FabSwingers.com forum: Felling invisible

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

I'm 100% genuine and just don't seam to get any Interest I know men clearly out number the women but still come on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Add some more photos to make yourself look more appealing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You treat me like you don't really care I know this romance it ain't going nowhere

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place! "

It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww we all feel the same a lot of the time.. Get involved with the threads, visit the chat rooms.. Get a memorable profile pic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place!

It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge "

Is that a photo of a woman as your first pic?

Have you changed sex??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good evening Claire

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Definately pics of you op

This still looks like a couple or womans profile, with the avatar you have.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife and her curves get the attention, I get none from anyone, except tv’s

- Alex

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place!

It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge

Is that a photo of a woman as your first pic?

Have you changed sex??"

No its my hands on my wifes tits she said might help me get noticed lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Lovely tits op

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

Better profile picture???

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can ask the question a million times what am i doing wrong..... is it me .... why wont anyone meet me .... it will all come down to one thing and one thing only there are zillions of men compared to couples and women then bare in mind alot use the site just to chat /for clubs n socials .... that leaves alot of men getting nowhere ... up to you how you get around that but it will involve work as nothing is on a plate free ... good luck op

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

Alas true words, now if your a greek god with 10inches and the gift of the gab then fill ya boots

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?"

Men only I know I'm bi lol some female attention wouldn't go a miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?

Men only I know I'm bi lol some female attention wouldn't go a miss

So you aren’t feeling invisible you just aren’t having your cake and eating it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?

Men only I know I'm bi lol some female attention wouldn't go a miss

So you aren’t feeling invisible you just aren’t having your cake and eating it? "

Could say that I guess

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I quite like being invisible, you can watch people in the shower

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"I quite like being invisible, you can watch people in the shower

I like you line of thought

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Imagine you ratio was reversed and you had the odds in your favour. You have lots and lots if choice. If you read your own profile, would you choose you ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"Imagine you ratio was reversed and you had the odds in your favour. You have lots and lots if choice. If you read your own profile, would you choose you ?"

Well the wife wrote mine to be honest lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Imagine you ratio was reversed and you had the odds in your favour. You have lots and lots if choice. If you read your own profile, would you choose you ?

Well the wife wrote mine to be honest lol

Not a chance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

What do you mean when you say you’re “100% genuine”?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ihusband84 OP Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

"What do you mean when you say you’re “100% genuine”? "

That my wife knows im on here and I have full permission to play feel like some may look at my profile and think bulls**t so maybe avoiding based on it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You're married and you smoke. 2 biggest no's for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww we all feel the same a lot of the time.. Get involved with the threads, visit the chat rooms.. Get a memorable profile pic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.

I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.

I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down."

Sorry you felt that way. I went to my first ever club few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. I didn't chat to many people but did have some interesting convo with a one half of a couple and a hi here and there. I say don't give up though. One bad experience doesn't mean all your experiences will be the same though. Just start with a hi and who knows.. take it from someone that's an introvert like myself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.

I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.

The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.

I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.

The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me."

Is there a hot tub there? That's where I started most of my convos. Or even at the bar. Surprisingly I even had convos with people at the room where the bags where kept. Take a plunge and start with a hi. You just never know bud

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with a lot of the posts here add more pics (i cant talk much) and try get involved with convos and forum stuff, i haven't met anyone off of here but do quite often get a reply (normally no thanks) and/or (omg what happened to your face).

You are a fish in a small pond my friend.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

7wks in trumping already .. oh dear

Okay..... basics of FAB...

Establish a good profile - look around successful profiles to get an idea of what works. Ask those individuals for help and support.

Network online - chat rooms,forums.

Network offline - socialise - local events, clubs.

Gain trust.

Gain respect.

Begin to meet individuals socially.

Become part of the community.

Enjoy an active and varied sex life.

You haven't even got to the first rung of the ladder!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.

I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.

The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me.

There is a hot tub but I don't use it even if I wanted to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

WHO SAID THAT,,,??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve joined all sorts of clubs over the years. Running, Motorcycle, Walking, Single Parents etc… in each case it’s taken a couple of regular visits before I got to know some people and felt as I was part of the club.

So my advice persevere don’t think each time will be like the last …or first time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread