation that you never thought of. "

I like this

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