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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Yes, and I do!! Life is for living and making the most of it  | |||
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"Why not ? Although understandably I think many people with particular interests or kinks prefer those with similar experience." Yeah because it would suck being into something very kinky and the other hasn’t got a clue   | |||
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"It depends how far out of my comfort zone " Fair one but at least considered, but I can’t not be bald | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes, and I do!! Life is for living and making the most of it "Love to hear this | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "OP have you? Do you?  | |||
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"Something yes. Someone no. My fab time is very limited so I need to meet those I'm comfortable with and sure about. What we get up to though? Yeah. I'll take a leap of faith with that. " | |||
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"No my boundaries are there for a reason and are not to be pushed on If I am open to something it's already in my comfort zone to try" Makes sense  | |||
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"I tried lots of things many years ago and honed it down to what I liked so nah "But you tried them whittled down to your likes | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "That’s a tough one , we have mentioned this previously but yet to take the jump | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
OP have you? Do you? "Yes most definitely I have preferences as do we all and seek those predominantly but if someone seems genuine I’d be willing to meet and maybe try things
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"I have done. Every meet is a bit of a leap of faith but I will always say no to those kind offers in my inbox for me to give them what they want with no concern for my pleasure. " I don’t blame you or anyone for dismissing those inconsiderate types | |||
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"Yes regularly ! How else do you keep growing. Although I always ask what’s the worse that could happen " Fair one | |||
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"I do, have done and am! Things and people change. Plus we never really know until we give something or someone a chance. Whilst I have boundaries many of those are movable so long as I have sufficient want "Perfik love your profile btw  | |||
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"I decided to try men my age and older, before I joined Fab. I wasn't too thrilled with the experiences so decided to stick with younger. It's not them, it's me." Haha fair one but you changed your wants on experience | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
That’s a tough one , we have mentioned this previously but yet to take the jump " | |||
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"I’ve kept into many somethings … would never take a risk on a someone though. That’s what makes the somethings possible…" Risk on someone as in wouldn’t take the leap to ascertain if you may get on or not or something else xx | |||
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"I’ve kept into many somethings … would never take a risk on a someone though. That’s what makes the somethings possible… Risk on someone as in wouldn’t take the leap to ascertain if you may get on or not or something else xx" No as in risk of not being 100% sure about someone and knowing them well… I’ve grown to like many people that I may not have expected to.. | |||
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"I did take a leap of faith and it all fell apart. I think that taking leaps are good things but there’s a fine line between reward and failure, especially where other people are involved as well. " When anything fails it’s always questionable whether a leap was necessary and often leads to not taking a leap again to avoid such letdowns tbf but you took the initial leap which is pukka | |||
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"I’ve kept into many somethings … would never take a risk on a someone though. That’s what makes the somethings possible… Risk on someone as in wouldn’t take the leap to ascertain if you may get on or not or something else xx No as in risk of not being 100% sure about someone and knowing them well… I’ve grown to like many people that I may not have expected to.. " Ahhhh I see, but that’s great to hear you’ve actually some you think couldn’t have grown on you
Like many here I’m not after just meeting and expecting Jiggy Jiggy I actually want to meet folk that I’d never possibly meet ever and just enjoy laughs, conversations, debates and who knows what | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Yes. Been doing it a bit recently and hoping to get my head around more very soon | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes. Been doing it a bit recently and hoping to get my head around more very soon "Good shout mate as someone said earlier “it broadens experience and education” not verbatim | |||
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"I am, with play but not the person. I have to know and trust someone before I take the leap.. "And rightly so, can’t be too careful but the getting to know someone is exciting too | |||
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"No, i have a type and not fussed about deviating to fill a need. "Perfik | |||
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"Nope. I’m quite happy in my comfort zone "Yes, your comfort zone is warm and moist | |||
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"Nope. I’m quite happy in my comfort zone "Happiness is key | |||
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"Nope. I’m quite happy in my comfort zone
Yes, your comfort zone is warm and moist "Moist. Eewwwwwwwwwew | |||
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"I’ve kept into many somethings … would never take a risk on a someone though. That’s what makes the somethings possible… Risk on someone as in wouldn’t take the leap to ascertain if you may get on or not or something else xx No as in risk of not being 100% sure about someone and knowing them well… I’ve grown to like many people that I may not have expected to.. Ahhhh I see, but that’s great to hear you’ve actually some you think couldn’t have grown on you
Like many here I’m not after just meeting and expecting Jiggy Jiggy I actually want to meet folk that I’d never possibly meet ever and just enjoy laughs, conversations, debates and who knows what "Exactly.. I don’t fancy anyone by photo. I have to see folk in the flesh to decide if it’s like or lust and I’m often surprised. | |||
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"We have been talking recently about venturing out of our comfort zone .." Worth a try, never know what delights you could uncover | |||
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"Yes if the opportunity is right. I'd rather say "I can't believe I've done it" than "I can't believe I've missed out on it"" I like your thinking  | |||
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"I love my comfort zone. Venturing outside of it may have consequences I may live to regret... "For you or them | |||
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"I’ve kept into many somethings … would never take a risk on a someone though. That’s what makes the somethings possible… Risk on someone as in wouldn’t take the leap to ascertain if you may get on or not or something else xx No as in risk of not being 100% sure about someone and knowing them well… I’ve grown to like many people that I may not have expected to.. Ahhhh I see, but that’s great to hear you’ve actually some you think couldn’t have grown on you
Like many here I’m not after just meeting and expecting Jiggy Jiggy I actually want to meet folk that I’d never possibly meet ever and just enjoy laughs, conversations, debates and who knows what
Exactly.. I don’t fancy anyone by photo. I have to see folk in the flesh to decide if it’s like or lust and I’m often surprised."Good surprises is ace xx | |||
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"I have made the lap into new experiences many times, and tho not all worked out , most have and I am very happy that I did. Xx " Well it’s good to do that and if it works great if not fare thee well | |||
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"Yes sometimes x" Life is like a box of chocolates eh | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "No..last time 'er indoors took a leap of faith, it was off the sofa after seeing a plastic spider on the seat next to her..straight onto a lego sixer that the grandkids were playing with. That was most definitely outside the comfort zone and not something to be repeated! | |||
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"The best memories come from the unexpected and spontaneous moments. Hell yeah, bring 'em on! C" Absolutely x spot on | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
No..last time 'er indoors took a leap of faith, it was off the sofa after seeing a plastic spider on the seat next to her..straight onto a lego sixer that the grandkids were playing with. That was most definitely outside the comfort zone and not something to be repeated! "Lmfao | |||
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"I've never been one to fester in my comfort zone, in any walk of life...how do I know if I like something or not unless I try it? " I like this sentiment | |||
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"Yes I have done and so far it worked out well "Because you’re lush  | |||
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"I have done and its had mixed results" But the good results make the leap worthy or not | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Yes totally but always to scared to do it x | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes totally but always to scared to do it x"Awwwwww why scared  | |||
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"I did something once what I did not like, so I jumped on my bike i peddled that fast I made time go backwards a stroke of luck the chain broke just has i was putting the marmite in my mouth. "Lmao | |||
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"I tried lots of things many years ago and honed it down to what I liked so nah "This for me too. I’ve experimented a lot sexually over the years. I know (and I’m comfortable with) what works for me. | |||
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"Yes, I do it a lot (in a sexual sense) Have got to start doing it in a non sexual sense." Good and good
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"I tried lots of things many years ago and honed it down to what I liked so nah
This for me too. I’ve experimented a lot sexually over the years. I know (and I’m comfortable with) what works for me."Fair play xx | |||
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"I’m the opposite I don’t like comfort zones I find them limiting, restrained and a little boring for my personality - sure we all have routines to help with day to day living but I enjoy that pang of excitement, the rush, the not knowing if it’s going to work out but throwing caution to the wind anyway worst that can happen is it goes tits up…dust myself off and start again xx" Like Dory…. Just keep swimming? | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Most days | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes totally but always to scared to do it x
Awwwwww why scared "It’s something way outside of my comfort zone, always wanted to try but never felt comfortable enough with peeps to suggest it xx | |||
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"I’m the opposite I don’t like comfort zones I find them limiting, restrained and a little boring for my personality - sure we all have routines to help with day to day living but I enjoy that pang of excitement, the rush, the not knowing if it’s going to work out but throwing caution to the wind anyway worst that can happen is it goes tits up…dust myself off and start again xx" You astound me | |||
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"I find it easier to step outside of my comfort zone sexually and other activities to try new things or interests. Real life though it’s rare I break my comfort zone of privacy and let someone get close, emotionally " That’s a shame but understandable  | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes totally but always to scared to do it x
Awwwwww why scared
It’s something way outside of my comfort zone, always wanted to try but never felt comfortable enough with peeps to suggest it xx"Ahhhh I see, makes sense but you never know, maybe test the water with a post but non descriptive of that makes sense x get some feedback xx | |||
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"If we are talking on fab then no as I'm happy with the way it works for me. In RL then I like going out of my comfort zone and trying new /different things." Perfik, and like everyone who’s commented “as long as you’re happy in whatever you choose that’s all fine and dandy” | |||
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"I’m the opposite I don’t like comfort zones I find them limiting, restrained and a little boring for my personality - sure we all have routines to help with day to day living but I enjoy that pang of excitement, the rush, the not knowing if it’s going to work out but throwing caution to the wind anyway worst that can happen is it goes tits up…dust myself off and start again xx Like Dory…. Just keep swimming?" Haha exactly | |||
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"I'm very open to new things and dynamics at the moment. " Nice and long may you enjoy | |||
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"If we are talking on fab then no as I'm happy with the way it works for me. In RL then I like going out of my comfort zone and trying new /different things. Perfik, and like everyone who’s commented “as long as you’re happy in whatever you choose that’s all fine and dandy” "Exactly | |||
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"I have made the lap into new experiences many times, and tho not all worked out , most have and I am very happy that I did. Xx Well it’s good to do that and if it works great if not fare thee well "I think sometimes it's easy you get stuck in a rut and it not so easy to make the leap and try something new. There is a wonderful range of things to try and you don't know that you don't like some of them until you try it. X | |||
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"Yes, I do it a lot (in a sexual sense) Have got to start doing it in a non sexual sense. Good and good
Ps your profile is amazing too "Thank you | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Already achieved in clubs.... | |||
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"I have made the lap into new experiences many times, and tho not all worked out , most have and I am very happy that I did. Xx Well it’s good to do that and if it works great if not fare thee well
I think sometimes it's easy you get stuck in a rut and it not so easy to make the leap and try something new. There is a wonderful range of things to try and you don't know that you don't like some of them until you try it.
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Already achieved in clubs...."Very good and safe environment for a little exploring xx | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone"I have to agree safely of course | |||
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"No " Fair enough not every one does or even wants too, each to their own | |||
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Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone"Yes this I have found to be very true.x | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone
Yes this I have found to be very true.x"It can be scary.. The unknown always is.. But you have to weigh up the pros and cons... One chance in this vessel.. Do you want to stay in a safe place... Or push yourself to discover new opportunities... Always push yourself... Growth doesn't happen, sitting on the sofa watching eastenders*other shite TV is available. | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone
Yes this I have found to be very true.x"It’s comforting to hear as I’m beginning to learn there’s soooo much to learn x and so many people to get to know | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone
Yes this I have found to be very true.x
It can be scary.. The unknown always is.. But you have to weigh up the pros and cons... One chance in this vessel.. Do you want to stay in a safe place... Or push yourself to discover new opportunities... Always push yourself... Growth doesn't happen, sitting on the sofa watching eastenders*other shite TV is available. " | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
Yes... The best things happen, when you step out of that zone
Yes this I have found to be very true.x
It can be scary.. The unknown always is.. But you have to weigh up the pros and cons... One chance in this vessel.. Do you want to stay in a safe place... Or push yourself to discover new opportunities... Always push yourself... Growth doesn't happen, sitting on the sofa watching eastenders*other shite TV is available. "Definitely this ..... | |||
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"It’s been that long for me I’m ready to jump into anything at the minute " Ditto mate but never say never | |||
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone "I have been known to on occasion.
I see it as a challenge. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Oftentimes I've not only experienced a sense of satisfaction in the wake of the event, but I've enjoyed it and have gone back for more in the future.
Life is for living and I want to make the most of it.
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"I know we’re all individuals who have different tastes and likes and definitely can be fussy however my question to all you fab-ulous forumites is…… Do you ever just want to take a leap of faith into something/someone outside your comfort zone
I have been known to on occasion.
I see it as a challenge. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Oftentimes I've not only experienced a sense of satisfaction in the wake of the event, but I've enjoyed it and have gone back for more in the future.
Life is for living and I want to make the most of it.
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"Nope my comfort zone is there for a reason and I’m more than happy in it "And your happiness is all that matters chief | |||
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