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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. " I’ve met a few of both. I was married for 12 years and my wife like receiving but never reciprocated. Very one sided. | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much " I’d much rather give too if it had to be one or the other. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. " My ex husband. Only ever did it once. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. " I've met very few men who actually like it at all! Been m very unlucky until very recently. And it'd Soooooo good | |||
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"I opened my own glory hole once. But the postman refused to deliver my mail." | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much " Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? | |||
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"A friend of mine finds the idea of giving oral repulsive and has never actually done it , he’s more than happy to receive though " I guess it’s not for everyone. | |||
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"I'm (f) more than happy to give, I enjoy it but I don't like receiving ." Is it the feeling/sensation or just not something you enjoy? | |||
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"I like giving and receiving. From speaking to friends and other women, their dislike of giving oral has stemmed from it literally being forced on them. I hate the the portrayal of bjs in most main stream porn nowadays. "Face fucking" and all that shit...making a woman gag. Alarm bells go off in my head when I hear any guy saying he gets off on this. I realise this is just my opinion....and plenty will get off on it....Meh...whatever. That second before I take his dick in my mouth. Make eye contact and let him know that I'm in control as I literally have him by the balls. That's erotic. Then he can return the favour." See I’m not alone in the respect of face fucking and gagging. For me it should be a pleasurable experience for both parties involved, face fucking and gagging appears very one sided in favour of the male. I’ve tried it and have been asked to face fuck someone and it just turned me off. | |||
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"I'm (f) more than happy to give, I enjoy it but I don't like receiving . Is it the feeling/sensation or just not something you enjoy? " I just don't really enjoy it. There are so many things I enjoy more. We mention it on our profile | |||
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"I have found that men prefer to receive oral more than give it. I know women like to give more than receive, to me that feels odd. Maybe I’m just too giving. " Does that make women who prefer to give oral rather than receive it too giving? I don't think I am. | |||
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"I have found that men prefer to receive oral more than give it. I know women like to give more than receive, to me that feels odd. Maybe I’m just too giving. " Does that make women who prefer to give oral rather than receive it too giving? I don't think I am. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once." My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? " I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved | |||
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"Sometimes I don’t like it because I’m really sensitive there. And the last time someone tried it felt like she was trying to bite my cock off. " | |||
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"Sometimes I don’t like it because I’m really sensitive there. And the last time someone tried it felt like she was trying to bite my cock off. " That was my face, literally, when she did that funnily enough! | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved " Oh I'm the same... I start thinking about my shopping list | |||
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"Sometimes I don’t like it because I’m really sensitive there. And the last time someone tried it felt like she was trying to bite my cock off. That was my face, literally, when she did that funnily enough! " Did she use her teeth, or do you think it just felt that way? | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved Oh I'm the same... I start thinking about my shopping list " Me too I make lists in my head if what I need to do | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. " That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved Oh I'm the same... I start thinking about my shopping list Me too I make lists in my head if what I need to do " For when we are homeless | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved Oh I'm the same... I start thinking about my shopping list Me too I make lists in my head if what I need to do For when we are homeless " Ohh gawd yes | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. " About the same amount as mine did probably. I got sex almost as often. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you " I did feel quite resentful for a long time to be fair, but he's gone now! | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you " I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral " I'm genuinely pleased for you I have trouble enjoying it tbh. I get anxious. | |||
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"Sometimes I don’t like it because I’m really sensitive there. And the last time someone tried it felt like she was trying to bite my cock off. That was my face, literally, when she did that funnily enough! Did she use her teeth, or do you think it just felt that way? " Legit don’t know. Either way she was rough and for a time put me right off it. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral I'm genuinely pleased for you I have trouble enjoying it tbh. I get anxious. " Put some of your favourite music on and with the right person, you'll relax. If you're not enjoying it, you don't have to let them continue. Not everyone enjoys it. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral I'm genuinely pleased for you I have trouble enjoying it tbh. I get anxious. Put some of your favourite music on and with the right person, you'll relax. If you're not enjoying it, you don't have to let them continue. Not everyone enjoys it." Men enjoy giving, I don't want to take that pleasure from them. I don't relax much. Oh well. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral I'm genuinely pleased for you I have trouble enjoying it tbh. I get anxious. Put some of your favourite music on and with the right person, you'll relax. If you're not enjoying it, you don't have to let them continue. Not everyone enjoys it. Men enjoy giving, I don't want to take that pleasure from them. I don't relax much. Oh well." Hugs xxx | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. " They do exist! I’ve come across a couple. | |||
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"Rather give than receive, got put off by someone i was seeing for a while always wanting to give. Woke up by a bj, home from work bj, go to bed bj. May sound ideal to some but believe me in the end it wasn't. So yes much rather give now." Get that road trip booked lol | |||
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"Rather give than receive, got put off by someone i was seeing for a while always wanting to give. Woke up by a bj, home from work bj, go to bed bj. May sound ideal to some but believe me in the end it wasn't. So yes much rather give now. Get that road trip booked lol " Oh it's happening at some point | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved " Same here Claire | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I did feel quite resentful for a long time to be fair, but he's gone now! " Under the patio | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I don't know about castlesintheair, but I've gone on to much better things since. My Sir can't get enough of giving me oral I'm genuinely pleased for you I have trouble enjoying it tbh. I get anxious. Put some of your favourite music on and with the right person, you'll relax. If you're not enjoying it, you don't have to let them continue. Not everyone enjoys it. Men enjoy giving, I don't want to take that pleasure from them. I don't relax much. Oh well. Hugs xxx" Thank you. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. My ex husband. Only ever did it once. My ex never gave me oral in 19 years. Guess whether he got oral. That’s totally a shame it’s all part of the build up to having a good fun time together I feel for you I did feel quite resentful for a long time to be fair, but he's gone now! Under the patio " tempting! | |||
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"I love to give receiving not so much Why is that if you don’t mind me asking? I get bored and start thinking about other things I’m just not good at not being involved Same here Claire " I have a vertic hood piercing.. About 5 years old. I am literally so sensitive down there it's amazing.. Just need the tiniest tongue action and I'm off.. Mind you I never had any orgasms (or oral) until I was 30 so I'm making up for it now.. (since I was 40 anyway) | |||
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"I love to give. And I like to receive, but only if it's good. If it's not good, I'd rather just skip it." I tend to direct and they learn... I'm 52.. Don't have enough time to lie there while they do it wrong for me | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. " Same. | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. Same. " Steady! Ironing . How about trading ten mins of oral for ironing ten shirts | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. Same. Steady! Ironing . How about trading ten mins of oral for ironing ten shirts " That's a difficult one, I do hate ironing shirts | |||
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"Sometimes I don’t like it because I’m really sensitive there. And the last time someone tried it felt like she was trying to bite my cock off. " Too much teeth? | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. " He’s not doing it right… | |||
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"I enjoy giving, receiving can be very hit & miss. I find a lot of men claim to be excellent at giving oral but in reality they really aren't & it can be a totally underwhelming experience and actually turn me off. Really not keen on 69s either. " Practice makes perfect I was once told. Men don’t listen to what a woman want and that’s why it’s not enjoyable for her. | |||
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"Because it can be difficult to switch off. Because it can feel like it's being done in an obligatory manner, the other person doesn't get any real pleasure from it. Because it can feel like it's done hastily so they can get their willy sucked. Because having the focus on you can make you feel a bit embarrassed, more awkward. Because you're worried you get "too" wet. So many reasons. " Yes, exactly this ^^ If it’s given in a way that I can feel they’re enjoying it, not just ‘getting it out of the way so we can move on to the good stuff’ (yes, that was actually said to me), I can relax and it can be amazing. I love giving oral to both men and women; I’ve been told that it makes a huge difference to see that I’m really enjoying it too. | |||
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"I’ve never met a man who didn’t like giving oral. Do they exist? I’ve noticed on here quite a few women don’t like receiving oral though. I like both. I’ve met a few of both. I was married for 12 years and my wife like receiving but never reciprocated. Very one sided. " Plus one, major fracture line in the marriage | |||
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"I don’t really like receiving it, usually because the guy has no idea what he’s doing and just slurps around down there with no direction or purpose. So when men message me and tell me how much they wanna lick me, it’s just a massive turn off. I don’t mind giving oral but kinda get put off it, have had a few experiences where there willies were not very clean *vom* I’m not gagging because your dick is too big, I’m gagging because it fucking stinks hun! " They seem to think that licking it will clean it! (cockcheese) | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. He’s not doing it right… " Then I'm yet to meet a man who can, must all be rubbish, or maybe just maybe there are women out there who just find it as boring as fuck | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. He’s not doing it right… Then I'm yet to meet a man who can, must all be rubbish, or maybe just maybe there are women out there who just find it as boring as fuck" Someone will come along, if they don’t gimme a shot and I’ll pop across the pond for a weekend. | |||
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"I hate receiving, just find it boring, I'd take one for the team for 10 mins but I find no enjoyment in it, I'd rather do the ironing. He’s not doing it right… Then I'm yet to meet a man who can, must all be rubbish, or maybe just maybe there are women out there who just find it as boring as fuck Someone will come along, if they don’t gimme a shot and I’ll pop across the pond for a weekend. " Na, I find men who enjoy giving oral a huge turn off, blindingly obvious that they arent suited to me. | |||
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"I enjoy receiving and giving, however ive never received a good one on fab in 7 years the best ones ive had are from the more inexperienced ladies in real life " I gave you incredible oral G. For over 2 hours! And you weren't so bad yourself (I'm not so sure that's the oral this thread is about though) | |||
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"I enjoy receiving and giving, however ive never received a good one on fab in 7 years the best ones ive had are from the more inexperienced ladies in real life I gave you incredible oral G. For over 2 hours! And you weren't so bad yourself (I'm not so sure that's the oral this thread is about though)" Bahahahhahaa oh yeh! | |||
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"Fuckin love eating pussy. guaranteed to cum hard. I'm really good" You're definitely confident | |||
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"I've often found BJ's too relaxing & my mind just starts to wander when i get bored." You wouldn't get bored with one of mine.. For sure | |||
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