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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Sometimes it’s just really hard to explain to hook up why I couldn’t finish and it’s better to just fake it and be done with it

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find it much easier to say, I've had enough, thanks.

If anyone faked I'm just glad I'm not seeing them anymore.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Can't be bothered faking them and I hope no one has with me.

Maybe they have ah well I probably had fun anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X"

Gosh yes, I spent most of my 20’s faking orgasms. I don’t think the guys noticed, I am quite convincing (or they just didn’t care). I try not to fake it now, but it does happen. I mainly fake it because I’m bored and just want him to finish up and be gone.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Not wanting the questioning of what they did wrong, not wanting them feeling like a "fail".

Even though I know orgasm isn't the sole enjoyment it's still a large focus for many and I myself have felt like I'm "not good enough" if the dude hasn't blown his beans and I didn't want them to feel that way when I've not hit the big O.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I can and would be able to tell if Mrs faked an orgasm with me but don't think I would know with somebody else because I wouldn't know their body intimately enough to recognise the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

As a bloke i have faked a cum shot..in a condom..i just couldn't squirt..im sure she knew..it was my wife !!?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “ "

Lol ! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “ "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I don’t cum, I don’t cum. It’s not their fault, it just is.

Same if it’s vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, if I don’t cum, I don’t cum. It’s not their fault, it just is.

Same if it’s vice versa"

It's something I did more when I was younger, I was worried they'd be upset if I didn't cum for them. It seemed to be a big thing for the guys I was with back then. Sometimes I knew it wasn't going to happen and I could tell they were trying to achieve it, so I'd fake it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've faked them only for the simple reason me cuming really turned my partner on to the point of her orgasm so a win win for me.. don't get why women would tho as your only cheating yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've faked them only for the simple reason me cuming really turned my partner on to the point of her orgasm so a win win for me.. don't get why women would tho as your only cheating yourselves "

I don't see how it's different. You're cheating yourself too presumably?

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It astounded me in the early days how many women fake it in swinging scenarios, and for those that do orgasm, it's rarely multiple, which leads me to believe that such women are either doing this to please their husbands or partners, or it's a case that they send each other into orbit the following day or night as they recapture the images of what they did the night before. Without sounding vane, I have had women known to myself select me at parties for separate room fun because, they have told that I am one of the few guys who has made them cum, or cum multiple in a swinging scenario. I appreciated the flattery and it hasn't gone unnoticed by their husbands or partners that they were singling me out, and caused uncomfortable atmospheres. Now if I suspect a fake I just let it fly over my head, but the kisses, and the look in the eyes are invariably the dead give away whether it was real or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve faked it more times than I’ve had real orgasms.

I do it so the sex will end. A lot of guys, when they realise that you aren’t going to cum, try harder. This often means being more rigorous, which starts to hurt.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Never faked one , sometimes just shrug and laugh and say it happening right now, it really doesn’t bother me. I think I could tell if a woman faked it , I know when I’m making someone orgasm and occasionally when I’m clearly not !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never faked one , sometimes just shrug and laugh and say it happening right now, it really doesn’t bother me. I think I could tell if a woman faked it , I know when I’m making someone orgasm and occasionally when I’m clearly not ! "

Have you ever found the woman appears upset when you don't cum?

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I fake all my orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, if I don’t cum, I don’t cum. It’s not their fault, it just is.

Same if it’s vice versa

It's something I did more when I was younger, I was worried they'd be upset if I didn't cum for them. It seemed to be a big thing for the guys I was with back then. Sometimes I knew it wasn't going to happen and I could tell they were trying to achieve it, so I'd fake it. "

I understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fake all my orgasms."

Even the solo ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our different levels of satisfaction and orgasms. A part of that is connecting with the other person and if something goes wrong you should be able to tell them. If you have to fake it or can't be honest, your with the wrong playmate.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We all have our different levels of satisfaction and orgasms. A part of that is connecting with the other person and if something goes wrong you should be able to tell them. If you have to fake it or can't be honest, your with the wrong playmate."

Yeah I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have our different levels of satisfaction and orgasms. A part of that is connecting with the other person and if something goes wrong you should be able to tell them. If you have to fake it or can't be honest, your with the wrong playmate.

Yeah I agree with this "

I agree too. But it took me a while to realise that, and I'm my youth I didn't always make the right judgements I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have our different levels of satisfaction and orgasms. A part of that is connecting with the other person and if something goes wrong you should be able to tell them. If you have to fake it or can't be honest, your with the wrong playmate.

Yeah I agree with this

I agree too. But it took me a while to realise that, and I'm my youth I didn't always make the right judgements I guess."

*In my youth

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We all have our different levels of satisfaction and orgasms. A part of that is connecting with the other person and if something goes wrong you should be able to tell them. If you have to fake it or can't be honest, your with the wrong playmate.

Yeah I agree with this

I agree too. But it took me a while to realise that, and I'm my youth I didn't always make the right judgements I guess."

My youth was a long time ago. I can’t remember x

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not actively faked one but there was a time when I was much younger that the girl I was with thought I'd finished when taking a breather and I was too polite to correct her misapprehension

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've faked a few times. The trick is to have some mayo handy to splash on her tits.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Never faked one , sometimes just shrug and laugh and say it happening right now, it really doesn’t bother me. I think I could tell if a woman faked it , I know when I’m making someone orgasm and occasionally when I’m clearly not !

Have you ever found the woman appears upset when you don't cum?"

Yes, but it’s very rare. A certain type of woman , usually much younger, on sone kind of mission to make me cum , blaming herself, asking what’s wrong , saying things like I can see there’s something on your mind, when all that’s on my mind is why doesn’t she Fucking chill….. generally making a huge deal of it but insisting it’s not a big deal, really bloody annoying

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've faked a few times. The trick is to have some mayo handy to splash on her tits. "

Also helps with preparing a restorative post-coital sandwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've faked them only for the simple reason me cuming really turned my partner on to the point of her orgasm so a win win for me.. don't get why women would tho as your only cheating yourselves

I don't see how it's different. You're cheating yourself too presumably? "

Nooo that all comes in the end but better to give more than just have 1 myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, I normally get my first orgasm straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X"

Yes I have, this one time I threw yogurt on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she asked why my cum had nectarine chunks in it, I had no answers I was still licking the lid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X

Yes I have, this one time I threw yogurt on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she asked why my cum had nectarine chunks in it, I had no answers I was still licking the lid!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it’s just really hard to explain to hook up why I couldn’t finish and it’s better to just fake it and be done with it "

I mean it surely is a bit harder for guys when there’s no cum … no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X

Yes I have, this one time I threw yogurt on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she asked why my cum had nectarine chunks in it, I had no answers I was still licking the lid!"

Grainy cum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a swinging club it was with an older guy he thought he was doing well I just wanted it to be over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need, when I get bored I just jiggy about a bit and they cum and forget I even exist.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s a tricky one but fortunately a rarity. I usually do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t orgasm that often to be honest but I’m very open about it and I always say I actually enjoy more the feeling of being fucked and sex itself than the orgasm itself.. if someone fucks good then I’m a happy girl and the good feeling from it is enough whether I climax or not

I don’t see this obsession on wanting to make me have the O

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Once in a swinging club it was with an older guy he thought he was doing well I just wanted it to be over "

Crikey. I'll get my zimmer frame and leave.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've faked a few times. The trick is to have some mayo handy to splash on her tits.

Also helps with preparing a restorative post-coital sandwich."

A BLT - at least the mayo is already out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once in a swinging club it was with an older guy he thought he was doing well I just wanted it to be over

Crikey. I'll get my zimmer frame and leave. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never faked an orgasm but it's also been a long time since iv had an one during sex or even a meet it's hard work due to 3 cesareans and other surgeries down there to achieve one so I just have orgasm's by myself now but to my knowledge no one has ever faked one with me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Once in a swinging club it was with an older guy he thought he was doing well I just wanted it to be over

Crikey. I'll get my zimmer frame and leave. "

But before I do - one squeeze of your arse would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than once

The last time, he guessed but was nice enough not to challenge me. I hate disappointing men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “ "

That made me laugh!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've never faked. I orgasm very easily but it's not a nice breathy moaning orgasm - I've been compared to an aggressive camel in the noises I make.

If I was going to fake it I'd go in a far more ladylike direction!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope and Nope, I've been very lucky with my sexual partners in that we can be honest with each other rather than fake it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've never faked. I orgasm very easily but it's not a nice breathy moaning orgasm - I've been compared to an aggressive camel in the noises I make.

If I was going to fake it I'd go in a far more ladylike direction!"

Would you say "I'm arriving"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have an no they couldn’t tell.

It was easier to do that than explain that what they’re doing isn’t doing anything for me, they were hell bent on carrying it on. Afterwards when we chatted over text I let him know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It astounded me in the early days how many women fake it in swinging scenarios, and for those that do orgasm, it's rarely multiple, which leads me to believe that such women are either doing this to please their husbands or partners, or it's a case that they send each other into orbit the following day or night as they recapture the images of what they did the night before. Without sounding vane, I have had women known to myself select me at parties for separate room fun because, they have told that I am one of the few guys who has made them cum, or cum multiple in a swinging scenario. I appreciated the flattery and it hasn't gone unnoticed by their husbands or partners that they were singling me out, and caused uncomfortable atmospheres. Now if I suspect a fake I just let it fly over my head, but the kisses, and the look in the eyes are invariably the dead give away whether it was real or not. "

And then you woke up from your dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X"

I have faked before, because she couldn’t handle how long I lasted and was getting sore. She never finished me off either, just kept saying cum for me. It was so off putting I just pretended then went to the toilet and hid the condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It astounded me in the early days how many women fake it in swinging scenarios, and for those that do orgasm, it's rarely multiple, which leads me to believe that such women are either doing this to please their husbands or partners, or it's a case that they send each other into orbit the following day or night as they recapture the images of what they did the night before. Without sounding vane, I have had women known to myself select me at parties for separate room fun because, they have told that I am one of the few guys who has made them cum, or cum multiple in a swinging scenario. I appreciated the flattery and it hasn't gone unnoticed by their husbands or partners that they were singling me out, and caused uncomfortable atmospheres. Now if I suspect a fake I just let it fly over my head, but the kisses, and the look in the eyes are invariably the dead give away whether it was real or not.

And then you woke up from your dream. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Never faked.. If it doesn't happen, then that's OK.. Finish the job yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep a fair few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me "

Also this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me "

I find penetrative orgasms vary massively for me depending on the guy. My current fwb seems to have the exact right sized dick, coupled with the technique needed to make me cum several times. But some other previous fwbs haven't ever drawn a penetrative orgasm from me. It's very bizarre. I also dislike wands, so clearly we're wired very differently

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Given up before but never faked it. Always drink related so the idea probably never occurred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say I ever have, think I’ve had a couple of occasions on take 4/5 where I’ve given up as it’s felt like it’s impossible to reach it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure how a guy fakes me tbh and as far as I know no one has faked one with me. It’s never a big focal point either way. Sex is more than just how many orgasms someone has. For me personally it’s the full body experience

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Never…

I’ve had some which are far more intense than others - if I haven’t cum the last thing I’m in the mood for is putting on a show for the benefit of someone else, faking something would just leave me feeling more flat to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do now.

But when I was in my twenties I think I actually came once!! I faked it every time. What a waste of time that was

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me "

I very rarely cum through penetration alone i need clitoral stimulation as well in some form... Or nipple I've since discovered recently

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And yes I have faked it in the past just to get it over with past partners, I don't now as I let them know what I need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I very rarely cum through penetration alone i need clitoral stimulation as well in some form... Or nipple I've since discovered recently "

Same

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yes. I heard the kettle boiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I very rarely cum through penetration alone i need clitoral stimulation as well in some form... Or nipple I've since discovered recently "

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By *oryou47Man
over a year ago

carlow


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I find penetrative orgasms vary massively for me depending on the guy. My current fwb seems to have the exact right sized dick, coupled with the technique needed to make me cum several times. But some other previous fwbs haven't ever drawn a penetrative orgasm from me. It's very bizarre. I also dislike wands, so clearly we're wired very differently "
and what size dick would that be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I find penetrative orgasms vary massively for me depending on the guy. My current fwb seems to have the exact right sized dick, coupled with the technique needed to make me cum several times. But some other previous fwbs haven't ever drawn a penetrative orgasm from me. It's very bizarre. I also dislike wands, so clearly we're wired very differently and what size dick would that be"

Well I haven't measured him, but I'd guess 6-7 inches and curved slightly upwards to push on my g spot... Mmmmm

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By *oryou47Man
over a year ago

carlow


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I find penetrative orgasms vary massively for me depending on the guy. My current fwb seems to have the exact right sized dick, coupled with the technique needed to make me cum several times. But some other previous fwbs haven't ever drawn a penetrative orgasm from me. It's very bizarre. I also dislike wands, so clearly we're wired very differently and what size dick would that be

Well I haven't measured him, but I'd guess 6-7 inches and curved slightly upwards to push on my g spot... Mmmmm "

Can't beat that curve, and i bet he has a big helmet to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I whip out my love egg give my clit a good buzzing and get my partner to finger me at the same time

Hey presto I cum job done everyone happy

Happy days x

Never had a guy who was upset about that

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve had sex where it’s lasted a while. We’ve both cum a number of times and we are trying to chase another orgasm and sometimes it’s not happening. We just tell each other we are done

I don’t think C’s faked it with me…she might tell you otherwise now

I’ve done it once with a girl I was seeing for a short while who just didn’t do anything for me sexually. She didn’t move or do anything - she didn’t like oral. It was like a corpse. I was much younger and didn’t know how to deal with the situation well. So pretended to get it over and done with . We ended that weekend!

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out early on I could cum from penetrative sex. And I realised exactly what I needed to be able to. So I've always been quite bossy or clear about what I like and what will do it. So if it's not achieved they know. I can't help but be that way.

Faking seems like a lot of effort, saying what you want or need seems so much easier. Though sometimes a guy can feel like he's doing it wrong no matter how nice you are and then go on a downwards spiral.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I have done a couple of times, I think I’m confident enough to be honest now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely orgasm whilst having penetrative sex. It’s not necessarily anything to do with the guy; I think it’s just how I am. I have faked though…. It tends to become their only focus and them pounding away just ends up with me getting sore. It’s not the be all and end all for me, there’s plenty of other ways to climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I very rarely cum through penetration alone i need clitoral stimulation as well in some form... Or nipple I've since discovered recently "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me

I find penetrative orgasms vary massively for me depending on the guy. My current fwb seems to have the exact right sized dick, coupled with the technique needed to make me cum several times. But some other previous fwbs haven't ever drawn a penetrative orgasm from me. It's very bizarre. I also dislike wands, so clearly we're wired very differently and what size dick would that be"

A nice thick one does the trick. It's the stretch for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a nutshell; if you have to ask me if I've cum then I probably haven't

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Apparently I'm the only woman who uses a wand during sex according to my FWB, all the others seem to have regular and multiple orgasms without. So either there's something wrong with me or the vast majority of these women are faking because everyone knows that for most women orgasm is difficult to achieve with penetration alone. And this thread just proved it to me "

You’re far from the only woman to use a toy during sex, your FWB needs to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “ "

I just laughed at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, i wouldnt fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never saw the need to fake it. It either happens or not. I make sure they know beforehand that it's not a must for me and I am enjoying the process regardless of the end result.

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By *ussinboots1888Couple
over a year ago

bradford

If I’ve been going for a while I’ll pull out and just spit on her ass..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I’ve been going for a while I’ll pull out and just spit on her ass.."

Haha

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just an orgasm?

I faked a whole relationship one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t have my first orgasm until I was 50, so yes I did. X

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have done in my distant past but wouldn't do so now. I would rather let them know what I need. Better all round.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"I’ve only faked it once and never again as I forgot about the mirror to the side of us and she just said “ why you flicking spit on my back “ "

Blimey... hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had the need to fake an orgasm. More likely that I have to pretend I haven't done it too early

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In my 20s yes.Now I know what I want and how to get it

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I've never faked an orgasm but can understand why some women might. Despite being upfront about rarely orgasming during sex one man we met (not through this site) was still rather upset that I hadn't, like it was a stain on his reputation rather than just a quirk of my biology.

The nearest I ever got to faking one was when a boyfriend asked if I'd had one when I was about 18. When I shook my head he presumed I meant I'd had two and felt very pleased with himself. Didn't have the courage to correct him. I'm much more confident in myself now to be straight up and honest about it all - the joy of getting older

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

Only times I’ve ever faked it was when guys have read our verifications and found out I have been known to squirt. Seems to just be a big target that they must achieve. Reality is that it’s only happened with a few exceptional guys and most of the time I end up bored and fed up so I fake orgasm and make my excuses to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X"

A few times I’ve been on receiving end but I think it was because she was getting tired. Most of the ladies I’m with orgasm, through one way or another. The most I’ve given a woman is 7 in. 2 hours and yes, I have faked one myself. Long story, one sided work and no input.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Nope. No need to. Sex isn't all about orgasm.. I'm not performing and I don't expect him to feel that way either.

Im communicative with my lovers.. We can stop anytime regardless of orgasms .. I also like to keep going after with massage, nipple play, more sex.

The idea that we only have sex, cum and then end play session once we've both climaxed is a bit one dimensional. It's fine but I wouldn't like to get stuck in that expected rhythm.

Were all so different in what we need and how our bodies respond.. I love discovering that about my lovers x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you think the other person noticed? Why did you fake it?

Or have you ever been on the receiving end of one? How could you tell it was fake? Were you bothered?

X"

I have in the past faked orgasms. I don't think I've been on the receiving end. I would be bothered but more curious.. I'd rather communicate and sort it out for next time that the don't have to!

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea


"It astounded me in the early days how many women fake it in swinging scenarios, and for those that do orgasm, it's rarely multiple, which leads me to believe that such women are either doing this to please their husbands or partners, or it's a case that they send each other into orbit the following day or night as they recapture the images of what they did the night before. Without sounding vane, I have had women known to myself select me at parties for separate room fun because, they have told that I am one of the few guys who has made them cum, or cum multiple in a swinging scenario. I appreciated the flattery and it hasn't gone unnoticed by their husbands or partners that they were singling me out, and caused uncomfortable atmospheres. Now if I suspect a fake I just let it fly over my head, but the kisses, and the look in the eyes are invariably the dead give away whether it was real or not.

And then you woke up from your dream.

"

One or two turned into nightmares! Like a few on here, they didn't come complete with their CV, mental health records, or their experian credit report, thus like so many, I didn't find out about their bi polar condition, substance abusing family thieving to get their next fix, or their maxed out credit cards, and mortgage arrears etc etc etc, until after I had seen the whites of their eyes. Dreams though are for the wannabes on here who don't have a verification summery to match mine

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No I’m must too vocal and dramatic I could never fake that

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I faked one the other day - no-one likes it when you do that though. I'm assuming that's why the security man at Asda asked me to leave anyway

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I faked it a couple of of times with my ex-wife. She wanted another child and I didn't. Luke

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