FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Do you find that you remember things

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That you'd rather forget. But forget things you wish you could remember.

8 years ago today my partner of 20 years died,unexpectedly. I can remember every detail of that day,and of the days I lost other important people in my life. But I only have vague recollections of happy days. I'm not here looking for sympathy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Very much so.

I think it's coz the pain cuts deeper and harder and feels so damn unfair.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, that is true although sad memories often come with happy ones attached, no ? I miss many people like crazy but that's mixed with good thoughts about them which make me smile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Think I seem to remember the bad bits from childhood or life easier than the good ones

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That you'd rather forget. But forget things you wish you could remember.

8 years ago today my partner of 20 years died,unexpectedly. I can remember every detail of that day,and of the days I lost other important people in my life. But I only have vague recollections of happy days. I'm not here looking for sympathy "

Sorry to hear that.

I find it depends on my mood. I mostly remember good stuff though. It must be difficult when you're working through grief and I think that a day like you experienced eight years ago would be etched in your memory.

Someone we know lost a parent at a very young age over 20 years ago and is only now starting to be able to remember the good things.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

It will be 24 years in January when I lost my first wife to cancer. And similar to yourself I remember everything of that week.

However, I have been lucky to remember most of life’s happy moments both prior and after. Although trying to remember where I have put my keys at times is a whole different ball game!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you'd rather forget. But forget things you wish you could remember.

8 years ago today my partner of 20 years died,unexpectedly. I can remember every detail of that day,and of the days I lost other important people in my life. But I only have vague recollections of happy days. I'm not here looking for sympathy "

Its because of the trauma involved...we recall trauma more readily than happier memories

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top